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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Some say being in a sexless relationship is better than being single? Discuss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being single rules

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they say it, it must be true.

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By *urballsMan
over a year ago

Claygate

Better alone than in bad company.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the reason for the sexless.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on the reason for the sexless."

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By *eeBee67Man
over a year ago

Masked and Distant


"Depends on the reason for the sexless."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on the reason for the sexless."

Agree

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By *eliz NelsonMan
over a year ago

The Tantric Tea Shop


"Depends on the reason for the sexless."

Yep! This sums it up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not good

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I have friends where the relationship is sexless, so it's potentially not all bad!

It depends whether it's satisfying for both, the rules and what you want for the future potentially. I'd not give up being single for it, I don't think... Unless I fell in love with someone and it seemed right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

each to their own -

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Better alone than in bad company."

A sexless relationship isn't necessarily bad company though is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Better alone than in bad company.

A sexless relationship isn't necessarily bad company though is it?"

Quite. I have been single, which sucked even when I was getting sex quite regularly. I will stick with my sexless relationship. I can always have a wank, I can't simulate a relationship..

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By *aelawMan
over a year ago

Paisley

:O definitely not, doesn't that make you more just friends? Never really felt an emotional bond to the level I would want to enter a relationship without sex

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


":O definitely not, doesn't that make you more just friends? Never really felt an emotional bond to the level I would want to enter a relationship without sex"

No. Luckily we are in a very sexual relationship, married for a long time with kids. If for some unknown reason the sex stopped, the relationship would still be a million times more than just a friendship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It might be better for some and not for others.

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea


"Some say being in a sexless relationship is better than being single? Discuss "

I Really don't no wot to think on this 1.

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

What if the couple are in their 80s or 90s? Do you expect them to get divorced?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some say being in a sexless relationship is better than being single? Discuss "

I have been thinking about this a lot recently as a close friend of mine is in a sexless relationship and feels like shit about it.

But she has someone to share things with to go out with at weekends to spend evenings with etc ...

Where as I do everything alone which is OK but I do feel lonely!

Sex is easy to come by - a person that wants to share their life with you isn't.

I don't know anymore I just spend too much time alone it's not healthy!

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea


"Some say being in a sexless relationship is better than being single? Discuss

I Really don't no wot to think on this 1. "

I'm really stuk on this 1

50% of me ses yes cos at lest you got sumone to be with and to shear with.

And

50% of me ses no cos i don't want to have a 100% sexless life.

It's not common for sumone to get me stuk on a question wear I'm 50/50

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Some say being in a sexless relationship is better than being single? Discuss "

Depends on what the relationship is like, otherwise. Relationships aren't all about sex for some people.

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By *ighland gentlemanMan
over a year ago

Ardgay

When you say sexless, is that only with your spouse?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly .......

I's swap all the sex in the world to bring back the relationship I had with my soul-mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honestly .......

I's swap all the sex in the world to bring back the relationship I had with my soul-mate "

*Nods*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some say being in a sexless relationship is better than being single? Discuss "
They either lie its the otger persons fault and end up on fab x lol female replying x

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Better alone than in bad company."

Great band though Bad Company, if I was in Bad company, I'm sure there would be plenty of sex going around.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some say being in a sexless relationship is better than being single? Discuss "

Who said it? The daily mail?

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.


"Some say being in a sexless relationship is better than being single? Discuss "

There is a huge difference between sexless and loveless.

Sex isn't everything and if you love someone enough just being with them is enough.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

I would say if a relationship is completely sexless,theres something wrong there.

So for me,i know sex isn't eveeything,but i would choose to be single.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who defines a relationship surely the partners in the relationship ...so perhaps its nebulous as it depends on several variables the value of ehich is only known to the parties in yhe relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on whether I was allowed to get my sexual kicks somewhere else, or if I'm being forced into celibacy and have to be completely monogamous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apologies about the typos ..lol

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

Here’s a view that no one would expect from me , but as a result of the last time this came up I’ve given this a lot of thought and here’s my take .

If you’ve been in a very sexual relationship with someone for a long time , and they decide they no longer want sex with you , then it’s going to be very difficult to continue in that relationship if there’s no reason for them to have made this decision . Especiallly if you still desire sex with them .

If however you both decide that sex is no longer important , and you want to pursue other avenues of pleasure together , then yes , this relationship is much better than being alone .

Sex for people like us us is all consuming and can be draining . We are far from feeling like we no longer want it , but at the same time we love our weekends which are always free from fab and swinging . Ok we enjoy sex with each other at weekends , but we share so much more than just that , so I could imagine we would go without sex and still have a happy relationship together .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I miss the sex if honest hence why I joined here

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