FabSwingers.com forum: Shouldn't get to you, but it does

By *iSTARess OP Woman
over a year ago

London

Just been told out of nowhere that I look like a TV and would look better with a beard.

Now I'm a tough broad and don't usually care about such bollocks (I'm a performer and DJ and have heard a lot worse) but has really thrown me.

What innocuous nonsense can change your mood?

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

What's worse is i read heard as beard!

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Would tieing me up and using sounds on me help cheer you up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A harsh word from someone who I care for.

Keyboard warriors hurt me not.

Pull yourself together sweet cheeks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just been told out of nowhere that I look like a TV and would look better with a beard.

Now I'm a tough broad and don't usually care about such bollocks (I'm a performer and DJ and have heard a lot worse) but has really thrown me.

What innocuous nonsense can change your mood? "

It is nonsense and I would hope you'll move on quickly

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By *iSTARess OP Woman
over a year ago

London

"Would tieing me up and using sounds on me help cheer you up? "

Yes. Yes it would

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I found out, a few weeks ago, that someone had said they hated me for no good reason, which really upset me as I can't hate someone or hold a grudge against someone even if I try.

Sometimes other people can't or won't treat you like you treat them.

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By *eeBee67Man
over a year ago

Masked and Distant

"Just been told out of nowhere that I look like a TV and would look better with a beard.

Now I'm a tough broad and don't usually care about such bollocks (I'm a performer and DJ and have heard a lot worse) but has really thrown me.

What innocuous nonsense can change your mood? "

Didnt think anyone who had that bad eyesight would be able to type.

Looking fantastic OP

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"Would tieing me up and using sounds on me help cheer you up?

Yes. Yes it would "

I thought as much. One day you'll deserve such pleasure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you've got a great look. Very self-assured and confidently sexual.

I can't think of something that really gets to me. I think the person saying something nasty has more power over me than what they're saying. Although I did a reverse search of my pictures on Google and apparently I (fairly consistently) have the body of a man, according to Google. That hurt a bit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone once told me my stretch marks were ‘unfortunate’ and it was a shame I was ruined by them at such a young age

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

I got told I looked like a terrorist the other day!

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

People who try bully boy tactics, pisses me off!

But when you turn it back on them and come out on top? So Satisfying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was told by a guy on here I looked like Tim healey character in Benidorm. I don't watch it and when I googled it I was mortified

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I got told I looked like a terrorist the other day! "

Eh? Another nonsensical comment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The world is full off nasty people who get off on hurting/insulting people it shouldn't get to us but we are only human after all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Toot toot. White knight here. Op, ridiculous.

Lots of things throw me on here. Can really put me in an awful mood. But it sometimes has a positive effect.

Last comment was about my chest a couple of days ago. I've got a weird looking chest apparently.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

We may each of us have our little flaws but at least we're not riddled with the insecurities that the creature who tried to pull the op apart has.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just been told out of nowhere that I look like a TV and would look better with a beard.

Now I'm a tough broad and don't usually care about such bollocks (I'm a performer and DJ and have heard a lot worse) but has really thrown me.

What innocuous nonsense can change your mood? "

Id be more pissed off that some idiot had thrown me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We may each of us have our little flaws but at least we're not riddled with the insecurities that the creature who tried to pull the op apart has. "

Well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Toot toot. White knight here. Op, ridiculous.

Lots of things throw me on here. Can really put me in an awful mood. But it sometimes has a positive effect.

Last comment was about my chest a couple of days ago. I've got a weird looking chest apparently. "

Harsh... no self respecting pirate wants to hear that !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just been told out of nowhere that I look like a TV and would look better with a beard.

Now I'm a tough broad and don't usually care about such bollocks (I'm a performer and DJ and have heard a lot worse) but has really thrown me.

What innocuous nonsense can change your mood? "

You're sexy as fuck, hilarious fun, and an incredibly caring soul. Don't give the nonsense traction.

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By *essandpatCouple
over a year ago

chester

"Just been told out of nowhere that I look like a TV and would look better with a beard.

Now I'm a tough broad and don't usually care about such bollocks (I'm a performer and DJ and have heard a lot worse) but has really thrown me.

