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why do young guys get such little attention on here?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hiya just wondering why young guys get so little on here. Speaking from trying and failing

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By *aul1973HullMan
over a year ago

East Hull

Supply & demand.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Lots of the ladies and couples on here have children in their early 20s. Many people aren't keen on the idea of having sex with people the same age as their children. The likelihood that there will be a lack of experience may be a factor too.

Nita

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

because nine times out of ten single guys pester couples and wank on cam all the time there so predictable and boring

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your age may not be the issue OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems like us young guys get a bad rep.

I haven't received a message from anyone in my time here, and even though I put effort into my messages, 9 times out of 10 they are deleted or unread.

Perhaps it's the nature of the website and its popularity with the older folk. I don't know but I'll continue to do my best and see what happens.

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By *ustafasinghMan
over a year ago

leicester


"Your age may not be the issue OP"

I find a lot of people I talk to or spoken with don't like my age. But to be fair no luck what so ever so what do I know haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Seems like us young guys get a bad rep.

I haven't received a message from anyone in my time here, and even though I put effort into my messages, 9 times out of 10 they are deleted or unread.

Perhaps it's the nature of the website and its popularity with

the older folk. I don't know but I'll continue to do my best and see what happens. "

Yeah some rep dont know why tho? im not even that young

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At 21 are you not out and about meeting people.?

You shouldn't need a website.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your age may not be the issue OP"

if not age then what?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it's not necessarily your age...single men only dont do well due to crap profiles....exactly the same as older guys who dont bother with a profile..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hiya just wondering why young guys get so little on here. Speaking from trying and failing"

As my eldest son is 37 its your age that would stop me messaging you or whatever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lots of the ladies and couples on here have children in their early 20s. Many people aren't keen on the idea of having sex with people the same age as their children. The likelihood that there will be a lack of experience may be a factor too.

Nita"

Totally agree with this. Unfortunately I look at 21 yr olds and think they should be after my daughter not me! Plus experience is also a concern.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your age may not be the issue OP

if not age then what?"

Let's me honest here... 21 year olds are not know for longevity xx

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By *ustafasinghMan
over a year ago

leicester


"Your age may not be the issue OP

if not age then what?

Let's me honest here... 21 year olds are not know for longevity xx "

Saying that, I can cum and still fuck for hours and have multiple times where I can cum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your age may not be the issue OP

if not age then what?

Let's me honest here... 21 year olds are not know for longevity xx

Saying that, I can cum and still fuck for hours and have multiple times where I can cum"

I was talking from previous experience is all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your age may not be the issue OP

if not age then what?

Let's me honest here... 21 year olds are not know for longevity xx "

but some of them have cracking recovery time abilties!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

well for me its not a question of how long i can last im pretty experienced

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

The young fresh faced look does not do it for me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your age may not be the issue OP

if not age then what?

Let's me honest here... 21 year olds are not know for longevity xx

but some of them have cracking recovery time abilties!!"

Its the get up and go attitude we have i guess!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your age may not be the issue OP

if not age then what?

Let's me honest here... 21 year olds are not know for longevity xx

but some of them have cracking recovery time abilties!!"

Plus we don't get tired as quickly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your age may not be the issue OP

if not age then what?

Let's me honest here... 21 year olds are not know for longevity xx

but some of them have cracking recovery time abilties!!

Its the get up and go attitude we have i guess!"

yes, but you need a lot more than that to grab my attention..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree totally - another point is that a woman who has had kids and over 35 is not going to have a pert, tight body of a 25 year old ...and like my missus, is therefore very conscious of this fact, consequently not not happy to meet a 25 year old lad with Adonis like body.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont have anything in common with a 21yr old.

And as others have said, alot of the older people on here have children of a similar age

I would also be concerned about lack of maturity and experience

I dont want to find myself having to 'teach'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hiya just wondering why young guys get so little on here. Speaking from trying and failing"

It's practice for when you are old guys and still aren't getting any...

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Agree totally - another point is that a woman who has had kids and over 35 is not going to have a pert, tight body of a 25 year old ...and like my missus, is therefore very conscious of this fact, consequently not not happy to meet a 25 year old lad with Adonis like body."

Well that's a slight generalisation there methinks! Dare I say it but some over 35's are in better shape than some 25 year olds.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As I said before its a bit of a paradigm for us.

We have little experience because we're young. Women don't want to fuck a man with little experience so you are stuck in a loop. This is why men lie about it, otherwise they'd get nothing.

I would fuck women my age but they won't fuck me so fuck them. Older women it is. I haven't had sex in 3 years and don't get messages or replies so it's hard work.

I think it's important not to pedestalise women and make them the centre of your life. I mean, if you're young you should be all about self improvement and doing things, socialising and working hard etc.

