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Male equivalent of female cougar

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By *evensnipe OP   Man
over a year ago

Dinbych

Is there a term or name for the male equivalent of a cougar i.e.a female who likes younger men?

Any thoughts or suggestions other than dirty old man!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think of them as dirty old women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there a term or name for the male equivalent of a cougar i.e.a female who likes younger men?

Any thoughts or suggestions other than dirty old man! "
I think the term is a pervert

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think of them as dirty old women."

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By *evensnipe OP   Man
over a year ago

Dinbych

I

Suppose I feel that once again men get negative connotations piled on them when the female equivalent is socially acceptable!

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Predator

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"I

Suppose I feel that once again men get negative connotations piled on them when the female equivalent is socially acceptable!"

Yeah like 'stud' vs 'slut'....

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By *evensnipe OP   Man
over a year ago

Dinbych

Predator. ? How would you feel if yoU fancied younger men as a woman and then get called a 'Predator' would that be as socially acceptable as the term cougar?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex pest?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I

Suppose I feel that once again men get negative connotations piled on them when the female equivalent is socially acceptable!"

Yeah, its tough out there aint it?

Try being a woman!!

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I will admit, sites like this make me laugh! For once the females have the upper hand and the men don't like it, coz they aren't used to it......

Oh boo hoo, there are less females so we actually have to put some effort in if we want rewarded, how unfair is that compared to everyday life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you suggesting both should be equally acceptable?

Or that both should be equally socially unacceptable?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This whole thread made me giggle

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

No I can only think of a dirty old man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like to play daddy to younger women"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I will admit, sites like this make me laugh! For once the females have the upper hand and the men don't like it, coz they aren't used to it......

Oh boo hoo, there are less females so we actually have to put some effort in if we want rewarded, how unfair is that compared to everyday life "

Yet I see plenty of women moaning on here too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there a term or name for the male equivalent of a cougar i.e.a female who likes younger men?

Any thoughts or suggestions other than dirty old man! "

I actually had a meet with a 29 year old lady on saturday, along with her 53 year old husband lol. Not met with a lady that young in a very long time. To me they were just a very very nice couple and she was super sexy. Never really thought about her age until reading this thread.................no, i'm not a pervert or a cradle snatcher or anything other than a normal Fab member. Must admit though, it was very nice having fun with someone that young.............i'd recommend it to anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sugar daddy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I

Suppose I feel that once again men get negative connotations piled on them when the female equivalent is socially acceptable!

Yeah, its tough out there aint it?

Try being a woman!!"

I'll pass on that. All the cock shots and FAF messages you have to reply to..

Safer to just hide in the man cave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No I can only think of a dirty old man."

Hey, less of the old I have been dirty at all ages!

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I will admit, sites like this make me laugh! For once the females have the upper hand and the men don't like it, coz they aren't used to it......

Oh boo hoo, there are less females so we actually have to put some effort in if we want rewarded, how unfair is that compared to everyday life

Yet I see plenty of women moaning on here too. "

Oh I will admit I moan on here as well, but only because the men in my area are so disrespectful, though I don't think that falls into the same category does it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No I can only think of a dirty old man."

Wishful thinking?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I will admit, sites like this make me laugh! For once the females have the upper hand and the men don't like it, coz they aren't used to it......

Oh boo hoo, there are less females so we actually have to put some effort in if we want rewarded, how unfair is that compared to everyday life

Yet I see plenty of women moaning on here too.

Oh I will admit I moan on here as well, but only because the men in my area are so disrespectful, though I don't think that falls into the same category does it?"

Oh you had an opportunity to talk about all the good moaning you got via this site then

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"Predator. ? How would you feel if yoU fancied younger men as a woman and then get called a 'Predator' would that be as socially acceptable as the term cougar?"

Yes, thats what I said. I don't meet younger guys so it wouldn't apply to me. I wouldn't be too bothered though, to me it would mean that I'm confident enough to approach who I wanted to meet. I don't have a problem with that, do you??

It's better than a dirty old woman!!!

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I will admit, sites like this make me laugh! For once the females have the upper hand and the men don't like it, coz they aren't used to it......

Oh boo hoo, there are less females so we actually have to put some effort in if we want rewarded, how unfair is that compared to everyday life

Yet I see plenty of women moaning on here too.

