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"Partly due to past troubles/hang ups, partly because I like it that way and partly because I haven't found the right woman yet. Although it's mostly because I'm usually too busy to find time to give a potential girlfriend the time she deserves. Work, Uni and Sleep all take up most of my day and the little free time I get is spend trying to find the right woman. Never know my luck though ![]() when do you have free time ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Well, this may sound weird, but; I'm sexually comfortable around girls in the setting of swinging, socials etc But I'm also kinda shy... ![]() ![]() well good luck with meeting your lioness | |||
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"Partly due to past troubles/hang ups, partly because I like it that way and partly because I haven't found the right woman yet. Although it's mostly because I'm usually too busy to find time to give a potential girlfriend the time she deserves. Work, Uni and Sleep all take up most of my day and the little free time I get is spend trying to find the right woman. Never know my luck though ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Once in a blue moon hon. Going to have a lot to catch up on once I graduate. | |||
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"Are you single because you honestly like it that way, unlucky in love, have a commitment phobia or other reasons? " Yes. ![]() | |||
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"Partly due to past troubles/hang ups, partly because I like it that way and partly because I haven't found the right woman yet. Although it's mostly because I'm usually too busy to find time to give a potential girlfriend the time she deserves. Work, Uni and Sleep all take up most of my day and the little free time I get is spend trying to find the right woman. Never know my luck though ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() . He doesn't! ![]() | |||
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"You could be single today, but who knows what tomorrow is going to bring? I met Kate on a blind date when I was 24. I wasn't looking for a relationship, but it didn't take long for one to develop. ![]() Yes Jack, that is my way of thinking, you just never know what or who is round the corner ![]() | |||
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"Dating is such a pain in the ass. " But you do have anal ticked on your profile..... | |||
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" when do you have free time ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() It's going to be even worse when Uni starts again. My free time will be spentt with my head buried in a book trying to catch up on work rather than stuck between someones thighs... shame | |||
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" when do you have free time ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() . Have you ear-marked the weekend of 03/04 Dec yet? That's the Christmas Party weekend at Chams. ![]() | |||
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" when do you have free time ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I'll pop it in my diary | |||
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"i am of the belief that if the right one comes along then the right one comes along.. in the meantime i am having fun meet great people along the way... ![]() ![]() I have to admit I am of a similar mindset as yourself Fabio! ![]() | |||
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"I dont have the time to dedicate to make a successful relationship. I would like one in a few years time perhaps Miss cuddles and waking up next to someone though" I guess that's similar with me, I don't have the patience, or time. I'm not looking for a relationship just now, but will rule out nothing. ![]() | |||
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"I dont have the time to dedicate to make a successful relationship. I would like one in a few years time perhaps Miss cuddles and waking up next to someone though" I know exactly what you mean. I figure if a relationship is worth being in it deserves for me to put in the effort to make time for it. I do miss cuddles and falling asleep with someone next to me. | |||
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"Dating is such a pain in the ass. I have little tolerance when I get mucked about and can't be bothered with mind games. I think I will stick to the benefits of having great sex without the hassle. " dating is how you get to no some 1. Love to date again met some 1 a few weeks ago but wasn't going to work she had problems with her ex and kids. and she was not looking for long term so were staying as friends which is better than nothing | |||
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"I dont have the time to dedicate to make a successful relationship. I would like one in a few years time perhaps Miss cuddles and waking up next to someone though I know exactly what you mean. I figure if a relationship is worth being in it deserves for me to put in the effort to make time for it. I do miss cuddles and falling asleep with someone next to me. " Me and the ex split because he cheated on me, but i feel it was my fault. If i spent the time with him and we talked more i like to think it would have lasted. Spending every minute with my newborn was more important to me and i guess i neglected his needs. If/When i date again i need to put more time aside to dedicate to the relationship | |||
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"I don't understand the people who say that they don't have the time for a relationship. Time is always constant, you just need to prioritize your life. A good relationship is the most rewarding thing that two people can share. I know we are lucky, but I wish you could all share our experience ![]() Ok, I don't have time because I have other priorities, and they matter to me more than a relationship right now. ![]() | |||
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"I dont have the time to dedicate to make a successful relationship. I would like one in a few years time perhaps Miss cuddles and waking up next to someone though I know exactly what you mean. I figure if a relationship is worth being in it deserves for me to put in the effort to make time for it. I do miss cuddles and falling asleep with someone next to me. Me and the ex split because he cheated on me, but i feel it was my fault. If i spent the time with him and we talked more i like to think it would have lasted. Spending every minute with my newborn was more important to me and i guess i neglected his needs. If/When i date again i need to put more time aside to dedicate to the relationship" I'd have thought a newborns needs came before his. Relationships are hard work and both people need to put the effort in but they also need to realise that sometimes their needs can't be fulfilled simply because something else comes along that takes precedence. Having needs is no real excuse for cheating though and that doesn't make it your fault. | |||
