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By *lem-H-Fandango OP   Man
over a year ago

salisbury

How long are you bisexual for after your last same sex encounter? If you sucked some cock at college but for the last 20 years have been vage only, are you still bisexual in a bigot's eyes? What if you were fucking some guys wife and enjoyed 30 seconds of the husband cleaning your cock are you now bi? Is the husband bi even if that was his first and last time? How long should the stigma stick?! You know, for the purpose of the profile, It's a minefield....

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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago

Traffic land

For as long as you think you are?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To me it depends on what you want to do going forward. Not what you did in the past.

If you tried it but decided not to explore again, then that doesn't make you bi.

If you haven't tried it but want to then you're curious

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By *lem-H-Fandango OP   Man
over a year ago

salisbury


"For as long as you think you are?

"

But what if you dont think you are. But then you have a meet with someone who thinks you might be, and they HATE that shit!

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By *lem-H-Fandango OP   Man
over a year ago

salisbury


"To me it depends on what you want to do going forward. Not what you did in the past.

If you tried it but decided not to explore again, then that doesn't make you bi.

If you haven't tried it but want to then you're curious"

Ah! I see, so if a man was bicurious ( because he hasn't consummated his bisexuality) he could still contact one of the many profiles that states "No bi men". cool.

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By *lem-H-Fandango OP   Man
over a year ago

salisbury

Is a woman bisexual if she had a nipple sucked at a club by another woman? Is that why there are soo many bi-women in swinging?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To me it depends on what you want to do going forward. Not what you did in the past.

If you tried it but decided not to explore again, then that doesn't make you bi.

If you haven't tried it but want to then you're curious

Ah! I see, so if a man was bicurious ( because he hasn't consummated his bisexuality) he could still contact one of the many profiles that states "No bi men". cool."

That's pretty much the opposite of what I said....

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By *lem-H-Fandango OP   Man
over a year ago

salisbury


"To me it depends on what you want to do going forward. Not what you did in the past.

If you tried it but decided not to explore again, then that doesn't make you bi.

If you haven't tried it but want to then you're curious

Ah! I see, so if a man was bicurious ( because he hasn't consummated his bisexuality) he could still contact one of the many profiles that states "No bi men". cool.

That's pretty much the opposite of what I said...."

But you said if he was bi-curious it ment he hasn't been with another man. So when someone says they don't want to meet a bi man because of all the diseases they think that they carry, a bi-curious man is still "safe" in their eyes..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For as long as you think you are?

But what if you dont think you are. But then you have a meet with someone who thinks you might be, and they HATE that shit! "

Meet someone else who doesn't mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know? Op. Do you think your bi? Do you think I am because I thought about it?

I think your question makes it clear to some it's not clean cut as straight/bi/gay. We are what we are.

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By *lem-H-Fandango OP   Man
over a year ago

salisbury


"I don't know? Op. Do you think your bi? Do you think I am because I thought about it?

I think your question makes it clear to some it's not clean cut as straight/bi/gay. We are what we are. "

Im ex-bi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is a woman bisexual if she had a nipple sucked at a club by another woman? Is that why there are soo many bi-women in swinging?"

99.9999% of women swingers are pretend bi because it entices the cock in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't know? Op. Do you think your bi? Do you think I am because I thought about it?

I think your question makes it clear to some it's not clean cut as straight/bi/gay. We are what we are.

Im ex-bi. "

Am I pre-bi?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is a woman bisexual if she had a nipple sucked at a club by another woman? Is that why there are soo many bi-women in swinging?

99.9999% of women swingers are pretend bi because it entices the cock in. "

That's what works for men too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" How long are you bisexual for after your last same sex encounter? If you sucked some cock at college but for the last 20 years have been vage only, are you still bisexual in a bigot's eyes? What if you were fucking some guys wife and enjoyed 30 seconds of the husband cleaning your cock are you now bi? Is the husband bi even if that was his first and last time? How long should the stigma stick?! You know, for the purpose of the profile, It's a minefield.... "

It's forever. If a man touches another cock on purpose or another man touches his cock on purpose, they are both bisexual until they die.

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By *lem-H-Fandango OP   Man
over a year ago

salisbury


"I don't know? Op. Do you think your bi? Do you think I am because I thought about it?

I think your question makes it clear to some it's not clean cut as straight/bi/gay. We are what we are.

Im ex-bi.

Am I pre-bi? "

You sound it..

