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By *ornylittlesub OP   Woman
over a year ago

Grangemouth

Why when certain individuals post the oh so obv "look at me" threads they are placated without a hint of decent....yet your average "Joe Bloggs" does the same, and gets crucified! Double standards indeed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why when certain individuals post the oh so obv "look at me" threads they are placated without a hint of decent....yet your average "Joe Bloggs" does the same, and gets crucified! Double standards indeed! "

Well said x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im looking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It all depends on the tone of the look at me thread. Some are clearly after help when others I do agree are saying looking at me and fab my pics!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why when certain individuals post the oh so obv "look at me" threads they are placated without a hint of decent....yet your average "Joe Bloggs" does the same, and gets crucified! Double standards indeed! "

Who said that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trogladytes don't post threads..

Slips slowly away before I'm noticed..

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Depends on how pathetic they seem. We've all seen the desperate on here with huge penises saying "oh if only my cock was smaller I'd get meets" or women saying "no one wants to meet bbw's" or perfect size 10's saying "no ones interested because i give the best blow jobs in the known universe"...... it just gets boring.

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By *ornylittlesub OP   Woman
over a year ago

Grangemouth


"Why when certain individuals post the oh so obv "look at me" threads they are placated without a hint of decent....yet your average "Joe Bloggs" does the same, and gets crucified! Double standards indeed!

Who said that "

Just making sure this couldnt be confused with any "look at me" thread!

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Know exactly where you're coming from OP - to some it's an art form

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just all look at me instead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why when certain individuals post the oh so obv "look at me" threads they are placated without a hint of decent....yet your average "Joe Bloggs" does the same, and gets crucified! Double standards indeed!

Who said that

Just making sure this couldnt be confused with any "look at me" thread! "

You've done well

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Any thread that's posted is asking for attention, so is any response. Otherwise why bother. I've never really understood why people accuse others of posting "look at me" threads as if its a bad thing.

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By *ornylittlesub OP   Woman
over a year ago

Grangemouth


"Any thread that's posted is asking for attention, so is any response. Otherwise why bother. I've never really understood why people accuse others of posting "look at me" threads as if its a bad thing."

Think you will find my point was why is it "ok" for some, but not for others!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any thread that's posted is asking for attention, so is any response. Otherwise why bother. I've never really understood why people accuse others of posting "look at me" threads as if its a bad thing."

I agree they are no different to some of the gobshites who comment on them...they are the bloody attention seekers...oh hang on...

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By *ogerNesszonesMan
over a year ago

Northern England


"Any thread that's posted is asking for attention, so is any response. Otherwise why bother. I've never really understood why people accuse others of posting "look at me" threads as if its a bad thing."

Quite. It's the "snog, shag, avoid" threads that I avoid.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Any thread that's posted is asking for attention, so is any response. Otherwise why bother. I've never really understood why people accuse others of posting "look at me" threads as if its a bad thing.

Think you will find my point was why is it "ok" for some, but not for others! "

Yes I was aware of that. My point which I hoped might add to the discussion is that I don't understand why anyone would be accused of it let alone a few.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Any thread that's posted is asking for attention, so is any response. Otherwise why bother. I've never really understood why people accuse others of posting "look at me" threads as if its a bad thing.

I agree they are no different to some of the gobshites who comment on them...they are the bloody attention seekers...oh hang on..."

I fail to see how anybody on a site like this wouldn't be an attention seeker

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By *elvet RopeMan
over a year ago

by the big field

We only hassle the ones with hidden profiles

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"Im looking "

Wow I’m looking at you !

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york

easy if you dont like the thread , dont post on it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say it's because the certain individuals 'Fab friends' are the ones doing the commenting. Also If they're in the forums a lot they might have a following of sorts, if that make sense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What’s a “Look at Me!” thread?

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By *ornylittlesub OP   Woman
over a year ago

Grangemouth


"Any thread that's posted is asking for attention, so is any response. Otherwise why bother. I've never really understood why people accuse others of posting "look at me" threads as if its a bad thing.

Think you will find my point was why is it "ok" for some, but not for others!

Yes I was aware of that. My point which I hoped might add to the discussion is that I don't understand why anyone would be accused of it let alone a few."

What dont you understand? Not sure about the "accused" bit either! Anyone is free to post whatever thread, within Fab's rules, they wish...be it a "look at me" thread or not....I was just wondering why is was perceived as acceptable for some but not others! If you dont see any difference in "who" post threads to how they are received, then your not looking/reading the same forums as I am.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What am I looking at?

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By *ornylittlesub OP   Woman
over a year ago

Grangemouth


"We only hassle the ones with hidden profiles "

Sometimes its to make a point...the hidden profiles!

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york

opps i think i did one earlier , sorry about that

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I don't know if the posters who 'crucify' on one are the same as those who gush on others.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Any thread that's posted is asking for attention, so is any response. Otherwise why bother. I've never really understood why people accuse others of posting "look at me" threads as if its a bad thing.

Think you will find my point was why is it "ok" for some, but not for others!

Yes I was aware of that. My point which I hoped might add to the discussion is that I don't understand why anyone would be accused of it let alone a few.

What dont you understand? Not sure about the "accused" bit either! Anyone is free to post whatever thread, within Fab's rules, they wish...be it a "look at me" thread or not....I was just wondering why is was perceived as acceptable for some but not others! If you dont see any difference in "who" post threads to how they are received, then your not looking/reading the same forums as I am. "

What I'm saying is it isn't acceptable for anyone to be accused (in a bad way) of posting a look at me thread since all threads are essentially designed to draw attention. I'm agreeing with you that it isn't right to say it about some people and not others.

