FabSwingers.com forum: Wink, why bother

By *appyhumper123 OP Man
over a year ago

hull

That's nice, someone sends a wink so you send one back with a friend request and they then tell you to fuck off

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By *callycatMan
over a year ago

Mid Wales

You should have just left it at the wink....be nice ..be patient..become friends maybe later

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exactly why I don't bother with the wink feature .....never look at whose winked me until I've looked on the profile at a later date and notice they winked at me months ago

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By *appyhumper123 OP Man
over a year ago

hull

Better to ignore someone rather than give them verbal abuse tho ah well never mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bunch of winkers if you ask me

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By *appyhumper123 OP Man
over a year ago

hull

Yeah I suppose your right

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By *infulSandyCouple
over a year ago

London

"That's nice, someone sends a wink so you send one back with a friend request and they then tell you to fuck off"

I think a lot of people see a wink and a friend request as two very different things, we certainly do.

A wink is an expression of interest, whereas a friend invite cam be very forward and overly familiar.

Maybe it was a misunderstanding of how the two parties saw the two types of interaction.

I would never recommend adding anyone as a friend without asking, just an idea.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Personally I'd see a wink as an expression of mild interest and would respond to one with a wink or a message but not a Friend Request - I'd leave that until having at least swapped a few messages and built a rapport of sorts (even if it is vague)

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

Sometimes a wink is just a nice way to say 'wocha!'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep it simple.

Someone winks first.

Wink back.

If they want to, they may message.

Message back.

Repeat until you know you are going to get along.

Then ask if they mind if you send a friend request.

Sending a friend request is a bit like following someone home, popping into their house,making yourself beans on toast then sticking on your favourite tv channel after speaking to them in the pub.

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By *appyhumper123 OP Man
over a year ago

hull

I'm new to all this so thanks for all the advice

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

Sending the friend request was the mistake. Far too soon.

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