FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to The Lounge

missing someone off fab???

Jump to newest
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

have you ever met a lover on fab and can't get them out of your head even though they hurt you?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *iver2015Woman
over a year ago

middlesbrough

No. I’ve been annoyed before because meets haven’t worked out and people have just disappeared but I’ve done that myself too.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"have you ever met a lover on fab and can't get them out of your head even though they hurt you?"

Yep but to be fair it was very recent and he did very hurtful emotional things to me.

He's still on here too which makes it worse. Despite telling me he wasn't.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ooby birdWoman
over a year ago

North West

Yes

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *eal Deal PartiesWoman
over a year ago

x

Snap

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

oh god know haha that means you actually cared

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *idalgo13Man
over a year ago

Near York


"have you ever met a lover on fab and can't get them out of your head even though they hurt you?

Yep but to be fair it was very recent and he did very hurtful emotional things to me.

He's still on here too which makes it worse. Despite telling me he wasn't. "

Sending you a huge hug and a X,

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Yes, it’s a few years ago now and I figure if he had of wanted to stay in touch he would of, I didn’t dwell on it for too long tbh

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"have you ever met a lover on fab and can't get them out of your head even though they hurt you?

Yep but to be fair it was very recent and he did very hurtful emotional things to me.

He's still on here too which makes it worse. Despite telling me he wasn't.

Sending you a huge hug and a X, "

Thank you x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

its every so often you get that smell of fabric conditioner

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep. My FB for three years. He was an emotional manipulator, wanted me one minute, but would turn on me easily if I couldn't meet.

Then he'd back to loving me again.

It was exhausting. At the time I wondered wtf, and knew it was unhealthy. But I kept going back to him. A lovely guy, very attentive and loving when together. Volatile when apart.

Now I look back and can see how insecure he was, he needed my attention.

He's not on Fab anymore, I saw him in the street and we smiled.

Twisted thing is, I would probably go back to him lol. Me level headed and takes no crap. Yet him lol.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

Short answer

Yes.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"have you ever met a lover on fab and can't get them out of your head even though they hurt you?

Yep but to be fair it was very recent and he did very hurtful emotional things to me.

He's still on here too which makes it worse. Despite telling me he wasn't. "

xxxxx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I'm incapable of feeling hurt by anyone. Thankfully.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Not hurt, however a rather large hole in the fun and my day to day life appeared.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I miss people who disappear for short or permanent breaks. But haven't been hurt by anyone.

Hugs Evie xx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *orwegian BlueMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

I have tried to avoid any emotional connection beyond friendship, however it can be hard not to feel an attachment to a person you have met with on numerous occasions, chatted with and shared personal feelings and intimate moments.

I guess its just human to feel that way about someone you like..

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

Nope .

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Nope .

"

What they said

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes , though we are still good chums which is spiffing and they are splendidly happy. So what more could a chap ask for

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"have you ever met a lover on fab and can't get them out of your head even though they hurt you?"

No.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Not off fab but a year on the cunt still pisses me off

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *egs11ABCWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Not hurt but reg fb went back down south and miss the amazing sex x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't miss her but i pausued for a moment today when she KIK'd me for the first time in ages

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea


"have you ever met a lover on fab and can't get them out of your head even though they hurt you?"

No cos I've had no meets

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *s_macWoman
over a year ago

Traffic land

No, I am a very warm person, so do care about those I meet (I tend to chat for a while and get to know them) but boundaries are well defined. I'm lovely to everyone I come in to contact with (more or less ) as I genuinely love people, so a meet would be no different. But equally, if it isn't as straightforward as I want, and they want more than I'm prepared to give, I'd have no hesitation in moving on (but I'd be kind and say why, and thankfully it has only happened once).

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"have you ever met a lover on fab and can't get them out of your head even though they hurt you?"

na

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)

Nope..... cuz hubby is my main man .... I just fuck everyone else for pleasure xxxxx Suzi

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *iggerbumWoman
over a year ago

Warwick

Nope im the ice bitch no feeling or emotions for nobody dont get messy or hurt them xx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your mum.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No switch off to feelings on here

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep i got feelings for a fwb that i met on several occasions he was my 1st meet.. But soon realised no friend just a liar.. I won't meet without u if u do the same.. Fell for it.. but he caught himself out lol..so try to switch feelings off from now on

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kind of I guess. When you've been seeing someone for two and a half years and it's coming to an end its gonna smart a bit.

