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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Anyone else enjoy this on Channel 4?

Daniel and the Eastbourne moment is unforgettable.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I love this programme, everybody needs love.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I also love the effort that they go to. I can't remember the last time I was brought flowers!

Hint hint motherfuckers

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I'm watching it. Love Lord Richard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm undateable

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"I'm watching it. Love Lord Richard "

He's great isn't he

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm watching it. Love Lord Richard "

Just seen it when he found out the bird sanctuary was 5,400 miles away - 5,395 miles outside of his comfort zone

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A historic third date!!

And a last Rolo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good lad.

It kind of makes you think though, like other shows where two people date. How awkward it must be having a camera crew there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont watch it (or much telly at all really), but have done in the past. Cant help but think its a thinly veiled piss-take by the people that make it, dressed up to pretend to be some kind of socially-conscious experiment.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Dont watch it (or much telly at all really), but have done in the past. Cant help but think its a thinly veiled piss-take by the people that make it, dressed up to pretend to be some kind of socially-conscious experiment."

You're getting this confused with the Archers on Radio 4.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Dont watch it (or much telly at all really), but have done in the past. Cant help but think its a thinly veiled piss-take by the people that make it, dressed up to pretend to be some kind of socially-conscious experiment."

I totally disagree - it's made extremely sensitively and for me at least is one of the most heartwarming programmes on TV.

Much rather watch it than a bunch of fame hungry, orange skinned, pouting wannabes screaming and shouting at each other to try and get the most attention

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Dont watch it (or much telly at all really), but have done in the past. Cant help but think its a thinly veiled piss-take by the people that make it, dressed up to pretend to be some kind of socially-conscious experiment.

I totally disagree - it's made extremely sensitively and for me at least is one of the most heartwarming programmes on TV.

Much rather watch it than a bunch of fame hungry, orange skinned, pouting wannabes screaming and shouting at each other to try and get the most attention "

I must agree. I have been known to shed a happy tear or 20.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"I have been known to shed a happy tear or 20."

As a serial blubber I'm in my element!! There have been some truly wonderful moments over the series and love love love that they always do a catch up programme to see how they're getting on.

The guy from the North East who got married had me in floods as did the "Eastbourne" guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of my favorite programs

I got a phone call off the producer of 'First Dates'

I shit one and never rang back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dont watch it (or much telly at all really), but have done in the past. Cant help but think its a thinly veiled piss-take by the people that make it, dressed up to pretend to be some kind of socially-conscious experiment.

I totally disagree - it's made extremely sensitively and for me at least is one of the most heartwarming programmes on TV.

Much rather watch it than a bunch of fame hungry, orange skinned, pouting wannabes screaming and shouting at each other to try and get the most attention "

I dont watch those oxygen thieves either....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's the address for the agency they use haha any one got there number?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dont watch it (or much telly at all really), but have done in the past. Cant help but think its a thinly veiled piss-take by the people that make it, dressed up to pretend to be some kind of socially-conscious experiment."

Ya. I think this too. The name itself Is pretty nasty.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Dont watch it (or much telly at all really), but have done in the past. Cant help but think its a thinly veiled piss-take by the people that make it, dressed up to pretend to be some kind of socially-conscious experiment.

Ya. I think this too. The name itself Is pretty nasty."

I had no idea learning about people and seeing how they have fantastic family support, being totally true to themselves, and watching their confidence grow was such a awful thing.

I find myself willing them on from the edge of my seat and punching the air when things go well for them.

What an evil bitch I must be. I think the way you perceive the it speaks more about yourself than anything else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dont watch it (or much telly at all really), but have done in the past. Cant help but think its a thinly veiled piss-take by the people that make it, dressed up to pretend to be some kind of socially-conscious experiment.

Ya. I think this too. The name itself Is pretty nasty.

I had no idea learning about people and seeing how they have fantastic family support, being totally true to themselves, and watching their confidence grow was such a awful thing.

I find myself willing them on from the edge of my seat and punching the air when things go well for them.

What an evil bitch I must be. I think the way you perceive the it speaks more about yourself than anything else.