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"Having been on my own for 5 years, I had absolutely no intention of starting another relationship and certainly wasn't looking for one... Famous last words eh!! ![]() ![]() ![]() Gotta watch the small ones! ![]() | |||
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"Dating is such a pain in the ass. But you do have anal ticked on your profile....." Thanks for taking the time to read my profile lol ![]() | |||
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"I've been single for a very long time... my past relationships have all been pretty much a disaster. The last major relationship I had ended because I found out that he had a wife he forgot to mention. By that time I was in way over my head and walking away from that was one of the hardest things I've ever done. I'm pretty sure that has had an impact on my desire to get involved with anyone else but there are lots of reasons for me remaining single. I've never lived with anyone and I'm so independent and selfish now that would be a struggle. I'm also incredibly fussy and wouldn't settle for less than a match. I've never met my match. I also can't imagine having sex with the same person for the rest of my life. I need the male version of me. I suspect he doesn't exist so I potter along quite happy in the knowledge that I only have to suit myself. I'm not saying that if that match came along I wouldn't give it a go... I guess if you fall in love then compromise is the name of the game and if the right person came along for me then he'd be happy to explore stuff with me. I'm not holding my breath, nor am I looking. I like my life, I'm content in my skin and I have no-one else to please but me. It works. ![]() You'd think he'd have found a way to drop that one into the conversation somehow... Having a wife is kind of a first date sort of revelation... must have slipped his mind ![]() | |||
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"You'd think he'd have found a way to drop that one into the conversation somehow... Having a wife is kind of a first date sort of revelation... must have slipped his mind ![]() He did eventually. It was too late for me but I did what I thought was right and walked. It hurt. A lot. It's no excuse but he was hugely unhappy and is no longer married to her. We're still in touch but I haven't seen him in years. | |||
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"To use an analogy based on my favorite food- I have the cake. Swinging gives me the icing. A cherry would be the relationship!" i like it but who gets to eat it ![]() ![]() | |||
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"i am of the belief that if the right one comes along then the right one comes along.. in the meantime i am having fun meet great people along the way... ![]() ![]() ![]() . Likewise! Although I would not say never never, the chances of someone who can understand and fit into my way of life is slim. I shall play with Mr. Wrongs until Mr. Right comes and sweeps me off my feet! ![]() | |||
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"I dont have the time to dedicate to make a successful relationship. I would like one in a few years time perhaps Miss cuddles and waking up next to someone though I know exactly what you mean. I figure if a relationship is worth being in it deserves for me to put in the effort to make time for it. I do miss cuddles and falling asleep with someone next to me. " . Get a cat or a dog, or one of each as I do! ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I don't understand the people who say that they don't have the time for a relationship. Time is always constant, you just need to prioritize your life. A good relationship is the most rewarding thing that two people can share. I know we are lucky, but I wish you could all share our experience ![]() Except Jack when you are doing 2 jobs, time is incredibly limited and there is nothing I can do about that. Having the time to look for that special someone is nigh on impossible and I would never want anyone I met to think I might be using them to clear my debts, as they are mine alone | |||
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"I’m single because I can be…. it’s a place I am content to be. I enjoy having my own space and only my agenda to consider. I am independent enough and confident enough to enjoy my life with or without a partner. People come along who complement the way I choose to live and at those times I am not single. It’s not something I give much thought to in terms of planning, I am happy either way. I have no baggage from being fucked over by an ex or two. I don’t have trust issues. I don’t need a partner to feel fulfilled in life. I don’t need a partner for financial security. I don’t need a partner to plug some emotional gap. And… I have to admit after spending the majority of the last two weeks in shared bed space, this weekend I have so much enjoyed being able to sprawl out across the bed. " Very well said, that sums me up too. | |||
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"I don't understand the people who say that they don't have the time for a relationship. Time is always constant, you just need to prioritize your life. A good relationship is the most rewarding thing that two people can share. I know we are lucky, but I wish you could all share our experience ![]() Being a single parent is pretty full time. I get one night without my daughter every 2 weeks thanks to my grandparents. What man would wait two weeks between dates? and minimum of 4 weeks without sex? (i dont sleep with a guy on a first date) Im not happy to introduce my little one to men, and likewise wouldnt have someone relatively new around to my flat with her in bed either. | |||
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"i am of the belief that if the right one comes along then the right one comes along.. in the meantime i am having fun meet great people along the way... ![]() ![]() Roger that! I'm the same really, I love being single but if the right "one" came along I'd rethink singledom. I won't "settle" though because I enjoy the freedom I have and it would take a hell of a lot to convince me being with one person could beat that. I'm very specific about what I want and not very good at compromising lol so I suspect I'll be staying single for a long time to come ![]() | |||
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"i am of the belief that if the right one comes along then the right one comes along.. in the meantime i am having fun meet great people along the way... ![]() ![]() ![]() me tae | |||
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