FabSwingers.com forum: What Do You Look For From This Site?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok, a silly question, in some respects... but what do you look for from this site?

For me, it embraces my Bohemian approach, hedonistic attitude for mutual fun when it is mutually appealing.

Some people see it as a way of expanding their sexual horizons, seemingly, collecting new experiences as if they are ticking them off in their “I-Spy Book of Sexual Activities”; the trainspotters of sex.

And for some, it is just another inlet of Internet porn.

Nothing wrong with any of that, of course. We all have our reasons for being on here and no one reason is better than any other.

I’m waffling, probably because I’m sitting in a lively hotel bar on my own on a Saturday night; why are you on this site - and are you finding what you seek/sought?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lady in a similar situation who also wants and feels the need for intimacy, on lots of levels not just sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolution from Lisa on a Sunday morning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wet knickers

From laughing so much

Anyone got a spare Tena?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just like laughing at people

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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago

Traffic land

In a nutshell for me, men who are looking for sex and intimacy without the pressures of a relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wet knickers

From laughing so much

Anyone got a spare Tena?"

Will a fiver do?, oops, sorry, a women's thing!

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By *shpred1Man
over a year ago

Romford

Someone to meet me right now whilst I'm out in London.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't enjoy casual sex. I don't ever wish to be a 'couple' again, to achieve regular sex. If I try to find men in pubs for this, it would take weeks to acquire a reputation I would never lose. Fab gives me a discetionary hunting ground.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*discretionary*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wet knickers

From laughing so much

Anyone got a spare Tena?

Will a fiver do?, oops, sorry, a women's thing!

Two fivers surely...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't enjoy casual sex. I don't ever wish to be a 'couple' again, to achieve regular sex. If I try to find men in pubs for this, it would take weeks to acquire a reputation I would never lose. Fab gives me a discetionary hunting ground."

That’s a good reason - I can see that can be difficult for you to get the balance right.

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

definitely exploring- always been vanilla and now enjoy to find out what other things I enjoy.

plus I just need body contact and am single. so at the moment fab is perfect for me.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Just dealing with the STP social and catching up with friends and acquaintances.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

absolutely nothing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men who aren't pricks

Married

And read profiles before messaging

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

Nsa sexual encounters , and yes we find them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"absolutely nothing "

Ah c'mon, you gotta admit that the forums are a hoot?

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Men who aren't pricks

Married

And read profiles before messaging "

They do exist.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Men who aren't pricks

Married

And read profiles before messaging

They do exist.

Few and far between. Not going to meet anymore. Just spent a fortune on new toys and frillies, they can go in the bin. Life's too short for extra dramas. Forums are a good Craic though xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im not really looking for anything in particular. I just hang around and see what it who catches my eye and take it from there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In no particular order. Popcorn, cake and vaj.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In no particular order. Popcorn, cake and vaj."

Can I just speak on behalf of the ladies and ask that its vaj first?

We don't like crumbs down there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In no particular order. Popcorn, cake and vaj.

Can I just speak on behalf of the ladies and ask that its vaj first?

We don't like crumbs down there

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Forums are a good Craic though xx "

Yes, surprised more people don’t visit this site simply to enjoy the intellectual repartee, witticisms and non-judgemental exchange of views in the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"absolutely nothing

Ah c'mon, you gotta admit that the forums are a hoot?"

okay, I was being disingenuous early and was solely thinking about, well you know what! The Forum can be a laugh, you're right, especially when people are not taking it too seriously, is that tautological?

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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago

Traffic land

"Forums are a good Craic though xx

Yes, surprised more people don’t visit this site simply to enjoy the intellectual repartee, witticisms and non-judgemental exchange of views in the forums."

I think my sarcasm detector might have just imploded

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"In no particular order. Popcorn, cake and vaj.

Can I just speak on behalf of the ladies and ask that its vaj first?

We don't like crumbs down there

I'm sure there was a thread on here earlier this year, or maybe last year, informing us all that cake is vernacular for the euphemism.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get sex. I don't assume what anyone else gets from here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Forums are a good Craic though xx

Yes, surprised more people don’t visit this site simply to enjoy the intellectual repartee, witticisms and non-judgemental exchange of views in the forums.

I think my sarcasm detector might have just imploded "

Thank goodness - faith restored! People take me too seriously, sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I get sex. I don't assume what anyone else gets from here. "

Ahh, that’s because you are female. The vast majority of us on this site don’t get sex, haha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get sex. I don't assume what anyone else gets from here.

Ahh, that’s because you are female. The vast majority of us on this site don’t get sex, haha!"

I've fucked enough to help the men get some.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like minds is a good start

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I log into Fab and see what pops up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok, a silly question, in some respects... but what do you look for from this site?

For me, it embraces my Bohemian approach, hedonistic attitude for mutual fun when it is mutually appealing.

And for some, it is just another inlet of Internet porn.

Nothing wrong with any of that, of course. We all have our reasons for being on here and no one reason is better than any other.

I’m waffling, probably because I’m sitting in a lively hotel bar on my own on a Saturday night; why are you on this site - and are you finding what you seek/sought?"

I'll settle for a woman replying to a message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm on it because I want to meet and make people including myself happy . I want to to take woman out for a good time and hopefully end up having great sex . Not much to ask really ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

F O R U M

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Just spent a fortune on new toys and frillies, they can go in the bin. "

You didn't but those just for men did you? I buy lingerie cos i just love it and toys for when I can't get a meet ... but essentially I buy for ME and if a man (or 2!

) gets to enjoy them ... well it's a bonus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do I look for on this site ...??

Tall, hot men who appreciate the fuller figure and want to partake in mutual, multiple orgasm giving...

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By *wo4FemCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

We're on here as we are looking for a lady who would like to join us for regular threesome fun.

Also we do enjoy using the forum and the chatrooms.

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By *hips n FursMan
over a year ago

Huddersfield

A nice pink jelly bean.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Came to perv

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I get it I'll let you know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Just spent a fortune on new toys and frillies, they can go in the bin.

You didn't but those just for men did you? I buy lingerie cos i just love it and toys for when I can't get a meet ... but essentially I buy for ME and if a man (or 2!

) gets to enjoy them ... well it's a bonus

I don't pleasure myself and only use toys with someone else. As I don't intend meeting they will be surplus to requirements so they'll go in the bin. The frillies aren't stuff I could wear every day so they can go south too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look for tall, kinky men who don't mind being bossed about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm looking for love

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By *ere2pleasureUMan
over a year ago

Kington

The chance to read profiles, understand what the person or couple are looking for. Construct a well considered introduction message. Send it and have it deleted...

Love it! It happens daily!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Just spent a fortune on new toys and frillies, they can go in the bin.

You didn't but those just for men did you? I buy lingerie cos i just love it and toys for when I can't get a meet ... but essentially I buy for ME and if a man (or 2!

) gets to enjoy them ... well it's a bonus

Fair enough

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

I look for nothing anymore... I just get disappointed. I'm better off alone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're after a nice couple who are compatible with us, for regular meets. And hopefully someone that can match us in the bedroom as well as out of it x

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By *aptain VMan
over a year ago

Birstall, Leicester

I'd like to find a local lady for friendship and mutual nsa fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All different permeatations of great sex

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By *ransGuyTV/TS
over a year ago

Cardiff

I look for men to have sex with, and I occasionally join in on the forum, simple really.

In reality I mainly ignore men who have chosen to ignore my profile text, give up on the "Oh I'll let you know when I'm free, but actually I won't" guys, and try not to get into trouble for stating the obvious on the forum.

All fun and games

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