"

I wouldn't call you evil. Maybe patronising...

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By *unseeker64Woman
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"I'm undateable "

Me too

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...

I think it is really lovely and I'm in no doubt that there are strict procedures before anyone is filmed.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Dont watch it (or much telly at all really), but have done in the past. Cant help but think its a thinly veiled piss-take by the people that make it, dressed up to pretend to be some kind of socially-conscious experiment.

Ya. I think this too. The name itself Is pretty nasty.

I had no idea learning about people and seeing how they have fantastic family support, being totally true to themselves, and watching their confidence grow was such a awful thing.

I find myself willing them on from the edge of my seat and punching the air when things go well for them.

What an evil bitch I must be. I think the way you perceive the it speaks more about yourself than anything else.

I wouldn't call you evil. Maybe patronising..."

Big ole

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've seen it a few times and it's never failed to give me a warm feeling inside and make my heart open to these wonderful people.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Dont watch it (or much telly at all really), but have done in the past. Cant help but think its a thinly veiled piss-take by the people that make it, dressed up to pretend to be some kind of socially-conscious experiment.

Ya. I think this too. The name itself Is pretty nasty."

The name is actually poking fun at itself as the "Un-" falls off during the opening titles suggesting that everyone is dateable even if they may think they're not.

I've learned so much about certain conditions I knew nothing about through watching the show too - so definitely disagree with any suggestion that it's either a piss-take, a social experiment or the name is nasty etc. - it's bringing subjects like this into the mainstream, that make people more aware and accepting of them, and breaks down barriers and prejudices.

To take another example - just look at what the Paralympics and programmes like The Last Leg have done to break down people's perceptions and pre-conceptions, and for me The Undateables is no different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm undateable

Me too "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

To take another example - just look at what the Paralympics and programmes like The Last Leg have done to break down people's perceptions and pre-conceptions, and for me The Undateables is no different.

"

That's a shame.

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By *rSuave88Man
over a year ago

Mirfield

Love Lord Richard

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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" ... it's bringing subjects like this into the mainstream, that make people more aware and accepting of them, and breaks down barriers and prejudices.

To take another example - just look at what the Paralympics and programmes like The Last Leg have done to break down people's perceptions and pre-conceptions, and for me The Undateables is no different.

"

I have one of the 'disorders' that crops up on the show and I think that the manner in which it shows people is anything but a piss-take. Heart warming and encouraging frequently. It really does fall down to perception though but it's a shame when it's a negative one.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"

To take another example - just look at what the Paralympics and programmes like The Last Leg have done to break down people's perceptions and pre-conceptions, and for me The Undateables is no different.

That's a shame."

Genuinely curious to know why you think that's a shame? Is it not good that walls and barriers are removed and perceptions are changed?

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Dont watch it (or much telly at all really), but have done in the past. Cant help but think its a thinly veiled piss-take by the people that make it, dressed up to pretend to be some kind of socially-conscious experiment.

Ya. I think this too. The name itself Is pretty nasty.

The name is actually poking fun at itself as the "Un-" falls off during the opening titles suggesting that everyone is dateable even if they may think they're not.

I've learned so much about certain conditions I knew nothing about through watching the show too - so definitely disagree with any suggestion that it's either a piss-take, a social experiment or the name is nasty etc. - it's bringing subjects like this into the mainstream, that make people more aware and accepting of them, and breaks down barriers and prejudices.

To take another example - just look at what the Paralympics and programmes like The Last Leg have done to break down people's perceptions and pre-conceptions, and for me The Undateables is no different.

"

I don't think you or I can win here GM. I'm in agreement with your points and I feel as a person I've learned a fair amount, and have gained a huge insight into autism and the different spectrums. I by no means claim to be an expert in the field but I do believe I have a greater understanding.

The last leg, yes, they take the piss etc but it shows the people behind the disability and reminds those who perhaps do have preconceptions, that people are people regardless of their physical form, and that they can have fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

To take another example - just look at what the Paralympics and programmes like The Last Leg have done to break down people's perceptions and pre-conceptions, and for me The Undateables is no different.

