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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I just don't get this site. Unless you look like a professional model I can't see how you even get to meet women on here. I'm a decent looking bloke, friendly up for most things yet I dont even get a reply of any of the women on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guess I must look like a professional model then

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You... and a million others my friend!

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By *ustin666666Man
over a year ago

Nottingham


"I just don't get this site. Unless you look like a professional model I can't see how you even get to meet women on here. I'm a decent looking bloke, friendly up for most things yet I dont even get a reply of any of the women on here. "

You've had it now.

All the I'm a single bloke with no action comments will come.

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By *ampant Lion34Man
over a year ago

East Midlands

Snap been here over a year and nada

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Work out why you think you're not getting a reply, and change it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Seriously though. I could send out a dozen messages and not get 1 reply. Ive even looked for the worse profile i could possibly find just to see if i get a reply and still no luck. I mean it's a site for people to meet up for sex. Surely it should be easier to hook up lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just don't get this site. Unless you look like a professional model I can't see how you even get to meet women on here. I'm a decent looking bloke, friendly up for most things yet I dont even get a reply of any of the women on here. "

some of the men i have met arent professional models, professional pain in the asses maybe but

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"S I mean it's a site for people to meet up for sex. Surely it should be easier to hook up lol"

is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't know I was a model i ain't lucky enough to have a meet yet only been here 2 weeks but I'm getting the best conversations and I'm getting a few replies router with the smooth son

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seriously though. I could send out a dozen messages and not get 1 reply. Ive even looked for the worse profile i could possibly find just to see if i get a reply and still no luck. I mean it's a site for people to meet up for sex. Surely it should be easier to hook up lol"

Look at the messages then, maybe that's where you're going wrong.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Seriously though. I could send out a dozen messages and not get 1 reply. Ive even looked for the worse profile i could possibly find just to see if i get a reply and still no luck. I mean it's a site for people to meet up for sex. Surely it should be easier to hook up lol"

When was the last time you went to a club or social event?

Effort required. If you don't want to make an effort, you may be better off using a site where you pay for the privilege of sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seriously though. I could send out a dozen messages and not get 1 reply. Ive even looked for the worse profile i could possibly find just to see if i get a reply and still no luck. I mean it's a site for people to meet up for sex. Surely it should be easier to hook up lol"

Oooooh what would you have done if you got a reply???

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That's it I can't work out where I'm going wrong. I don't send dick pics, I send a nice message with a picture of what i look like. I actually had a reply from someone that looked like a bulldog chewing a wasp saying I'm not her type. I had to hold back from saying anymore lok

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By *ustin666666Man
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Seriously though. I could send out a dozen messages and not get 1 reply. Ive even looked for the worse profile i could possibly find just to see if i get a reply and still no luck. I mean it's a site for people to meet up for sex. Surely it should be easier to hook up lol"

Try not to take it personal.

What makes me laugh is how some women keep moaning about being let down by fake profiles and yet real one's don't get a look in.

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By *ampant Lion34Man
over a year ago

East Midlands

There is so much choice for the ladies out their, so need to really stand out. I've chatted with women for them just to go quite as someone else has caught their eye. But when I was on here few years back in Scotland I had loads of meets. So could be the area also.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s a lot of negativity around you pal, you’ve not asked for profile advice so can’t give it, but that’s where the recipients of your messages go first before reading the message you sent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seriously though. I could send out a dozen messages and not get 1 reply. Ive even looked for the worse profile i could possibly find just to see if i get a reply and still no luck. I mean it's a site for people to meet up for sex. Surely it should be easier to hook up lol

Look at the messages then, maybe that's where you're going wrong. "

im a woman and i dont get meets

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By *ustin666666Man
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Seriously though. I could send out a dozen messages and not get 1 reply. Ive even looked for the worse profile i could possibly find just to see if i get a reply and still no luck. I mean it's a site for people to meet up for sex. Surely it should be easier to hook up lol

When was the last time you went to a club or social event?

Effort required. If you don't want to make an effort, you may be better off using a site where you pay for the privilege of sex."

This is a Swingers site NOT a club site.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"That's it I can't work out where I'm going wrong. I don't send dick pics, I send a nice message with a picture of what i look like. I actually had a reply from someone that looked like a bulldog chewing a wasp saying I'm not her type. I had to hold back from saying anymore lok "

If you think they looked like a bulldog chewing a wasp why did you message them?

Is that the sound of desperation I hear?

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By *ampant Lion34Man
over a year ago

East Midlands


"That's it I can't work out where I'm going wrong. I don't send dick pics, I send a nice message with a picture of what i look like. I actually had a reply from someone that looked like a bulldog chewing a wasp saying I'm not her type. I had to hold back from saying anymore lok "

Hahahahaha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well I'm not really up for clubs to be honest. Effort comes in many forms and doesn't require going to a club does it.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Seriously though. I could send out a dozen messages and not get 1 reply. Ive even looked for the worse profile i could possibly find just to see if i get a reply and still no luck. I mean it's a site for people to meet up for sex. Surely it should be easier to hook up lol

When was the last time you went to a club or social event?

