FabSwingers.com forum: What am I doing wrong?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've literally met no one on here. Please tell me what I'm doing wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing probably. Just chill. Great things will happen

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

In the great shop window of life.... you have possibly forgot to dress yours.

*shrug* I dunno. What are you doing wrong??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess being on an island doesn't help!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've just been honest. Anyone can lie. I am who I am

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I guess being on an island doesn't help!"

Very true

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By *aelawMan
over a year ago

Paisley

This is your first forum post. Spend some time and get to know people and the community and let them get to know you. With every post like this the advices is always the same. Hope that helps!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've literally met no one on here. Please tell me what I'm doing wrong "

Have you thought about going 24-7?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've literally met no one on here. Please tell me what I'm doing wrong "
You've blocked all men but you want our advice?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've literally met no one on here. Please tell me what I'm doing wrong "

Why do you think you are doing something wrong just because you haven't met anyone? There are way too many men on Fab for all to realistically get a meet. Some men will never get a meet, often though no fault of their own, simply because there aren't enough women and couples to go round. That being said, there are ways to improve chances. One is having a good profile that makes you seem tempting to your target market. The other is getting out there either to socials or clubs where people can have a chance to know the real you.

Mrs

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By *achealTV/TS
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

It's all in your profile I think your off to a good start a face pic and smartly dressed no cock pics, just interact with people on line fab pictures, chat, post new pics and it will all fall into place babe xx

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Go to a club, experience swinging! Nothing beats kissing a woman who's just given half a dozen blow jobs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Search ‘manx’ perhaps. I’ve noticed a couple of females from the iom recently who use that word in their usernames.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You will be too young for some... to old for others.. not sure your exactly in a hot bed of swinging to be fair either.

Good photos ( although not my type but the photos are good ones )

Maybe expand what you say about yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been to the Isle of Man. About 5 people live there, right? I think we may have found your problem...

Lovely place, though.

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

You're only here a few months? Have patience, and also its good to remember you won't be everyone's cup of tea (none of us are!). Without knowing what your conversational skills are like its impossible to give any constructive comment on how you're approaching females in your area...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've literally met no one on here. Please tell me what I'm doing wrong "

Most guys here won't get a meet ,,most women got a hundred messages a day ,most women won't even meet here they just enjoy the attention this site will just depress you and make you feel worthless

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By * hung guysCouple (MM)
over a year ago

telford

You're not doing anything wrong

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By * hung guysCouple (MM)
over a year ago

telford

You're correct

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

"I've literally met no one on here. Please tell me what I'm doing wrong

Most guys here won't get a meet ,,most women got a hundred messages a day ,most women won't even meet here they just enjoy the attention this site will just depress you and make you feel worthless"
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Interesting how you speak for 'most women' on here - just because they're not meeting you, doesn't mean they're not meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Without knowing what it is you are doing, can’t really answer, you could ask for profile advice?

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By * hung guysCouple (MM)
over a year ago

telford

"I've literally met no one on here. Please tell me what I'm doing wrong

Most guys here won't get a meet ,,most women got a hundred messages a day ,most women won't even meet here they just enjoy the attention this site will just depress you and make you feel worthless"

I don't think that statement is correct tho

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By *ex mad ladMan
over a year ago

Sussex

"I've literally met no one on here. Please tell me what I'm doing wrong "

Single men are scum on here that's why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've literally met no one on here. Please tell me what I'm doing wrong

Most guys here won't get a meet ,,most women got a hundred messages a day ,most women won't even meet here they just enjoy the attention this site will just depress you and make you feel worthless\

Interesting how you speak for 'most women' on here - just because they're not meeting you, doesn't mean they're not meeting. "

Exactly what I was just thinking.I get so bored of explaining, and feeling the need to explain to guys why I don't want to meet them. They don't seem to appreciate the fact they're just not what I'm looking for. Being on fab isn't a guaranteed meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've literally met no one on here. Please tell me what I'm doing wrong

Single men are scum on here that's why"

Am I? Why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've literally met no one on here. Please tell me what I'm doing wrong

Single men are scum on here that's why"

Don’t be ridiculous. Plenty of us only look for single men.

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By *itmanAndHerrCouple
over a year ago

st helens

"I've been to the Isle of Man. About 5 people live there, right? I think we may have found your problem...

Lovely place, though.

80,000 people live there but probably only 5 females active on fab.