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Young as in ??

A guy who is mid 40's is younger than me or do you mean really young OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont have anything in common with a 21yr old.

And as others have said, alot of the older people on here have children of a similar age

I would also be concerned about lack of maturity and experience

I dont want to find myself having to 'teach' "

dont have kids..love younger men..but not ones that need teaching..im gonna be too old to be on here soon, so ive not got time for that!

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"As I said before its a bit of a paradigm for us.

We have little experience because we're young. Women don't want to fuck a man with little experience so you are stuck in a loop. This is why men lie about it, otherwise they'd get nothing.

I would fuck women my age but they won't fuck me so fuck them. Older women it is. I haven't had sex in 3 years and don't get messages or replies so it's hard work.

I think it's important not to pedestalise women and make them the centre of your life. I mean, if you're young you should be all about self improvement and doing things, socialising and working hard etc.

"

Hang on a tick so you're only looking for an older woman because woman your own age don't want you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i agree with women that have kids same age not wanting to i understand that.But experince and actual sex would be better with a more energetic young guy who can go longer physically

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i agree with women that have kids same age not wanting to i understand that.But experince and actual sex would be better with a more energetic young guy who can go longer physically "

Really? Based on what evidence?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hang on a tick so you're only looking for an older woman because woman your own age don't want you? "

No. Like I said, I haven't had sex in three years. I have an equally hard time attracting older women.

Women are difficult for me and I just want to get laid (fuck me right?). The problem with the younger women is that they're so afraid of behaving and being labelled as "sluts" for sleeping with a guy that you must pass her last minute resistance and anti slut defences. Just so she can feel better about herself for having sex.

At least on fab there is less bullshit, and we are all here for a reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i agree with women that have kids same age not wanting to i understand that.But experince and actual sex would be better with a more energetic young guy who can go longer physically "

no. not necessarily..it may work in theory, but in actuality 'going on longer' is not always a good thing!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

aha okay so is it better to last 10 seconds!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"aha okay so is it better to last 10 seconds!"

that's not what i said...and your response proves my point exactly...

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

It's all about being on the right page mentally.

We can usually tell by the text in the first message.

Today's younger guys are lazy and use text speak (instant no thank you).

We use lol etc but a m8 and l8r, need we say more?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

What do you mean by attention? Lack of replies and meets?

That is how it is for single men generally. Less experienced guys are potential less interesting to others too.

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"because nine times out of ten single guys pester couples and wank on cam all the time there so predictable and boring"

Glad i'm the ten lol

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East


"Hiya just wondering why young guys get so little on here. Speaking from trying and failing

It's practice for when you are old guys and still aren't getting any..."

Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At 21 you you're pretty much still a child to someone over 40.

I was a twat at 21, not mature, I can see why it's not appealing to the majority.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not if there is someone who has a unique selling point. Otherwise it is just another lonely single man

- Mrs. J -

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea


"Hiya just wondering why young guys get so little on here. Speaking from trying and failing"

I'm nearly 30 and i don't get anything

Never have had anything eather

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hiya just wondering why young guys get so little on here. Speaking from trying and failing"
Imo people may see it as if you need the web to get laid at your age there's something wrong with you. Just saying they MIGHT think that

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By *ounger seeking helpMan
over a year ago

Wednesbury

I agree also I came here to full fill fantasy's with older women, I'm still to talk with someone let alone meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feel like most of them are attention seekers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hang on a tick so you're only looking for an older woman because woman your own age don't want you?

No. Like I said, I haven't had sex in three years. I have an equally hard time attracting older women.

Women are difficult for me and I just want to get laid (fuck me right?). The problem with the younger women is that they're so afraid of behaving and being labelled as "sluts" for sleeping with a guy that you must pass her last minute resistance and anti slut defences. Just so she can feel better about herself for having sex.

At least on fab there is less bullshit, and we are all here for a reason. "
Wow really good attitude you just want to get laid...and that is the attitude of probably 98% of the young guys in this site its not a fking get laid site female replying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s because of age and experience mostly. And how others think how mature you might not be.

If you do text speak you might as well forget it.

In my experience what plays a factor is my age, height,

And looks wise, as apparently I look younger than I am and get asked ID when I meet.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I'm young at heart if that's any good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just a thought. I've not been here long but it seems like there's an overwhelming sense of entitlement amongst younger men. Yes it's a 'sex' site, but you're still talking to real people. People have preferences, if they're not interested in younger men thats up to them. Work on how you present yourself, what do I mean by this? Don't message people expecting an outcome, women can sense desperation from a mile away. Address each situation as you would if you were standing face to face. Be polite, respectful and capable of holding a mature conversation besides "wanna fuk?". Last but not least, lose the dick pics! If you can't woo her with your mind you won't stand a chance in the bedroom.

