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By *oiluvfun OP   Man
over a year ago

Penrith

Contributing to the 'How many views have you had' type threads anymore, it's soul-destroying as a single guy

What have you decided not to do recently?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Waste my time trying to meet people on Fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make an effort for men who just sit back and do fuck all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kiss anymore frogs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

42

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Make an effort for men who just sit back and do fuck all"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sleeping in this weekend, because I am working overtime

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"Waste my time trying to meet people on Fab."

I can relate to this atm!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Contributing to the 'How many views have you had' type threads anymore, it's soul-destroying as a single guy

What have you decided not to do recently? "

Do they contact you? That's why I do t get the 'looked at you' feature. It's absolutely categorically pointless. It has no bearing on anything on here. If it wasn't there it would not make it less/more enjoyable. And that's what proves the point. Even the wink has a purpose.

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By *ighamCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Higham Ferrers

Won't be accepting random friend requests

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Make an effort for men who just sit back and do fuck all"

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Punishing myself for things that aren't my fault!

Have removed a toxic profile from my hot list. Not quote ready to block it just yet.... I'm a work in progress

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Waste my time trying to meet people on Fab."

Ahhh don't give up x

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I will no longer be buying multipacks of crisps. For I know my willpower crumbles when faced with an array of readily available snacks.

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East


"Make an effort for men who just sit back and do fuck all"

The op was referring to something that you are stopping doing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wearing pants

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Make an effort for men who just sit back and do fuck all

The op was referring to something that you are stopping doing "

Ive stopped

They step up, make a fucking effort, join in like big boys or take a fucking hike

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sanding any more of my staircase today, my fingers are raw

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Contributing to the 'How many views have you had' type threads anymore, it's soul-destroying as a single guy

What have you decided not to do recently? "

Post in the who deserves an award thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give two hoots

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Give two hoots"

I'm going to second that. Two fingers up,fuck you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Contributing to the 'How many views have you had' type threads anymore, it's soul-destroying as a single guy

What have you decided not to do recently?

Post in the who deserves an award thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Punishing myself for things that aren't my fault!

Have removed a toxic profile from my hot list. Not quote ready to block it just yet.... I'm a work in progress "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Going to get slightly miffed about any thing lo

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By *irestorm 500Couple
over a year ago

coventry


"Waste my time trying to meet people on Fab."

x storm x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am going to have a negativity free weekend and will only make positive happy fluffy comments on threads until Monday

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

Post in the forums - ooops

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Contributing to the 'How many views have you had' type threads anymore, it's soul-destroying as a single guy

What have you decided not to do recently? "

It can be just as soul destroying as a single woman to get lots of views and not many messages

They looked and didn’t like what they saw is how I interpret it so sometimes not being able to see how many views you’ve had is a blessing in disguise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Post in the forums - ooops "

Tell people in the Forums that they're on my hotlist like you are.

Oh darn it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Post in the forums - ooops "

slip of the fingers there

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By *ookingforlustMan
over a year ago

northants

I’m giving up reading pity party threads.......

And masturbating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Waste my time trying to meet people on Fab.

Ahhh don't give up x "

Why not?

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By *oiluvfun OP   Man
over a year ago

Penrith


"Contributing to the 'How many views have you had' type threads anymore, it's soul-destroying as a single guy

What have you decided not to do recently?

Do they contact you? That's why I do t get the 'looked at you' feature. It's absolutely categorically pointless. It has no bearing on anything on here. If it wasn't there it would not make it less/more enjoyable. And that's what proves the point. Even the wink has a purpose.

"

Nope, I have never had a message as a direct result of a 'profile views' thread. I think it's just a negative vibe tbh; guy's wonder why they can't get double-figure views, and women panic because they ONLY got double-figure views. Too many people use the stalker setting making any summary total irrelevant (for guys anyway)

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By *oiluvfun OP   Man
over a year ago

Penrith


"Contributing to the 'How many views have you had' type threads anymore, it's soul-destroying as a single guy

What have you decided not to do recently?

It can be just as soul destroying as a single woman to get lots of views and not many messages

They looked and didn’t like what they saw is how I interpret it so sometimes not being able to see how many views you’ve had is a blessing in disguise "

Maybe when they read your profile they can't meet what you are looking for? To be fair, the 'Move on, nothing to see here' isn't very inviting x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Contributing to the 'How many views have you had' type threads anymore, it's soul-destroying as a single guy

What have you decided not to do recently?