Oh I will admit I moan on here as well, but only because the men in my area are so disrespectful, though I don't think that falls into the same category does it?

Oh you had an opportunity to talk about all the good moaning you got via this site then

"

Because I would be lying! I've had sex with 2 men in two years, purely down to the poor pool gene in my area, I wont compromise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sugar daddy "

Closest so far but that implies some kind of financial implications to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I will admit, sites like this make me laugh! For once the females have the upper hand and the men don't like it, coz they aren't used to it......

Oh boo hoo, there are less females so we actually have to put some effort in if we want rewarded, how unfair is that compared to everyday life

Yet I see plenty of women moaning on here too.

Oh I will admit I moan on here as well, but only because the men in my area are so disrespectful, though I don't think that falls into the same category does it?

Oh you had an opportunity to talk about all the good moaning you got via this site then

Because I would be lying! I've had sex with 2 men in two years, purely down to the poor pool gene in my area, I wont compromise "

That was pretty much my original point.

Mrs Orjee has had a few single accounts on here but only organised a few meets.

When we're at clubs it's different though (and she takes full advantage).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sugar daddy

Closest so far but that implies some kind of financial implications to me."

Also I think of that as the younger woman seeking an older wealthy man rather than the other way round.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

A manther?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sexual predator

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there a term or name for the male equivalent of a cougar i.e.a female who likes younger men?

Any thoughts or suggestions other than dirty old man!

I actually had a meet with a 29 year old lady on saturday, along with her 53 year old husband lol. Not met with a lady that young in a very long time. To me they were just a very very nice couple and she was super sexy. Never really thought about her age until reading this thread.................no, i'm not a pervert or a cradle snatcher or anything other than a normal Fab member. Must admit though, it was very nice having fun with someone that young.............i'd recommend it to anyone "

Sounds like a top meet that mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apparently the term is 'rhino' but I don't think it's commonly used

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

1 older man younger woman actually pretty common and rarely frowned upon unless v extreme like friends of mine where he's over 40 years older.

2 perhaps Google 'male privilege' before you start complaining how unfair it is.

As mentioned upthread, just look at how women who even admit to LIKING sex are described - slut, tart, bimbo, prossie, etc etc etc

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"A manther? "

Very good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"1 older man younger woman actually pretty common and rarely frowned upon unless v extreme like friends of mine where he's over 40 years older.

2 perhaps Google 'male privilege' before you start complaining how unfair it is.

As mentioned upthread, just look at how women who even admit to LIKING sex are described - slut, tart, bimbo, prossie, etc etc etc "

I can only see this mentioned by you.

Apologies if my aging eyesight missed it.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"A manther?

Very good "

It's the proper term allegedly

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Is there a term or name for the male equivalent of a cougar i.e.a female who likes younger men?

Any thoughts or suggestions other than dirty old man! "

Dreamer, fantasist or Walter Mitty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Optimist

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I

Suppose I feel that once again men get negative connotations piled on them when the female equivalent is socially acceptable!

Yeah like 'stud' vs 'slut'.... "

Ahem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I

Suppose I feel that once again men get negative connotations piled on them when the female equivalent is socially acceptable!

Yeah like 'stud' vs 'slut'....

Ahem "

I still can't find it

But yeah, point made

Your sentiment doesn't resonate with what I personally see/hear though. Twenty years ago definitely. Nowadays, I'm not sure, but maybe that's just my little bubble.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bloody Lucky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dirty old man ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hugh Hefner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lucky fucker.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All these people saying pervert or dirty old man tsk tsk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Predator "

That's an older aesthetically challenged gentleman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I will admit, sites like this make me laugh! For once the females have the upper hand and the men don't like it, coz they aren't used to it......

Oh boo hoo, there are less females so we actually have to put some effort in if we want rewarded, how unfair is that compared to everyday life "

. Ouch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Dirty old man ?"

Yes I am.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Apparently the term is 'rhino' but I don't think it's commonly used "

Haha I can see why, doesn't sound too appealing (though they do have a horn I suppose). Manther is good. How about silver fox, or is that too generic?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there a term or name for the male equivalent of a cougar i.e.a female who likes younger men?

Any thoughts or suggestions other than dirty old man! "

Fussy.

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By *evensnipe OP   Man
over a year ago

Dinbych

Silver fox is okay but perhaps too generalised. Manther sounds more like a direct equivalent.

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