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By *olerchips OP   Man
over a year ago

Wirral

One for the guys do you think you could ever be faithful in a Vanilla relationship after discovering fab.

I for one know from experience that I can't hence the current spell of singledom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One for the guys do you think you could ever be faithful in a Vanilla relationship after discovering fab.

I for one know from experience that I can't hence the current spell of singledom"

So be in an open or swinging relationship?

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"One for the guys do you think you could ever be faithful in a Vanilla relationship after discovering fab.

I for one know from experience that I can't hence the current spell of singledom"

Being a member of fab has certainly lessened my sexual activity by some margin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

Ironic I know but yes

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By *imandHerNottsCouple
over a year ago

North Notts

Absolutely. We came here together and we will be staying (or leaving) here together.

This is an enhancement to OUR relationship and the fact that we enjoy it all so much is the fact that we are doing it together

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"One for the guys do you think you could ever be faithful in a Vanilla relationship after discovering fab.

I for one know from experience that I can't hence the current spell of singledom"

Interesting how this question is aimed at married/partnered men, but not women...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure you could if you meet your soul mate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One for the guys do you think you could ever be faithful in a Vanilla relationship after discovering fab.

I for one know from experience that I can't hence the current spell of singledom

Interesting how this question is aimed at married/partnered men, but not women... "

That’s cause it’s always guys being called cheaters on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One for the guys do you think you could ever be faithful in a Vanilla relationship after discovering fab.

I for one know from experience that I can't hence the current spell of singledom

Being a member of fab has certainly lessened my sexual activity by some margin."

Is that because the wife is getting it away from home?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One for the guys do you think you could ever be faithful in a Vanilla relationship after discovering fab.

I for one know from experience that I can't hence the current spell of singledom

Being a member of fab has certainly lessened my sexual activity by some margin.

Is that because the wife is getting it away from home? "

Wrong emoji.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"One for the guys do you think you could ever be faithful in a Vanilla relationship after discovering fab.

I for one know from experience that I can't hence the current spell of singledom

Being a member of fab has certainly lessened my sexual activity by some margin.

Is that because the wife is getting it away from home? "

Nope.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One for the guys do you think you could ever be faithful in a Vanilla relationship after discovering fab.

I for one know from experience that I can't hence the current spell of singledom

Being a member of fab has certainly lessened my sexual activity by some margin.

Is that because the wife is getting it away from home?

Nope."

Then how did being on fab directly contribute? Forum addiction, no time for sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For the right person in a heartbeat...

But then if the right person was on fab it's just about having a grown up discussion and doing what works for both...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

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By *a72Man
over a year ago

london

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reassuring to see people saying yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why just for guys, If I'm with someone not fab which is 90 % of the time I'm with them and I don't sleep around.

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight


"Absolutely. We came here together and we will be staying (or leaving) here together.

This is an enhancement to OUR relationship and the fact that we enjoy it all so much is the fact that we are doing it together "

This all the way

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By *wo4FemCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

We will always be faithful to each other. We came here together and will always play here together. Being faithful to us is about live,trust, and honesty. If one wants to stop then we both stop. No cheating behind each others backs.

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By *i1971Man
over a year ago

Cornwall

Yes

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

If I was going to have a vanilla relationship I would leave Fab behind. I'm not ready for that yet. No way am I going behind anyone's back either in a Fab relationship or vanilla.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I find it easy to be faithful when there is someone worth being faithful for

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

I absolutely know I could... Shame some men can't though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was asked this the other day, the answer is I couldn’t go back to vanilla, I need kink in a relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could. I'd drop Fab like a hot oven tray

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I can do fidelity, but I would also be cool with ethical non-monogamous relationship.

