FabSwingers.com forum: What to put in a message

By *telar78 OP Man
over a year ago

gold coast

Dear god is it just me or is it nearly impossible to write a message to someone that isn't either boring and too nicely nicely or just wanna meet ... wanna Fuck!!!! I've never tried the later anyway cos I recon I've got a bit more class than that but ladies... what are you looking for in an introduction message???????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's only words...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lot of cock pics with pretty little bows on them pleeeease

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By *telar78 OP Man
over a year ago

gold coast

"It's only words...

Are we quoting boyzone? Does that work???

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By *telar78 OP Man
over a year ago

gold coast

"Lot of cock pics with pretty little bows on them pleeeease "

Haha now I was told that was definitely the wrong thing to do.... confused or what ??????

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By *igboobstCouple
over a year ago

barrow

First message is something we hate trying to write still lol xx

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

"It's only words...

Are we quoting boyzone? Does that work???

Noo!

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By *ilent.KnightMan
over a year ago

Swindon

"Lot of cock pics with pretty little bows on them pleeeease "
thats where I'm going wrong. Not enough pictures. Bows are too big.

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By *telar78 OP Man
over a year ago

gold coast

Thank god for that

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By *ranny Hunter 18210186Man
over a year ago

London Waterloo

If you swear at them and call them fat, you usually get a response.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think it matters really what you put. I’ve had instant deletes when I’ve put effort in and then replies when I’ve barely written anything.

I think if the person likes the look of your picture and profile then they will reply no matter what you have written (childish fuck now ones obviously deleted).....

Perhaps the ladies ask for “effort” to out the time wasters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

fancy a fuck,i am just out side your door..

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By *telar78 OP Man
over a year ago

gold coast

"If you swear at them and call them fat, you usually get a response. "

Possibly not the one I'm after like lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lot of cock pics with pretty little bows on them pleeeease thats where I'm going wrong. Not enough pictures. Bows are too big. "

a top hat then... can be ur super power pulling that out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put a bottle in it?

Like the police song but in reverse....?

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By *telar78 OP Man
over a year ago

gold coast

"Lot of cock pics with pretty little bows on them pleeeease thats where I'm going wrong. Not enough pictures. Bows are too big.

a top hat then... can be ur super power pulling that out

Dress your cock pic up.... ok got it ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's only words...

Are we quoting boyzone? Does that work???

Boy zone was just a rather poor cover version.....don't send cover versions....that won't work!

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By *telar78 OP Man
over a year ago

gold coast

"Put a bottle in it?

Like the police song but in reverse....?"

Clever like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bit of humour goes down well....

I recently had 'can you turn your tv around, I can't see whats on from the tree outside'

After carefully peaking our my window I laughed my head off and met a few days later x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's only words...

Are we quoting boyzone? Does that work???

Boy zone was just a rather poor cover version.....don't send cover versions....that won't work!"

Bee Gees originally...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

U get blocked for commenting on they're pics and saying how nice they look u get blocked for writing too short a message u get blocked for being witty or over keen my advise keep it simple say hi my name is ,and I am very interested in you would u like to chat and see if there is a mutual interest

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By *ilent.KnightMan
over a year ago

Swindon

"Lot of cock pics with pretty little bows on them pleeeease thats where I'm going wrong. Not enough pictures. Bows are too big.

a top hat then... can be ur super power pulling that out

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. I'm this close to doing a series .... do snapchat filters count ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's only words...

Are we quoting boyzone? Does that work???

Boy zone was just a rather poor cover version.....don't send cover versions....that won't work!"

I believe that is entirely dependent on his target audience ... some of us lil’ns will be none the wiser

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lot of cock pics with pretty little bows on them pleeeease thats where I'm going wrong. Not enough pictures. Bows are too big.

a top hat then... can be ur super power pulling that out

. I'm this close to doing a series .... do snapchat filters count ?"

I believe that calls for trial and error ... Snapchat? Lol

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"U get blocked for commenting on they're pics and saying how nice they look u get blocked for writing too short a message u get blocked for being witty or over keen my advise keep it simple say hi my name is ,and I am very interested in you would u like to chat and see if there is a mutual interest"

Yes, I would block any guy who messages but does not match what I want. Otherwise he'll be back.

It's very rarely personal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A bit of humour goes down well....

I recently had 'can you turn your tv around, I can't see whats on from the tree outside'

After carefully peaking our my window I laughed my head off and met a few days later x"

And while that worked for you it won't work for others, it's a fricking minefield.

Be yourself OP, the kind of people you want to meet will be attracted to the kind of person you project in your messages, the kind of people you won't want to meet will not like what you send and that's a good thing.

Be yourself.

Unless you can be Tom Hiddleston. If you can be him go for it

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By *telar78 OP Man
over a year ago

gold coast

"A bit of humour goes down well....

I recently had 'can you turn your tv around, I can't see whats on from the tree outside'

After carefully peaking our my window I laughed my head off and met a few days later x"

That's a good one may have to steal it ??

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"what are you looking for in an introduction message???????"

Content that proves, beyond a shadow of a doubt that you have a) read the profile in full and b) conclude that you definitely match what I am looking for.

I also want a clear face pic, one that doesn't look like you're in such a bad mood you may want to kill me.

