FabSwingers.com forum: What had fab taught you?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ive found out im an ugly bastatd. I knew i wasnt a model but i now know im ugly

and no i wont show you a face pic

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Ive found out im an ugly bastatd. I knew i wasnt a model but i now know im ugly

and no i wont show you a face pic

Says who?

Ya twerp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be absolutely honest, nothing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ive found out im an ugly bastatd. I knew i wasnt a model but i now know im ugly

and no i wont show you a face pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ive found out im an ugly bastatd. I knew i wasnt a model but i now know im ugly

and no i wont show you a face pic

How can you be ...your in my hotlist

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ive found out im an ugly bastatd. I knew i wasnt a model but i now know im ugly

and no i wont show you a face pic

Says who?

Ya twerp

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id go with 9 out 10 dont reply after seeing it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A coping mechanism for anxiety that's basically changed my life.

Really really.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ive found out im an ugly bastatd. I knew i wasnt a model but i now know im ugly

and no i wont show you a face pic

How can you be ...your in my hotlist

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lots of messages saying hey your hot ect until the face pic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It has taught me that most Fabsters can't read, that people with natural body hair are shunned by lots of Fabsters, that I'm apparently ugly, that some people have never seen a woman with a shaved head and a lot of men really like women's knickers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really taught, but more reaffirmed I am bloody hopeless with women.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Ive found out im an ugly bastatd. I knew i wasnt a model but i now know im ugly

and no i wont show you a face pic

Says who?

Ya twerp

id go with 9 out 10 dont reply after seeing it

Dunno why. You're a fittie

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ive found out im an ugly bastatd. I knew i wasnt a model but i now know im ugly

and no i wont show you a face pic

Says who?

Ya twerp

id go with 9 out 10 dont reply after seeing it

Dunno why. You're a fittie "
its the face lol

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

It has taught me that I'm not afraid to stand up for myself, and that some people really are cunts.

It has also taught me that you can find true friends where you least expect to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ive found out im an ugly bastatd. I knew i wasnt a model but i now know im ugly

and no i wont show you a face pic

How can you be ...your in my hotlist

lots of messages saying hey your hot ect until the face pic. "

That I don't think I've seen but from the nose down you look

alright to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It has also taught me that you can find true friends where you least expect to

100% this

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By *rrol.BMan
over a year ago

Wrexham

I've learnt that being a bit of a pillock isn't always a bad thing.

Mostly, just not always.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

I'm old and fat ( I already knew This) but not fat enough to be a bbw

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

We’ve learned that despite the very concept of swinging being mutual enjoyment with multiple partners , swingers can be a very judgemental group of people .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too never judge a book by its cover!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That unfortunately theres some really nasty ppl about and how many ppl lie nowadays.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It has taught me that I'm not afraid to stand up for myself, and that some people really are cunts.

It has also taught me that you can find true friends where you least expect to

Ditto.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't think of anything. I already knew I was stunning and men want to fuck me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I lied. It taught me how to make a lovely Victoria sponge.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its taught me that im actually a grounded secure in myself person.

Too many on here worry to much about things and that they cant meet..

I say so what you are what you are be proud of it. Its website that basically puts you in the shop window... Not everyone shops in the same shops.. Niche is good.

Don't think ive ever said shop so many times in one paragraph

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab has taught me what I kinda already knew... Im not vanilla and never will be.

Its also taught me that there are some people who are just like me and others who are pretentious and cold and believe they sit on a pedestal above all others... (hopes pedestal breaks and normality hits hard for them)

For the most part though I have learnt from Fab that everyone has someone who appreciates them nomatter what your flavour of sex is... and long may that be the thing that holds true for us all x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s perfectly acceptable to wipe your cock on the curtains before you leave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s perfectly acceptable to wipe your cock on the curtains before you leave "

Awesome!!

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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago

Traffic land

"We’ve learned that despite the very concept of swinging being mutual enjoyment with multiple partners , swingers can be a very judgemental group of people ."