That's a shame.

Genuinely curious to know why you think that's a shame? Is it not good that walls and barriers are removed and perceptions are changed? "

Honestly. If you can't get why the premise of the undatables is patronising as opposed to the paralympics I don't have the necessary time or energy to explain it.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"

To take another example - just look at what the Paralympics and programmes like The Last Leg have done to break down people's perceptions and pre-conceptions, and for me The Undateables is no different.

That's a shame.

Genuinely curious to know why you think that's a shame? Is it not good that walls and barriers are removed and perceptions are changed?

Honestly. If you can't get why the premise of the undatables is patronising as opposed to the paralympics I don't have the necessary time or energy to explain it."

Now THAT is a shame

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

To take another example - just look at what the Paralympics and programmes like The Last Leg have done to break down people's perceptions and pre-conceptions, and for me The Undateables is no different.

That's a shame.

Genuinely curious to know why you think that's a shame? Is it not good that walls and barriers are removed and perceptions are changed?

Honestly. If you can't get why the premise of the undatables is patronising as opposed to the paralympics I don't have the necessary time or energy to explain it.

Now THAT is a shame "

Because of course you aren't so fixed in your opinion that it could be changed. Have some rolling eyes back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I also love the effort that they go to. I can't remember the last time I was brought flowers!

Hint hint motherfuckers "

Obviously not meeting the right type haha

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By *eeBee67Man
over a year ago

Masked and Distant

A difficult one this.

Yes it shows that love can be found for everyone.

But also I find it very voyeuristic in a "look at these people who we think are different" sort of way.

Would it be different with a change of title.

Not expecting to change anyones opinions with my thoughts, as I think everyone is entitled to their own.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"

To take another example - just look at what the Paralympics and programmes like The Last Leg have done to break down people's perceptions and pre-conceptions, and for me The Undateables is no different.

That's a shame.

Genuinely curious to know why you think that's a shame? Is it not good that walls and barriers are removed and perceptions are changed?

Honestly. If you can't get why the premise of the undatables is patronising as opposed to the paralympics I don't have the necessary time or energy to explain it.

Now THAT is a shame

Because of course you aren't so fixed in your opinion that it could be changed. Have some rolling eyes back."

Not at all - as I said I'm genuinely interested to understand why you think that breaking down prejudices and misconceptions via programmes like The Undateables, The Last Leg etc is "a shame" as you put it.

The eye rolling was because you appeared to be uninterested in debating the point yourself, instead resorting to the "I can't be bothered to debate the point" route that you did.

I'm open to having my mind changed question is are you?

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"

To take another example - just look at what the Paralympics and programmes like The Last Leg have done to break down people's perceptions and pre-conceptions, and for me The Undateables is no different.

That's a shame.

Genuinely curious to know why you think that's a shame? Is it not good that walls and barriers are removed and perceptions are changed?

Honestly. If you can't get why the premise of the undatables is patronising as opposed to the paralympics I don't have the necessary time or energy to explain it.

Now THAT is a shame

Because of course you aren't so fixed in your opinion that it could be changed. Have some rolling eyes back."

Maybe if you attempted to let others hear your viewpoint you could educate us? Or are we simply too stupid and uneducatable? Genuine interest and wanting to understand, but it's difficult to when you clam up and dismiss.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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I am undateable.

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

We absolutely love it. So heart warming and we end up cheering them on from the edge of our sofas.

If you feel it’s a piss take, then you’re really missing the point. These people really understand the meaning of true and innocent love and deserve it more than some of the cretins on this site.

I find it educational and a real eye opener into people with learning/physical disabilities and how we must never judge a book by it’s cover.

Lord Richard is a true legend, you gotta love him.

If you fail to see this show for what it truly is, then you must be emotionally retarded. Just saying.

Ed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

To take another example - just look at what the Paralympics and programmes like The Last Leg have done to break down people's perceptions and pre-conceptions, and for me The Undateables is no different.

That's a shame.

Genuinely curious to know why you think that's a shame? Is it not good that walls and barriers are removed and perceptions are changed?