What innocuous nonsense can change your mood? "

Maybe I ask was the comment from a guy or a woman x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they've gone out of their way to say it then I'd take a compliment personally. The way I'd see it is if they have to point out my imperfections I've probably got less than theirs. I'm fully aware of my own so if anyone tries to point it out they've done nothing other than show their ugly personality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Toot toot. White knight here. Op, ridiculous.

Lots of things throw me on here. Can really put me in an awful mood. But it sometimes has a positive effect.

Last comment was about my chest a couple of days ago. I've got a weird looking chest apparently.

Harsh... no self respecting pirate wants to hear that !"

Haha. See, a good sense of humour always works to shake it off.

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By *.gerri.xTV/TS
over a year ago

North west

When people hear a scousers accent and insist on telling court jokes ... Almost makes you want to tear off the balaclava and give them a piece off your mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with looking like a tv anyway

there are some gorgeous, very feminine ones on here.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

Hugs, OP x

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

Sounds like someone just wanted to make themselves feel better by being nasty to someone else OP. Personally I think you look fabulous and it would be a shame to hide such a pretty face with a beard

Yep... People can say and do things here that will really take the wind out of your sails. If its a mean comment from a random stranger its easier to brush off than if its a hurt caused by a friend, but at the end of the day its t'internet and won't really change your life anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got told when I messAged some one, they said sorry not for me I'm after someone fit,

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Not being respected. A decision I made didn’t go down well with a friend on here. So now what was a good friendship seems strained.

It hurt me that someone couldn’t accept the decision I’d made although it was for the good of my health.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Got told when I messAged some one, they said sorry not for me I'm after someone fit,

That made me laugh. I'm sorry, and I hope it makes you laugh now.

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

Could have been worse. They could have said you are lying about your age.

A beards not so bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When people hear a scousers accent and insist on telling court jokes ... Almost makes you want to tear off the balaclava and give them a piece off your mind.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"I got told I looked like a terrorist the other day!

Eh? Another nonsensical comment"

I think it's my camouflage outfit lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't even explain what hurt me recently, it's so ridiculous.

Supposed nasty comments never really bother me. I had to teach myself to be that way.

Hope you're feeling better now OP. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How nasty people can be!!! Don't take any notice they are the sad ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I notice someone has blocked me, I don't really care that they have but I fucking wish I could know why!

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By *aul1973HullMan
over a year ago

East Hull

Words cut deeper than knives, and the wounds take much longer to heal.

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By *aul DeUther-OneMan
over a year ago

Sussex

Grrrr when I see our National Flag being flown up side down!

The broad white diagonal stripe should be upper most to the post people!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only met you once, you bought me a beer and you made me laugh. You're a lovely and fun person to know and don't deserve those sort of comments.

Some people only like you if you fit inside their box. I'd be inclined to shove that box up their ass

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By *eeBee67Man
over a year ago

Masked and Distant

"I've only met you once, you bought me a beer and you made me laugh. You're a lovely and fun person to know and don't deserve those sort of comments.

Some people only like you if you fit inside their box. I'd be inclined to shove that box up their ass

Love the last sentence. Made me chuckle out loud.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was told last night that my mr dominated me and not in a good way. It hurt because I've gotten out of an abisive marriage and wouldn't get in one again. He doesn't but that someone could say that hurt x

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By *idalgo13Man
over a year ago

Near York

"I think you've got a great look. Very self-assured and confidently sexual.

From my own experience, people who say nasty things are only covering up their own insecurities...you and your chap's photos look great...fab bodies (If you'll excuse the pun)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think you've got a great look. Very self-assured and confidently sexual.

From my own experience, people who say nasty things are only covering up their own insecurities...you and your chap's photos look great...fab bodies (If you'll excuse the pun)"

Damn straight. Google needs to get its act together!

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

It's odd how even the most ridiculous and childish of insults can hurt. Years ago, in my early 20s, I was told I looked 'a bit mannish'. Up until then I was reasonably sure I didn't but after, some small part of my brain obviously worried that I *might* do and it therefore stung for a long time.