I would go along with that.

It’s taught me that I really am actually very laid back, but will also probably always be quite shy.

It’s taught me I can “put myself out there” I went along to the Birmingham social where meeting a group of people I don’t know is one of my worst nightmares, but I enjoyed it!

It’s taught me that you can find friendship in the unlikeliest of places.

I’m enjoying my time on Fab and will remain here for as long as that is the case.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s perfectly acceptable to wipe your cock on the curtains before you leave "

Your bathroom curtains must be minging

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By *ornylittlesubWoman
over a year ago

Grangemouth

That I am kinkier than I thought.....and I did already think I was kinky!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm old and fat ( I already knew This) but not fat enough to be a bbw"

Coughingly says..."bollocks", behave.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s perfectly acceptable to wipe your cock on the curtains before you leave

Your bathroom curtains must be minging

They’re absolutely hanging

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

We were supposed to be learning stuff here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That sexism is alive and well

And that some men just can't cope with a sexually liberated woman

Oh, and that I dont give a monkey's arse what people think of me. Because most of their presumptions are completely wrong

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I make a better maiden aunt than sex siren on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A face only a mother could love, welcome to the club

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I've learned the meaning of the odd terms that I really should not have gone away and looked up - as well as bits of disturbing footage, such as one man, one j%r.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

"Ive found out im an ugly bastatd. I knew i wasnt a model but i now know im ugly

and no i wont show you a face pic

For guys fab is harsh. You can be dead drop gorgeous and still not get a meet purely on the basis of your how your online personality is to how you are in the real world. You’re far from ugly looks wise, this place isn’t the standard bearer based on looks, it’s distorted beyond real life recognition. It’s a sex site and not a dating site, the remit is: do I want to have sex with you based upon your online persona, yes or no in an instant.....go! It’s not necessary about yourself but a first impression instinct based upon how you communicate over the internet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, I gotta ask you.... while listening to the radio and the D.J is chatting away and sounding cool... do you imagine what he/she looks like? And when you finally google them and see their face your like wtf!?! Fab can be same. I see you work very hard on your body which I respect

, people see muscles and imagine the face of Brad Pitt etc... My point is this, Fab is Fab and people are.... people? You can’t please everyone, and those who don’t respond to you mail are clearly pig ignorant. Don’t let them get you down OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP, I gotta ask you.... while listening to the radio and the D.J is chatting away and sounding cool... do you imagine what he/she looks like? And when you finally google them and see their face your like wtf!?! Fab can be same. I see you work very hard on your body which I respect

I second this!!

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By *ornylittlesubWoman
over a year ago

Grangemouth

Someone once summed up Fab spot on to me. A guy who would maybe be an 8 in "real life" gets treated like a 4....a female who would be a 4 in "real life" gets treated like an 8....and acts like a 10! *Not all of us mind* lol Distorted indeed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That theres a lot of bullshit and time wasters on here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That swingers seem to bloody love cake, haribos and popcorn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The 3 things I’ve learned are:

Age is just a number, Bolton has a load of dirty beggars and one of them wants to suck my winkle and give me £50 in the process.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The 3 things I’ve learned are:

Age is just a number, Bolton has a load of dirty beggars and one of them wants to suck my winkle and give me £50 in the process.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Someone once summed up Fab spot on to me. A guy who would maybe be an 8 in "real life" gets treated like a 4....a female who would be a 4 in "real life" gets treated like an 8....and acts like a 10! *Not all of us mind* lol Distorted indeed.

Very good analysis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That swingers seem to bloody love cake, haribos and popcorn

Cake you mention cake

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By *ighland gentlemanMan
over a year ago

Ardgay

I have learned that there are many fine ladies who are looking for fun in the Highlands!