Effort required. If you don't want to make an effort, you may be better off using a site where you pay for the privilege of sex.

This is a Swingers site NOT a club site. "

See club section

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By *ampant Lion34Man
over a year ago

East Midlands


"Seriously though. I could send out a dozen messages and not get 1 reply. Ive even looked for the worse profile i could possibly find just to see if i get a reply and still no luck. I mean it's a site for people to meet up for sex. Surely it should be easier to hook up lol

Try not to take it personal.

What makes me laugh is how some women keep moaning about being let down by fake profiles and yet real one's don't get a look in. "

Yes that gets my goat also.

Standby for the goat jokes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op maybe put few pics public and advatar pic more eye catching

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I'm not really up for clubs to be honest. Effort comes in many forms and doesn't require going to a club does it."

Socials are a good place to start

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Well I'm not really up for clubs to be honest. Effort comes in many forms and doesn't require going to a club does it."

No I doesn't, however you do get to meet people in the flesh and make new connections.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I'm not really up for clubs to be honest. Effort comes in many forms and doesn't require going to a club does it."

why doesn't effort require going to clubs, many of us will disagree

a club meet or a 121 means the same effort as getting ready, picking out clothes (ok underwear)

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By *ustin666666Man
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Seriously though. I could send out a dozen messages and not get 1 reply. Ive even looked for the worse profile i could possibly find just to see if i get a reply and still no luck. I mean it's a site for people to meet up for sex. Surely it should be easier to hook up lol

When was the last time you went to a club or social event?

Effort required. If you don't want to make an effort, you may be better off using a site where you pay for the privilege of sex.

This is a Swingers site NOT a club site.

See club section

"

Not all profiles are in club section

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Desperate is one thing I'm not love. I just found it surprising from the lack of replies so thought id send a message to someone far below what I'd consider my type and see if I was punching above my class. Yes any advice on my profile is welcome mate

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

OP I find it doesn't really matter about looks on here. If you have hundreds of verifications and will have sex with anyone then you will do better than some of us. Some people are intimidated by good looking people so it's a difficult one. You can't please everyone pal. I don't do as well as people like to think as I won't meet just anyone. Sometimes being attractive is a curse not a blessing hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think p's before you press the send message button.

Profile - does yours stand out among the 1000's of other men?

Personality - have you put it across well in your message?

Pictures - can the recipient view enough to enable them to decide if they fancy you or not?

Picking - find a person whose preferences you feel you suit the best.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes any advice on my profile is welcome mate"

a good well written profile explaining what you are looking for and some good photos with body shots will help

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Seriously though. I could send out a dozen messages and not get 1 reply. Ive even looked for the worse profile i could possibly find just to see if i get a reply and still no luck. I mean it's a site for people to meet up for sex. Surely it should be easier to hook up lol

When was the last time you went to a club or social event?

Effort required. If you don't want to make an effort, you may be better off using a site where you pay for the privilege of sex.

This is a Swingers site NOT a club site.

See club section

Not all profiles are in club section "

No, but there are these things called swingers clubs, where swingers go. Granted not all people go there, however... it's a good place to meet swingers. If you wanted sweets would you go to a car showroom or a sweet shop?

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"That's it I can't work out where I'm going wrong. I don't send dick pics, I send a nice message with a picture of what i look like. I actually had a reply from someone that looked like a bulldog chewing a wasp saying I'm not her type. I had to hold back from saying anymore lok "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Desperate is one thing I'm not love. I just found it surprising from the lack of replies so thought id send a message to someone far below what I'd consider my type and see if I was punching above my class. Yes any advice on my profile is welcome mate"

What if she had replied OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seriously though. I could send out a dozen messages and not get 1 reply. Ive even looked for the worse profile i could possibly find just to see if i get a reply and still no luck. I mean it's a site for people to meet up for sex. Surely it should be easier to hook up lol"

What a joker you message the worst people you can find who are you to judge no wonder your getting no luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"S I mean it's a site for people to meet up for sex. Surely it should be easier to hook up lol

is it?"

Or is it a swingers site? Fabswingers is the website name lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seriously though. I could send out a dozen messages and not get 1 reply. Ive even looked for the worse profile i could possibly find just to see if i get a reply and still no luck. I mean it's a site for people to meet up for sex. Surely it should be easier to hook up lol

What a joker you message the worst people you can find who are you to judge no wonder your getting no luck "

Hahahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Desperate is one thing I'm not love. I just found it surprising from the lack of replies so thought id send a message to someone far below what I'd consider my type and see if I was punching above my class. Yes any advice on my profile is welcome mate

What if she had replied OP? "

Then I’m sure he OP would oblige, dude, your profile needs to stand out, lose the negative comments, who are you? What can you offer? What are you looking for?

