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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Relatively new member here and don't get so many messages but when I do, it's quite a thrill lol.

Does anyone else get a rush when their inbox shows an unread message?...or is it just me

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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I feel like that if it’s from someone I’m already chatting with and really like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

18 in my inbox at the moment could have been many more but the site seems to be automatically deleting unread messages a few at a time .....

Saves me having to make an effort to ignore them as most are from straight guys wanting to suck my cock.....

OP Would you like to suck my cock ?

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By *icky-discoMan
over a year ago

oxford

I got 1 the other day I nearly fell over

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Omg I've found you can send yourself a message too! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love getting messeges, either from guys we have met/do meet/want to meet/friends and from guys wanting to meet us/chat etc

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By *igga_manMan
over a year ago

near Reading


"I got 1 the other day I nearly fell over "

I was like that Also. Good thing I was sitting down

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

I always think "this must be from admin".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Omg I've found you can send yourself a message too! Lol"

I'm hoping this isn't true. If so, that's a really stupid coding mistake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always think "this must be from admin"."

Is that what you call the wife?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeah i get a wee thrill when messages pop up, even having banter with folk is good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The vast majority of ours are from single guys we've already said no thanks to, or of due them being slightly dickish.

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

Also gets a rush when new mail pops up.. then dissapointment when its a thanks but no thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you get as many as I do the excitement soon wears off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah i do...but then i realise its another fecking male saying "Hi" ffs

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

So love getting the unread message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Omg I've found you can send yourself a message too! Lol"

That did once catch me out, made myself a coffee before settling down to read it!

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Relatively new member here and don't get so many messages but when I do, it's quite a thrill lol.

Does anyone else get a rush when their inbox shows an unread message?...or is it just me "

I get a rush when it’s out of the blue, from someone I didn’t message first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel like that if it’s from someone I’m already chatting with and really like. "

This

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

no I don't as it's probably some undesirable "straight" man cheating so no excitement there.

Lately I've noticed some people I messaged and spoke to multiple times but when it comes to the day of meeting they will leave my unread message even if they're online. Do some messages not go through?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its mixed sometimes im scared to open lol other times im like oooooo

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Haha.. sadly it is true, try it!...I've just experimented further and you can wink at yourself and even add yourself as a friend! :-0...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do when it's someone I'm very interested in and wanting to meet. But, sadly most my messages are so uninteresting with crappy, old, grainy pics attached, the novelty has worn off. Moan, moan, moan

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By *icky-discoMan
over a year ago

oxford


"Haha.. sadly it is true, try it!...I've just experimented further and you can wink at yourself and even add yourself as a friend! :-0..."

Praise the lord lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yea it's great I sent myself a message 5 months ago and not had a reply

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yea it's great I sent myself a message 5 months ago and not had a reply "

Haha...I haven't dared try to block myself but you can probably do that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yea it's great I sent myself a message 5 months ago and not had a reply

Haha...I haven't dared try to block myself but you can probably do that "

I've not tried that yet either

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"I do when it's someone I'm very interested in and wanting to meet. But, sadly most my messages are so uninteresting with crappy, old, grainy pics attached, the novelty has worn off. Moan, moan, moan "

For the record, I would even be pleased with an uninteresting message that had a crappy, old, grainy pic attached

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like it when my inbox is empty. I like things neat an tidy.

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By *eeBee67Man
over a year ago

Masked and Distant


"I like it when my inbox is empty. I like things neat an tidy. "

I love a neat and tidy box.

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By *wo4FemCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

What's a message lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been out since 10am ish and came back to 5 lovely messages. A whole new record for me....

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By *eeBee67Man
over a year ago

Masked and Distant

I get messages from just a couple of gorgeous ladies I chat to regularly.

But I do love it when my message inbox is yellow.

I don't send many so I cannot complain that I'm not inundated with messages.

Feel free to light up my inbox, I'm too old to light up many in here, damn being born too early

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love getting messages, but it's rare I do. It's also rare I send them lol

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By *oubyLoverWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

As a single woman it's hard to log on and not have yellow waiting for you. For me though it's that green band saying you've got a new verification. I always stop for a second and think oh fuck what did I do now...

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Relatively new member here and don't get so many messages but when I do, it's quite a thrill lol.

Does anyone else get a rush when their inbox shows an unread message?...or is it just me "

It's very very rare and not happened for ages but to get a new Reply is a rush but then a downer when it's thanks but no thanks

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