I think it's safe to say you're fighting a losing battle. I'd either give up on fab or move.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"I've literally met no one on here. Please tell me what I'm doing wrong

Most guys here won't get a meet ,,most women got a hundred messages a day ,most women won't even meet here they just enjoy the attention this site will just depress you and make you feel worthless"

I'm sorry you're feeling this way about the site. Unfortunately it can be frustrating at times, I have seen your status update and although it's easy to see you're unhappy, it's not fair to tar everybody with the same brush. Us women also have to deal with dishonesty. By saying nobody on the site is honest you're also calling yourself a liar. Exaggeration is an unappealing quality when used in that way, so maybe this is something that is hindering your experiences?

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By * hung guysCouple (MM)
over a year ago

telford

That's wrong as qell

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"I've literally met no one on here. Please tell me what I'm doing wrong

Most guys here won't get a meet ,,most women got a hundred messages a day ,most women won't even meet here they just enjoy the attention this site will just depress you and make you feel worthless\

Interesting how you speak for 'most women' on here - just because they're not meeting you, doesn't mean they're not meeting. "

if only someone else had posted that! It wouldn't be soo ironic!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've literally met no one on here. Please tell me what I'm doing wrong

Single men are scum on here that's why"

LOL, bit harsh and also totally not true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've literally met no one on here. Please tell me what I'm doing wrong

Single men are scum on here that's why

LOL, bit harsh and also totally not true. "

Boom! Hot Manx chick enters the thread

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

"I've literally met no one on here. Please tell me what I'm doing wrong

Most guys here won't get a meet ,,most women got a hundred messages a day ,most women won't even meet here they just enjoy the attention this site will just depress you and make you feel worthless\

Interesting how you speak for 'most women' on here - just because they're not meeting you, doesn't mean they're not meeting.

if only someone else had posted that! It wouldn't be soo ironic!

But I'm not most women am I? And I have met in the past, and no doubt will again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As many have/will say it's down to 2 things.

1) Your profile and how you use it to "sell" yourself

2) Simple numbers. Massively more single men here than couples and ladies. Some guys will never get a meet, others of us may get more than our share....it's just the way it is.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahhhhh the old"what am i doing wrong" thread,iv missed them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've literally met no one on here. Please tell me what I'm doing wrong

Most guys here won't get a meet ,,most women got a hundred messages a day ,most women won't even meet here they just enjoy the attention this site will just depress you and make you feel worthless\

Interesting how you speak for 'most women' on here - just because they're not meeting you, doesn't mean they're not meeting.

if only someone else had posted that! It wouldn't be soo ironic!

But she makes it clear (VERY CLEAR IN CAPITALS) at the start of her profile that she isn't meeting just now....so guys know not to message her to try and get a meet. Where's the harm in that?

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"I've literally met no one on here. Please tell me what I'm doing wrong "

Don't no but I've been hear over a year with no meets

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By *ex mad ladMan
over a year ago

Sussex

"I've literally met no one on here. Please tell me what I'm doing wrong

Single men are scum on here that's why

Am I? Why? "

No I meant that's how I feel we are treated on here

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By *lue NarwhalMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

Apart from moving.. actually, you could swap with me, Douglas is a far more beautiful part of the world than the part of London I live in..

Expand upon your profile, women are not like men, they enjoy reading and if you can win them over with words, 90% of the work is done..

Show them you have a sense of humour, write something amusing or anecdotal (use artistic licence) get some interesting and maybe amusing pics...

Find funny road signs or names to take a pic with you in..

You only get out what you put into it and if you haven't put it in, well you just won't get any offers to put it in..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like the standard male fab experience to me. I wouldn't worry about it, I don't anymore....

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"I've literally met no one on here. Please tell me what I'm doing wrong

Single men are scum on here that's why

Am I? Why?

No I meant that's how I feel we are treated on here "

Try being a single female. I'd love to show you my inbox so you can see things from a different perspective. Being on the forums will give others a better idea of the real you. Be yourself, be true to who you are and hopefully things will look brighter.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"I've literally met no one on here. Please tell me what I'm doing wrong "

Expecting it to be instashag ?

3 months is nothing tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've literally met no one on here. Please tell me what I'm doing wrong

Single men are scum on here that's why

Don’t be ridiculous. Plenty of us only look for single men. "

Agree. I mainly look for single men and the odd couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only come on and post when you're in a positive frame of mind.

Always say hello.