Some public pics help, body shots, suited and booted those kind of pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP I find it doesn't really matter about looks on here. If you have hundreds of verifications and will have sex with anyone then you will do better than some of us. Some people are intimidated by good looking people so it's a difficult one. You can't please everyone pal. I don't do as well as people like to think as I won't meet just anyone. Sometimes being attractive is a curse not a blessing hahaha"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"S I mean it's a site for people to meet up for sex. Surely it should be easier to hook up lol

is it?

Or is it a swingers site? Fabswingers is the website name lol"

thats my other question but you beat me to it LOL damn u woman x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You don't come across to me remotely as you describe yourself. Maybe the same can be said for your messages?

You say you've messaged people with the worst profiles and someone who looks like a bulldog chewing a wasp?

Well if anyone you messaged reads what you wrote about them here, I'm sure the can't wait to meet you now \sarcasm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also your profile photo looks pretty scary...but that is just my opinion..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't worry about it! Keep your dummy in stay positive it will happen coming on here complaining won't get you anywhere women won't meet you because they feel sorry for you mate

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By *ustin666666Man
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Seriously though. I could send out a dozen messages and not get 1 reply. Ive even looked for the worse profile i could possibly find just to see if i get a reply and still no luck. I mean it's a site for people to meet up for sex. Surely it should be easier to hook up lol

When was the last time you went to a club or social event?

Effort required. If you don't want to make an effort, you may be better off using a site where you pay for the privilege of sex.

This is a Swingers site NOT a club site.

See club section

Not all profiles are in club section

No, but there are these things called swingers clubs, where swingers go. Granted not all people go there, however... it's a good place to meet swingers. If you wanted sweets would you go to a car showroom or a sweet shop? "

Depends on if I want to get my cock out. Sweet shop might get me in trouble

Not really.

Clubs can be intimidating for a single male unless your very well hung.

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea


"I just don't get this site. Unless you look like a professional model I can't see how you even get to meet women on here. I'm a decent looking bloke, friendly up for most things yet I dont even get a reply of any of the women on here. "

I no how you fill op.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You don't come across to me remotely as you describe yourself. Maybe the same can be said for your messages?

You say you've messaged people with the worst profiles and someone who looks like a bulldog chewing a wasp?

Well if anyone you messaged reads what you wrote about them here, I'm sure the can't wait to meet you now \sarcasm

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Also your profile photo looks pretty scary...but that is just my opinion.."

Hahah

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Seriously though. I could send out a dozen messages and not get 1 reply. Ive even looked for the worse profile i could possibly find just to see if i get a reply and still no luck. I mean it's a site for people to meet up for sex. Surely it should be easier to hook up lol

When was the last time you went to a club or social event?

Effort required. If you don't want to make an effort, you may be better off using a site where you pay for the privilege of sex.

This is a Swingers site NOT a club site.

See club section

Not all profiles are in club section

No, but there are these things called swingers clubs, where swingers go. Granted not all people go there, however... it's a good place to meet swingers. If you wanted sweets would you go to a car showroom or a sweet shop?

Depends on if I want to get my cock out. Sweet shop might get me in trouble

Not really.

Clubs can be intimidating for a single male unless your very well hung. "

They really can be intimidating, it's not all about being well hung either. Once you've done it though, you've done it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wanders in read OP thread..

Wanders out ...

Sometimes it's better to just say nothing...

Sits on my rock and watches the waves...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If people are too full-on here it puts people off I find. A lots like too chat get too know a person as could be Jack the ripper .. At clubs its more meet and shag I find .

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By *ustin666666Man
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Seriously though. I could send out a dozen messages and not get 1 reply. Ive even looked for the worse profile i could possibly find just to see if i get a reply and still no luck. I mean it's a site for people to meet up for sex. Surely it should be easier to hook up lol

When was the last time you went to a club or social event?

Effort required. If you don't want to make an effort, you may be better off using a site where you pay for the privilege of sex.

This is a Swingers site NOT a club site.

See club section

Not all profiles are in club section

No, but there are these things called swingers clubs, where swingers go. Granted not all people go there, however... it's a good place to meet swingers. If you wanted sweets would you go to a car showroom or a sweet shop?

Depends on if I want to get my cock out. Sweet shop might get me in trouble

Not really.

Clubs can be intimidating for a single male unless your very well hung.

They really can be intimidating, it's not all about being well hung either. Once you've done it though, you've done it "

A single guy on his own in a club has to stand out and the main way is to have a massive chopper

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Seriously though. I could send out a dozen messages and not get 1 reply. Ive even looked for the worse profile i could possibly find just to see if i get a reply and still no luck. I mean it's a site for people to meet up for sex. Surely it should be easier to hook up lol

When was the last time you went to a club or social event?