For whatever reason any friend leaves your life it's gonna hurt a bit wether you are intimate with them or not.

I'll get over it. Just makes me a little sad.

Lesson learnt, no regrets.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not hurt, just a bit sad when they fade away. Still, that is the nature of this game, I guess.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I miss people. Here or out there In the real world. But I suppose we're not in their next chapter of the book they're writting are we. Maybe we'll re-apear somewhere in it again.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

Yes - tat reminds me to send a message

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Miss the person I thought they were. But not crap they actually came out with.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"oh god know haha that means you actually cared"

some people do

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"I miss people who disappear for short or permanent breaks. But haven't been hurt by anyone.

Hugs Evie xx"

Thank you x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

but to add ive got some great friends on fab so you just move on its friendship that makes the world a better place

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"have you ever met a lover on fab and can't get them out of your head even though they hurt you?

Yep but to be fair it was very recent and he did very hurtful emotional things to me.

He's still on here too which makes it worse. Despite telling me he wasn't.

xxxxx"

Best but is his new couples profile states not interested in anyone playing away

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"have you ever met a lover on fab and can't get them out of your head even though they hurt you?

Yep but to be fair it was very recent and he did very hurtful emotional things to me.

He's still on here too which makes it worse. Despite telling me he wasn't.

xxxxx

Best but is his new couples profile states not interested in anyone playing away

"

ahhhhh the old one rule for themselves and one for everybody else

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"have you ever met a lover on fab and can't get them out of your head even though they hurt you?

Yep but to be fair it was very recent and he did very hurtful emotional things to me.

He's still on here too which makes it worse. Despite telling me he wasn't.

xxxxx

Best but is his new couples profile states not interested in anyone playing away

ahhhhh the old one rule for themselves and one for everybody else"

Just makes me laugh as he wasn't just cheating on me when they got together. So hypocritical!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"have you ever met a lover on fab and can't get them out of your head even though they hurt you?

Yep but to be fair it was very recent and he did very hurtful emotional things to me.

He's still on here too which makes it worse. Despite telling me he wasn't.

xxxxx

Best but is his new couples profile states not interested in anyone playing away

ahhhhh the old one rule for themselves and one for everybody else"

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ampant Lion34Man
over a year ago

East Midlands

Yes met my partner on here 7 years ago. We was on and off over the years and made ago of it for a year or 2 but wanted different things. We still talk.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Miss the person I thought they were. But not crap they actually came out with. "

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ighnboxCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

[Removed by poster at 04/10/17 10:05:58]

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"have you ever met a lover on fab and can't get them out of your head even though they hurt you?

Yep but to be fair it was very recent and he did very hurtful emotional things to me.

He's still on here too which makes it worse. Despite telling me he wasn't. "

Remember im here. Ill cook ply you with booze share my bed

Im here for you xx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ighnboxCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Never happened ....but have made some AMAZING friends along the way who we are still great friends all these years later.

Just great people/friends who we just love spending time with...before the added perks lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"have you ever met a lover on fab and can't get them out of your head even though they hurt you?"

Yeah we are like chalk and cheese and the sex is amazing;) if no games i would go back

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes but they never hurt me, just decided to leave, was my best meet too.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Thankfully not

Had some good meets and made friends.

Miss

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 04/10/17 10:24:39]

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. I have Dorian to focus on in terms of all the lovely dovey stuff. I only love him and have never had romantic feelings for anyone else.

We swing for the pure pleasure and don't involve complicated feelings just like to have a bit of fun.

We don't meet very often and don't tend to do repeat meets so there never really is space for these feelings to appear.

Even when we do meet someone a few times it's always purely for fun not for anything else.

~Mia

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax


"have you ever met a lover on fab and can't get them out of your head even though they hurt you?

Yep but to be fair it was very recent and he did very hurtful emotional things to me.

He's still on here too which makes it worse. Despite telling me he wasn't. "

Sorry to hear this hugs xx

Miss

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I’ve never got involved emotionally with anyone on here so I don’t miss anyone.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top