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By *heIcebreakersCouple
over a year ago

Cramlington


" How long are you bisexual for after your last same sex encounter? If you sucked some cock at college but for the last 20 years have been vage only, are you still bisexual in a bigot's eyes? What if you were fucking some guys wife and enjoyed 30 seconds of the husband cleaning your cock are you now bi? Is the husband bi even if that was his first and last time? How long should the stigma stick?! You know, for the purpose of the profile, It's a minefield.... "
Stigma? Someone else's bigotry isn't my stigma. I respect the right of others to not want to fuck me, but to do that because of who I might have fucked last week is pretty much irrational.

Despite the fears of others I don't do anything without consent, and trying to play with straight guys is pretty much my idea of hell, but I understand some of them don't get that.

Not wanting to fuck me because you believe the 80s scare stories about bi guys being an elevated risk for transmission of STIs is also pretty much a folk legend - but hey, again, everyone's entitled to believe whatever they want to believe.

If I had a pound for every guy on here who's profile says straight but who's willing to suck me in order to shag Kaz I'd be a rich man...

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By *heIcebreakersCouple
over a year ago

Cramlington


" How long are you bisexual for after your last same sex encounter? If you sucked some cock at college but for the last 20 years have been vage only, are you still bisexual in a bigot's eyes? What if you were fucking some guys wife and enjoyed 30 seconds of the husband cleaning your cock are you now bi? Is the husband bi even if that was his first and last time? How long should the stigma stick?! You know, for the purpose of the profile, It's a minefield....

It's forever. If a man touches another cock on purpose or another man touches his cock on purpose, they are both bisexual until they die. "

This will make life difficult for many doctors....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" How long are you bisexual for after your last same sex encounter? If you sucked some cock at college but for the last 20 years have been vage only, are you still bisexual in a bigot's eyes? What if you were fucking some guys wife and enjoyed 30 seconds of the husband cleaning your cock are you now bi? Is the husband bi even if that was his first and last time? How long should the stigma stick?! You know, for the purpose of the profile, It's a minefield....

It's forever. If a man touches another cock on purpose or another man touches his cock on purpose, they are both bisexual until they die. This will make life difficult for many doctors...."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely you’re whatever you want to be until you change your mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For as long as you think you are?

But what if you dont think you are. But then you have a meet with someone who thinks you might be, and they HATE that shit! "

I'd say a persons sexuality is more about what they'd like to do rather than what they have actually done,however long ago.

And,if someone else doesn't like it that's their problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When their clothes, hair, skin, house and car stop smelling of it."

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

If your same sex Doctor etc touched your cock and you were unsure if you liked it, it's the same as having some sexual contact that you realized did nothing for you.

Fab forum people have a somewhat warped perspective on orientation Imo, where anything, anytime should be held against you as a reason for compatibility/incompatibly for life.

I think it's preferable to meet someone who knows themselves and their interests well, even if they have explored stuff that you have no interest in. Assume others could have any background whatsoever and follow the sexual health regime that is recommended .

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Good question. These profiles say no bi guys. I wanked a guy off in a sex cinema when I was a teenager, how long does this bi stay on me

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"Is a woman bisexual if she had a nipple sucked at a club by another woman? Is that why there are soo many bi-women in swinging?

99.9999% of women swingers are pretend bi because it entices the cock in. "

Bullocks

In that case I'm in the 00.0001% I don't want cock I want women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you've ever been in the men's showers and didn't look away when there was a naked man... you're gay.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good question. These profiles say no bi guys. I wanked a guy off in a sex cinema when I was a teenager, how long does this bi stay on me "

For life. That’s like forever.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham


"Good question. These profiles say no bi guys. I wanked a guy off in a sex cinema when I was a teenager, how long does this bi stay on me

For life. That’s like forever. "

Ok. Ordering a steps cd now then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good question. These profiles say no bi guys. I wanked a guy off in a sex cinema when I was a teenager, how long does this bi stay on me "

You haven't washed your hands since you were a teenager?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't know? Op. Do you think your bi? Do you think I am because I thought about it?

I think your question makes it clear to some it's not clean cut as straight/bi/gay. We are what we are.

Im ex-bi. "

You're bye-bi.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

I'm so glad I'm straight it's far less confusing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't know? Op. Do you think your bi? Do you think I am because I thought about it?

I think your question makes it clear to some it's not clean cut as straight/bi/gay. We are what we are.

Im ex-bi.

You're bye-bi. "

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By *lem-H-Fandango OP   Man
over a year ago

salisbury


"I don't know? Op. Do you think your bi? Do you think I am because I thought about it?

I think your question makes it clear to some it's not clean cut as straight/bi/gay. We are what we are.

Im ex-bi.

You're bye-bi. "

I don't get it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good question. These profiles say no bi guys. I wanked a guy off in a sex cinema when I was a teenager, how long does this bi stay on me

For life. That’s like forever.

Ok. Ordering a steps cd now then. "

Tragedy!

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