Effort required. If you don't want to make an effort, you may be better off using a site where you pay for the privilege of sex.

This is a Swingers site NOT a club site.

See club section

Not all profiles are in club section

No, but there are these things called swingers clubs, where swingers go. Granted not all people go there, however... it's a good place to meet swingers. If you wanted sweets would you go to a car showroom or a sweet shop?

Depends on if I want to get my cock out. Sweet shop might get me in trouble

Not really.

Clubs can be intimidating for a single male unless your very well hung.

They really can be intimidating, it's not all about being well hung either. Once you've done it though, you've done it

A single guy on his own in a club has to stand out and the main way is to have a massive chopper "

Or a great personality, decent banter and be respectful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

A single guy on his own in a club has to stand out and the main way is to have a massive chopper "

actually no.

if i was talking to someone in a swingers club and he had his "chopper" out id walk away talk about keeping me intregued

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Desperate is one thing I'm not love. I just found it surprising from the lack of replies so thought id send a message to someone far below what I'd consider my type and see if I was punching above my class. Yes any advice on my profile is welcome mate"

I'd like to say something sarcastic to this comment, but it would be too much effort

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive even looked for the worse profile i could possibly find just to see if i get a reply and still no luck."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wanders in read OP thread..

Wanders out ...

Sometimes it's better to just say nothing...

Sits on my rock and watches the waves..."

Would you like some of my popcorn?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I shake my little tush on the catwalk then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seriously though. I could send out a dozen messages and not get 1 reply. Ive even looked for the worse profile i could possibly find just to see if i get a reply and still no luck. I mean it's a site for people to meet up for sex. Surely it should be easier to hook up lol

When was the last time you went to a club or social event?

Effort required. If you don't want to make an effort, you may be better off using a site where you pay for the privilege of sex.

This is a Swingers site NOT a club site.

See club section

Not all profiles are in club section

No, but there are these things called swingers clubs, where swingers go. Granted not all people go there, however... it's a good place to meet swingers. If you wanted sweets would you go to a car showroom or a sweet shop?

Depends on if I want to get my cock out. Sweet shop might get me in trouble

Not really.

Clubs can be intimidating for a single male unless your very well hung.

They really can be intimidating, it's not all about being well hung either. Once you've done it though, you've done it

A single guy on his own in a club has to stand out and the main way is to have a massive chopper "

You have no idea the way to stand out is the be different from the rest set a new standard of respect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wanders in read OP thread..

Wanders out ...

Sometimes it's better to just say nothing...

Sits on my rock and watches the waves...

Would you like some of my popcorn? "

As long as it ain't salted my I have some too please ma'am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wanders in read OP thread..

Wanders out ...

Sometimes it's better to just say nothing...

Sits on my rock and watches the waves...

Would you like some of my popcorn?

As long as it ain't salted my I have some too please ma'am "

Open wide I’ll see if I can it in your mouth from over here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wanders in read OP thread..

Wanders out ...

Sometimes it's better to just say nothing...

Sits on my rock and watches the waves...

Would you like some of my popcorn?

As long as it ain't salted my I have some too please ma'am

Open wide I’ll see if I can it in your mouth from over here. "

Om nom nom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wanders in read OP thread..

Wanders out ...

Sometimes it's better to just say nothing...

Sits on my rock and watches the waves...

Would you like some of my popcorn? "

Got any toffee flavour?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wanders in read OP thread..

Wanders out ...

Sometimes it's better to just say nothing...

Sits on my rock and watches the waves...

Would you like some of my popcorn?

Got any toffee flavour? "

I only do the sweet flavours. I’m not into this salted popcorn madness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wanders in read OP thread..

Wanders out ...

Sometimes it's better to just say nothing...

Sits on my rock and watches the waves...

Would you like some of my popcorn?

Got any toffee flavour? "

I'm with these guys xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wanders in read OP thread..

Wanders out ...

Sometimes it's better to just say nothing...

Sits on my rock and watches the waves...

Would you like some of my popcorn?

Got any toffee flavour?

I only do the sweet flavours. I’m not into this salted popcorn madness. "

I hate salt yuk yes please beautiful

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"There’s a lot of negativity around you pal, you’ve not asked for profile advice so can’t give it, but that’s where the recipients of your messages go first before reading the message you sent."

Yup, I click on the profile, and if there are no good pics I generally go no further.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's it I can't work out where I'm going wrong. I don't send dick pics, I send a nice message with a picture of what i look like. I actually had a reply from someone that looked like a bulldog chewing a wasp saying I'm not her type. I had to hold back from saying anymore lok "

Why did you message her in the first place then?