Some of them even have age ranges into which I fit!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's taught me that other people are far less critical of me than I am of myself, and I've had to develop a thicker skin to deal with some of the shit you get which is no bad thing as I can be way too soft sometimes. T

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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago

Traffic land

"That sexism is alive and well

And that some men just can't cope with a sexually liberated woman "

Ooh yes, that too! That’s partly the reason I chat for a while, they usually give themselves away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab has shown us that everyone is different and different is good.

We all have our own kinks and we think it's important to appreciate / respect others views x if we were all the same life would be boring x

We've also learnt never to judge a book by its cover - We've meet some great people through swinging and not everyone's profiles does them justice x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have learned to never, under any circumstances, google a term for a sexual practice that you haven’t heard of when you see it in a forum thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really should find a hobby....

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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago

Traffic land

"I have learned to never, under any circumstances, google a term for a sexual practice that you haven’t heard of when you see it in a forum thread.

Thankfully I’d learned that before joining Fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve learnt that all women are absolutely gagging for it and that if I send them a photo of my cock and a message saying “Fancy a fuck?” they come running. It’s amazing.

All men should try this on every woman in a 50 mile radius of their location. Incredible - the best way I know to eliminate the competition and get results.

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By *ighland gentlemanMan
over a year ago

Ardgay

"I’ve learnt that all women are absolutely gagging for it and that if I send them a photo of my cock and a message saying “Fancy a fuck?” they come running. It’s amazing.

All men should try this on every woman in a 50 mile radius of their location. Incredible - the best way I know to eliminate the competition and get results."

Given my geography,that's just the one message to send!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I don't need no site to fuck or swing I'm hey ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive learned that men have pretty nice bums! I hadn't really paid attention until there were so many on display!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve learned that some people have a chip on their shoulder not all but some

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve learnt that all women are absolutely gagging for it and that if I send them a photo of my cock and a message saying “Fancy a fuck?” they come running. It’s amazing.

All men should try this on every woman in a 50 mile radius of their location. Incredible - the best way I know to eliminate the competition and get results.

Given my geography,that's just the one message to send! "

One!....

Lucky sod

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For a swingers site, there aint as many open minded people as I expected. Some, but not as many as I thought there'd be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Given my geography,that's just the one message to send! "

And I suppose you are just one, of 16, men?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For a swingers site, there aint as many open minded people as I expected. Some, but not as many as I thought there'd be."

“You’re right there, Obadiah!” So many rules and hurdles.... sigh! Just keep jumping through the hoops...

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By *ighland gentlemanMan
over a year ago

Ardgay

"Given my geography,that's just the one message to send!

And I suppose you are just one, of 16, men?

I prefer Balblair. A bit more discreet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't learned much, I have had plenty of ideas cemented

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Given my geography,that's just the one message to send!

And I suppose you are just one, of 16, men?

I prefer Balblair. A bit more discreet.

Haha - I don’t suppose anyone else has a clue about what we are referring to!

Must try Balblair... #I’mAnEnglishmanInArbroath

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By *eter John17Man
over a year ago

ippy

I've found that people just tend to look and talk the talk but when it comes down to the meet its like there bottles goes ffs its funny but sad cos some of them are smoking hot I love to play tease and please and ACTUALLY MEET Xx rant over

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By *easingtessWoman
over a year ago

waterford

I've learned that people can be mean. Especially other women. The digs they make at each other is shocking. Wouldn't do it in real life so don't know why they do it on here. We should all be building each other up instead if tearing each other down.

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By *entleman55Man
over a year ago

S’th West Mc/r

I’ve learnt that as an older guy it’s very difficult to break the ice on first messages. (If that makes sense)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That putting myself out there a bit isn't going to kill me. I struggle to start conversations with women in person that I like due to thinking it all sounds forced and I'm acting like a knobhead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That putting myself out there a bit isn't going to kill me. I struggle to start conversations with women in person that I like due to thinking it all sounds forced and I'm acting like a knobhead. "

All it takes is a bit of confidence x whether that confidence is real or not doesn't matter. You never get anything in life unless you try. Conversation is not forced - yes some people don't reciprocate but tell yourself it's their loss not yours x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1) I'm a cunt

2) I'm a funny cunt

3) I've got a lovely/gorgeous/addictive smile

4) I'm not actually as terrible looking as I thought

5) Probably more but I'm half cut and cba listing it all

6) Forums are fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not to believe everything you're told. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've learnt a lot about sex, friendship, and life in general, through my being here.