Just my two cents on the issue. Hope this helped

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id rather not be doing what other young people are doing thank you, id rather be swinging and staying safe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have loads of experience alot more then most older people, im enjoying my life why should it stop because of my age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i have loads of experience alot more then most older people, im enjoying my life why should it stop because of my age."

To quote Samuel L Jackson Abso fucking luteley

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By *JC003Man
over a year ago

Welling, London

Maturity can be an issue. Once you’ve had a meet and people verify you, it usually picks up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ageist. Us older guys can get no attention too you know!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a thought. I've not been here long but it seems like there's an overwhelming sense of entitlement amongst younger men. Yes it's a 'sex' site, but you're still talking to real people. People have preferences, if they're not interested in younger men thats up to them. Work on how you present yourself, what do I mean by this? Don't message people expecting an outcome, women can sense desperation from a mile away. Address each situation as you would if you were standing face to face. Be polite, respectful and capable of holding a mature conversation besides "wanna fuk?". Last but not least, lose the dick pics! If you can't woo her with your mind you won't stand a chance in the bedroom.

Just my two cents on the issue. Hope this helped "

Excellent advice to any guy really, just a shame most seem to ignore this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 46 and had always refused to meet guys a lot younger than me until recently that is. I met a 28 yr old who was mature, intelligent, funny and we had an amazing night and he'll definitely be back.

That doesn't mean I want messages from anyone reading this thanks!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Hiya just wondering why young guys get so little on here. Speaking from trying and failing"

"Get so little?!!" What is it you think you're entitled to?

You have set age limits yet question the choices others make as it excludes you?

A word to the wise: you're on a site where young, fit as fuck guys outnumber. It's a veritable smorgasbord of delight. You have to bring something to the table other than youth.

Contact those looking for you and get over those not!

Good luck!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Hang on a tick so you're only looking for an older woman because woman your own age don't want you?

No. Like I said, I haven't had sex in three years. I have an equally hard time attracting older women.

Women are difficult for me and I just want to get laid (fuck me right?). The problem with the younger women is that they're so afraid of behaving and being labelled as "sluts" for sleeping with a guy that you must pass her last minute resistance and anti slut defences. Just so she can feel better about herself for having sex.

At least on fab there is less bullshit, and we are all here for a reason. Wow really good attitude you just want to get laid...and that is the attitude of probably 98% of the young guys in this site its not a fking get laid site female replying "

Sorry: what did he say that was wrong?

We're all here to fulfil our personal fantasies. Some are seeking regular playmates, friends etc while others want one offs.

Someone doesn't have an "attitude" because their way of playing differs from your own!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hang on a tick so you're only looking for an older woman because woman your own age don't want you?

No. Like I said, I haven't had sex in three years. I have an equally hard time attracting older women.

Women are difficult for me and I just want to get laid (fuck me right?). The problem with the younger women is that they're so afraid of behaving and being labelled as "sluts" for sleeping with a guy that you must pass her last minute resistance and anti slut defences. Just so she can feel better about herself for having sex.

At least on fab there is less bullshit, and we are all here for a reason. Wow really good attitude you just want to get laid...and that is the attitude of probably 98% of the young guys in this site its not a fking get laid site female replying

Sorry: what did he say that was wrong?

We're all here to fulfil our personal fantasies. Some are seeking regular playmates, friends etc while others want one offs.

Someone doesn't have an "attitude" because their way of playing differs from your own!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hang on a tick so you're only looking for an older woman because woman your own age don't want you?

No. Like I said, I haven't had sex in three years. I have an equally hard time attracting older women.

Women are difficult for me and I just want to get laid (fuck me right?). The problem with the younger women is that they're so afraid of behaving and being labelled as "sluts" for sleeping with a guy that you must pass her last minute resistance and anti slut defences. Just so she can feel better about herself for having sex.

At least on fab there is less bullshit, and we are all here for a reason. Wow really good attitude you just want to get laid...and that is the attitude of probably 98% of the young guys in this site its not a fking get laid site female replying "

Umm, I'm here to get laid thanks.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I'm still confused as to how someone can be 21, not had sex in 3 years but has plenty of experience. I'm picturing a pubescent Duracell bunny whilst doing revision (that revision being porn)

My issues are maturity (emotional and social) expectation, entitlement, the fact that I'm almost double that age. That's like me fucking an 80 yr old, no ta.

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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain

Bumping to read later.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm still confused as to how someone can be 21, not had sex in 3 years but has plenty of experience. I'm picturing a pubescent Duracell bunny whilst doing revision (that revision being porn)

My issues are maturity (emotional and social) expectation, entitlement, the fact that I'm almost double that age. That's like me fucking an 80 yr old, no ta."

