FabSwingers.com forum: Over thinking...

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do you?

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

All the damn time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let me think about that.....yes

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Ab-so-friggin-lutely....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ah but do men do it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Terribly.

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

Yes, big time!

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By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

Yes!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Phew! Not just me then

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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago

Traffic land

I am a nightmare for doing this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ah but do men do it?

We do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

Ironically it only took a second to answer your question!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Phew! Not just me then

Why did you say that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think we are all guilty at some point.... not sure if it's over thinking or maybe just being careful/ cautious!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Phew! Not just me then

Why did you say that?

I'm an over thinker!

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By *hekaiserMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Do you?

Sx"

Always...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Far far too much - especially when I'm not busy and have too much time on my hands

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes but not as much as I used too, which for me is good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Phew! Not just me then

Why did you say that?

I'm an over thinker!"

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By *arksMan
over a year ago

in the centre

All the damn time

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

Definately. And usually doesn't end well.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

No, I don't think so. Sometimes I might but overall I'd say no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every one does and it ruins every thing.

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By *ammyDodgaMan
over a year ago

Nottingham/and everywhere my location says i am ;)

Can't shut my mind off some nights.. Worse when I've not worn myself out.. Work etc. Just goes into overdrive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. It's another one of my flaws

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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I try not to think, but then I think about not thinking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What one thinks about is pertinent and poignant.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

No, I don't. It's possibly led to me making some mistakes but I think my friends who over think have missed out on opportunities. Swings and roundabouts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes all the time x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No, I don't. It's possibly led to me making some mistakes but I think my friends who over think have missed out on opportunities. Swings and roundabouts

I think my over thinker has led to some mistakes!

As you say, swings and roundabouts x

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

I think so much my brain positively hurts at times

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By *odramafunCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire/staffordshire

Oh my gosh until my head hurts! X

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By *eeBee67Man
over a year ago

Masked and Distant

Sadly yes far too often.

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By *on and TammyCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

When it comes to swinging, yes. Hopefully it will die down with experience.

In general though, not really.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Yep then I try not to think about not thinking things then it gets worse.

Or I just forget everything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ah but do men do it?

Yeah all the time, I often run away with myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv never really thought about it?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Not generally though I sometimes like to suspend thinking, so that my unconscious mind can use Its resources. I tend to like simplicity and doing things fairly easily.

And it's important to know and act upon when you know you have spent enough time and energy on something. When you know your approach isn't the most effective, start to change it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes they do ( well I do ) x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup! Always over thinking... sometimes about stupid things.

Now why didn't that lady respond to me? Was it something I said???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

As I said I'm not an over thinker and I thought it was unusual but reading this I wonder if over thinking is as common as ordinary thinking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep. I keep getting told off for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to be terrible but less so these days, experience told me I was invariably wrong.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Nah, everyone else is underthinking!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone over thinks things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been over thinking the same thing for a few days now..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I overthink about overthinking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Constantly I'm over thinking on three separate subjects as I'm typing

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By *imandHerNottsCouple
over a year ago

North Notts

I’m guess after being awake for the last 2 hours thinking about work it’s probably a yes!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feeling reassured that I'm not alone in overthinking! I'm writing this at 5am having already been awake for an hour overthinking things!

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By *amesB66Man
over a year ago

St Peter Port

It's not just a female thing...it's been the cause of many a sleepless night for me too!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And it starts the second that email is sent...

Should have said this...

Wish I'd have attached that photo...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't over think. I think just the right amount

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes all the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and keep telling myself not too. Its not easy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ah but do men do it?

Some do. I used to in my professional life but not so much now as I eventually realised what a waste of time and effort it is. Now instead of perfection I will frequently settle for adequate, sometimes falling to can't be arsed...

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By *aul1973HullMan
over a year ago

East Hull

My overthinking is something I over think. Regularly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suffered from anxiety and yes overthinking was a major thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes but wish I didn't

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Sounds too much like hard work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

every second of everyday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me too. I wish I didn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I overthink a lot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do.

Is a wink more than a wink?

Has my most recent message got across what is in my head?

If I reply too quickly is it seen as too keen, too stalkery, too desperate?

If I don't message, is it too aloof, too cold, too disinterested?

Is my profile too long, too detailed, too all emcompassing?

Is my comment on the forum ignored for being dull?

Am I passed over on the kiss fuck pint thread because I'm a minger or because the sexy lady above me gets the attention?

Should I risk a face pic early or build up a rapport first?

Are my low profile views because my tag line or pic puts people off or is it because of ninja viewing?

Is Mark's mate (who's a ninja) really a Ninja?

Should I keep my cock pic private, friends only or public?

Does my cock meet with approval?

Am I as confident as my profile appears? Does my profile appear confident?

Do I overthink responses?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Massive overthinker here. From everyday life- is whatvim wearing ok? Have I put too much make up on? Not enough?

How did that come across with what I've just said?

Why haven't they answered my email?!

It goes on and on and on....,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nah, everyone else is underthinking!

That's just the guys

Fancy a fuck

Wait let me think about that yep

Fancy a fuck

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Nah, everyone else is underthinking!

That's just the guys

Fancy a fuck

Wait let me think about that yep

Fancy a fuck

Haha I always knew you were a deep thinker....

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By *haremoreMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"Ab-so-friggin-lutely....

Agreed haha

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