This post really doesn’t show you in a very good light

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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago

Traffic land


"Desperate is one thing I'm not love. I just found it surprising from the lack of replies so thought id send a message to someone far below what I'd consider my type and see if I was punching above my class. Yes any advice on my profile is welcome mate"

Wow.

Someone “far below” you consider your type? So in your opinion she should have been grateful you bothered to message her at all?

I haven’t read your profile, but I think perhaps you need to drop your sense of entitlement.

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

OP. In the nicest possible way...

On this thread you display disrespect, a sense of entitlement and whininess I suspect that's why you aren't getting meets.

The odds massively favour women here so if your personality gives out negative vibes, they will ignore you and move on to the next guy.

As a general point these "woe is me I can't get meets" are completely self defeating. Feeling sorry for yourself never attracted anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wanders in read OP thread..

Wanders out ...

Sometimes it's better to just say nothing...

Sits on my rock and watches the waves..."

Sometimes the OP says it all for you

" too much like hard work"

Says it all. That sentence right there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP. In the nicest possible way...

On this thread you display disrespect, a sense of entitlement and whininess I suspect that's why you aren't getting meets.

The odds massively favour women here so if your personality gives out negative vibes, they will ignore you and move on to the next guy.

As a general point these "woe is me I can't get meets" are completely self defeating. Feeling sorry for yourself never attracted anyone.

"

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By *ustin666666Man
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Seriously though. I could send out a dozen messages and not get 1 reply. Ive even looked for the worse profile i could possibly find just to see if i get a reply and still no luck. I mean it's a site for people to meet up for sex. Surely it should be easier to hook up lol

When was the last time you went to a club or social event?

Effort required. If you don't want to make an effort, you may be better off using a site where you pay for the privilege of sex.

This is a Swingers site NOT a club site.

See club section

Not all profiles are in club section

No, but there are these things called swingers clubs, where swingers go. Granted not all people go there, however... it's a good place to meet swingers. If you wanted sweets would you go to a car showroom or a sweet shop?

Depends on if I want to get my cock out. Sweet shop might get me in trouble

Not really.

Clubs can be intimidating for a single male unless your very well hung.

They really can be intimidating, it's not all about being well hung either. Once you've done it though, you've done it

A single guy on his own in a club has to stand out and the main way is to have a massive chopper

You have no idea the way to stand out is the be different from the rest set a new standard of respect "

Wtf

Who's showing no respect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seriously though. I could send out a dozen messages and not get 1 reply. Ive even looked for the worse profile i could possibly find just to see if i get a reply and still no luck. I mean it's a site for people to meet up for sex. Surely it should be easier to hook up lol

When was the last time you went to a club or social event?

Effort required. If you don't want to make an effort, you may be better off using a site where you pay for the privilege of sex.

This is a Swingers site NOT a club site.

See club section

Not all profiles are in club section

No, but there are these things called swingers clubs, where swingers go. Granted not all people go there, however... it's a good place to meet swingers. If you wanted sweets would you go to a car showroom or a sweet shop?

Depends on if I want to get my cock out. Sweet shop might get me in trouble

Not really.

Clubs can be intimidating for a single male unless your very well hung.

They really can be intimidating, it's not all about being well hung either. Once you've done it though, you've done it

A single guy on his own in a club has to stand out and the main way is to have a massive chopper

You have no idea the way to stand out is the be different from the rest set a new standard of respect

Wtf

Who's showing no respect. "

You in many ways

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just don't get this site. Unless you look like a professional model I can't see how you even get to meet women on here. I'm a decent looking bloke, friendly up for most things yet I dont even get a reply of any of the women on here. "

Do we just have to take your word for it that you're decent looking?

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By *ustin666666Man
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Seriously though. I could send out a dozen messages and not get 1 reply. Ive even looked for the worse profile i could possibly find just to see if i get a reply and still no luck. I mean it's a site for people to meet up for sex. Surely it should be easier to hook up lol

When was the last time you went to a club or social event?

Effort required. If you don't want to make an effort, you may be better off using a site where you pay for the privilege of sex.

This is a Swingers site NOT a club site.

See club section

Not all profiles are in club section

No, but there are these things called swingers clubs, where swingers go. Granted not all people go there, however... it's a good place to meet swingers. If you wanted sweets would you go to a car showroom or a sweet shop?

Depends on if I want to get my cock out. Sweet shop might get me in trouble

Not really.

Clubs can be intimidating for a single male unless your very well hung.

They really can be intimidating, it's not all about being well hung either. Once you've done it though, you've done it

A single guy on his own in a club has to stand out and the main way is to have a massive chopper

You have no idea the way to stand out is the be different from the rest set a new standard of respect

Wtf

Who's showing no respect.