Haha kind of puts it into perspective

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha some comments make me laugh!! . Go out there enjoy yourself be yourself been confident in yourself is key .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hiya just wondering why young guys get so little on here. Speaking from trying and failing"

You could try a few more pictures, ? Your profile is a bit bland to!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel the same bro not sure I'm g ina get laid here but as long as I can chat and banter I'll settle for that it's all about the impact and impression you make

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try being 50 lol

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hang on a tick so you're only looking for an older woman because woman your own age don't want you?

No. Like I said, I haven't had sex in three years. I have an equally hard time attracting older women.

Women are difficult for me and I just want to get laid (fuck me right?). The problem with the younger women is that they're so afraid of behaving and being labelled as "sluts" for sleeping with a guy that you must pass her last minute resistance and anti slut defences. Just so she can feel better about herself for having sex.

At least on fab there is less bullshit, and we are all here for a reason. Wow really good attitude you just want to get laid...and that is the attitude of probably 98% of the young guys in this site its not a fking get laid site female replying

Sorry: what did he say that was wrong?

We're all here to fulfil our personal fantasies. Some are seeking regular playmates, friends etc while others want one offs.

Someone doesn't have an "attitude" because their way of playing differs from your own!"
Its the way it came across *not had a shag in 3 yrs* comes here expecting instant shag a gram you can drop your knickers for anyone but I have standards thanks x

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By *rjimMan
over a year ago

nr bristol

We are fine with younger guys.

But......'most' are immature. Have no idea about manners. No idea about complimenting a woman. Cannot put full sentenses together in message...and use one word replies and textspeak.

Send fuzzy pics with sunglasses and hats on and are not prepared to meet for a social.

Add to that...you are in the middle of nowhere..lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hang on a tick so you're only looking for an older woman because woman your own age don't want you?

No. Like I said, I haven't had sex in three years. I have an equally hard time attracting older women.

Women are difficult for me and I just want to get laid (fuck me right?). The problem with the younger women is that they're so afraid of behaving and being labelled as "sluts" for sleeping with a guy that you must pass her last minute resistance and anti slut defences. Just so she can feel better about herself for having sex.

At least on fab there is less bullshit, and we are all here for a reason. Wow really good attitude you just want to get laid...and that is the attitude of probably 98% of the young guys in this site its not a fking get laid site female replying "

Oh look, typical response from a woman, demonise men for wanting to get laid. And yet lets celebrate a womans promiscuity shall we? Fuck me the irony is blinding. This site is for swingers, and is near enough the best place to get laid but lets make the men feel like shit for having normal instincts.

You know what? Fuck people like you.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax


"I feel the same bro not sure I'm g ina get laid here but as long as I can chat and banter I'll settle for that it's all about the impact and impression you make "

Good attitude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hang on a tick so you're only looking for an older woman because woman your own age don't want you?

No. Like I said, I haven't had sex in three years. I have an equally hard time attracting older women.

Women are difficult for me and I just want to get laid (fuck me right?). The problem with the younger women is that they're so afraid of behaving and being labelled as "sluts" for sleeping with a guy that you must pass her last minute resistance and anti slut defences. Just so she can feel better about herself for having sex.

At least on fab there is less bullshit, and we are all here for a reason. Wow really good attitude you just want to get laid...and that is the attitude of probably 98% of the young guys in this site its not a fking get laid site female replying

Oh look, typical response from a woman, demonise men for wanting to get laid. And yet lets celebrate a womans promiscuity shall we? Fuck me the irony is blinding. This site is for swingers, and is near enough the best place to get laid but lets make the men feel like shit for having normal instincts.

You know what? Fuck people like you. "

The irony is blinding. Maybe a woman's natural instinct is also to have sex yet you're not celebrating that and then complaining when you think that others are making men feel like shit because they want to get laid?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hang on a tick so you're only looking for an older woman because woman your own age don't want you?

No. Like I said, I haven't had sex in three years. I have an equally hard time attracting older women.

Women are difficult for me and I just want to get laid (fuck me right?). The problem with the younger women is that they're so afraid of behaving and being labelled as "sluts" for sleeping with a guy that you must pass her last minute resistance and anti slut defences. Just so she can feel better about herself for having sex.

At least on fab there is less bullshit, and we are all here for a reason. Wow really good attitude you just want to get laid...and that is the attitude of probably 98% of the young guys in this site its not a fking get laid site female replying

Sorry: what did he say that was wrong?

We're all here to fulfil our personal fantasies. Some are seeking regular playmates, friends etc while others want one offs.