Honestly. If you can't get why the premise of the undatables is patronising as opposed to the paralympics I don't have the necessary time or energy to explain it.

Now THAT is a shame

Because of course you aren't so fixed in your opinion that it could be changed. Have some rolling eyes back.

Not at all - as I said I'm genuinely interested to understand why you think that breaking down prejudices and misconceptions via programmes like The Undateables, The Last Leg etc is "a shame" as you put it."
and now you're misquoting me. Disingenuous of you. Nah. You're not worth it.

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By *aterjetWoman
over a year ago

South West

This is close to home for me and depending on the day I have had depends whether I can watch it or not.

I myself do not like the title, parents spend so long for their children to be included that the "Un" appears as a negative.

On the plus side, education on the different challenges that disabilities,many are hidden can help is only a good thing.

Good to hear you have learnt a fair amount, even as a parent I am still learning!

As for the other post, a piss take it is not,not only have these young adults have to contend with the process of puberty they at the end of the day have yearnings for friends and companionship like myself and you.

It is thought provoking and for that surly it a positive program.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"This is close to home for me and depending on the day I have had depends whether I can watch it or not.

I myself do not like the title, parents spend so long for their children to be included that the "Un" appears as a negative.

On the plus side, education on the different challenges that disabilities,many are hidden can help is only a good thing.

Good to hear you have learnt a fair amount, even as a parent I am still learning!

As for the other post, a piss take it is not,not only have these young adults have to contend with the process of puberty they at the end of the day have yearnings for friends and companionship like myself and you.

It is thought provoking and for that surly it a positive program."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am undateable."

Behave

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By *aterjetWoman
over a year ago

South West

Agree with your post. But 'retarded' dear god that is such a horrible word and goes against what the program is about

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By *aterjetWoman
over a year ago

South West


"We absolutely love it. So heart warming and we end up cheering them on from the edge of our sofas.

If you feel it’s a piss take, then you’re really missing the point. These people really understand the meaning of true and innocent love and deserve it more than some of the cretins on this site.

I find it educational and a real eye opener into people with learning/physical disabilities and how we must never judge a book by it’s cover.

Lord Richard is a true legend, you gotta love him.

If you fail to see this show for what it truly is, then you must be emotionally retarded. Just saying.

Ed"

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

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"

To take another example - just look at what the Paralympics and programmes like The Last Leg have done to break down people's perceptions and pre-conceptions, and for me The Undateables is no different.

That's a shame.

Genuinely curious to know why you think that's a shame? Is it not good that walls and barriers are removed and perceptions are changed?

Honestly. If you can't get why the premise of the undatables is patronising as opposed to the paralympics I don't have the necessary time or energy to explain it.

Now THAT is a shame

Because of course you aren't so fixed in your opinion that it could be changed. Have some rolling eyes back.

Not at all - as I said I'm genuinely interested to understand why you think that breaking down prejudices and misconceptions via programmes like The Undateables, The Last Leg etc is "a shame" as you put it. and now you're misquoting me. Disingenuous of you. Nah. You're not worth it."

Not quite sure how I've misquoted you - misunderstood perhaps, but as you refuse to explain your comments then it's understandable that I may have done so.

Either way if defending your viewpoint and potentially educating others by doing so is not your thing then I guess that's the end of that, which to come back to my previous point IS a shame as I am genuinely interested in hearing why you think The Undateables is a bad thing - because to my mind all it is doing is breaking down prejudices in a heartwarming and sensitive way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you can't see how the undatables is patronising without being educated, there's nothing I can say that would explain it to you. Ffs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I should be on undatables.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"If you can't see how the undatables is patronising without being educated, there's nothing I can say that would explain it to you. Ffs. "

I can see how some might see it as patronising if they are closed minded and not open to the idea of the educational value a programme like that may bring, let alone the prejudices it may break down.

As I've already said for me it's handled incredibly sensitively and without the slightest bit of patronisation, but that's my opinion.