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By *inglehotchickWoman
over a year ago

blackpool

I prefer a vanilla relationship. Being on fab is just for fun when I'm single. If I'm dating I hide this and stay off it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was asked this the other day, the answer is I couldn’t go back to vanilla, I need kink in a relationship "

Okay but if you found one partner who could fulfil all your kinks, would you feel the need for other partners?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, which some may find slightly bizarre given my current status.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was asked this the other day, the answer is I couldn’t go back to vanilla, I need kink in a relationship

Okay but if you found one partner who could fulfil all your kinks, would you feel the need for other partners?"

Until I find that person I cannot state, however I like the sharing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes but any partner would have to swing with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is possible to have a kinky/dirty/adventurous sexual relationship with one person. Not being on a swingers site doesn't mean you're having boring sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was asked this the other day, the answer is I couldn’t go back to vanilla, I need kink in a relationship

Okay but if you found one partner who could fulfil all your kinks, would you feel the need for other partners?

Until I find that person I cannot state, however I like the sharing. "

Ah, but of course you would need one of each...but would that be enough. If you like the sharing I suppose not..

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

If I got my happy ever after then fab would be a distant memory.

I want a relationship where I'm absolutely enough for him and vice versa.

That's not to say couples who swing don't have that.

Its just for me, It wouldn't work x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is possible to have a kinky/dirty/adventurous sexual relationship with one person. Not being on a swingers site doesn't mean you're having boring sex. "

I think so, that would be my ideal, although I wouldn't object if she occasionally included her best girlfriend..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One for the guys do you think you could ever be faithful in a Vanilla relationship after discovering fab.

I for one know from experience that I can't hence the current spell of singledom"

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Absolutely. We came here together and we will be staying (or leaving) here together.

This is an enhancement to OUR relationship and the fact that we enjoy it all so much is the fact that we are doing it together "

Exactly this x ^^^^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is possible to have a kinky/dirty/adventurous sexual relationship with one person. Not being on a swingers site doesn't mean you're having boring sex.

I think so, that would be my ideal, although I wouldn't object if she occasionally included her best girlfriend.. "

I've had more than one man from here who wanted a monogamous relationship, but then go on to say they would be ok with me finding other women for us. They obviously don't understand what monogamy is.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

We'll see.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, of course.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was asked this the other day, the answer is I couldn’t go back to vanilla, I need kink in a relationship

Okay but if you found one partner who could fulfil all your kinks, would you feel the need for other partners?

Until I find that person I cannot state, however I like the sharing.

Ah, but of course you would need one of each...but would that be enough. If you like the sharing I suppose not.."

Yes I theory however in practice it doesn’t blever happen like that

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

There's so much more than either being monogamous or swinging. I'm open to having the right lifestyle for me, that also depends on who is around. I don't need fairy-tale make believe though - I'll stick with full scale reality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find it easy to be faithful when there is someone worth being faithful for "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is possible to have a kinky/dirty/adventurous sexual relationship with one person. Not being on a swingers site doesn't mean you're having boring sex.

I think so, that would be my ideal, although I wouldn't object if she occasionally included her best girlfriend..

I've had more than one man from here who wanted a monogamous relationship, but then go on to say they would be ok with me finding other women for us. They obviously don't understand what monogamy is. "

I didn't say I wanted monogamy, my preference would be one regular partner, or should I say two regular partners, where we are enough for each other. I don't want loads of different partners or one offs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could be faithful emotionally with Mr Right, in that he would be the one I loved and planned my future with, and I wouldn't want any emotional connection or ongoing relationship with another man. But I could never be monogamous, I need more than one cock in my life and believe that the variety and fun of swinging enhances a relationship IF you are solid as a couple.

So IMHO being faithful is a different thing to being monogamous (am i spelling that right?!).

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By *olerchips OP   Man
over a year ago

Wirral


"Reassuring to see people saying yes "

I don't believe them!!

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By *olerchips OP   Man
over a year ago

Wirral


"We will always be faithful to each other. We came here together and will always play here together. Being faithful to us is about live,trust, and honesty. If one wants to stop then we both stop. No cheating behind each others backs."