I understood perfectly what you were saying.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Depends on the thread and the tone it appears to be written in.

Also, if someone is notorious for posting negativity, it does get remembered especially if they've been rude etc, so it kinda comes back to bite them in the arse at times. The green arrow is a wonderful thing at times.

Also, the longer someone has used the forums the more we learn their personality and language, so you get a better feel for the thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a lot is to do with being well known and having "attention seeking" being seen as part of their charm. Some are cheeky or flirty and others slip into form and respond.

I agree its wrong to crucify others for doing the same but quite often the tone of the post is different, the established forumite tends to do it in a more subtle way than a straight out look at me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think a lot is to do with being well known and having "attention seeking" being seen as part of their charm. Some are cheeky or flirty and others slip into form and respond.

I agree its wrong to crucify others for doing the same but quite often the tone of the post is different, the established forumite tends to do it in a more subtle way than a straight out look at me. "

The key word you have used is 'established'.

I don't think it's done in necessarily more subtle way but they'll get people joining in because of who they are. The tone of the post will generally be more positive than negative.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think a lot is to do with being well known and having "attention seeking" being seen as part of their charm. Some are cheeky or flirty and others slip into form and respond.

I agree its wrong to crucify others for doing the same but quite often the tone of the post is different, the established forumite tends to do it in a more subtle way than a straight out look at me.

The key word you have used is 'established'.

I don't think it's done in necessarily more subtle way but they'll get people joining in because of who they are. The tone of the post will generally be more positive than negative."

Exactly. I know there's always talk of the "clique" on here but its natural for people to be drawn to people they know and have connection with.

It also goes the other way for the "pack mentality" when dismissing someone else. Its natural for people to want to be seen as accepted or the same as their peers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why when certain individuals post the oh so obv "look at me" threads they are placated without a hint of decent....yet your average "Joe Bloggs" does the same, and gets crucified! Double standards indeed!

Who said that

Just making sure this couldnt be confused with any "look at me" thread! "

Oh ok... i wont look then!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why when certain individuals post the oh so obv "look at me" threads they are placated without a hint of decent....yet your average "Joe Bloggs" does the same, and gets crucified! Double standards indeed!

Who said that

Just making sure this couldnt be confused with any "look at me" thread! "

I'm just destructed looking at your ass op.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"Why when certain individuals post the oh so obv "look at me" threads they are placated without a hint of decent....yet your average "Joe Bloggs" does the same, and gets crucified! Double standards indeed! "

The saying, If your face fits, springs to mind.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"I think a lot is to do with being well known and having "attention seeking" being seen as part of their charm. Some are cheeky or flirty and others slip into form and respond.

I agree its wrong to crucify others for doing the same but quite often the tone of the post is different, the established forumite tends to do it in a more subtle way than a straight out look at me.

The key word you have used is 'established'.

I don't think it's done in necessarily more subtle way but they'll get people joining in because of who they are. The tone of the post will generally be more positive than negative."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m sure we were all treated differently when we first posted on the forums to how we are treated once we’ve been posting regularly on them.

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york


"I’m sure we were all treated differently when we first posted on the forums to how we are treated once we’ve been posting regularly on them."

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe


"Why when certain individuals post the oh so obv "look at me" threads they are placated without a hint of decent....yet your average "Joe Bloggs" does the same, and gets crucified! Double standards indeed! "

Question is, 'Is that certain Joe Bloggs in the clique?' If not, well, that's self explanatory isn't it. It's nice and cosy in the clique.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe


"I’m sure we were all treated differently when we first posted on the forums to how we are treated once we’ve been posting regularly on them."

How true! Caused a shit storm with our first post which was a thread starter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd say it's because the certain individuals 'Fab friends' are the ones doing the commenting. Also If they're in the forums a lot they might have a following of sorts, if that make sense."

Exactly that! Pack like mentality, if your face don't fit then expect a hard time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m sure we were all treated differently when we first posted on the forums to how we are treated once we’ve been posting regularly on them.

How true! Caused a shit storm with our first post which was a thread starter. "

Me too, but I did ask for profile advice which is asking for the vultures to swarm in and take a bite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m sure we were all treated differently when we first posted on the forums to how we are treated once we’ve been posting regularly on them.

How true! Caused a shit storm with our first post which was a thread starter. "

I was ridiculed for one of my first threads. I named a lady on here who I used as an example of who I think is quite beautiful (Sorry about that post MsV, ). Some people frown on it.

. You can't do right for doing wrong here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd say it's because the certain individuals 'Fab friends' are the ones doing the commenting. Also If they're in the forums a lot they might have a following of sorts, if that make sense.

Exactly that! Pack like mentality, if your face don't fit then expect a hard time"

When that starts I find one or two off the regular posters step in and speak for the op.

I do a lot of tongue in cheek posting but hate bullying on here

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe


"I’m sure we were all treated differently when we first posted on the forums to how we are treated once we’ve been posting regularly on them.

How true! Caused a shit storm with our first post which was a thread starter.

Me too, but I did ask for profile advice which is asking for the vultures to swarm in and take a bite "

High five!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't want you to all look at me anyway... ya bastards!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I didn't want you to all look at me anyway... ya bastards!! "

Nice arse

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe


"I didn't want you to all look at me anyway... ya bastards!!

Nice arse "

It's a beauty but I'm not looking really, sorta squinting.

Him

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