FabSwingers.com forum: Moving on

By *ampant Lion34 OP Man
over a year ago

East Midlands

Need to get over my Ex. She has great pleasure in texting me about how she has moved on with someone new even tho she ended us. People say just move on with someone else but wish was that easy.

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Need to get over my Ex. She has great pleasure in texting me about how she has moved on with someone new even tho she ended us. People say just move on with someone else but wish was that easy. "

I would have to tactfully suggest that creating a thread about needing to move on might not actually help you to move on.

Turning on my compassion chip, it’s going to hurt, no one else is going to seem like they match up for the longest time, then one day someone is going to catch your eye and you’ll remember what it was like to feel excited yet nervous with a stomach full of butterflies and head full of rainbows.

Give it time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well you need to block her so the insensitive mare can't tell you about her latest squeeze.

Take the power back.

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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago

Traffic land

"Well you need to block her so the insensitive mare can't tell you about her latest squeeze.

Take the power back.

Exactly this!

Don't give her the power to hurt you anymore than she already has.

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By *DONToBEoNOSEYoMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

Wow she’s texts you telling you and you havnt blocked her? Dude your only torturing yourself by letting it happen.

Me and my ex blocked each other after we split as when it’s over it’s over.... she sounds like one cold bitch and you seem like a complete mug letting it happen!

Sorry to sound harsh but these break ups are never easy.

Block her and move on sunny Jim... good luck .

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By *DONToBEoNOSEYoMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"Well you need to block her so the insensitive mare can't tell you about her latest squeeze.

Take the power back.

Exactly this!

Don't give her the power to hurt you anymore than she already has."

This

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By *DONToBEoNOSEYoMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"Well you need to block her so the insensitive mare can't tell you about her latest squeeze.

Take the power back.

And this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If she's texting you to tell you than then she hasn't got over you at all. If she had she wouldn't want to hurt you.

Tell her to get a life and stop bothering you because you are in the middle of receiving the blowjob of you life. Then block her.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

All sound advice here, but I suspect that you also need a hug x

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By *infulSandyCouple
over a year ago

London

"Need to get over my Ex. She has great pleasure in texting me about how she has moved on with someone new even tho she ended us. People say just move on with someone else but wish was that easy. "

Male half speaking here.

You need to get your finger out and block her, she sounds like a bitch and the only one getting in the way of your happiness is you.

Does that sound insensitive? Yes it is, but it's the truth.

I'm not going to lie to you and tell you it's easy, how you choose to get over her is up to you but you need to be proactive about it.

And before you think I'm being a nasty and uncaring piece of work I would like to say I know how you feel and am speaking from experience.

I am hoping you take heed of my advice so you don't fall into the same pit of alcoholism, drugs and depression like I did.

You may have lost her, but no need to lose yourself.

And again... She sounds like a biiiiiiiiiiiiiitch!

/rant

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By *ampant Lion34 OP Man
over a year ago

East Midlands

Thanks everyone all good sound advice. And yeah need a hug x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The fact she's gloating says she's still not over you!

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By *infulSandyCouple
over a year ago

London

Female half speaking here;

My partner is right. She's twisting her nasty bitch knife and you're opening the wound and letting her. Don't do it! I dare say I will get some flack for this but a lot of women like the power over guys and it's kinda evil!

Meet some new people, do new things and maybe one day you'll find somebody who becomes your enzyme. Trust me, it can happen!

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

Patience is key

Get yourself to a social or go to a club

Take a photo of your personality

I learned all this sound advice from here....not sure it's relevant though

Your welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Need to get over my Ex. She has great pleasure in texting me about how she has moved on with someone new even tho she ended us. People say just move on with someone else but wish was that easy. "

Is she ringing specifically to gloat? Or has she during a text conversation said she's seeing someone else?

Of its the former it eems incredibly cruel and being free of that sort of mind set should be all you need to remember to help you move on

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"If she's texting you to tell you than then she hasn't got over you at all. If she had she wouldn't want to hurt you.