You in many ways "

How do you work that out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seriously though. I could send out a dozen messages and not get 1 reply. Ive even looked for the worse profile i could possibly find just to see if i get a reply and still no luck. I mean it's a site for people to meet up for sex. Surely it should be easier to hook up lol

When was the last time you went to a club or social event?

Effort required. If you don't want to make an effort, you may be better off using a site where you pay for the privilege of sex.

This is a Swingers site NOT a club site.

See club section

Not all profiles are in club section

No, but there are these things called swingers clubs, where swingers go. Granted not all people go there, however... it's a good place to meet swingers. If you wanted sweets would you go to a car showroom or a sweet shop?

Depends on if I want to get my cock out. Sweet shop might get me in trouble

Not really.

Clubs can be intimidating for a single male unless your very well hung.

They really can be intimidating, it's not all about being well hung either. Once you've done it though, you've done it

A single guy on his own in a club has to stand out and the main way is to have a massive chopper

You have no idea the way to stand out is the be different from the rest set a new standard of respect

Wtf

Who's showing no respect.

You in many ways

How do you work that out "

Sorry not you other dude

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

People often look at a profile first and decide if they want to reply.

Would your pic and profile appeal to you?

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think some of these woman think there Kelly brook with the amount of do’s and do not’s on there profiles. Then you realise there just not and think really!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wanders in read OP thread..

Wanders out ...

Sometimes it's better to just say nothing...

Sits on my rock and watches the waves...

Would you like some of my popcorn? "

Prefer buns but go on then..

Wondering if OP dares to tell every one who the worst profile on here is...

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Seriously though. I could send out a dozen messages and not get 1 reply. Ive even looked for the worse profile i could possibly find just to see if i get a reply and still no luck. I mean it's a site for people to meet up for sex. Surely it should be easier to hook up lol"
Jesus Christ, what an entitled attitude! Lose the arrogance! As you haven't specifically asked for profile advice, I can't give it, most will read profile before responding to you, or not as the case may be!

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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago

Traffic land


"I think some of these woman think there Kelly brook with the amount of do’s and do not’s on there profiles. Then you realise there just not and think really!"

So only women who look a certain way should be allowed to state what they want on their profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wanders in read OP thread..

Wanders out ...

Sometimes it's better to just say nothing...

Sits on my rock and watches the waves...

Sometimes the OP says it all for you

" too much like hard work"

Says it all. That sentence right there"

I do love a tastefully written pre unlos thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only have an eye to go on so no I wouldn't reply either. Plus your bi some women are put off by bisexual men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seriously though. I could send out a dozen messages and not get 1 reply. Ive even looked for the worse profile i could possibly find just to see if i get a reply and still no luck. I mean it's a site for people to meet up for sex. Surely it should be easier to hook up lolJesus Christ, what an entitled attitude! Lose the arrogance! As you haven't specifically asked for profile advice, I can't give it, most will read profile before responding to you, or not as the case may be!"

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I think some of these woman think there Kelly brook with the amount of do’s and do not’s on there profiles. Then you realise there just not and think really!"
I believe they are called preferences, we are all allowed to have them. Oh sorry, I forgot this is fucking instashag, and we are just unpaid whores waiting to drop our knickers when entitled, arrogant men click their fingers!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Change your status to:

"Thanks for all the congratulations on my recent lotto win. Just what a lonely single guy needs"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think some of these woman think there Kelly brook with the amount of do’s and do not’s on there profiles. Then you realise there just not and think really!"

And the point of this post is?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Change your status to:

"Thanks for all the congratulations on my recent lotto win. Just what a lonely single guy needs""

or put a frock on...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think some of these woman think there Kelly brook with the amount of do’s and do not’s on there profiles. Then you realise there just not and think really!"

Because they don't look like Kelly Brooke means they should be less choosy n fuck people they don't want to?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wanders in read OP thread..

Wanders out ...

Sometimes it's better to just say nothing...

Sits on my rock and watches the waves...

Sometimes the OP says it all for you

" too much like hard work"

Says it all. That sentence right there

I do love a tastefully written pre unlos thread "

A pre unlos thread

You have just created the next big thing, right there

Love it

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"

They really can be intimidating, it's not all about being well hung either. Once you've done it though, you've done it

A single guy on his own in a club has to stand out and the main way is to have a massive chopper "

Sorry, but that's complete rubbish.

Most people will meet up in the social area of the club and have no idea of how well hung anybody is.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"I think some of these woman think there Kelly brook with the amount of do’s and do not’s on there profiles. Then you realise there just not and think really!"

So only those who look like Kelly Brook have the right to make decisions based on what they do or don't want?

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Wanders in read OP thread..

Wanders out ...

Sometimes it's better to just say nothing...

Sits on my rock and watches the waves...