Yes but that doesn't constitute a vanilla relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I could be faithful emotionally with Mr Right, in that he would be the one I loved and planned my future with, and I wouldn't want any emotional connection or ongoing relationship with another man. But I could never be monogamous, I need more than one cock in my life and believe that the variety and fun of swinging enhances a relationship IF you are solid as a couple.

So IMHO being faithful is a different thing to being monogamous (am i spelling that right?!)."

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Oh gosh the level of virtue signalling and bullshit on this thread is overwhelming. There's nothing special about being monogamous, some people are born with a predisposition to it and most aren't. The idea that a non-mongamous person could be faithful for the 'right person' is disney puke. That's basically like saying that a gay guy would be straight for the right woman. No they wouldn't - grow up. There are reasons in evolutionary psychology why women are more likely to want one partner whilst men are more likely to want more. Polygamy is by far the most common form of marriage through history.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"We will always be faithful to each other. We came here together and will always play here together. Being faithful to us is about live,trust, and honesty. If one wants to stop then we both stop. No cheating behind each others backs."

My partner has decided he doesn't want to swing any more but is happy for me to do so. That isn't cheating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One for the guys do you think you could ever be faithful in a Vanilla relationship after discovering fab.

I for one know from experience that I can't hence the current spell of singledom"

I can and have. I first used fab when it was new.

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By *ucky78Woman
over a year ago

liverpool

For the right guy I'd give it all up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For the right guy I'd give it all up "

The right guy you wouldn't have to...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is possible to have a kinky/dirty/adventurous sexual relationship with one person. Not being on a swingers site doesn't mean you're having boring sex.

I think so, that would be my ideal, although I wouldn't object if she occasionally included her best girlfriend..

I've had more than one man from here who wanted a monogamous relationship, but then go on to say they would be ok with me finding other women for us. They obviously don't understand what monogamy is. "

I the opposite. I've always liked the idea of my partner enjoying other men. The idea of 2nd woman isn't a big deal for me so I could stay monogamous to my gf age her sleep around

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

Yes

easy

100% can and wood if i did / cood get a partner.

And i wood hope for them to do the same back.

I don't understand how or y anyone cood / wood say no to this. Cos if your in a relationship then you shood be divoting all your attention on the pursoun your with not to sumone els your not with.

But eatch to Thar own i gess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer some sex in monogamous relationships over no sex on fab.

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By *r. innocentMan
over a year ago

Oswestry

I could easily limeade fab behind for someone who I knew I wanted to go far with but I would tell them I did or do swing. But after my last relationship I don't think I could do the swinging relationship. It's not that I wouldn't want to but I don't think I could trust that person to not be disrespectful and trustworthy. I Do really love the idea of the swinging relationship. But don't think I could do it again. At the end of the day you never know who could turn up and change your mind

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Oh gosh the level of virtue signalling and bullshit on this thread is overwhelming. There's nothing special about being monogamous, some people are born with a predisposition to it and most aren't. The idea that a non-mongamous person could be faithful for the 'right person' is disney puke. That's basically like saying that a gay guy would be straight for the right woman. No they wouldn't - grow up. There are reasons in evolutionary psychology why women are more likely to want one partner whilst men are more likely to want more. Polygamy is by far the most common form of marriage through history. "

No one has said they are special for being monogamous, just that they could be if the feelings were right. Why is that 'virtue signalling'. Is it a new trend to try and run down something we don't like or understand with some trendy new term? Much like calling the easily offended snowflakes?

You seem quite threatened by the concept to be honest. If its not for you that's great, it doesn't have to be for everyone.