Someone doesn't have an "attitude" because their way of playing differs from your own!Its the way it came across *not had a shag in 3 yrs* comes here expecting instant shag a gram you can drop your knickers for anyone but I have standards thanks x"

I think it only came across like that to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hang on a tick so you're only looking for an older woman because woman your own age don't want you?

No. Like I said, I haven't had sex in three years. I have an equally hard time attracting older women.

Women are difficult for me and I just want to get laid (fuck me right?). The problem with the younger women is that they're so afraid of behaving and being labelled as "sluts" for sleeping with a guy that you must pass her last minute resistance and anti slut defences. Just so she can feel better about herself for having sex.

At least on fab there is less bullshit, and we are all here for a reason. Wow really good attitude you just want to get laid...and that is the attitude of probably 98% of the young guys in this site its not a fking get laid site female replying

Oh look, typical response from a woman, demonise men for wanting to get laid. And yet lets celebrate a womans promiscuity shall we? Fuck me the irony is blinding. This site is for swingers, and is near enough the best place to get laid but lets make the men feel like shit for having normal instincts.

You know what? Fuck people like you. "

I have read many of your forum deposits

And I have to say, you will get nowhere on here unless you lose the chip on both your shoulders

Put stuff out there. Other humans read it

You would do well to remember that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hang on a tick so you're only looking for an older woman because woman your own age don't want you?

No. Like I said, I haven't had sex in three years. I have an equally hard time attracting older women.

Women are difficult for me and I just want to get laid (fuck me right?). The problem with the younger women is that they're so afraid of behaving and being labelled as "sluts" for sleeping with a guy that you must pass her last minute resistance and anti slut defences. Just so she can feel better about herself for having sex.

At least on fab there is less bullshit, and we are all here for a reason. Wow really good attitude you just want to get laid...and that is the attitude of probably 98% of the young guys in this site its not a fking get laid site female replying

Oh look, typical response from a woman, demonise men for wanting to get laid. And yet lets celebrate a womans promiscuity shall we? Fuck me the irony is blinding. This site is for swingers, and is near enough the best place to get laid but lets make the men feel like shit for having normal instincts.

You know what? Fuck people like you.

I have read many of your forum deposits

And I have to say, you will get nowhere on here unless you lose the chip on both your shoulders

Put stuff out there. Other humans read it

You would do well to remember that"

Do women get off on making men feel bad about themselves?

What exactly do you think I've done wrong? That I want to have sex and should be called out for it?

That I stood up to a woman?

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Join in with forum/cam chat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hang on a tick so you're only looking for an older woman because woman your own age don't want you?

No. Like I said, I haven't had sex in three years. I have an equally hard time attracting older women.

Women are difficult for me and I just want to get laid (fuck me right?). The problem with the younger women is that they're so afraid of behaving and being labelled as "sluts" for sleeping with a guy that you must pass her last minute resistance and anti slut defences. Just so she can feel better about herself for having sex.

At least on fab there is less bullshit, and we are all here for a reason. Wow really good attitude you just want to get laid...and that is the attitude of probably 98% of the young guys in this site its not a fking get laid site female replying

Oh look, typical response from a woman, demonise men for wanting to get laid. And yet lets celebrate a womans promiscuity shall we? Fuck me the irony is blinding. This site is for swingers, and is near enough the best place to get laid but lets make the men feel like shit for having normal instincts.

You know what? Fuck people like you.

I have read many of your forum deposits

And I have to say, you will get nowhere on here unless you lose the chip on both your shoulders

Put stuff out there. Other humans read it

You would do well to remember that

Do women get off on making men feel bad about themselves?

What exactly do you think I've done wrong? That I want to have sex and should be called out for it?

That I stood up to a woman? "

A little self awareness is good

A possible reason why older people arent interested in the young'uns

Lack of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hang on a tick so you're only looking for an older woman because woman your own age don't want you?

No. Like I said, I haven't had sex in three years. I have an equally hard time attracting older women.

Women are difficult for me and I just want to get laid (fuck me right?). The problem with the younger women is that they're so afraid of behaving and being labelled as "sluts" for sleeping with a guy that you must pass her last minute resistance and anti slut defences. Just so she can feel better about herself for having sex.

At least on fab there is less bullshit, and we are all here for a reason. Wow really good attitude you just want to get laid...and that is the attitude of probably 98% of the young guys in this site its not a fking get laid site female replying

Oh look, typical response from a woman, demonise men for wanting to get laid. And yet lets celebrate a womans promiscuity shall we? Fuck me the irony is blinding. This site is for swingers, and is near enough the best place to get laid but lets make the men feel like shit for having normal instincts.

You know what? Fuck people like you.