Sometimes the OP says it all for you

" too much like hard work"

Says it all. That sentence right there

I do love a tastefully written pre unlos thread

A pre unlos thread

You have just created the next big thing, right there

Love it"

And UNLOS.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another unlos bites the dust.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow he didn't last long!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aww no, he left. I'd found him some clunge to go balls deep into as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Aww no, he left. I'd found him some clunge to go balls deep into as well. "

He told me I can collect his gifts lost the paperwork and all but we good

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By *aul1973HullMan
over a year ago

East Hull

You've gotta be in it to win it OP

... oh, he left!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seriously though. I could send out a dozen messages and not get 1 reply. Ive even looked for the worse profile i could possibly find just to see if i get a reply and still no luck. I mean it's a site for people to meet up for sex. Surely it should be easier to hook up lol

When was the last time you went to a club or social event?

Effort required. If you don't want to make an effort, you may be better off using a site where you pay for the privilege of sex.

This is a Swingers site NOT a club site.

See club section

Not all profiles are in club section

No, but there are these things called swingers clubs, where swingers go. Granted not all people go there, however... it's a good place to meet swingers. If you wanted sweets would you go to a car showroom or a sweet shop?

Depends on if I want to get my cock out. Sweet shop might get me in trouble

Not really.

Clubs can be intimidating for a single male unless your very well hung.

They really can be intimidating, it's not all about being well hung either. Once you've done it though, you've done it

A single guy on his own in a club has to stand out and the main way is to have a massive chopper "

True. Nobody says no to a man carrying a large axe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You've gotta be in it to win it OP

... oh, he left!"

And he didnt even take his mug or photos of his twelve illegitimate kids, off his desk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wanders in read OP thread..

Wanders out ...

Sometimes it's better to just say nothing...

Sits on my rock and watches the waves...

Sometimes the OP says it all for you

" too much like hard work"

Says it all. That sentence right there

I do love a tastefully written pre unlos thread

A pre unlos thread

You have just created the next big thing, right there

Love it"

I'm here to serve

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Seriously though. I could send out a dozen messages and not get 1 reply. Ive even looked for the worse profile i could possibly find just to see if i get a reply and still no luck. I mean it's a site for people to meet up for sex. Surely it should be easier to hook up lol

When was the last time you went to a club or social event?

Effort required. If you don't want to make an effort, you may be better off using a site where you pay for the privilege of sex.

This is a Swingers site NOT a club site.

See club section

Not all profiles are in club section

No, but there are these things called swingers clubs, where swingers go. Granted not all people go there, however... it's a good place to meet swingers. If you wanted sweets would you go to a car showroom or a sweet shop?

Depends on if I want to get my cock out. Sweet shop might get me in trouble

Not really.

Clubs can be intimidating for a single male unless your very well hung.

They really can be intimidating, it's not all about being well hung either. Once you've done it though, you've done it

A single guy on his own in a club has to stand out and the main way is to have a massive chopper

True. Nobody says no to a man carrying a large axe."

Good job I'm somebody then, and not nobody

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seriously though. I could send out a dozen messages and not get 1 reply. Ive even looked for the worse profile i could possibly find just to see if i get a reply and still no luck. I mean it's a site for people to meet up for sex. Surely it should be easier to hook up lol

When was the last time you went to a club or social event?

Effort required. If you don't want to make an effort, you may be better off using a site where you pay for the privilege of sex.

This is a Swingers site NOT a club site.

See club section

Not all profiles are in club section

No, but there are these things called swingers clubs, where swingers go. Granted not all people go there, however... it's a good place to meet swingers. If you wanted sweets would you go to a car showroom or a sweet shop?

Depends on if I want to get my cock out. Sweet shop might get me in trouble

Not really.

Clubs can be intimidating for a single male unless your very well hung.

They really can be intimidating, it's not all about being well hung either. Once you've done it though, you've done it

A single guy on his own in a club has to stand out and the main way is to have a massive chopper

True. Nobody says no to a man carrying a large axe."

Was he a guitarist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seriously though. I could send out a dozen messages and not get 1 reply. Ive even looked for the worse profile i could possibly find just to see if i get a reply and still no luck. I mean it's a site for people to meet up for sex. Surely it should be easier to hook up lol

When was the last time you went to a club or social event?

Effort required. If you don't want to make an effort, you may be better off using a site where you pay for the privilege of sex.

This is a Swingers site NOT a club site.

See club section

Not all profiles are in club section

No, but there are these things called swingers clubs, where swingers go. Granted not all people go there, however... it's a good place to meet swingers. If you wanted sweets would you go to a car showroom or a sweet shop?

Depends on if I want to get my cock out. Sweet shop might get me in trouble

Not really.

Clubs can be intimidating for a single male unless your very well hung.

They really can be intimidating, it's not all about being well hung either. Once you've done it though, you've done it

A single guy on his own in a club has to stand out and the main way is to have a massive chopper

True. Nobody says no to a man carrying a large axe.