I have learnt that there are people just like me and have made some of my best lifelong friends.

I have learnt, however, that friendships made in the scene can be selfish and that there are some vile women in particular out there that are very selfish and have some inflated beliefs about themselves. Things can turn nasty quickly

I've learnt that friendship in this lifestyle is everything - playmates come and go but your true friends are here always.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've learned that people can be mean. Especially other women. The digs they make at each other is shocking. Wouldn't do it in real life so don't know why they do it on here. We should all be building each other up instead if tearing each other down."

Well said!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That theres a lot of bullshit and time wasters on here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Should have had a wank

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep! Got a taste of this last night

Over it now tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good looks will only get you so far. (That's not all about myself)

I'm more kinky than I thought I was.

Even around swinging/swingers people still have closed minds.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A coping mechanism for anxiety that's basically changed my life.

Really really. "

Wow that's awesome! I suffer from such bad anxiety! Had to get an ambulance just the other day. I'll keep fabbing away

thank you!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A coping mechanism for anxiety that's basically changed my life.

Really really. "

That's brilliant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People are more shallow than expect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have learnt not to take it all so seriously. This is a *part* of my social life- not my whole life.

Also since i have joined i have discovered a domme side to myself which i am really enjoying exploring.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where I fit in and where I don't, and don't need to

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

That’s all that glitters isn’t necessarily Gold!

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By *ere2pleasureUMan
over a year ago

Kington

I'm still trying to understand the Sky remote thing, can anyone help?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm still trying to understand the Sky remote thing, can anyone help? "

Have you put fresh batteries in it?

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

That being on here as a couple is much tougher than as a single lol.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jaffa cakes are definitely cakes and not biscuits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To never trust my own instincts! Feeling like you’ve really clicked with someone whilst messaging doesn’t mean they won’t suddenly ghost you

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Yeah I've learnt the same thing as the op!

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Also learnt there are lots of casual racism and predjudices still exist.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Also a knock on effect of fab led me to learn that the sky remote is not an actual unit of measurement.

As I went to the carpet shop and asked for carpet that was 30 sky remotes by 25 sky remotes, they didn't have a clue what I was talking about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I'm as naughty as I suspected

Time passes quicker when I'm perving

There is no time of the day when people aren't horny

Going to work with damp knickers isn't as bad as I thought

I like being photographed naked

Peach x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Also learnt there are lots of casual racism and predjudices still exist. "

This!! It has actually surprised me the amount of "I'm not racist but" people i have come accross.

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By *aughtyal80Man
over a year ago

darlington

From most profiles i read you need to be 6ft+ to get anywhere near a meet.

Also from reading some womens satus update there are a lot of men on here unable to deal with being told no thanks which i find quite disturbing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Jaffa cakes are definitely cakes and not biscuits

Are you sure

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By *aughtyal80Man
over a year ago

darlington

"Also a knock on effect of fab led me to learn that the sky remote is not an actual unit of measurement.

As I went to the carpet shop and asked for carpet that was 30 sky remotes by 25 sky remotes, they didn't have a clue what I was talking about. "

I found the same with deodorant cans

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By *aughtyal80Man
over a year ago

darlington

"Jaffa cakes are definitely cakes and not biscuits

Are you sure

Cakes go hard when they go stale and biscuits go soft.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab has taught me that life is full of disapointments.

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By *erri AnneTV/TS
over a year ago

Shannon and Costa Blanca

"We’ve learned that despite the very concept of swinging being mutual enjoyment with multiple partners , swingers can be a very judgemental group of people ."

Yes that is true as I found out with the lack acceptance here been worst than general society

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That Fab is like a box of chocolates!