I have read many of your forum deposits

And I have to say, you will get nowhere on here unless you lose the chip on both your shoulders

Put stuff out there. Other humans read it

You would do well to remember that

Do women get off on making men feel bad about themselves?

What exactly do you think I've done wrong? That I want to have sex and should be called out for it?

That I stood up to a woman?

A little self awareness is good

A possible reason why older people arent interested in the young'uns

Lack of it"

To be fair, he was entirely misquoted. Nothing at all wrong with what he'd said, yet someone took issue with it and had a go. Can't blame the lad for biting back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hang on a tick so you're only looking for an older woman because woman your own age don't want you?

No. Like I said, I haven't had sex in three years. I have an equally hard time attracting older women.

Women are difficult for me and I just want to get laid (fuck me right?). The problem with the younger women is that they're so afraid of behaving and being labelled as "sluts" for sleeping with a guy that you must pass her last minute resistance and anti slut defences. Just so she can feel better about herself for having sex.

At least on fab there is less bullshit, and we are all here for a reason. Wow really good attitude you just want to get laid...and that is the attitude of probably 98% of the young guys in this site its not a fking get laid site female replying

Oh look, typical response from a woman, demonise men for wanting to get laid. And yet lets celebrate a womans promiscuity shall we? Fuck me the irony is blinding. This site is for swingers, and is near enough the best place to get laid but lets make the men feel like shit for having normal instincts.

You know what? Fuck people like you.

I have read many of your forum deposits

And I have to say, you will get nowhere on here unless you lose the chip on both your shoulders

Put stuff out there. Other humans read it

You would do well to remember that

Do women get off on making men feel bad about themselves?

What exactly do you think I've done wrong? That I want to have sex and should be called out for it?

That I stood up to a woman?

A little self awareness is good

A possible reason why older people arent interested in the young'uns

Lack of it

To be fair, he was entirely misquoted. Nothing at all wrong with what he'd said, yet someone took issue with it and had a go. Can't blame the lad for biting back "

I was referring to the fact that he said the reason he is interested in older ladies, is that the younger ones arent interested in him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hang on a tick so you're only looking for an older woman because woman your own age don't want you?

No. Like I said, I haven't had sex in three years. I have an equally hard time attracting older women.

Women are difficult for me and I just want to get laid (fuck me right?). The problem with the younger women is that they're so afraid of behaving and being labelled as "sluts" for sleeping with a guy that you must pass her last minute resistance and anti slut defences. Just so she can feel better about herself for having sex.

At least on fab there is less bullshit, and we are all here for a reason. Wow really good attitude you just want to get laid...and that is the attitude of probably 98% of the young guys in this site its not a fking get laid site female replying

Oh look, typical response from a woman, demonise men for wanting to get laid. And yet lets celebrate a womans promiscuity shall we? Fuck me the irony is blinding. This site is for swingers, and is near enough the best place to get laid but lets make the men feel like shit for having normal instincts.

You know what? Fuck people like you.

I have read many of your forum deposits

And I have to say, you will get nowhere on here unless you lose the chip on both your shoulders

Put stuff out there. Other humans read it

You would do well to remember that

Do women get off on making men feel bad about themselves?

What exactly do you think I've done wrong? That I want to have sex and should be called out for it?

That I stood up to a woman?

A little self awareness is good

A possible reason why older people arent interested in the young'uns

Lack of it

To be fair, he was entirely misquoted. Nothing at all wrong with what he'd said, yet someone took issue with it and had a go. Can't blame the lad for biting back

I was referring to the fact that he said the reason he is interested in older ladies, is that the younger ones arent interested in him

"

That's not what he said either. He said younger women won't fuck him so he doesn't bother with them and only concentrates on older women. But he was jumped on for that too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The 3 young lads posting. Looking at your locations that would put me off. If you text speak that would put me off. If you want instashag that would put me off. Like someone said we may also want conversation and to do other stuff clubs, Socials whatever not booty calls because as you’ve said it we aren’t 18 anymore!!!

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

What I have just replied on another thread:

Considering I never heard about this site until I was 34, how on earth are all these youngsters finding it, that is what baffles me.

When I was 20, I had 2 jobs, a mortgage and used to go out with my mates on a weekend, that how I used to meet people of the opposite sex, what is happening with todays kids? Because to us older women, that is exactly what they are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hang on a tick so you're only looking for an older woman because woman your own age don't want you?

No. Like I said, I haven't had sex in three years. I have an equally hard time attracting older women.

Women are difficult for me and I just want to get laid (fuck me right?). The problem with the younger women is that they're so afraid of behaving and being labelled as "sluts" for sleeping with a guy that you must pass her last minute resistance and anti slut defences. Just so she can feel better about herself for having sex.

