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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This thread stems from something I read in a newspaper at work about obsessive compulsive disorders.

Lucky I don't suffer from them. But my sister does, she goes through a pattern of checking that all plug sockets are turned off and unplugged before going out, then leaves the house and goes back in, and repeats 3 or 4 times before she is happy.

My ex Brother in law had a similar one with the gas fire, making sure it was switched off... Once on holiday in Blackpool, although he had checked the gas fire knob countless times before leaving, he got it into his head that it still may have been on, so drove back from Blackpool to Halifax, just to check.

My Auntie stacks all of her tins of food in her cupboard, labels facing outwards and measures a 1 cm gap between each stack. And, when she goes on holiday, she itemises and photographs every single item of clothing in her suitcase for insurance purposes.

My ex wife's sister used to hang socks on the washing line, in pairs, all facing the same way, left to right.

It must be a nightmare living with ocd.

I have non compulsive disorder, take it as it comes, no worries.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

And my Dad always turns the toilet roll around if it is facing the "wrong" way. Against the wall, on the toilet roll holder.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I recently read a book about ocd. Genuine sufferers live a hellish life.

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By *r C Miss CCouple
over a year ago

llanelli

Not OCD as such, more of a habit. even when my guitar is not plugged in to my amp and im playing. I still use the volume knob on the guitar.

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By *ublinjonnMan
over a year ago

dublin

Ironing, I have to do my ironing, my creases have to be perfect, I love my ironing!!!

Shit, did I just say that out loud???

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By *amela1987Woman
over a year ago

Enfield

Most of the things we refer to as OCD are actually OCPD e.g. the excessive need for perfectionism

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate public toilets I don't have OCD though, alot of people leave them in a right mess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ironing, I have to do my ironing, my creases have to be perfect, I love my ironing!!!

Shit, did I just say that out loud??? "

Would you love to come and do mine? I'll pay you in kind!

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By *ublinjonnMan
over a year ago

dublin


"Ironing, I have to do my ironing, my creases have to be perfect, I love my ironing!!!

Shit, did I just say that out loud???

Would you love to come and do mine? I'll pay you in kind! "

Im on the way!! Yeehaa!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suffer with the opposite of OCD

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By *mooth shaftMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Can wanking be classed as OCD ???

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Not OCD as such but I do have to have to contents of my fridge on the correct shelf... Does my head in when things are not put back in the correct place.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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Germs. I run around with alcohol hand run and anti-bacterial spray. If you have germs and stand still I WILL spray you. I have a strict rule at work that they don’t come over the threshold to my office. Germs are scary to me. I avoid everyone with them and I scrub anything and everything a sick person has touched.

Other than that I’m all good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have CDO

It’s OCD but with the letters the right way round

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Ironing, I have to do my ironing, my creases have to be perfect, I love my ironing!!!

Shit, did I just say that out loud???

Would you love to come and do mine? I'll pay you in kind!

Im on the way!! Yeehaa!!!"

So what irrational thoughts do you have if you don't do your ironing or of it is done incorrectly?

That is what OCD is, not just wanting things done the way you like it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have CDO

It’s OCD but with the letters the right way round"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Germs. I run around with alcohol hand run and anti-bacterial spray. If you have germs and stand still I WILL spray you. I have a strict rule at work that they don’t come over the threshold to my office. Germs are scary to me. I avoid everyone with them and I scrub anything and everything a sick person has touched.

Other than that I’m all good "

Do you put all your Swinger's meets through a sheep dip and spray them with germicide before you fuck?

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

Wash my hands after everything including a drink.

Brush my teeth a stupid amount a day so much so my dentist prescribes me a special paste and soft brush.

My desk at work is set out in order and people know not to touch it on pain of death.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Wash my hands after everything including a drink.

Brush my teeth a stupid amount a day so much so my dentist prescribes me a special paste and soft brush.

My desk at work is set out in order and people know not to touch it on pain of death. "

How do you go on with shagging?

Do you have a bag of anti bacterial wipes for the cum and pussy juices?

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks


"Wash my hands after everything including a drink.

Brush my teeth a stupid amount a day so much so my dentist prescribes me a special paste and soft brush.

My desk at work is set out in order and people know not to touch it on pain of death.

How do you go on with shagging?

Do you have a bag of anti bacterial wipes for the cum and pussy juices?"

Wet wipes

Cilit bang.

Rubber gloves

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By *eplicant JoWoman
over a year ago

Sussex countryside

The duvet has to fit perfectly in the duvet cover, can not have floppy edges

And any biro I use, has to have a lid ... can not stand a biro without a lid, they are not even allowed on my desk

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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"Germs. I run around with alcohol hand run and anti-bacterial spray. If you have germs and stand still I WILL spray you. I have a strict rule at work that they don’t come over the threshold to my office. Germs are scary to me. I avoid everyone with them and I scrub anything and everything a sick person has touched.

Other than that I’m all good

Do you put all your Swinger's meets through a sheep dip and spray them with germicide before you fuck? "

How did you guess? they seem to quite enjoy it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have "symmetrical" ocd.

Tins have to be the same way, and they have to be item order. So I couldn't settle knowing a tin of beans was stacked on top of a tin of spaghetti.

Things work from left to right largest to smallest in all aspects...even boxes of breakfast cereal.

Coathangers all face the same way with shirts going darkest to lightest from left to right.

Anything on a shelf that's a pair is the same distance from either end....the list is endless.

Used to be seriously bad but I've learned to "control" it over many many years.

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By *eadySteadyCockCouple
over a year ago

Tredegar


"I have "symmetrical" ocd.

Tins have to be the same way, and they have to be item order. So I couldn't settle knowing a tin of beans was stacked on top of a tin of spaghetti.

Things work from left to right largest to smallest in all aspects...even boxes of breakfast cereal.

Coathangers all face the same way with shirts going darkest to lightest from left to right.

Anything on a shelf that's a pair is the same distance from either end....the list is endless.

Used to be seriously bad but I've learned to "control" it over many many years."
that must be horrible! Glad you have learned how to overcome it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doors, check them several times before going to bed or going out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Doors, check them several times before going to bed or going out."

Yep, the same here..............have to know that my cats cand get to there favourite snuggle spots

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By *eplicant JoWoman
over a year ago

Sussex countryside

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have "symmetrical" ocd.

Tins have to be the same way, and they have to be item order. So I couldn't settle knowing a tin of beans was stacked on top of a tin of spaghetti.

Things work from left to right largest to smallest in all aspects...even boxes of breakfast cereal.

Coathangers all face the same way with shirts going darkest to lightest from left to right.

Anything on a shelf that's a pair is the same distance from either end....the list is endless.

Used to be seriously bad but I've learned to "control" it over many many years. that must be horrible! Glad you have learned how to overcome it! "

Would like to say overcome is an apt word but it's never-ending, I have had lots of counselling and had to be on meds for it to learn to deal with it.

I still can't just ignore it but I have learned to adapt to it and work on the principle of "it doesn't need to be altered right this second"

The unsettled overwhelming insecurity if it all gets too much and it just has to be "right".....but not straight away.

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By *heeky_subCouple
over a year ago

northampton

I can't being messy. I'm pretty sure that's an OCD...

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