FabSwingers.com forum: Friends List...

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We would be genuinely interested in how people manage their friends list on here...

We tend to keep the friends list for, well, friends!

We do find it difficult to keep on top of it though, some people we add cause we are chatting a lot, but it leads to nothing, after a couple of months of nothing we then delete them.

The thing that is complicating it for us is the number of friends we are now making in the forum..... arrrgggghhhh!

How does everyone else use their friends list?

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

For friends...or occasionally future friends (ie they live quite far away but we hope to meet in the future) and chat friends.

Just remember its your friends list, dont worry how others use it

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

I see it more of a 'I just wanna look at your pics list'.. therefore I give mine a clear out every cpl of months. Nowt worse than having a big list of people who never chat or meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My friends list consists of :

People I have met previously and would like to meet again.

People I have chatted to on many occasions about a variety of subjects and not just sex.

People who I banter with in The Forums that I get along with and would like to meet socially.

With having no full face pic on general view, I do of course get the chancers who don't send a message, just a friends request in the vain hope of viewing your pics.

In those cases, I'll view their profile and if they have no clear pic and no private gallery I will simply delete.

If they have no clear pic but a private gallery, I wait til they are offline to accept the request.

If their private gallery shows a clear face pic, I will leave the friends status alone (whether I find them attractive or not).

Trust has to work both ways and I wouldn't abuse it.

If however all they have is pics of genitalia or body parts, then I will remove the friends status straight away.

Naughty I guess, but that's what ya get for trying to look at my pics through the cracks in the back fence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Use it for people I've actually met that's theajority of it

Also people I haven't met but talk to on the forums xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to be honest here and no offence intended to anyone who thinks differently about it…….

But I find the “ Friend List function” is a pretty meaningless function with regards my purpose for being a site member…..

I feel its true worth is reduced to something of an irrelevance as the site already gives far better options to perform the few elements it seems to provide…….

Unless of course your one of those people who likes too let their mobile phone ring and ring before answering it, just so you can let any strangers who happen to be in earshot think you’ve got a friend who calls you…..

Even if that call is really from you car insurance broker..

Surely real friends just simply stay in touch with on another on a frequency that befits their relationship

I can only imaging having lists of imaginary friends must something from a different kettle of fish altogether.... Perhaps Red Herrings for instance!!!!

Now look here reader, ( no not you !!! the other one!!!) don’t go ripping my heed off…. cuz if you like‘em….. you do’em….!!!! And Everyone wins....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i like people on my friends list to be that!!

people i have met and like to socialise with or play with

fab for me isnt just about sex its all that makes it for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have to be honest here and no offence intended to anyone who thinks differently about it…….

But I find the “ Friend List function” is a pretty meaningless function with regards my purpose for being a site member…..

I feel its true worth is reduced to something of an irrelevance as the site already gives far better options to perform the few elements it seems to provide…….

Even if that call is really from you car insurance broker..

Surely real friends just simply stay in touch with on another on a frequency that befits their relationship

I can only imaging having lists of imaginary friends must something from a different kettle of fish altogether.... Perhaps Red Herrings for instance!!!!

Now look here reader, ( no not you !!! the other one!!!) don’t go ripping my heed off…. cuz if you like‘em….. you do’em….!!!! And Everyone wins....

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