Comparing monogamy to sexuality is like comparing apples and pears. They are not the same thing at all. Having said that just because someone identifies themselves as gay doesn't mean they can't have a relationship with someone of the opposite sex. Sexuality can be fluid.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Oh gosh the level of virtue signalling and bullshit on this thread is overwhelming. There's nothing special about being monogamous, some people are born with a predisposition to it and most aren't. The idea that a non-mongamous person could be faithful for the 'right person' is disney puke. That's basically like saying that a gay guy would be straight for the right woman. No they wouldn't - grow up. There are reasons in evolutionary psychology why women are more likely to want one partner whilst men are more likely to want more. Polygamy is by far the most common form of marriage through history.

No one has said they are special for being monogamous, just that they could be if the feelings were right. Why is that 'virtue signalling'. Is it a new trend to try and run down something we don't like or understand with some trendy new term? Much like calling the easily offended snowflakes?

You seem quite threatened by the concept to be honest. If its not for you that's great, it doesn't have to be for everyone.

Comparing monogamy to sexuality is like comparing apples and pears. They are not the same thing at all. Having said that just because someone identifies themselves as gay doesn't mean they can't have a relationship with someone of the opposite sex. Sexuality can be fluid. "

It's not apples and pears, it's nature. I'm not threatened at all, i just find it pathetic when people say they could change their nature for someone else. It's very simple, some of you on here are naturally monogamous people who are having casual sex because you are single. There's nothing really to "give up" in that sense, it's a minor change for you. Swingers are predominately non-monogamous people by nature, we don't want to change our nature and our choice of partners are part of that.

It's virtue signalling because the stats on the number of people who can get married monogamously, stay married and be faithful are well publicised. It's a small proportion of the population ~25% yet most of those 25% happen to be on a fecking swingers forum, apparently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont think I could trust anyone after being on here.

I don't want this to be a stupid gender war but I said in a different thread that nearly everyone on my local feed is cheating.

I say men - because it's men I'm looking for.

I see a lot of them in my town with their wives and kids.

Even though they've got single male profiles.

I'm not judging - it's not my marriage

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"I dont think I could trust anyone after being on here.

I don't want this to be a stupid gender war but I said in a different thread that nearly everyone on my local feed is cheating.

I say men - because it's men I'm looking for.

I see a lot of them in my town with their wives and kids.

Even though they've got single male profiles.

I'm not judging - it's not my marriage "

This should make you feel better, there's actually no statistically significant difference in the proportion of men and women who cheat. It's possible men cheat more frequently, i don't have those figures, but on the whole it's just that women are better at not getting caught and smarter about the whole thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh and just to add - this thread was aimed at men - and it's mostly women replying saying they would give up Fab for a monogamous relationship.

It speaks for itself!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont think I could trust anyone after being on here.

I don't want this to be a stupid gender war but I said in a different thread that nearly everyone on my local feed is cheating.

I say men - because it's men I'm looking for.

I see a lot of them in my town with their wives and kids.

Even though they've got single male profiles.

I'm not judging - it's not my marriage

This should make you feel better, there's actually no statistically significant difference in the proportion of men and women who cheat. It's possible men cheat more frequently, i don't have those figures, but on the whole it's just that women are better at not getting caught and smarter about the whole thing. "

I don't need to feel better.

I'm not the one who's in a relationship.

I don't think I could be in another relationship - too much like hard work!

I admire couples that swing - I wish I could do it.

But I'm to nutty and jealous lol.

I'm sure women do cheat as much as men.

Relationships based on lies - I cant be arsed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One for the guys do you think you could ever be faithful in a Vanilla relationship after discovering fab.

I for one know from experience that I can't hence the current spell of singledom

Interesting how this question is aimed at married/partnered men, but not women...

That’s cause it’s always guys being called cheaters on here "

A cheating woman? That's like a black racist or a female sexist. It cannot exist.

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir


"Oh gosh the level of virtue signalling and bullshit on this thread is overwhelming. There's nothing special about being monogamous, some people are born with a predisposition to it and most aren't. The idea that a non-mongamous person could be faithful for the 'right person' is disney puke. That's basically like saying that a gay guy would be straight for the right woman. No they wouldn't - grow up. There are reasons in evolutionary psychology why women are more likely to want one partner whilst men are more likely to want more. Polygamy is by far the most common form of marriage through history.

