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I've met a girl and she's bi sexual

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I said I will allow her to choose who we play with or should I choose

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I said I will allow her to choose who we play with or should I choose "

both

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By *uckOfTheBayMan
over a year ago

Mold


"I said I will allow her to choose who we play with or should I choose "

Why not choose together?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She should because women always know best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely you need to choose together if youre both gonna play?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I said I will allow her to choose who we play with or should I choose

both "

I just don't want her to feel I'm gona like the girl after so I'll allow her to choose only thing is if the girl she chooses I don't fancy maybe we should both choose

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I said I will allow her to choose who we play with or should I choose

Why not choose together? "

Yeah after thinking may be better

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"She should because women always know best "

Haha I bet I don't mind either way I'm gona be nice

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Surely you need to choose together if youre both gonna play? "

As long as the females clean she can play all abiut fun right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you asked her if she wants a 3some? Just because a woman is bi it doesn't mean she's a free pass to shagging other women.

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By *aul1973HullMan
over a year ago

East Hull


"I said I will allow her to choose who we play with or should I choose "

If she chooses a bloke you'll be in the shit

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have you asked her if she wants a 3some? Just because a woman is bi it doesn't mean she's a free pass to shagging other women. "

She told me she fancies women and has urges to fuck them when she's d*unk

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I said I will allow her to choose who we play with or should I choose

If she chooses a bloke you'll be in the shit "

Yeah he ain't allowed or play

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I said I will allow her to choose who we play with or should I choose

both

I just don't want her to feel I'm gona like the girl after so I'll allow her to choose only thing is if the girl she chooses I don't fancy maybe we should both choose "

You need to address those kind of things before you start.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you asked her if she wants a 3some? Just because a woman is bi it doesn't mean she's a free pass to shagging other women.

She told me she fancies women and has urges to fuck them when she's d*unk "

Pretend bi.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I said I will allow her to choose who we play with or should I choose

both

I just don't want her to feel I'm gona like the girl after so I'll allow her to choose only thing is if the girl she chooses I don't fancy maybe we should both choose

You need to address those kind of things before you start. "

This is why we get advice thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have you asked her if she wants a 3some? Just because a woman is bi it doesn't mean she's a free pass to shagging other women.

She told me she fancies women and has urges to fuck them when she's d*unk

Pretend bi. "

I don't mind pretend too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you asked her if she wants a 3some? Just because a woman is bi it doesn't mean she's a free pass to shagging other women.

She told me she fancies women and has urges to fuck them when she's d*unk

Pretend bi.

I don't mind pretend too "

Let her choose.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have you asked her if she wants a 3some? Just because a woman is bi it doesn't mean she's a free pass to shagging other women.

She told me she fancies women and has urges to fuck them when she's d*unk

Pretend bi.

I don't mind pretend too

Let her choose. "

I will xx

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

Choose together... Or have her suggest and you check the profile out before anything happens?

Discuss everything together though. Matching expectations are very important for all 3 of you to have a positive experience.

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"I said I will allow her to choose who we play with or should I choose "

Message me. As i can't because of your filters. Got a MFMF proposition for you if you're interested

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

And you should both choose always. None of that take one for the team crap either,communicate always and if you're unsure about anything then don't just let it slide . I'm still learning on the job with my girl

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Have you asked her if she wants a 3some? Just because a woman is bi it doesn't mean she's a free pass to shagging other women.

She told me she fancies women and has urges to fuck them when she's d*unk

Pretend bi. "

I thought they used to be called lipstick lesbians back in the day

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!


"Have you asked her if she wants a 3some? Just because a woman is bi it doesn't mean she's a free pass to shagging other women.

She told me she fancies women and has urges to fuck them when she's d*unk "

That's not the same as being up for a threesome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She should because women always know best "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you asked her if she wants a 3some? Just because a woman is bi it doesn't mean she's a free pass to shagging other women.

She told me she fancies women and has urges to fuck them when she's d*unk "

I have urges to fuck women all the time but I still don't like threesomes... or the expectation of them

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By *wo4FemCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

I'd suggest you change your profile to a couples profile first and put some photo up of you both together.

Mr2

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By *educedWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Have you asked her if she wants a 3some? Just because a woman is bi it doesn't mean she's a free pass to shagging other women.

