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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I find the idea of cougar and mature women a real turn on, I think its something to do with feeling like the woman is in control.

BUT I find it such a challenge (also part of the fun) to sway older women my way. Why??

Mmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m sure there’s a psychological reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

same here love the idea of a older women still waiting to be used by one but sure its worth the wait

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah I'm sure there is on their part but I'm curious as to why so many reject younger guys or bar them from their profile.

My psychology is "put your hands down my pants now!" Nom

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Nightmare right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s an element of assuming all younger guys are immature and inexperienced

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont tent to get blocked i 7/10 get mails back try asking normal question before jumping straight in find that works for me people love a good chit chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My man me too and like you still looking for first delightful tasre

Advice though, use more refined language. They are wise and no fools

Takes some thought and imagination to snare such a lady

Effort equals alriiiight...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find the idea of a supremely confident, intelligent young man being in control of me. Bugger isn't it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There’s an element of assuming all younger guys are immature and inexperienced "

Yeah I really have experienced that!

Have to keep telling myself that they are missing out :p

Gorgeous pics buy the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are plenty of club nights that cater for women that enjoy a younger gentleman - would suggest you try those

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I find the idea of a supremely confident, intelligent young man being in control of me. Bugger isn't it "

How do you find said idea?

Your comment starts well then ends in confusion lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I find the idea of a supremely confident, intelligent young man being in control of me. Bugger isn't it "

good answer

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There are plenty of club nights that cater for women that enjoy a younger gentleman - would suggest you try those "

Unfortunately their are no clubs in my neck of the woods! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I find the idea of a supremely confident, intelligent young man being in control of me. Bugger isn't it

How do you find said idea?

Your comment starts well then ends in confusion lol"

I'm full of confusion don't worry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I find the idea of a supremely confident, intelligent young man being in control of me. Bugger isn't it

How do you find said idea?

Your comment starts well then ends in confusion lol

I'm full of confusion don't worry "

Hey better than shite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My man me too and like you still looking for first delightful tasre

Advice though, use more refined language. They are wise and no fools

Takes some thought and imagination to snare such a lady

Effort equals alriiiight... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My man me too and like you still looking for first delightful tasre

Advice though, use more refined language. They are wise and no fools

Takes some thought and imagination to snare such a lady

Effort equals alriiiight... "

Thx

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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone


"I find the idea of cougar and mature women a real turn on, I think its something to do with feeling like the woman is in control.

BUT I find it such a challenge (also part of the fun) to sway older women my way. Why??

Mmmm "

If by "mature" and "cougar" you mean women over 50, then I fall into that category. I also bar people (men, women and couples) under 35 from contacting me. So I guess it's all up to what women 50+ are looking for...

I can only speak for myself but in my experience...

Men in their 20's is far too young, I'll end up mothering them, and feels freaky to have sex with my son...

Men in their 30's are busy raising a family and paying the mortgage - so not many around - or if they are, they are cheating on their wife / GF, holding the baby. Not nice.

Men in their 40's are divorcing with school age children, so meets become a military exercise, and you'll need to dodge "daddy weekends".

So yeah, strictly speaking all those age groups are younger men for us Cougars...

I hope that insight into how us Cougars will view you, as you mature through your decades. No doubt you will have many, many years of making women like me very happy... Drop me a line when you're over 35...

LOL

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find the idea of cougar and mature women a real turn on, I think its something to do with feeling like the woman is in control.

BUT I find it such a challenge (also part of the fun) to sway older women my way. Why??

Mmmm

If by "mature" and "cougar" you mean women over 50, then I fall into that category. I also bar people (men, women and couples) under 35 from contacting me. So I guess it's all up to what women 50+ are looking for...

I can only speak for myself but in my experience...

Men in their 20's is far too young, I'll end up mothering them, and feels freaky to have sex with my son...

Men in their 30's are busy raising a family and paying the mortgage - so not many around - or if they are, they are cheating on their wife / GF, holding the baby. Not nice.