But OP it's not all about the first message. Most of us check out the profile before deciding what to do or say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dear god is it just me or is it nearly impossible to write a message to someone that isn't either boring and too nicely nicely or just wanna meet ... wanna Fuck!!!! I've never tried the later anyway cos I recon I've got a bit more class than that but ladies... what are you looking for in an introduction message???????"

It all depends. Some people like to get straight to the point and love dirty talk/cock pics as a first message, others like to talk about non swinging related stuff before getting down to the GET DOWN

This is where your physic tendencies come into play

Read their profile carefully and figure out what kind of people they are and write your message accordingly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A bit of humour goes down well....

I recently had 'can you turn your tv around, I can't see whats on from the tree outside'

After carefully peaking our my window I laughed my head off and met a few days later x

And while that worked for you it won't work for others, it's a fricking minefield.

Be yourself.

Unless you can be Tom Hiddleston. If you can be him go for it

Agreed, we can't all like the same thing. That just worked for me.

And Tom Huddleston... yum

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By *telar78 OP Man
over a year ago

gold coast

Tom Huddleston hey??? That's where I'm going wrong! I constantly get told I'm like jack black ??

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By *DONToBEoNOSEYoMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

Try wearing a cowboy hat

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By *telar78 OP Man
over a year ago

gold coast

"what are you looking for in an introduction message???????

Content that proves, beyond a shadow of a doubt that you have a) read the profile in full and b) conclude that you definitely match what I am looking for.

I also want a clear face pic, one that doesn't look like you're in such a bad mood you may want to kill me.

But OP it's not all about the first message. Most of us check out the profile before deciding what to do or say

So a facepic with the message, having one on your profile doesn't count? And does my pic look a bit serial killerish?

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

Wording your message that shows you've read their profile.

I would say your pics are more suited to Facebook (cock pics excluded obviously)

rather than serial killer..

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"So a facepic with the message, having one on your profile doesn't count? And does my pic look a bit serial killerish?"

Yes, no and a bit

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"So a facepic with the message, having one on your profile doesn't count? And does my pic look a bit serial killerish?

Yes, no and a bit

Smiles are needed. As I always say, the mean and moody look just makes guys look mean and moody

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I would think that I have plenty of things in my profile to give someone at least an idea of what to write, if your contacting blank profiles then you need to question yourself why, but that is just my opinion

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By *telar78 OP Man
over a year ago

gold coast

Ok so now I'm a moody serial killer who should stay on facebook hahahaha I've got this allllll wrong lmao

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By *telar78 OP Man
over a year ago

gold coast

"So a facepic with the message, having one on your profile doesn't count? And does my pic look a bit serial killerish?

Yes, no and a bit

Thanks thanks and erm thanks lol

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"So a facepic with the message, having one on your profile doesn't count? And does my pic look a bit serial killerish?

Yes, no and a bit

Thanks thanks and erm thanks lol"

You're taking this well

If I were you I'd get rid of the cock pics, most of us don't care about your cock right now.

Keep the smiling one under the yellow parasol and, if you want face pics on show, take another smiling one without the shades

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By *telar78 OP Man
over a year ago

gold coast

"So a facepic with the message, having one on your profile doesn't count? And does my pic look a bit serial killerish?

Yes, no and a bit

Thanks thanks and erm thanks lol

You're taking this well

If I were you I'd get rid of the cock pics, most of us don't care about your cock right now.

Keep the smiling one under the yellow parasol and, if you want face pics on show, take another smiling one without the shades

I take it well cos all criticism is good criticism, you don't learn if you're not told the truth!!! As for the shades I hate my eyes supposedly my birth father was mixed race half Chinese half guppi fish... I obviously got my peepers from Him lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Non-overuse of punctuation.

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By *telar78 OP Man
over a year ago

gold coast

Non-overuse of punctuation. "

Ok so just one question mark then?

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"As for the shades I hate my eyes supposedly my birth father was mixed race half Chinese half guppi fish... I obviously got my peepers from Him lol"

They look totally fine in the other pics

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Non-overuse of punctuation. "

Good point

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By *telar78 OP Man
over a year ago

gold coast

"As for the shades I hate my eyes supposedly my birth father was mixed race half Chinese half guppi fish... I obviously got my peepers from Him lol

They look totally fine in the other pics

Well thank you it's nice to have a compliment on here rather than being called a serial killer hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m going to try reverse psychology and say that I don’t normally message people but felt obliged to offer a pity fuck.

If that doesnt work I’ll send a cock pic.

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By *telar78 OP Man
over a year ago

gold coast

"I’m going to try reverse psychology and say that I don’t normally message people but felt obliged to offer a pity fuck.

If that doesnt work I’ll send a cock pic.

Classy ??????????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haven’t you already been told about over punctuation????????

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By *telar78 OP Man
over a year ago

gold coast

"Haven’t you already been told about over punctuation????????"

Yep thought i was being funny. Obviously not!!!!!!!!!!!! ??

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By *telar78 OP Man
over a year ago

gold coast

The question marks are actually emojis from my keyboard which don't work on the forum it seems

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s ok. I was being funny

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By *telar78 OP Man
over a year ago

gold coast

"It’s ok. I was being funny

I know so was I

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Thing is, everyone is different so would like different things, not only that each person has different moods etc.

You could write a message one minute that someone would enjoy receiving, but not respond the same the next minute due to reasons out of your control.

There's no written or unwritten rule apart from, be yourself.

It's the best I can offer.

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