She told me she fancies women and has urges to fuck them when she's d*unk

Pretend bi.

I thought they used to be called lipstick lesbians back in the day "

Barsexual

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

My lady is bisexual, she picks her own sexual partners. We play together, but if she wanted to have sex with a woman who did not do anything for me, then it would be the same as her picking a man to have sex with. I'd be involved with my wife or watch, but not join in with the other partner.

If I picked for her it would be weird as I'd get it wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I doubt you would find many bi ladies on here to join in a threesome especially if your girlfriend only wants to fuck a girl when she's d*unk.

The amount of messages women get on here off guys who want this scenario is unreal and I've met a few couples who do not have a bi female in the couple but claim they are in the profile.

As a bi female it's not something that would appeal to me personally

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

You don't 'allow' anything as she's not your property.

You can help keep her safe, discuss with her what you would both like to do, think about the pitfalls of d*unk encounters and your expectations of each other and play scenarios.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you asked her if she wants a 3some? Just because a woman is bi it doesn't mean she's a free pass to shagging other women.

She told me she fancies women and has urges to fuck them when she's d*unk "

That still doesn’t mean she wants a threesome, it means she gets the urge to fuck women when she’s d*unk. I don’t see the bit where you are included in that too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You don't 'allow' anything as she's not your property.

You can help keep her safe, discuss with her what you would both like to do, think about the pitfalls of d*unk encounters and your expectations of each other and play scenarios."

Who's speaking about property or possession I said I would allow her to make a choice as it would be easier

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have you asked her if she wants a 3some? Just because a woman is bi it doesn't mean she's a free pass to shagging other women.

She told me she fancies women and has urges to fuck them when she's d*unk

That still doesn’t mean she wants a threesome, it means she gets the urge to fuck women when she’s d*unk. I don’t see the bit where you are included in that too."

just thought people could give advice to a situation I asked for she has had sex with many females and has asked if I would mind if she brought a girl home to play with also

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have you asked her if she wants a 3some? Just because a woman is bi it doesn't mean she's a free pass to shagging other women.

She told me she fancies women and has urges to fuck them when she's d*unk

That still doesn’t mean she wants a threesome, it means she gets the urge to fuck women when she’s d*unk. I don’t see the bit where you are included in that too."

just thought people could give advice to a situation I asked for she has had sex with many females and has asked if I would mind if she brought a girl home to play with also

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"You don't 'allow' anything as she's not your property.

You can help keep her safe, discuss with her what you would both like to do, think about the pitfalls of d*unk encounters and your expectations of each other and play scenarios.

Who's speaking about property or possession I said I would allow her to make a choice as it would be easier "

It's not you who does the allowing, she's not your property, she doesn't have to wait for your permission to do anything.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Have you asked her if she wants a 3some? Just because a woman is bi it doesn't mean she's a free pass to shagging other women.

She told me she fancies women and has urges to fuck them when she's d*unk "

I'm gonna be the grown up spoiler here now. Be very fucking careful with this situation. There is a huge difference between a bit of Dutch courage from a little drink, and being d*unk.

Have you seen the recent discussions on consent, the adverts about being d*unk etc.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have you asked her if she wants a 3some? Just because a woman is bi it doesn't mean she's a free pass to shagging other women.

She told me she fancies women and has urges to fuck them when she's d*unk

I'm gonna be the grown up spoiler here now. Be very fucking careful with this situation. There is a huge difference between a bit of Dutch courage from a little drink, and being d*unk.

Have you seen the recent discussions on consent, the adverts about being d*unk etc."

What the hell you lot on abiut all I've asked what should I do as she gave me a choice to pick and I said I would allow her everyone is trying to nit pick and find fault

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You don't 'allow' anything as she's not your property.

You can help keep her safe, discuss with her what you would both like to do, think about the pitfalls of d*unk encounters and your expectations of each other and play scenarios.

Who's speaking about property or possession I said I would allow her to make a choice as it would be easier

It's not you who does the allowing, she's not your property, she doesn't have to wait for your permission to do anything."

She asked me to choose and I said I'll leave it to her so your saying in have no choice on the matter of an female who wants to bring another women to play with me and her

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You don't 'allow' anything as she's not your property.

You can help keep her safe, discuss with her what you would both like to do, think about the pitfalls of d*unk encounters and your expectations of each other and play scenarios.

