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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Message,, i dont reply,, then its 'why you not replying'? I have a sick child in the house so i reply im looking after her to get abuse?? On my profile it states i have a child, i make it clear if arrange any meets i may have to cancel as everyone knows a child is unpredictable with bugs etc,,, if i dont want to meet i wont use my child as an excuse- but yet i've been left standing twice by two meets then when they message with a 'sorry i slept in excuse' and i dont respond within 2 minutes i still get abuse?? Come on guys- i may be on here- but my kids way above you on my priority list,,, think some of you guys need to change your profiles from ' non pushy, genuine understanding ' to ' mardy arse shits',, there are some decent honest single males on here- dont spoil it for them because thats what you are doing. My morning rant over.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block them and just message the blokes that take your fancy when you feel like it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Block them and just message the blokes that take your fancy when you feel like it? "

They been blocked- after the 12+ messages left inbetween,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Block them and just message the blokes that take your fancy when you feel like it?

They been blocked- after the 12+ messages left inbetween, "

I mean block all men if it happening too often for your liking. You're in charge of who gets your message that way.

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By *iss InnocenceWoman
over a year ago

Coventry/Bristol


"Message,, i dont reply,, then its 'why you not replying'? I have a sick child in the house so i reply im looking after her to get abuse?? On my profile it states i have a child, i make it clear if arrange any meets i may have to cancel as everyone knows a child is unpredictable with bugs etc,,, if i dont want to meet i wont use my child as an excuse- but yet i've been left standing twice by two meets then when they message with a 'sorry i slept in excuse' and i dont respond within 2 minutes i still get abuse?? Come on guys- i may be on here- but my kids way above you on my priority list,,, think some of you guys need to change your profiles from ' non pushy, genuine understanding ' to ' mardy arse shits',, there are some decent honest single males on here- dont spoil it for them because thats what you are doing. My morning rant over."

Snap

I been called a timewasters when I had to cancel meets due to child care problems

But it's hard for me due to having no family around,I have to reply on friends to babysit,

Even harder now I started working full time,

The amount of guys and couples that asked to come around when my son home

Errrr No Way

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I'm surprised you even dignified the "Why are you not replying?" message with a response OP - something like that would have been a one way ticket to a delete/block if it happened to me.

As for lack of understanding about priorities such as kids etc - again anyone that didn't get that sometimes these things happen and real life gets in the way, wouldn't be someone I'd want to meet anyway.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm surprised you even dignified the "Why are you not replying?" message with a response OP - something like that would have been a one way ticket to a delete/block if it happened to me.

As for lack of understanding about priorities such as kids etc - again anyone that didn't get that sometimes these things happen and real life gets in the way, wouldn't be someone I'd want to meet anyway."

Guess i just like to consider myself a polite person,,,but i guess you can be too polite. I just think its a shame that things like this cause the genuine males to be put in the same category,,,

And vice versa with single fems.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Filter's and the block buttons are here for this exact reason op.

But glad you got it off your chest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Children are the best of us...and for most of us it breaks our hearts if they are ever sick or ill.

If we are lucky enough to have them they will always be the centre of our world.

Any fuckwit who doesn't get that is not worth out time...

OP ignore the idiots they are not worth responding to. The delete button is there for a reason.

And I hope you child is back to full health soon x

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

I think some feel life should come 2nd to meets.Block and move on op,being so pushy shows you that they are not someone you want to meet anyway.

Miss

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By *hocoholicWoman
over a year ago

The big D

It's because your polite that ur getting this abuse. The only time u need to explain is if uv arranged a meet apart from that u owe nobody anything. Answer messages if u chose & when it suits u.

U really need to have thicker skin on this site, they will circle looking for a weakness & take advantage so it's up to u to control ur fab life.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Children are the best of us...and for most of us it breaks our hearts if they are ever sick or ill.

If we are lucky enough to have them they will always be the centre of our world.

Any fuckwit who doesn't get that is not worth out time...

OP ignore the idiots they are not worth responding to. The delete button is there for a reason.

And I hope you child is back to full health soon x

Thank you,, x

"

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By *elloIntrigueMan
over a year ago

North West UK

Some people are idiots aren't they?

Best wishes to you and yours x

Hope the little un is feeling better very soon

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"I'm surprised you even dignified the "Why are you not replying?" message with a response OP - something like that would have been a one way ticket to a delete/block if it happened to me.

As for lack of understanding about priorities such as kids etc - again anyone that didn't get that sometimes these things happen and real life gets in the way, wouldn't be someone I'd want to meet anyway.

Guess i just like to consider myself a polite person,,,but i guess you can be too polite. I just think its a shame that things like this cause the genuine males to be put in the same category,,,

And vice versa with single fems."

Unfortunately on here there is being "too polite" as you say - site FAQS make it clear that not replying is perfectly acceptable and anyone that doesn't understand or accept that generally tends to be the pushy entitled types the FAQ is aimed at.

As for any genuine guys being put in the same category, I don't think that's true - most people can tell them apart

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Message,, i dont reply,, then its 'why you not replying'? I have a sick child in the house so i reply im looking after her to get abuse?? On my profile it states i have a child, i make it clear if arrange any meets i may have to cancel as everyone knows a child is unpredictable with bugs etc,,, if i dont want to meet i wont use my child as an excuse- but yet i've been left standing twice by two meets then when they message with a 'sorry i slept in excuse' and i dont respond within 2 minutes i still get abuse?? Come on guys- i may be on here- but my kids way above you on my priority list,,, think some of you guys need to change your profiles from ' non pushy, genuine understanding ' to ' mardy arse shits',, there are some decent honest single males on here- dont spoil it for them because thats what you are doing. My morning rant over."

pop a private note on the profile (if u are site supporter)

put on profile that deleted message means No thanks

and FILE all other emails you dont wish to read in the bin called "delete message"

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