At least on fab there is less bullshit, and we are all here for a reason. Wow really good attitude you just want to get laid...and that is the attitude of probably 98% of the young guys in this site its not a fking get laid site female replying

Oh look, typical response from a woman, demonise men for wanting to get laid. And yet lets celebrate a womans promiscuity shall we? Fuck me the irony is blinding. This site is for swingers, and is near enough the best place to get laid but lets make the men feel like shit for having normal instincts.

You know what? Fuck people like you.

I have read many of your forum deposits

And I have to say, you will get nowhere on here unless you lose the chip on both your shoulders

Put stuff out there. Other humans read it

You would do well to remember that

Do women get off on making men feel bad about themselves?

What exactly do you think I've done wrong? That I want to have sex and should be called out for it?

That I stood up to a woman?

A little self awareness is good

A possible reason why older people arent interested in the young'uns

Lack of it

To be fair, he was entirely misquoted. Nothing at all wrong with what he'd said, yet someone took issue with it and had a go. Can't blame the lad for biting back

I was referring to the fact that he said the reason he is interested in older ladies, is that the younger ones arent interested in him

That's not what he said either. He said younger women won't fuck him so he doesn't bother with them and only concentrates on older women. But he was jumped on for that too. "

Isnt that the same thing?

Blimey, and I thought I was pedantic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hang on a tick so you're only looking for an older woman because woman your own age don't want you?

No. Like I said, I haven't had sex in three years. I have an equally hard time attracting older women.

Women are difficult for me and I just want to get laid (fuck me right?). The problem with the younger women is that they're so afraid of behaving and being labelled as "sluts" for sleeping with a guy that you must pass her last minute resistance and anti slut defences. Just so she can feel better about herself for having sex.

At least on fab there is less bullshit, and we are all here for a reason. Wow really good attitude you just want to get laid...and that is the attitude of probably 98% of the young guys in this site its not a fking get laid site female replying

Oh look, typical response from a woman, demonise men for wanting to get laid. And yet lets celebrate a womans promiscuity shall we? Fuck me the irony is blinding. This site is for swingers, and is near enough the best place to get laid but lets make the men feel like shit for having normal instincts.

You know what? Fuck people like you.

I have read many of your forum deposits

And I have to say, you will get nowhere on here unless you lose the chip on both your shoulders

Put stuff out there. Other humans read it

You would do well to remember that

Do women get off on making men feel bad about themselves?

What exactly do you think I've done wrong? That I want to have sex and should be called out for it?

That I stood up to a woman?

A little self awareness is good

A possible reason why older people arent interested in the young'uns

Lack of it

To be fair, he was entirely misquoted. Nothing at all wrong with what he'd said, yet someone took issue with it and had a go. Can't blame the lad for biting back

I was referring to the fact that he said the reason he is interested in older ladies, is that the younger ones arent interested in him

That's not what he said either. He said younger women won't fuck him so he doesn't bother with them and only concentrates on older women. But he was jumped on for that too.

Isnt that the same thing?

Blimey, and I thought I was pedantic"

No, they're not the same thing. Try it again and you'll see the difference

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By *irky_coupleCouple
over a year ago

kirky

Well that escalated quickly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This post went left quick lesson is dont moan

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By *exymidscouple2017Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Lots of the ladies and couples on here have children in their early 20s. Many people aren't keen on the idea of having sex with people the same age as their children. The likelihood that there will be a lack of experience may be a factor too.

Nita"

You took the words right out of our mouths.

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By *exymidscouple2017Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham


"i agree with women that have kids same age not wanting to i understand that.But experince and actual sex would be better with a more energetic young guy who can go longer physically "

*Picks myself up of the floor laughing* .. really?? Wait till you're older *Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This hole post is stupid, should be removed x

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"Hang on a tick so you're only looking for an older woman because woman your own age don't want you?

No. Like I said, I haven't had sex in three years. I have an equally hard time attracting older women.

Women are difficult for me and I just want to get laid (fuck me right?). The problem with the younger women is that they're so afraid of behaving and being labelled as "sluts" for sleeping with a guy that you must pass her last minute resistance and anti slut defences. Just so she can feel better about herself for having sex.

At least on fab there is less bullshit, and we are all here for a reason. Wow really good attitude you just want to get laid...and that is the attitude of probably 98% of the young guys in this site its not a fking get laid site female replying

Sorry: what did he say that was wrong?

We're all here to fulfil our personal fantasies. Some are seeking regular playmates, friends etc while others want one offs.

Someone doesn't have an "attitude" because their way of playing differs from your own! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You want to try being 48 ! Nearly every profile I look at cuts off at 45

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought I got no attention because of my low IQ, pish patter and bag of spanners looks. Turns out it's just because I'm young, hooray!

