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Frienzoned AGAIN

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By *olgate OP   Man
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

Met someone new from another site at the weekend, plenty of interests in common, the messages were hot, the phone conversations were hotter and the meet couldn’t have gone much better for both of us.

Then the message yesterday, “I really really like you and had a great time, we have so much in common but””

Yeah, but?

But but but?

Come on spit it out!

“I only want to see you as a friend “

NOOOOO!!!!

Not the friend zone!

Not again!!!

At this rate I will have more “friends “ than Mark. zuckerberg!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But better than being told you're a rubbish shag........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stop being friendly. Come back and let us know how you get along.

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By *olgate OP   Man
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

I don’t do friendly at the best of times and a rubbish shag is still a shag ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t do friendly at the best of times and a rubbish shag is still a shag ffs"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not you, it's them

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By *wo4FemCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Did she not mean friend with benefits?

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By *rightonCheekyMan
over a year ago

Brighton

She probably didn't feel that spark of desire and see you as a sexual partner. It's happened to me too but I remember feeling the same as we had dinner together, no sexual spark

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By *olgate OP   Man
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular


"She probably didn't feel that spark of desire and see you as a sexual partner. It's happened to me too but I remember feeling the same as we had dinner together, no sexual spark "

The sparks were definitely flying and it wasn’t just the manmade fibres either

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By *rightonCheekyMan
over a year ago

Brighton


"She probably didn't feel that spark of desire and see you as a sexual partner. It's happened to me too but I remember feeling the same as we had dinner together, no sexual spark

The sparks were definitely flying and it wasn’t just the manmade fibres either "

Fucked if I know then

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By *olgate OP   Man
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

It’s my own fault I’m too nice to them, treat em mean always works best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only friendzone people I don’t fancy, it’s nothing to do with how nice or mean they are to me.

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By *a72Man
over a year ago

london

You can never have too many friends

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By *eadySteadyCockCouple
over a year ago

Tredegar


"It’s my own fault I’m too nice to them, treat em mean always works best"
Always be the person you really are and dont change for anyone! If they are friend zoning you it’s because your not their type and nothing else. That’s their loss, I’d prefer the company of a nice person over anyone regardless of looks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The right person will come along ,chin up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The right person will come along ,chin up "

Wish you would come along Honeyrose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm going through something similar right now, funny part is that since I'm seeing this guy a few guys from my past are trying to get back into my life

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By *DONToBEoNOSEYoMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

If only we could read the brains of the other sex aye? Would save a shitload of confusion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The answer is obvious. Back off totally. No contact. And if she doesn't get back to you, move on.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


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The sparks were definitely flying and it wasn’t just the manmade fibres either "

There wasn't as many sparks flying for her by the looks of it. The old "friend " line is a nice way to say so.

Hopefully you will find someone who has as many sparks as you have going on

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"But better than being told you're a rubbish shag........ "

It's just a polite way of saying someone was a rubbish shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But better than being told you're a rubbish shag........

It's just a polite way of saying someone was a rubbish shag "

If someone was rubbish you wouldn't want to be friends with surely .

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By *aul1973HullMan
over a year ago

East Hull

Maybe they do really really like you, and they just want to take things slow, you've gained a friend out of them, in time maybe more? See how it goes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But better than being told you're a rubbish shag........

It's just a polite way of saying someone was a rubbish shag "

if they had sex lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Stop being friendly. Come back and let us know how you get along. "

This. You seem to have a lot of social meets. Nothing wrong with that...but trust me there are people who are serious about swinging/fucking and those who really want to network and form cliques. I dont know, but I can imagine as a red blooded guy thats not entirely why you would likely be looking to swing.

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Merton


"Stop being friendly. Come back and let us know how you get along. "
this

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By *olgate OP   Man
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular


"Maybe they do really really like you, and they just want to take things slow, you've gained a friend out of them, in time maybe more? See how it goes "

It takes two to tango and I’m bored of taking the lead all the time. If they get in contact again it will be nice but I’m past holding my breath

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