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By *ex mad ladMan
over a year ago

Sussex

"I've literally met no one on here. Please tell me what I'm doing wrong

Single men are scum on here that's why

Am I? Why?

No I meant that's how I feel we are treated on here

Well that's bullshit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've literally met no one on here. Please tell me what I'm doing wrong

Single men are scum on here that's why

Am I? Why?

No I meant that's how I feel we are treated on here "

Not me sorry you feel that way.

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By *icky-discoMan
over a year ago

oxford

"I've literally met no one on here. Please tell me what I'm doing wrong "

Joining this site expecting instashag

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By *ex mad ladMan
over a year ago

Sussex

"I've literally met no one on here. Please tell me what I'm doing wrong

Single men are scum on here that's why

Am I? Why?

No I meant that's how I feel we are treated on here

Not me sorry you feel that way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op patience is needed be polite read profiles and just put thought into your messages and if you can attend any socials go along and introduce yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've literally met no one on here. Please tell me what I'm doing wrong

Single men are scum on here that's why

Am I? Why?

No I meant that's how I feel we are treated on here

Well that's bullshit"

Bit harsh

he’s much more likely to get anywhere being himself than trying to be someone he’s not. And if most men could see the inside of a woman’s or couples inbox I reckon these types of thread would soon disappear

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"I guess being on an island doesn't help!"

I hate to break the news but you're on an island as well

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By *ex mad ladMan
over a year ago

Sussex

"I've literally met no one on here. Please tell me what I'm doing wrong

Single men are scum on here that's why

Am I? Why?

No I meant that's how I feel we are treated on here

Well that's bullshit

Bit harsh

I have seeing them...you shouldn't really be on here if you have a problem with that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Apart from moving.. actually, you could swap with me, Douglas is a far more beautiful part of the world than the part of London I live in..

Expand upon your profile, women are not like men, they enjoy reading and if you can win them over with words, 90% of the work is done..

Show them you have a sense of humour, write something amusing or anecdotal (use artistic licence) get some interesting and maybe amusing pics...

Find funny road signs or names to take a pic with you in..

You only get out what you put into it and if you haven't put it in, well you just won't get any offers to put it in.. "

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By *ornylittlesubWoman
over a year ago

Grangemouth

"I've literally met no one on here. Please tell me what I'm doing wrong

Single men are scum on here that's why"

The problem is single men ACT like scum on here, granted not all...or even most, but enough to tarnish!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've literally met no one on here. Please tell me what I'm doing wrong

Single men are scum on here that's why

Am I? Why?

No I meant that's how I feel we are treated on here

Well that's bullshit

Bit harsh

I have seeing them...you shouldn't really be on here if you have a problem with that "

Thanks for the advice

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"I've literally met no one on here. Please tell me what I'm doing wrong

Single men are scum on here that's why

Am I? Why?

No I meant that's how I feel we are treated on here

Well that's bullshit"

Wow, aren't you a gem? I'm no genius kiddo but I reckon if that's your attitude then your attitude is your problem.

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By *ex mad ladMan
over a year ago

Sussex

"I've literally met no one on here. Please tell me what I'm doing wrong

Single men are scum on here that's why

The problem is single men ACT like scum on here, granted not all...or even most, but enough to tarnish!

Realistically how do act like scum....you either are or your not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've literally met no one on here. Please tell me what I'm doing wrong

Single men are scum on here that's why

The problem is single men ACT like scum on here, granted not all...or even most, but enough to tarnish!

Realistically how do act like scum....you either are or your not"

I guess it’s just more obvious with some

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By *ornylittlesubWoman
over a year ago

Grangemouth

"I've literally met no one on here. Please tell me what I'm doing wrong

Single men are scum on here that's why

Am I? Why?

No I meant that's how I feel we are treated on here

Well that's bullshit

Wow, aren't you a gem? I'm no genius kiddo but I reckon if that's your attitude then your attitude is your problem. "

Soooooo this!

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"I've literally met no one on here. Please tell me what I'm doing wrong

Single men are scum on here that's why

The problem is single men ACT like scum on here, granted not all...or even most, but enough to tarnish!

Realistically how do act like scum....you either are or your not"

I don't think that's the case, I know normal people who you'd get on with but act like scum when they've been drinking.

On fab guys who wouldn't treat women badly think they can on here as they can't handle rejection as they think if a woman's on here she'll shag anything.