Let me ask you something else then - IF you were to make a programme about dating for people who have conditions such as Aspergers, Autism, deafness, blindness etc etc - how would you present it? Or would you prefer it to not be made and the subject hidden away and not spoken of as it was until very recently?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you can't see how the undatables is patronising without being educated, there's nothing I can say that would explain it to you. Ffs.

I can see how some might see it as patronising if they are closed minded and not open to the idea of the educational value a programme like that may bring, let alone the prejudices it may break down.

As I've already said for me it's handled incredibly sensitively and without the slightest bit of patronisation, but that's my opinion.

Let me ask you something else then - IF you were to make a programme about dating for people who have conditions such as Aspergers, Autism, deafness, blindness etc etc - how would you present it? Or would you prefer it to not be made and the subject hidden away and not spoken of as it was until very recently? "

I wouldn't dream of doing such a programme in the first place. There is no reason whatsoever for disabled people to not be included in any other dating programme.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"If you can't see how the undatables is patronising without being educated, there's nothing I can say that would explain it to you. Ffs.

I can see how some might see it as patronising if they are closed minded and not open to the idea of the educational value a programme like that may bring, let alone the prejudices it may break down.

As I've already said for me it's handled incredibly sensitively and without the slightest bit of patronisation, but that's my opinion.

Let me ask you something else then - IF you were to make a programme about dating for people who have conditions such as Aspergers, Autism, deafness, blindness etc etc - how would you present it? Or would you prefer it to not be made and the subject hidden away and not spoken of as it was until very recently?

I wouldn't dream of doing such a programme in the first place. There is no reason whatsoever for disabled people to not be included in any other dating programme. "

And they ARE included - have seen several instances (including most recently a double amputee on Naked Attraction) but there are some for whom conventional dating methods just wouldn't work (regardless of whether it's on a TV show or not) for one reason or another, as is highlighted by the fact there are specialist dating agencies to cater sensitively to them, and as is often shown on The Undateables.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"If you can't see how the undatables is patronising without being educated, there's nothing I can say that would explain it to you. Ffs. "

I would thank you for your input but it has been less than enlightening or helpful.

It simply screams bitter and angry and that is unfortunate.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

One of the parents was on This morning a few weeks ago and said she didn't want her son to go on the programme as she thought it was patronising too. She relented as her son wanted to do it though and likes the programme and how it is done

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

PS, I think the name of the programme is wrong though, everyone is datable to someone and the lovely people on it certainly are. I think the programme is heartwarming and hopefully helps to break down barriers

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"One of the parents was on This morning a few weeks ago and said she didn't want her son to go on the programme as she thought it was patronising too. She relented as her son wanted to do it though and likes the programme and how it is done "

This makes me smile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you can't see how the undatables is patronising without being educated, there's nothing I can say that would explain it to you. Ffs.

I would thank you for your input but it has been less than enlightening or helpful.

It simply screams bitter and angry and that is unfortunate.

"

Geez. And yours screams ignorant and superior

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do enjoy watching this, there’s been some great couples on it and it’s very heart warming too when couples click and agree to a second date.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Ok rather than attack each other, lets get back to the OP

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"PS, I think the name of the programme is wrong though, everyone is datable to someone and the lovely people on it certainly are. I think the programme is heartwarming and hopefully helps to break down barriers"

They splat the "un" off at the start, to me that says...

You didn't really think that was the case did you?

Think again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont like the show at all. Yes it can be heartfelt but as a parent of someone that could very easily be on there it just feels wrong.

For me it is trash tv and sits uncomfortably.. But perhaps because it's so close to home.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"PS, I think the name of the programme is wrong though, everyone is datable to someone and the lovely people on it certainly are. I think the programme is heartwarming and hopefully helps to break down barriers

They splat the "un" off at the start, to me that says...

You didn't really think that was the case did you?

Think again. "

Ah right, I only saw the end of it. Either way, I still think a name change would be good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I remember years ago a young boy and girl with downs syndrome performed a ballet dance on tv show,,,,

It was quite the most beautiful thing....

They were so committed to each other...