No one has said they are special for being monogamous, just that they could be if the feelings were right. Why is that 'virtue signalling'. Is it a new trend to try and run down something we don't like or understand with some trendy new term? Much like calling the easily offended snowflakes?

You seem quite threatened by the concept to be honest. If its not for you that's great, it doesn't have to be for everyone.

Comparing monogamy to sexuality is like comparing apples and pears. They are not the same thing at all. Having said that just because someone identifies themselves as gay doesn't mean they can't have a relationship with someone of the opposite sex. Sexuality can be fluid.

It's not apples and pears, it's nature. I'm not threatened at all, i just find it pathetic when people say they could change their nature for someone else. It's very simple, some of you on here are naturally monogamous people who are having casual sex because you are single. There's nothing really to "give up" in that sense, it's a minor change for you. Swingers are predominately non-monogamous people by nature, we don't want to change our nature and our choice of partners are part of that.

It's virtue signalling because the stats on the number of people who can get married monogamously, stay married and be faithful are well publicised. It's a small proportion of the population ~25% yet most of those 25% happen to be on a fecking swingers forum, apparently "

Also seeing the term "not enough for each other" being quoted here. That's something you would expect to be explaining in the vanilla world not here which highlights the points made above.

Madame Boo

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Oh gosh the level of virtue signalling and bullshit on this thread is overwhelming. There's nothing special about being monogamous, some people are born with a predisposition to it and most aren't. The idea that a non-mongamous person could be faithful for the 'right person' is disney puke. That's basically like saying that a gay guy would be straight for the right woman. No they wouldn't - grow up. There are reasons in evolutionary psychology why women are more likely to want one partner whilst men are more likely to want more. Polygamy is by far the most common form of marriage through history.

No one has said they are special for being monogamous, just that they could be if the feelings were right. Why is that 'virtue signalling'. Is it a new trend to try and run down something we don't like or understand with some trendy new term? Much like calling the easily offended snowflakes?

You seem quite threatened by the concept to be honest. If its not for you that's great, it doesn't have to be for everyone.

Comparing monogamy to sexuality is like comparing apples and pears. They are not the same thing at all. Having said that just because someone identifies themselves as gay doesn't mean they can't have a relationship with someone of the opposite sex. Sexuality can be fluid.

It's not apples and pears, it's nature. I'm not threatened at all, i just find it pathetic when people say they could change their nature for someone else. It's very simple, some of you on here are naturally monogamous people who are having casual sex because you are single. There's nothing really to "give up" in that sense, it's a minor change for you. Swingers are predominately non-monogamous people by nature, we don't want to change our nature and our choice of partners are part of that.

It's virtue signalling because the stats on the number of people who can get married monogamously, stay married and be faithful are well publicised. It's a small proportion of the population ~25% yet most of those 25% happen to be on a fecking swingers forum, apparently

Also seeing the term "not enough for each other" being quoted here. That's something you would expect to be explaining in the vanilla world not here which highlights the points made above.

Madame Boo"

Sometimes it's like people would be shocked if they looked at the url and realised this was fab swingers. I think they were trying to navigate to mumsnet.

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

I have never been in a monogamous relationship. I'm so not wired for monogamy.

The wife and I did wait a few years before opening up but had always discussed doing so. I don't think fab even existed then but other sites did.

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

I'm too traditional to consider being in a relationship with someone that you love to have sex with other people. Never have, never will. Sex can always be spiced up and not necessarily with other people to join in. I just believe a loving relationship is 2 people so if it started vanilla it would turn kink very soon hahaha. I wouldn't want to meet someone who thought being in a relationship ok'd you to have sex with other people....no no no you gotta go haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm single and have been for 8 years. I have had a relationship for 9 years and didn't cheat or feel the need to do I know I could be faithful.