Who's speaking about property or possession I said I would allow her to make a choice as it would be easier

It's not you who does the allowing, she's not your property, she doesn't have to wait for your permission to do anything."

She asked me to choose and I said I'll leave it to her so your saying in have no choice on the matter of an female who wants to bring another women to play with me and her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you asked her if she wants a 3some? Just because a woman is bi it doesn't mean she's a free pass to shagging other women.

She told me she fancies women and has urges to fuck them when she's d*unk

I'm gonna be the grown up spoiler here now. Be very fucking careful with this situation. There is a huge difference between a bit of Dutch courage from a little drink, and being d*unk.

Have you seen the recent discussions on consent, the adverts about being d*unk etc.

What the hell you lot on abiut all I've asked what should I do as she gave me a choice to pick and I said I would allow her everyone is trying to nit pick and find fault "

You asked for opinions on a public forum

You got them

Many people on here have a huge amount of experience

They have seen and done it all

I'd listen to them if I were you

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Have you asked her if she wants a 3some? Just because a woman is bi it doesn't mean she's a free pass to shagging other women.

She told me she fancies women and has urges to fuck them when she's d*unk

I'm gonna be the grown up spoiler here now. Be very fucking careful with this situation. There is a huge difference between a bit of Dutch courage from a little drink, and being d*unk.

Have you seen the recent discussions on consent, the adverts about being d*unk etc.

What the hell you lot on abiut all I've asked what should I do as she gave me a choice to pick and I said I would allow her everyone is trying to nit pick and find fault "

Absolutely not, I'm merely pointing out something you may not have considered. Don't want you to find yourself in a nasty situation that's all.

There are many factors to consider, how well do you know this person, do you trust her, once alcohol is involved could it give rise to problems/accusations.

Here on the forums we tend to look out for each other and offer different viewpoints that may not have been thought about.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have you asked her if she wants a 3some? Just because a woman is bi it doesn't mean she's a free pass to shagging other women.

She told me she fancies women and has urges to fuck them when she's d*unk

I'm gonna be the grown up spoiler here now. Be very fucking careful with this situation. There is a huge difference between a bit of Dutch courage from a little drink, and being d*unk.

Have you seen the recent discussions on consent, the adverts about being d*unk etc.

What the hell you lot on abiut all I've asked what should I do as she gave me a choice to pick and I said I would allow her everyone is trying to nit pick and find fault

You asked for opinions on a public forum

You got them

Many people on here have a huge amount of experience

They have seen and done it all

I'd listen to them if I were you"
lol ok

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By *infulSandyCouple
over a year ago

London

In my opinion if OP is quick to snap when the issue of consent pops up and if neither him nor his OH are able to come to an agreement together then they may not be ready for a threesome.

I see nothing wrong with making a couples profile and taking it slowly, have her go online also, chat to people here and take it at her own pace.

Then when you have something to say to each other discuss it together and try to think of each other's needs and desires.

This whole "I don't mind if you choose" attitude would not sit well with me, this is a decision you should discuss and make together.

Maybe it's just me but at the moment it almost sounds like she is taking one for the team and I am sure neither of you want that.

I do wish you the best of luck in whatever you decide but I think you still have a way to go.

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"Have you asked her if she wants a 3some? Just because a woman is bi it doesn't mean she's a free pass to shagging other women.

She told me she fancies women and has urges to fuck them when she's d*unk

I'm gonna be the grown up spoiler here now. Be very fucking careful with this situation. There is a huge difference between a bit of Dutch courage from a little drink, and being d*unk.

Have you seen the recent discussions on consent, the adverts about being d*unk etc.

What the hell you lot on abiut all I've asked what should I do as she gave me a choice to pick and I said I would allow her everyone is trying to nit pick and find fault "

That's what happens when you ask a seemingly innocent question. All the people who have an opinion will voice it,regardless whether it's what you asked about or not. Not sure why you thought you'd need the advice of complete strangers. Better advice would come from people in the same situation. Like me. #JustSaying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Point her in the direction of our profile there’s a good boy

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"Point her in the direction of our profile there’s a good boy "

Hehe.

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By *exycouplesswingCouple
over a year ago

Tunbridge Wells

Ask her to choose the lady you play with while she is sober...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Point her in the direction of our profile there’s a good boy "

It's ok I'm on my way there now

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