FabSwingers.com forum: Some advice needed from the lady's.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Long story short.

Was on hear with my wife as a couple had loads of fun met some great people.

A few months ago we had a massive fight over her spending got very nasty a lot of things where said she told me to leave I tryed very hard to stay for a cuple of weeks but the fights were getting ridiculous.

3 months on I have moved into my own house we have 2 kids.

She brings them round stays over in a different room and takes them to school in the morning after I leave for work.

We have had sex a couple of times but not for a few weeks.

We have a flert and sometimes she will climb into my bed for a cuddle.

I still love her.

But don't know if it's going anywhere but don't won't to ask and scare her off..

Haven't slept with anyone since we split.

Don't know if it's just finished now and I should start seeing people to move on.

Or if there's any chance to make it work...?

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

Only you can answer whether you want it to work. If you both want it to then of course it can work, it might just take a little time so enjoy dating again and having fun together.

But, I’d suggest the fun should be just the 2 of you (and your children) and a break from here could be wise until you’re relationship is strong again.

Good luck! Mrs xx

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By *eadySteadyCockCouple
over a year ago

Tredegar

"Long story short.

Was on hear with my wife as a couple had loads of fun met some great people.

3 months on I have moved into my own house we have 2 kids.

She brings them round stays over in a different room and takes them to school in the morning after I leave for work.

We have had sex a couple of times but not for a few weeks.

We have a flert and sometimes she will climb into my bed for a cuddle.

I still love her.

But don't know if it's going anywhere but don't won't to ask and scare her off..

Haven't slept with anyone since we split.

Don't know if it's just finished now and I should start seeing people to move on.

Or if there's any chance to make it work...?

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move on, I made the best decision of my live 11 years ago in very similar circumstances that was unhealthy. At the time I felt alone and my options were limited. Now everything I own is mine, I met the most amazing girl and my life change completely. Everyone’s happier including the kids and there are no rows ever just loads of love.

Hope this helps!

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Counseling for both of you

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Talk to your wife. Good relationships are based on communication.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Talk to your wife. Good relationships are based on communication."

That’s my line

Think hard about what you want. Talk to her. Tell her how you feel.

We’re not mind readers so you need to tell us what you feel. We all make a lot of assumptions about other people’s thoughts and intentions unless you tell us, we could be very wrong.

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