My next relationship though I'd tell the guy that if the opportunity for sex presented itself to him like on a night out or lads holiday I'd give him permission to do it but use protection and tell me about it afterwards. I'd be clear that it was just sex I was ok with. I wouldn't be ok with him messaging someone or arranging pre planned sex.

I've been on here many many years and know that some guys cheat (not all) I would be ok with an opportunist fuck, I wouldn't be ok with emotional or planned sex. It's the thought that my partner had a secret or one over on me that would annoy me more than the act, and of course I'd tell him anything he can do I can do better and the same rule would apply to me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's so much more than either being monogamous or swinging. I'm open to having the right lifestyle for me, that also depends on who is around. I don't need fairy-tale make believe though - I'll stick with full scale reality"

i get this totally x

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea


"Yes

easy

100% can and wood if i did / cood get a partner.

And i wood hope for them to do the same back.

I don't understand how or y anyone cood / wood say no to this. Cos if your in a relationship then you shood be divoting all your attention on the pursoun your with not to sumone els your not with.

But eatch to Thar own i gess."

Y do i never get quoted on thes things just cos i seem to be the odd 1 out lol

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton


"I just believe a loving relationship is 2 people so if it started vanilla it would turn kink very soon hahaha. I wouldn't want to meet someone who thought being in a relationship ok'd you to have sex with other people....no no no you gotta go haha"

Right.... So I shall tell my wife and two girlfriends, who I absolutely love to bits, that you don't approve....

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.


"One for the guys do you think you could ever be faithful in a Vanilla relationship after discovering fab.

I for one know from experience that I can't hence the current spell of singledom"

If you are the type of person that is going to cheat being on fab will not make any difference.

You're going to cheat regardless!

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?


"One for the guys do you think you could ever be faithful in a Vanilla relationship after discovering fab.

"

Absolutely yes of course, why on earth not..

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By *ulldog_71Man
over a year ago

Sedgefield

being unfaithful is a choice as is entering a relationship if you can't choose one without the other your better off choosing neither I've been the on the painful side of an unfaithful relationship and trust me it's not a good place to be

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"being unfaithful is a choice as is entering a relationship if you can't choose one without the other your better off choosing neither I've been the on the painful side of an unfaithful relationship and trust me it's not a good place to be"

Did you see the name on the door as you walked in?

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By *ulldog_71Man
over a year ago

Sedgefield


"being unfaithful is a choice as is entering a relationship if you can't choose one without the other your better off choosing neither I've been the on the painful side of an unfaithful relationship and trust me it's not a good place to be

Did you see the name on the door as you walked in? "

There is a huge difference between being unfaithful and swinging, swinging is mutual and done with consent, being unfaithful is deceit

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"being unfaithful is a choice as is entering a relationship if you can't choose one without the other your better off choosing neither I've been the on the painful side of an unfaithful relationship and trust me it's not a good place to be

Did you see the name on the door as you walked in?

There is a huge difference between being unfaithful and swinging, swinging is mutual and done with consent, being unfaithful is deceit "

That's how we like to see ourselves, yes. The distinction would be lost on the average joe though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I could be faithful emotionally with Mr Right, in that he would be the one I loved and planned my future with, and I wouldn't want any emotional connection or ongoing relationship with another man. But I could never be monogamous, I need more than one cock in my life and believe that the variety and fun of swinging enhances a relationship IF you are solid as a couple.

So IMHO being faithful is a different thing to being monogamous (am i spelling that right?!)."

Totally agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I won't cheat and never have done, but I would not willingly and happily go back to monogamy. All my life I tried to fight it, but I've realised since being on Fab that monogamy in unnatural to me, and I also don't want a monogamous husband. No, one person is not enough for me. This is because one man, however much I love him, cannot give me the variety that a variety of men can give. Each sexual experience with each person is different. And I want my husband to experience stuff I can't give him.

Mrs

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