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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

hi im in need of some genuine helpful advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well we don't know what with so how can we help.....

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Genuinel and helpful are a possibility but may depend on what?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How can we help op?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell us what you want advice on then

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

my travk record with women is terrible as in approching them or knowing what to say. ive found out im being set uo at a friends wedding (which i wasnt supposed to know ). its got me in a horrible wreck . what should i do? how do i go about it being confident

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"my travk record with women is terrible as in approching them or knowing what to say. ive found out im being set uo at a friends wedding (which i wasnt supposed to know ). its got me in a horrible wreck . what should i do? how do i go about it being confident "

Pretend that you're confident.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Phew sorry mate I'm out on this one

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"my travk record with women is terrible as in approching them or knowing what to say. ive found out im being set uo at a friends wedding (which i wasnt supposed to know ). its got me in a horrible wreck . what should i do? how do i go about it being confident

Pretend that you're confident."

i wish it was that easy for me its been a life time of no confidence always being shot down but then being the guy girls want to tell their problems about and moan about the partner

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By *aul1973HullMan
over a year ago

East Hull

If you try to pretend you're something you're not you'll be crap at it.

Be yourself.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Just be yourself - think about your strengths and what is positive about you - keep telling yourself about them and then use those strengths when you meet someone

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

If you genuinely don't want this to happen tell the people involved. I don't think it's a nice thing to do to you or the woman.

In general though once you realise that women are more or less like men in most respects and don't view them asa different species you might find it easier to chat. If you do go ahead at the wedding sort out a few topics of conversation beforehand. Ask her about her job, does she have any hobbies and don't respond to her questions with just a yes or no. Just see it as an opportunity to chat to someone with absolutely no other agenda.

Whatever happens...good luck.

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