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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That I only give people one chance? If they let me down I won't rearrange? Am I being to harsh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope ....... one no-show their fault .... two no-shows your fault

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nope ....... one no-show their fault .... two no-shows your fault "

My thought exactly

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest

No it's right. The first time at least.

After you've met people a handful of times there's no suspicion if they cancel. But they'll be able to give you a reason and an explanation and they'll be no hard feelings.

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By *eather_Loves_SexWoman
over a year ago

Halfway Between London and Brighton

I give a second chance but if they blow that then I’m done!

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

It's not bad, you play it how you like. If someone let's me down I'll weigh it all up before I decide whether to rearrange or not.

Can I smell bs?

Is he really hot?

Does he tick my boxes?

All that stuff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No it's right. The first time at least.

After you've met people a handful of times there's no suspicion if they cancel. But they'll be able to give you a reason and an explanation and they'll be no hard feelings."

Disagree with this. Someone who I thought was becoming regular became a little too frequent with last-minute excuses so I told him where to go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope ....... one no-show their fault .... two no-shows your fault "

Exactly this.

I don't give any second chances, and block immediately.

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest


"No it's right. The first time at least.

After you've met people a handful of times there's no suspicion if they cancel. But they'll be able to give you a reason and an explanation and they'll be no hard feelings.

Disagree with this. Someone who I thought was becoming regular became a little too frequent with last-minute excuses so I told him where to go. "

That's why the OP said one chance. If it's multiple excuses without a meet its obvious you're not doing it for them..

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"That I only give people one chance? If they let me down I won't rearrange? Am I being to harsh? "

I'm too soft, I do give people I like more chances - but I have a feeling if they let you down once they tend to do so again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want to say no and I wish I could toughen up! But I’m just a sucker for some folks and I think that’s why I end up like ‘sure. Here’s a whole stack of chances. Mess me around.’

I need to change that haha!

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"No it's right. The first time at least.

After you've met people a handful of times there's no suspicion if they cancel. But they'll be able to give you a reason and an explanation and they'll be no hard feelings.

Disagree with this. Someone who I thought was becoming regular became a little too frequent with last-minute excuses so I told him where to go.

That's why the OP said one chance. If it's multiple excuses without a meet its obvious you're not doing it for them.."

Yeah, and that's a huge turnoff for me - if someone rearranges on me, even for perfectly legitimate reasons, I am never as keen as I would have been.

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By *arnayguyMan
over a year ago

Durham Tees

No, unless you expect to be treated differently when you need to rearrange.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope definitely not wrong. Time is too precious to waste.

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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago

Traffic land


"It's not bad, you play it how you like. If someone let's me down I'll weigh it all up before I decide whether to rearrange or not.

Can I smell bs?

Is he really hot?

Does he tick my boxes?

All that stuff "

This is me too! Only fallen foul of it once so far.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That I only give people one chance? If they let me down I won't rearrange? Am I being to harsh? "

No, I do the same after giving them second and third chances, now it's own stroke unless there's a damn good reason, like his cock fell off on the way to meet me. Or something equally traumatic

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

I would always look at reason and circumstances.Sometimes life happens .

Someone we already no,we wouldnt write off.

If it seems a flaky reason or they make no attempt to rearrange etc,then yes we would probably give no more chances.

Miss

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