Maybe it's not the content as such which gets to you but the shock of someone being so mean? .... like, you can't stop your brain thinking there might be an element of truth in their nastiness, even though objectively you know it's pathetic nonsense.

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By *iSTARess OP Woman
over a year ago

London

"Just been told out of nowhere that I look like a TV and would look better with a beard.

Now I'm a tough broad and don't usually care about such bollocks (I'm a performer and DJ and have heard a lot worse) but has really thrown me.

What innocuous nonsense can change your mood?

Id be more pissed off that some idiot had thrown me."

Listen love, I can't help feeling a bit miffed when an unwarranted bit of bile is spat my way

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By *iSTARess OP Woman
over a year ago

London

"Just been told out of nowhere that I look like a TV and would look better with a beard.

Now I'm a tough broad and don't usually care about such bollocks (I'm a performer and DJ and have heard a lot worse) but has really thrown me.

What innocuous nonsense can change your mood?

You're sexy as fuck, hilarious fun, and an incredibly caring soul. Don't give the nonsense traction. "

Aaah shurrup

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By *iSTARess OP Woman
over a year ago

London

"Just been told out of nowhere that I look like a TV and would look better with a beard.

Now I'm a tough broad and don't usually care about such bollocks (I'm a performer and DJ and have heard a lot worse) but has really thrown me.

What innocuous nonsense can change your mood?

Maybe I ask was the comment from a guy or a woman x"

Not that it should matter but a bloke. A nasty little bloke.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just been told out of nowhere that I look like a TV and would look better with a beard.

Now I'm a tough broad and don't usually care about such bollocks (I'm a performer and DJ and have heard a lot worse) but has really thrown me.

What innocuous nonsense can change your mood?

You're sexy as fuck, hilarious fun, and an incredibly caring soul. Don't give the nonsense traction.

Aaah shurrup

That's my starlet!

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By *randmrskinkCouple
over a year ago

South Coast

When we log in in the morning and people tell us it's only x days until the weekend.

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By *iSTARess OP Woman
over a year ago

London

Had myself a fish finger sandwich for tea (no sniggering in the back) and feel much better, thanks all.

I've had much nastier shit thrown at me that usually bounces. Must be the moon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bollox to them. If they have to resort to the lower level of insults then seriously, they aren't worthy of anything other than indifference.

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By *a72Man
over a year ago

london

Fuck that idiot needs specsavers, you're very hot MISTARess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't recall any words that have made me feel like that. I think I'm immune to it; which I suppose is lucky.

Someone's actions towards someone else cuts me to the core though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Had myself a fish finger sandwich for tea (no sniggering in the back) and feel much better, thanks all.

I've had much nastier shit thrown at me that usually bounces. Must be the moon

Everyone gets off days.

Maybe he was trying to be funny and didn't mean to be offensive. Any other day you might have said something like beards are shit but bushy sideburns are awesome.

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Well the arse that said this needs to go Specsavers for a start! Utter nonsense. You look gorgeous.

But yes it's hurtful when people criticise our appearance, or personality. I've been told on more than one occasion I'm 'scary'

Promise I'm lovely

Also hurts if someone you like and respect doesn't afford you the same courtesy.

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By *iSTARess OP Woman
over a year ago

London

"Had myself a fish finger sandwich for tea (no sniggering in the back) and feel much better, thanks all.

I've had much nastier shit thrown at me that usually bounces. Must be the moon

Everyone gets off days.

Maybe he was trying to be funny and didn't mean to be offensive. Any other day you might have said something like beards are shit but bushy sideburns are awesome.

Heh, I hear you but it was written rather aggressively. Poor little troll. Probably wanking into a sock right now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people are actually dicks. Tend to find folk like that are so full of their own insecurities that they make them self feel better by be littling others

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

Over the years there have been many insults thrown my way. Sadly one person took it upon himself to spend half a thread personally attacking me and my "3 bellies" to this day that phrase still pops into my head.

Don't feel bad about an emotional response. You're human and we feel. Hopefully somethings will make you remember how fabulous you are and he will go into the idiot box in your mind.

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