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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sometimes I think that something is wrong with me. lot's of guy's says that the bj is the bigger pleasure from them. Honestly I don't have this feeling to be honest I don't feel any pleasure from the bj. I'm just different or more of guy's has the feeling?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"Sometimes I think that something is wrong with me. lot's of guy's says that the bj is the bigger pleasure from them. Honestly I don't have this feeling to be honest I don't feel any pleasure from the bj. I'm just different or more of guy's has the feeling? "

...maybe you're fab straight, and need a bloke to suck you off??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it all depends on who's doing it for me and how they do it. Some people don't know how so it doesn't feel sexy.

But when someone knows exactly what to touch and how it can blow your mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I love them especially when the person giving you then looks you in the eye

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By *eral SexMan
over a year ago

Port Talbot


"I think it all depends on who's doing it for me and how they do it. Some people don't know how so it doesn't feel sexy.

But when someone knows exactly what to touch and how it can blow your mind. "

Totally agree, I had an absolutely terrible blow job this morning. Far too aggressive, rough, bitey, and who truly likes having their foreskin stretched too far back? I didn't complain of course, and she clearly thought her technique was fabulous. Maybe the OP has had similar service mauvais.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Different strokes for different folks.

If you're circumcised I know the sensitivity can be decreased so that could be part of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it all depends on who's doing it for me and how they do it. Some people don't know how so it doesn't feel sexy.

But when someone knows exactly what to touch and how it can blow your mind.

Totally agree, I had an absolutely terrible blow job this morning. Far too aggressive, rough, bitey, and who truly likes having their foreskin stretched too far back? I didn't complain of course, and she clearly thought her technique was fabulous. Maybe the OP has had similar service mauvais. "

If you don't say or give tips, how is she expected to up her bj game!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People like what they like, some of the turn on for me is hearing what people like and working my magic... I'd much rather know than think I know. Not that I've had any complaints thus far

If you don't like bjs then don't have one... there's plenty more usually on offer

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By *DONToBEoNOSEYoMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

To be honest it’s rare I couldn’t m with a blowjob....unless there really going at ot with s good gobble.

I’m happy for someone to try

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By *DONToBEoNOSEYoMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton


"To be honest it’s rare I cum with a blowjob....unless there really going at it with a good gobble.

I’m happy for someone to try "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very true indeed, would want any women to say something to me if she did not like anything or enjoyed it better another way...

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By *rocky92Man
over a year ago

N

Definitely pleasure for me like, I mean I’ve had the odd few where it’s painful but when you get a girl that knows what she’s doing then bobs your uncle!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Different strokes for different folks.

If you're circumcised I know the sensitivity can be decreased so that could be part of it.

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It feel great when I get one. Man or women. I'm circumcised.

Maybe he's had to many women ( or men) who didn't like cum in their mouths ( or cock) and maybe more worried about that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m kind of the same - it feels nic and all that but I’ve only really orgasmed from them a handful of times.

I prefer them in a 69 situation by far.

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By *DONToBEoNOSEYoMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

I’ve had a few say “I’m amazing at blowjobs” to them having a go to no effect.

Then you get the ones that say nothing... pull ya pants down and start choking on it.

It’s the quiet ones you gota watch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes I think that something is wrong with me. lot's of guy's says that the bj is the bigger pleasure from them. Honestly I don't have this feeling to be honest I don't feel any pleasure from the bj. I'm just different or more of guy's has the feeling? "

Perhaps it's all in the connection. Connection is key for me.

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By *DONToBEoNOSEYoMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton


"Sometimes I think that something is wrong with me. lot's of guy's says that the bj is the bigger pleasure from them. Honestly I don't have this feeling to be honest I don't feel any pleasure from the bj. I'm just different or more of guy's has the feeling?

Perhaps it's all in the connection. Connection is key for me."

Could be or them knowing what there doing I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I can't say it's desensitised me lol I still feel every single lick or kiss. Maybe I'm just different lol

But I loove getting a bj.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone is different and no one says you have to enjoy everything xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find BJ's in the bedroom enjoyable, but very rarely enough to make me cum, but BJ's outdoors get me everytime.. the element of risk heights things totally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It totally depends on who is doing it ! I find it’s quite a personal thing as how you like it to be done - nothing wrong with giving an indication whilst in process as to what your enjoying or maybe not as I’m sure the giver wouldn’t want you not to enjoy it !

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By *appyhumper123Man
over a year ago

hull

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It certainly does depend on who's doing it and the situation.

Until last year I could count on one hand the number of times I have cum from oral, although I do usually find it enjoyable. Last year I met someone who over a few months doubled that until nearly every time I came. Maybe it's a relaxation thing?

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

To be honest, I don't sleep around a lot, and usually pick people I like.

So them just looking at me and smiling turns me on. I'm more likely to have to pull their head off my cock to stop them from making me cum too quick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it all depends on who's doing it for me and how they do it. Some people don't know how so it doesn't feel sexy.

But when someone knows exactly what to touch and how it can blow your mind.

Totally agree, I had an absolutely terrible blow job this morning. Far too aggressive, rough, bitey, and who truly likes having their foreskin stretched too far back? I didn't complain of course, and she clearly thought her technique was fabulous. Maybe the OP has had similar service mauvais.

If you don't say or give tips, how is she expected to up her bj game! "

Sometimes I don't want to make them feel bad . But I'll say what feels good so they know x

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

A lot of guys have posted before about how they don't cum from bjs or find them incredible.

It's a reverse scenario to partners who may love or dislike giving them - so partner choice is all.

This is assuming that you have always communicated your feedback and support to the giver, so there's a chance for them to adjust techniques.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op why would you be weird.. I dont like several things that many claim are essential to good sex.... but I know what I enjoy and dont.

So don't worry

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