I find it hard to meet people because I spend almost all of my time at work, not a huge amount of time to meet people when you're cutting around Europe for up to a month at a time.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"Try being 50 lol "

Yes try being 50

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being open what is a 21 -30 ish going to show us? They are still learning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Few and far between. Few women over 35 who has had 3 kids will have a body to match a young 25 year old unless they have been to the gym regularly in-between and after having had the kids.....I personally don't anyone who has kept themselves toned to that extent.

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester


"Try being 50 lol

Yes try being 50 "

It opens a whole new world of not giving a s***

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By *omesticated_VixenWoman
over a year ago

sw London


"Try being 50 lol

Yes try being 50

It opens a whole new world of not giving a s***"

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester


"Try being 50 lol

Yes try being 50

It opens a whole new world of not giving a s***

"

It's true and so liberating.

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By *omesticated_VixenWoman
over a year ago

sw London


"Try being 50 lol

Yes try being 50

It opens a whole new world of not giving a s***

It's true and so liberating."

I know, having the time of my life right now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So mich focus on age and not enough on attraction. Just sayin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've seen younger guys (youngest was 22) and had a great time with them. But they acted mature, could hold a conversation and put the effort in before we met.

So while I won't exclude guys a lot younger, it definitely comes down to maturity level and importantly attraction, as baby faces do zero for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a younger female im always happy to find younger guys!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a younger female im always happy to find younger guys!"

I find it very hard to believe you don't get a lot of attention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hiya just wondering why young guys get so little on here. Speaking from trying and failing"

They're ten a penny x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a younger female im always happy to find younger guys!

I find it very hard to believe you don't get a lot of attention "

Never said i did just saying im always happy to find guys my age in my inbox

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a younger female im always happy to find younger guys!

I find it very hard to believe you don't get a lot of attention

Never said i did just saying im always happy to find guys my age in my inbox "

Do you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a younger female im always happy to find younger guys!

I find it very hard to believe you don't get a lot of attention

Never said i did just saying im always happy to find guys my age in my inbox "

So 40 too old?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a younger female im always happy to find younger guys!

I find it very hard to believe you don't get a lot of attention

Never said i did just saying im always happy to find guys my age in my inbox

Do you? "

Well i hardly turned you away did i

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a younger female im always happy to find younger guys!

I find it very hard to believe you don't get a lot of attention

Never said i did just saying im always happy to find guys my age in my inbox

Do you?

Well i hardly turned you away did i "

That, you did not!

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

What a wonderful thread. First he complains of getting no attention and then demonstrates by his own example why that is.

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester


"Try being 50 lol

Yes try being 50

It opens a whole new world of not giving a s***

It's true and so liberating.

I know, having the time of my life right now "

Me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try being 50 lol

Yes try being 50

It opens a whole new world of not giving a s***

It's true and so liberating.

I know, having the time of my life right now

Me too "

Leave some of the 50 year old fun for me

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester


"Try being 50 lol

Yes try being 50

It opens a whole new world of not giving a s***

It's true and so liberating.

I know, having the time of my life right now

Me too

Leave some of the 50 year old fun for me "

Best club on the block, membership a must

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By *ayMyName123Man
over a year ago

Barnsley

I’ve had a lot of interest I think it depends on the person not blowing my own trumpet

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester


"I’ve had a lot of interest I think it depends on the person not blowing my own trumpet "

Those payday loans can be a bugger though.

Loads of interest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What attention do you need? Throw I hissy fit if you don’t get the sweets you ask for in a supermarket, that always gets you attention. How young are you? Grow up boy and act your age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try being 50 lol

Yes try being 50 "

I’m trying my best, that type of challenge takes a little time.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Hiya just wondering why young guys get so little on here. Speaking from trying and failing"

At least now you’re 28 weeks older, it must be getting easier?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lots of the ladies and couples on here have children in their early 20s. Many people aren't keen on the idea of having sex with people the same age as their children. The likelihood that there will be a lack of experience may be a factor too.

Nita"

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try being 50 lol

Yes try being 50

It opens a whole new world of not giving a s***

It's true and so liberating.

I know, having the time of my life right now

Me too

Leave some of the 50 year old fun for me

Best club on the block, membership a must "

I'm a member of that club ,

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By *irtyricoMan
over a year ago

west bromwich

Perfectly put my friend

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By *irtyricoMan
over a year ago

west bromwich

Oh wow! That’s some of the classiest sexy pics I’ve seen on this site! Props to you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

in my experiance with young guys they are all talk they come on for a few days then vanish i dont bother with them unless they are site supporters or verified

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over a year ago

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