......Run Fabbers run!!!

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By *ockbunWoman
over a year ago

Weymouth

That ladies can afford to be choosy. For me, a guy that cant be bothered to read your profile and only has a cock or 13 of them really shouldn’t expect a reply, let alone anything else!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How to be the last chocolate in the box and only looked at in case of emergency but not actually tasted...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's taught me to love myself a little more and not beat myself up so much about my body image. I've hardened to the mean people and learned to just enjoy myself and get as much pleasure as I can from the site whilst I'm still able to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That good things come to an end.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The art of patience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That my favourite fruit isn't an apple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That you can't please everyone, you just have to please yourself and you're not appreciated as much as you thought you were by some people on here

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By *anielpiercedMan
over a year ago

by the seaside

"Ive found out im an ugly bastatd. I knew i wasnt a model but i now know im ugly

and no i wont show you a face pic

I've found that ugly bastards can get laid by people that in the "real" world probably wouldn't look twice at them. Bit of charisma and humour can be a better option than a six pack and Towie style

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not to pre judge people because we all have our reasons for being on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That some people aren't all they make themselves out to be x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ive found out im an ugly bastatd. I knew i wasnt a model but i now know im ugly

and no i wont show you a face pic

Aghhh that's not true

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

That a lot of people don’t understand what “Swinging” actually is.

Including Fab itself!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That my favourite fruit isn't an apple

Hilarious (",)

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

It hasn’t taught me anything except that the majority of us are just normal folk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That my naughty side is naughtier than I thought

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By *rSuave88Man
over a year ago

Mirfield

That im pretty much no ones cup of tea. But i can live with that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 22/10/17 09:52:48]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We’ve learned that despite the very concept of swinging being mutual enjoyment with multiple partners , swingers can be a very judgemental group of people ."

sadly x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That no one can make me orgasm exactly like I do my self (",)"

So true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont judge a book by its cover

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dont judge a book by its cover "

Very true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's taught me to be more open minded

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That a lot of people don’t understand what “Swinging” actually is.

Including Fab itself!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's mostly negative then?

I've learned that strangers I've never met and barely talked to can give practical and sometimes good advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never trust a female who messages you and makes you a friend

There is always an ulterior motive behind it

That I have learnt the hard way

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

It's taught me lots both about myself and others, some good some bad - I've learned to be more tolerant of others with different likes/views, have learned that actually I AM attractive to some, have learned that despite thinking we lived in more enlightened times that there are still some closed minded people around. That there are some people for whom the way to behave respectfully and considerately goes out the window when it comes to sex and sexuality.

And so much more...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never trust a female who messages you and makes you a friend

There is always an ulterior motive behind it

That I have learnt the hard way "

That's a generalisation which definitely doesn't apply to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's mostly negative then?

I've learned that strangers I've never met and barely talked to can give practical and sometimes good advice.

No i wouldn't say it is, because on the plus side a bunch of strangers I'd not met before made me feel welcome and accepted me for what I am. And some even find me attractive. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To always trust my gut instinct, it's been right every time on here

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

"To always trust my gut instinct, it's been right every time on here "

this and

don't trust people on here or in real life as people are never what they seem to be.

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By *t8880Couple
over a year ago

Staffs

Cock pics must be taken with a sky remote

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's mostly negative then?

I've learned that strangers I've never met and barely talked to can give practical and sometimes good advice.

No i wouldn't say it is, because on the plus side a bunch of strangers I'd not met before made me feel welcome and accepted me for what I am. And some even find me attractive. X

I really hope hope for everyone people find something good out of doing something, otherwise, what is the point?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing I didn't already know

Fuzz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cock pics must be taken with a sky remote"

Or a can of Stella

Or a can of Lynx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people do talk shite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can’t use too much lube for anal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's mostly negative then?

I've learned that strangers I've never met and barely talked to can give practical and sometimes good advice.