Tell her to get a life and stop bothering you because you are in the middle of receiving the blowjob of you life. Then block her."

Good point!!

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

She sound's a heartless bitch especially if she was the one that ended it. Why does she text to tell you do you think? Surely if she's happy she wouldn't do that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well you need to block her so the insensitive mare can't tell you about her latest squeeze.

Take the power back.

If it makes you feel miserable after communicating with her. It’s not healthy for you, it’s time for a clean break. Block her on the phone/ Facebook everything.

She may be keeping contact to save her guilt over breaking your heart.

Or she may want to keep you in the loop just to remind you of what you don’t have.

Or alternatively, as a back-up, if she doesn’t find someone she considers more to her taste....Easy sex, on the side...use you for other favours... etc.

Btw, she probably won’t admit to that. And you probably don’t want to believe that either.

Doesn’t matter what her reason might be... if the outcome of that contact is that you’re miserable.

And...No one likes to hear it. But you can’t be good friends with an ex you were deeply in love with. You don’t move on. You compare every new partner. And trust me, your new partner will hate it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bin the thread

Block the bitch

Post a meet...

Oh...

And follow your heart

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By *ampant Lion34 OP Man
over a year ago

East Midlands

Yeah she just texts not calls etc. And tell my self to text nasty stuff back bit that's not me. I have always took the moral high ground and won't say best stuff to people as dont like hurting there feelings. And I know I should etc but that's just me I would rather hurt than hurt someone else. But I've shot at killed in combat with out compassion does that make me strange.

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By *infulSandyCouple
over a year ago

London

"Yeah she just texts not calls etc. And tell my self to text nasty stuff back bit that's not me. I have always took the moral high ground and won't say best stuff to people as dont like hurting there feelings. And I know I should etc but that's just me I would rather hurt than hurt someone else. But I've shot at killed in combat with out compassion does that make me strange. "

If I may be honest that's irrelevant. No one should have to put up with that at all, you're a human being not a soulless object.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's normal! Goes with the job. The rest, still normal, you're clearly a compassionate person

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By *huckzMan
over a year ago

spalding

"Need to get over my Ex. She has great pleasure in texting me about how she has moved on with someone new even tho she ended us. People say just move on with someone else but wish was that easy.

I would have to tactfully suggest that creating a thread about needing to move on might not actually help you to move on.

Give it time. "
...........go oprah

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london

What she is doing is a bit rancid. One day you will discover that you feel contempt for her unpleasantness. From then on she is blown and you will only be satisfied by someone with a better character and without her flaws.

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By *ampant Lion34 OP Man
over a year ago

East Midlands

Yeah I am compassionate hate to see others in distress etc. It's my biggest down fall I let my heart rule not my head.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah I am compassionate hate to see others in distress etc. It's my biggest down fall I let my heart rule not my head. "

That's not a downfall, that's admirable! Worthy ones won't abuse that.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Deal with the practicalities and support yourself. Inform her to not contact you as it is over and block.

Treat yourself compassionately, so that you are nourished with good company and life experiences now as well as tuning into your needs and loving and caring for yourself.

You're unique and things will take the time you need. Don't add pressure. Nor compare with anyone, which will do the same. You're on a new adventure now, with a mystery ending.

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By *ampant Lion34 OP Man
over a year ago

East Midlands

"Yeah I am compassionate hate to see others in distress etc. It's my biggest down fall I let my heart rule not my head.

That's not a downfall, that's admirable! Worthy ones won't abuse that. "

Thankyou

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By *ampant Lion34 OP Man
over a year ago

East Midlands

"Deal with the practicalities and support yourself. Inform her to not contact you as it is over and block.

Treat yourself compassionately, so that you are nourished with good company and life experiences now as well as tuning into your needs and loving and caring for yourself.

You're unique and things will take the time you need. Don't add pressure. Nor compare with anyone, which will do the same. You're on a new adventure now, with a mystery ending. "

I will try not to compare.

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