Sad really and when I see a woman's profile as left the site I hope it's not because of men treating them badly

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"I've literally met no one on here. Please tell me what I'm doing wrong

Single men are scum on here that's why

The problem is single men ACT like scum on here, granted not all...or even most, but enough to tarnish!

Never forget. Alot of people are single for a good reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've literally met no one on here. Please tell me what I'm doing wrong

Single men are scum on here that's why

LOL, bit harsh and also totally not true.

Boom! Hot Manx chick enters the thread

Haha. I'm not his type

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Miss Manx your definitely my type

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

The reality is that you are probably doing nothing wrong, you just happen to live on an island and that will limit your opportunities somewhat.

You could try to be more enticing with your profile text, as that's the place you get to sell yourself.

Chin up

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"I've literally met no one on here. Please tell me what I'm doing wrong

Single men are scum on here that's why

The problem is single men ACT like scum on here, granted not all...or even most, but enough to tarnish!

Realistically how do act like scum....you either are or your not"

Seems you've either been hurt and your taking your angst out on whoever may read your comments or you're just a troll who likes to cause controversy and make sarcastic remarks. The Green arrow is very informative.

So I take back my advise to you personally about being yourself, because it doesn't make attractive reading.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you were near me I would definitely meet you for a social, you look smart and the pictures are nice, maybe add to your interests and write a little bit more, add a few more photos possibly.

How do y'all u approach a lady when messaging, hi or I wana fuck you doesn't cut it, the guys who stick out to me are the ones who have a whitty little paragraph, usually nothing sex related, make a lady smile when she's reading something and you will have her attention!! Best of luck babe xx

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By *ex mad ladMan
over a year ago

Sussex

"I've literally met no one on here. Please tell me what I'm doing wrong

Single men are scum on here that's why

The problem is single men ACT like scum on here, granted not all...or even most, but enough to tarnish!

Realistically how do act like scum....you either are or your not

So I take back my advise to you personally about being yourself, because it doesn't make attractive reading. "

Don't read it then

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

OP, you say in your profile you have a good sense of humour. This is awesome, and I'm personally attracted moreso to those who make me laugh, I would say make yourself known on the forums, get yourself to clubs if you can. A sense of humour is a huge bonus and I'm sure plenty of us would enjoy seeing it.

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By *achealTV/TS
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

"I've literally met no one on here. Please tell me what I'm doing wrong

Single men are scum on here that's why

Am I? Why? "

Are we and after all he's had ,18 verifications so girls like scum I guess x

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By *iss B-HavingWoman
over a year ago

Welsh Valleys

"I've literally met no one on here. Please tell me what I'm doing wrong "

Smile in your pictures

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By *ex mad ladMan
over a year ago

Sussex

"I've literally met no one on here. Please tell me what I'm doing wrong

Single men are scum on here that's why

Am I? Why?

Are we and after all he's had ,18 verifications so girls like scum I guess x"

Treated like scum I meant!!!!

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Moaning on the forums?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've literally met no one on here. Please tell me what I'm doing wrong

Single men are scum on here that's why

Am I? Why?

Are we and after all he's had ,18 verifications so girls like scum I guess x

Treated like scum I meant!!!!"

Not much difference between treated like an acting like in some cases

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've literally met no one on here. Please tell me what I'm doing wrong

Single men are scum on here that's why

Am I? Why?

Are we and after all he's had ,18 verifications so girls like scum I guess x

Treated like scum I meant!!!!

Not much difference between treated like an acting like in some cases

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By *ex mad ladMan
over a year ago

Sussex

"I've literally met no one on here. Please tell me what I'm doing wrong

Single men are scum on here that's why

Am I? Why?

Are we and after all he's had ,18 verifications so girls like scum I guess x

Treated like scum I meant!!!!

Not much difference between treated like an acting like in some cases

You like using emojis don't you pal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ll tell you why you’re doing wrong. Expecting. Lower your expectations, attend socials and I bet the ladies will appear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've literally met no one on here. Please tell me what I'm doing wrong

Single men are scum on here that's why

Am I? Why?

Are we and after all he's had ,18 verifications so girls like scum I guess x

Treated like scum I meant!!!!

Not much difference between treated like an acting like in some cases

You like using emojis don't you pal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've literally met no one on here. Please tell me what I'm doing wrong

Single men are scum on here that's why

Am I? Why?

Are we and after all he's had ,18 verifications so girls like scum I guess x

Treated like scum I meant!!!!

Not much difference between treated like an acting like in some cases

You like using emojis don't you pal

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