No i wouldn't say it is, because on the plus side a bunch of strangers I'd not met before made me feel welcome and accepted me for what I am. And some even find me attractive. X

I really hope hope for everyone people find something good out of doing something, otherwise, what is the point? "

Something positive only occurs with a positive outlook and most people arrive on fab with a nervous smile and anticipation! Projecting openness and acceptance will always return positive vibes so whether fab is successful for you is dependent on your outlook! I like to think that when we leave fab we'll take the good stuff with us and any negativity won't even figure.

And Bee, it's not been all bad has it...

Peach x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ive found out im an ugly bastatd. I knew i wasnt a model but i now know im ugly

and no i wont show you a face pic

That is a massive fib!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ive found out im an ugly bastatd. I knew i wasnt a model but i now know im ugly

and no i wont show you a face pic

That is a massive fib!!!

"
appatently not

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Apparently*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's shown me what I definitely *don't* want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol that's funny I've found out the same .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just because someone doesn't reply , does not make them pig ignorant. Site rules clearly state deleted messages means not interested and everyone is to take that as such.

Do you reply to every piece of junk/unwanted mail that comes through your door or email? No? well the same applies on this site.

You aren't going to be everyone's cup of tea. So, even if you only message the profiles whereas you match what they seek, and still become deleted, don't become annoyed by it. You're simply not for them. Same as like myself and alot of others probably aren't for you.

I've got screenshots of proof showing that I've been threatened with stalking and harm by a guy on here. All because I wasn't interested in him. Alot of people really do need to stop taking lack of interest so personally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That some people don't have a sense of humour.because when "we" get a message 99 times out of 100 its purely addressing my wife.."your arse is great" for example when I say "thanks you should see the wifes"...some people don't get my sense of humour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That some people don't have a sense of humour.because when "we" get a message 99 times out of 100 its purely addressing my wife.."your arse is great" for example when I say "thanks you should see the wifes"...some people don't get my sense of humour

They are just talking to who they see.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

Swingers clubs aren’t what you expect them to be.

Women love to receive appreciation, but are scared to show men it (specifically Fabbing pics and viewing profiles).

“I’ll be there, at that time” can also mean “I have no intention of being there, at that time”.

I have never felt more like an individual sperm, swimming in a specimen of ejaculate, containing possibly 60 million other sperm, until I joined Fab.

Life is too short, and Fab is just a giggle

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

If a message you send hasn’t been read in 2 weeks, it isn’t going to be read lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Taught us never to expect much during a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That their are a lot of fake people out their x just pic hunting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are just talking to who they see. "

Still think it's good manners in a first message to ask a cpls profile how we "both" are first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To harden up!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The pedestal salesman is a multi millionaire

Believe nothing trust no one

I to am ugly and Mrs is gorgeous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've found out that not many women are attracted to me

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By *ornyforfmCouple
over a year ago

somewhere

That there's way more swingers in our home town than we expected and it ain't that big a place haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A face only a mother could love, welcome to the club

I'm a mother

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That a lot of people are superficially concerned with how big their willy's are

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

As in real life, if you want to get a woman into bed you've got to put the effort in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That their are a lot of fake people out their x just pic hunting "

This bewilders me the picture hunter's, haven't they heard of Google or Bing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have learned there are a lot of lovely people out there who will put up with my endless chatter. And they all have delicious bottoms.

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By *ornyforfmCouple
over a year ago

somewhere

Well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I’m possibly not as hideous as I thought I was (still struggling with that one though)

That being a decent honest person eventually attracts similar

That I may be a sex addict

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

Not to trust as I once would. Learnt that the hard way.

Nothing is private.

You can have such a laugh with people that are strangers on the internet.

My breasts are of interest to many people it would seem.

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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain

Although my preference are men, I’ve been fortunate enough to enjoy playing with select couples / women in certain circumstances.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

... Never goo-gle some of the terms bandied about around here - you cannot un-see some of the horrors that get discussed on a public forum!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I swing more then this site swing walalala swing

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