It can be just as soul destroying as a single woman to get lots of views and not many messages

They looked and didn’t like what they saw is how I interpret it so sometimes not being able to see how many views you’ve had is a blessing in disguise

Maybe when they read your profile they can't meet what you are looking for? To be fair, the 'Move on, nothing to see here' isn't very inviting x"

I don’t think I asked for my profile to be criticised

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I am not going to ignore the random messages today. Replies for everyone!

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

Sending out opening messages cos it takes a good 15-30 mins to rite and spell chek and to bottal up my nurves cos i try to rite a nice opening message just for it to be deleted or insulted. So i just don't bother anymore....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give a shit about fab people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Waste my time trying to meet people on Fab.

I can relate to this atm!!!"

Me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Today is going to be a good day..if you dare to let it

It will be the day we make it ..

I've given up lots of things in the past and eventually discovered it's not what you give up that matters... it's what you do with what you have left.

If your going to give anything up make it for reasons that make you happy .....not just because you feel angry.

Today I have nothing I want to give up ...

Who knows maybe that's how we finally learn to gain the things that matter..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Today is going to be a good day..if you dare to let it

It will be the day we make it ..

I've given up lots of things in the past and eventually discovered it's not what you give up that matters... it's what you do with what you have left.

If your going to give anything up make it for reasons that make you happy .....not just because you feel angry.

Today I have nothing I want to give up ...

Who knows maybe that's how we finally learn to gain the things that matter.."

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East


"Make an effort for men who just sit back and do fuck all

The op was referring to something that you are stopping doing

Ive stopped

They step up, make a fucking effort, join in like big boys or take a fucking hike"

I'm surprised you ever did anything else. Hence my first post.

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

[Removed by poster at 13/10/17 10:47:02]

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East


"I am not going to ignore the random messages today. Replies for everyone!"

Incoming faf message

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By *oiluvfun OP   Man
over a year ago

Penrith


"Contributing to the 'How many views have you had' type threads anymore, it's soul-destroying as a single guy

What have you decided not to do recently?

It can be just as soul destroying as a single woman to get lots of views and not many messages

They looked and didn’t like what they saw is how I interpret it so sometimes not being able to see how many views you’ve had is a blessing in disguise

Maybe when they read your profile they can't meet what you are looking for? To be fair, the 'Move on, nothing to see here' isn't very inviting x

I don’t think I asked for my profile to be criticised "

My apologies, I didn't mean any offense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Contributing to the 'How many views have you had' type threads anymore, it's soul-destroying as a single guy

What have you decided not to do recently?

It can be just as soul destroying as a single woman to get lots of views and not many messages

They looked and didn’t like what they saw is how I interpret it so sometimes not being able to see how many views you’ve had is a blessing in disguise

Maybe when they read your profile they can't meet what you are looking for? To be fair, the 'Move on, nothing to see here' isn't very inviting x

I don’t think I asked for my profile to be criticised

My apologies, I didn't mean any offense "

None taken

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking for regular meets

From now on I'm just going to fck and go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Make an effort for men who just sit back and do fuck all

The op was referring to something that you are stopping doing

Ive stopped

They step up, make a fucking effort, join in like big boys or take a fucking hike

I'm surprised you ever did anything else. Hence my first post."

Sometimes it takes a while for me to cop myself on

Like 50 years

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East


"Make an effort for men who just sit back and do fuck all

The op was referring to something that you are stopping doing

Ive stopped

They step up, make a fucking effort, join in like big boys or take a fucking hike

I'm surprised you ever did anything else. Hence my first post.

Sometimes it takes a while for me to cop myself on

Like 50 years"

O eck!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Waste my time trying to meet people on Fab.

Ahhh don't give up x

Why not? "

Ummmm...... It might fine good in the end? Someone's gonna want to meet you? They'll be worth waiting for?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Today is going to be a good day..if you dare to let it

It will be the day we make it ..

I've given up lots of things in the past and eventually discovered it's not what you give up that matters... it's what you do with what you have left.

If your going to give anything up make it for reasons that make you happy .....not just because you feel angry.

Today I have nothing I want to give up ...

Who knows maybe that's how we finally learn to gain the things that matter.."

Very deep but very good post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Decide whether or not the profile above is hot or not/whether I'd fuck them or buy them a pint/which pic of theirs is the best

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By *oiluvfun OP   Man
over a year ago

Penrith


"Today is going to be a good day..if you dare to let it

It will be the day we make it ..

I've given up lots of things in the past and eventually discovered it's not what you give up that matters... it's what you do with what you have left.

If your going to give anything up make it for reasons that make you happy .....not just because you feel angry.

Today I have nothing I want to give up ...

Who knows maybe that's how we finally learn to gain the things that matter.."

Great post! But giving up something that makes you unhappy, can only make you happier, surely?

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