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By *arnsleycouple7683 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Barnsley

I want to do something to symbolise that I'm starting a new chapter in my life, and leaving behind a bad one.

But...

I like my hair, so I don't want to have a drastic new hair change.

I also don't want a tattoo.

Any ideas?

It's almost like a reinvention of my soul.

(Female)

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Something permanent?

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By *arnsleycouple7683 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Barnsley


"Something permanent? "

Well even hair cuts and tattoos aren't necessarily permanent.

I dunno I'm kind of tossing ideas around.

Symbolic jewellery.

Reinvention of wardrobe.

I dunno they seem a bit feeble.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

Could you decorate a room in the house? Take up a hobby or class?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I want to do something to symbolise that I'm starting a new chapter in my life, and leaving behind a bad one.

But...

I like my hair, so I don't want to have a drastic new hair change.

I also don't want a tattoo.

Any ideas?

It's almost like a reinvention of my soul.

(Female)"

Tick a bucket list wish maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tattoos at considered forever.

Try a trip, somewhere memorable.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

What's ended?

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

Or, cheesy, but take up a new routine or good habit - anything from drinking more water, cutting out added sugar, journalling, having a vegetarian day once a week, taking up running...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Paint a pebble with a meaningful symbol. Varnish it and lay it on the beach for nature to erode naturally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Change your name? I did that. A very subtle change but it worked for me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A beautiful piece of symbolic jewellery is a good idea

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Do a sweat lodge, the symbolism behind that is being reborn.

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull


"Change your name? I did that. A very subtle change but it worked for me x"

Did you used to be Good Kitty?

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By *arnsleycouple7683 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Barnsley


" What's ended? "

A volatile friendship with a past FWB.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

What about making a mood board with pictures and inspirational quotes of how you want your future to go and how you want this next chapter to pan out.

It would be useful both as a new beginning and as inspiration for your journey.

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

How about learning a new language or how to play a musical instrument?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


" Paint a pebble with a meaningful symbol. Varnish it and lay it on the beach for nature to erode naturally."

Ooh I quite like that x

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By *lue NarwhalMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

Apologies up front, im not Willy Wonka so its not gonna be sugar coates....

Go out and push your limits.. do things that you never considered in the past.. white water rafting, hang gliding, rock climbing, scuba diving, join a cookery class, join a Google group, rambling groups, get a new job...

Basically find other interests, make new friends within those groups and challenge yourself..

Doing stuff like that will fill you with trepidation but when it goes well you will feel great about yourself..

Hair, clothes, tattoos, they are all superficial, you will still be you and will slip back into the old monotony of that life you want to put behind you..however a total lifestyle change will make you evolve into the person you could be..

good luck and enjoy the journey..

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By *arnsleycouple7683 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Barnsley


"Change your name? I did that. A very subtle change but it worked for me x"

I did consider that, but my parents would be insulted lol

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By *arnsleycouple7683 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Barnsley


"Apologies up front, im not Willy Wonka so its not gonna be sugar coates....

Go out and push your limits.. do things that you never considered in the past.. white water rafting, hang gliding, rock climbing, scuba diving, join a cookery class, join a Google group, rambling groups, get a new job...

Basically find other interests, make new friends within those groups and challenge yourself..

Doing stuff like that will fill you with trepidation but when it goes well you will feel great about yourself..

Hair, clothes, tattoos, they are all superficial, you will still be you and will slip back into the old monotony of that life you want to put behind you..however a total lifestyle change will make you evolve into the person you could be..

good luck and enjoy the journey.. "

I actually like this non sugar coated stuff actually

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By *arnsleycouple7683 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Barnsley

Okay I've decided...

a new nickname (shortening my name differently to the way it normally gets shortened),

and a phoenix necklace when I can find a nice one

AND new activities (and bringing back long lost ones)

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Go on a trip to do something that you never would have done before. Immerse yourself in it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Okay I've decided...

a new nickname (shortening my name differently to the way it normally gets shortened),

and a phoenix necklace when I can find a nice one

AND new activities (and bringing back long lost ones)

"

That sounds brilliant! Here's to your rebirth x

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


" What's ended?

A volatile friendship with a past FWB."

The guy on your profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do good things for other people. Pay it forward kind of thing.

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By *arnsleycouple7683 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Barnsley


" What's ended?

A volatile friendship with a past FWB.

The guy on your profile? "

No that's my hubby.

The other guy was a friend and we worked closely together.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"A beautiful piece of symbolic jewellery is a good idea "

Why not make said jewelery?

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


" What's ended?

A volatile friendship with a past FWB.

The guy on your profile?

No that's my hubby.

The other guy was a friend and we worked closely together."

Oh. Don't get involved emotionally with fwb's. Always leads to trouble.

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By *arnsleycouple7683 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Barnsley


" What's ended?

A volatile friendship with a past FWB.

The guy on your profile?

No that's my hubby.

The other guy was a friend and we worked closely together.

Oh. Don't get involved emotionally with fwb's. Always leads to trouble. "

Yeah, very complicated messy situation. I'm trying to put it behind me.

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By *oubyLoverWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire


"Apologies up front, im not Willy Wonka so its not gonna be sugar coates....

Go out and push your limits.. do things that you never considered in the past.. white water rafting, hang gliding, rock climbing, scuba diving, join a cookery class, join a Google group, rambling groups, get a new job...

Basically find other interests, make new friends within those groups and challenge yourself..

Doing stuff like that will fill you with trepidation but when it goes well you will feel great about yourself..

Hair, clothes, tattoos, they are all superficial, you will still be you and will slip back into the old monotony of that life you want to put behind you..however a total lifestyle change will make you evolve into the person you could be..

good luck and enjoy the journey.. "

Love this

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight

Get a photographer to take a decent portrait of the "new you" however you look or feel, it becomes a meaningful image that reminds you that there's a story attached to it. Good luck for the future and with what ever you decide to do. Xx

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