Men in their 40's are divorcing with school age children, so meets become a military exercise, and you'll need to dodge "daddy weekends".

So yeah, strictly speaking all those age groups are younger men for us Cougars...

I hope that insight into how us Cougars will view you, as you mature through your decades. No doubt you will have many, many years of making women like me very happy... Drop me a line when you're over 35...

LOL

xxx"

I am 45 and quite the opposite, I like my male playmates below 35. I like young men that don't look old enough to be my dad and are fit enough to keep up....I know age is not always an indicator of these things, but in most cases it is. My first fb was 20 and I was 43, he was an amazing guy and fantastic, confident lover! My regular fwb now is almost 33, he is gorgeous, sweet, great company, not attached, nor a parent, fit, available when I need him and very enthusiastic...and very open to new things. So apart from the odd exception to the rules, I will be sticking to much younger guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've set out lowest age at 30, but if it was someone either of us really liked, then there may be a bit of room for negotiating.

However, we have a daughter who will be 19 in a fortnight, so to sleep with someone close in age to her would be too weird for me. It would almost be like being with one of her pals.

So how immature or inexperienced you may or may not be is of no relevance to me. It's just a no go area.

L x

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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone


"So apart from the odd exception to the rules, I will be sticking to much younger guys "

Haha, you go girl...! Looking at your veri's you are a busy lady with the lads... ! LOL!

For me, maybe its something to do with being TS... Before the ban, I used to get loads of messages from men in their 20's that say "wanna fuck?"... And on their profile they don't say they are looking to meet TV/TS "cos it'll spoil my chances with real women". Not asking for the violins but that is the view from this side of the fence. Men in their 40's + tend to be more experienced in life and respectful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So apart from the odd exception to the rules, I will be sticking to much younger guys

Haha, you go girl...! Looking at your veri's you are a busy lady with the lads... ! LOL!

For me, maybe its something to do with being TS... Before the ban, I used to get loads of messages from men in their 20's that say "wanna fuck?"... And on their profile they don't say they are looking to meet TV/TS "cos it'll spoil my chances with real women". Not asking for the violins but that is the view from this side of the fence. Men in their 40's + tend to be more experienced in life and respectful."

Haha yeah I was a very busy girl until I met my fwb for sure! Ah yes...I understand where you are coming from...although weirdly I always think the attitudes would be the other way around really. But I spose it is all to do with how much you care about other peoples opinions on your choices...and unfortunately most younger people in general care far too much and that mostly, the older you get the less you care. Personally I wouldn't turn down playing with a guy I fancied because he had been with a guy so you definitely would not be a problem lol. As for the experience/ respect thing...I must just be a pretty good judge of character as I have been very lucky with the guys I have met, in both respects

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I find the idea of a supremely confident, intelligent young man being in control of me. Bugger isn't it "

You lost me at supremely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

BUT I find it such a challenge (also part of the fun) to sway older women my way. Why??

"

Might I suggest the best person to answer this question is you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I find the idea of a supremely confident, intelligent young man being in control of me. Bugger isn't it

You lost me at supremely "

You'll do anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My man me too and like you still looking for first delightful tasre

Advice though, use more refined language. They are wise and no fools

Takes some thought and imagination to snare such a lady

Effort equals alriiiight... "

this to be honest OP

Learn how to send an email with a hook....JoshB will show you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There’s an element of assuming all younger guys are immature and inexperienced "

Some of us very much know what we're doing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My man me too and like you still looking for first delightful tasre

Advice though, use more refined language. They are wise and no fools

Takes some thought and imagination to snare such a lady

Effort equals alriiiight...

this to be honest OP

Learn how to send an email with a hook....JoshB will show you "

Ha hooks ok reeling in... Shite

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By *vetteBondTV/TS
over a year ago

English Riviera


"I find the idea of cougar and mature women a real turn on, I think its something to do with feeling like the woman is in control.

BUT I find it such a challenge (also part of the fun) to sway older women my way. Why??

Mmmm "

Maybe try an older tranny

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