Good job I'm somebody then, and not nobody "

There goes that idea. Was trying to figure out how to smuggle the axe into a club... back to the frock idea....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not exactly good looking, but I find a sense of humour works wonders

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do so many op's post a topic for discussion then leave??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just don't get this site. Unless you look like a professional model I can't see how you even get to meet women on here. I'm a decent looking bloke, friendly up for most things yet I dont even get a reply of any of the women on here.

some of the men i have met arent professional models, professional pain in the asses maybe but "

Have we met?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At least he left. How many men are on here who say they can't get anyone to meet them. All they're doing is swelling the numbers of men and getting in the way of the men everyone wants to meet.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Why do so many op's post a topic for discussion then leave?? "
attention seeking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do so many op's post a topic for discussion then leave?? "

Because he wasn't getting any response from his messages. It's the sensible thing to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do so many op's post a topic for discussion then leave?? "

Probably cause they don’t expect a lot of sarcastic answers back, followed by shameless flirting between other members? Maybe wrong though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do so many op's post a topic for discussion then leave?? attention seeking"

He left. He won't be receiving any attention..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do so many op's post a topic for discussion then leave?? "

Disillusionment. Apparently being a decent respectful guy who puts some effort in so the ladies of fab get something out of the deal is hard work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do so many op's post a topic for discussion then leave??

Probably cause they don’t expect a lot of sarcastic answers back, followed by shameless flirting between other members? Maybe wrong though "

What DO they expect?

Ive often wondered

Post a huge whine, to what ends?

Do they expect sympathy? Empathy? Shit loads of women msging them?

Because they all follow the same pattern

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow he didn't last long! "

A lot of men would be happy to last over an hour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At least he left. How many men are on here who say they can't get anyone to meet them. All they're doing is swelling the numbers of men and getting in the way of the men everyone wants to meet. "

Ha. Look who's talking! You have also been swelling the members of men...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do so many op's post a topic for discussion then leave??

Probably cause they don’t expect a lot of sarcastic answers back, followed by shameless flirting between other members? Maybe wrong though

What DO they expect?

Ive often wondered

Post a huge whine, to what ends?

Do they expect sympathy? Empathy? Shit loads of women msging them?

Because they all follow the same pattern"

Unfortunately that’s what they do expect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do so many op's post a topic for discussion then leave??

Probably cause they don’t expect a lot of sarcastic answers back, followed by shameless flirting between other members? Maybe wrong though

What DO they expect?

Ive often wondered

Post a huge whine, to what ends?

Do they expect sympathy? Empathy? Shit loads of women msging them?

Because they all follow the same pattern"

They expect a queue of grateful women lined up arojnd the block to be so long that the police have send in crowd control...

Aka knee deep in clunge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do so many op's post a topic for discussion then leave??

Probably cause they don’t expect a lot of sarcastic answers back, followed by shameless flirting between other members? Maybe wrong though

What DO they expect?

Ive often wondered

Post a huge whine, to what ends?

Do they expect sympathy? Empathy? Shit loads of women msging them?

Because they all follow the same pattern

They expect a queue of grateful women lined up arojnd the block to be so long that the police have send in crowd control...

Aka knee deep in clunge "

It's a guilt trip. He basically accused women of being superficial and only being worried about looks. Maybe he was hoping for someone so desperate to prove him wrong that they would shag him to prove a point.

Either it didn't work and he left or it worked so well his diary is booked for the foreseeable future and he has no need for fab...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got no fight in him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Got no fight in him. "
Bet he will be back under new name .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At least he left. How many men are on here who say they can't get anyone to meet them. All they're doing is swelling the numbers of men and getting in the way of the men everyone wants to meet.

Ha. Look who's talking! You have also been swelling the members of men... "

Hahaha, excellent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seriously though. I could send out a dozen messages and not get 1 reply. Ive even looked for the worse profile i could possibly find just to see if i get a reply and still no luck. I mean it's a site for people to meet up for sex. Surely it should be easier to hook up lol

When was the last time you went to a club or social event?

Effort required. If you don't want to make an effort, you may be better off using a site where you pay for the privilege of sex.

This is a Swingers site NOT a club site.

See club section

Not all profiles are in club section

No, but there are these things called swingers clubs, where swingers go. Granted not all people go there, however... it's a good place to meet swingers. If you wanted sweets would you go to a car showroom or a sweet shop?

Depends on if I want to get my cock out. Sweet shop might get me in trouble

Not really.

Clubs can be intimidating for a single male unless your very well hung.

They really can be intimidating, it's not all about being well hung either. Once you've done it though, you've done it

A single guy on his own in a club has to stand out and the main way is to have a massive chopper

Or a great personality, decent banter and be respectful "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im attractive to some - but not attractive to many others. Still had some wonderful times courtesy of fab. Sometimes that's how it goes.

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