I've actually got tear in my eye thinking about it

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By *ake442000Man
over a year ago

North west

Am undateble

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"PS, I think the name of the programme is wrong though, everyone is datable to someone and the lovely people on it certainly are. I think the programme is heartwarming and hopefully helps to break down barriers

They splat the "un" off at the start, to me that says...

You didn't really think that was the case did you?

Think again.

Ah right, I only saw the end of it. Either way, I still think a name change would be good."

Whilst I agree the name could be misconstrued, particularly to anyone that's not seen it, I actually think it works in an ironic way - as Ms Peach says the "Un-" drops off at the beginning and the name is more about people's perceptions (both those that watch and appear on the programme) and challenging them

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"I remember years ago a young boy and girl with downs syndrome performed a ballet dance on tv show,,,,

It was quite the most beautiful thing....

They were so committed to each other...

I've actually got tear in my eye thinking about it "

Awww soxy I vaguely remember that and you're right it was beautiful

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By *aterjetWoman
over a year ago

South West


"One of the parents was on This morning a few weeks ago and said she didn't want her son to go on the programme as she thought it was patronising too. She relented as her son wanted to do it though and likes the programme and how it is done "

What a wonderful parent. I didn't know this.

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By *axandbooCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"I also love the effort that they go to. I can't remember the last time I was brought flowers!

Hint hint motherfuckers "

All we need is a where and when and we will bring flowers x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dont watch it (or much telly at all really), but have done in the past. Cant help but think its a thinly veiled piss-take by the people that make it, dressed up to pretend to be some kind of socially-conscious experiment.

Ya. I think this too. The name itself Is pretty nasty."

I think the same.Its in the same vein of all those poverty porn fly on the wall documentaries.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I work with adults who have autism and they are amazing people, just like us but perhaps some say wired differently. At the end of the day we all just want the same out of love and company and some fun along the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I remember years ago a young boy and girl with downs syndrome performed a ballet dance on tv show,,,,

It was quite the most beautiful thing....

They were so committed to each other...

I've actually got tear in my eye thinking about it

Awww soxy I vaguely remember that and you're right it was beautiful"

Yeah it was an absolute tearjerker

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

Only watched it once, took down some notes, but still couldnt get a date.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blimey, wish I hadnt said anything now.. fucking forumites.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's was back on more4 lol add to remind myself. How funny it is..

Gives us singletons hope lol

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Blimey, wish I hadnt said anything now.. fucking forumites."

Why? It opened up the potential for a very interesting debate which is what forums are for after all

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By *laytimenowMan
over a year ago

Essex

Best thing about the programme is that it shows how

Mentally & physically disabled people strip

away the rubbish that goes into finding

that thing called LOVE most of us spend time searching for.

Makes my heart cry with sadness & laugh with joy .

Brilliant programme .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Blimey, wish I hadnt said anything now.. fucking forumites."

Not all of them mate, just the odd one or two on their moral crusade as usual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everybody's entitled how ever severe...

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

I do get the argument that people with disabilities should be included in mainstream dating programmes and in an ideal world they would be however for the vast majority of those featured on the undateables they would not cope with that. A flashy studio, lots of strangers, take after take to get it right.

As for the name, I think it's a good name but it's a visual name. People will often think of people with disabilities as undateable (wrongly of course) but this show is proving that is not the case.

One final point.... Maybe the show is not really for main stream viewers to 'get'. Maybe the show is there to give hope to other people who have disabilities and struggle to find love. It may give the hope to know that there are people who can help them. Who take the time to develop profiles and select potential path results for them.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Partners. Not path results

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Partners. Not path results "
would you like to appear on on the show ...?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Partners. Not path results would you like to appear on on the show ...?"

Why not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've applied for both my autistic sons to go on it.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"I do get the argument that people with disabilities should be included in mainstream dating programmes and in an ideal world they would be however for the vast majority of those featured on the undateables they would not cope with that. A flashy studio, lots of strangers, take after take to get it right.

As for the name, I think it's a good name but it's a visual name. People will often think of people with disabilities as undateable (wrongly of course) but this show is proving that is not the case.

One final point.... Maybe the show is not really for main stream viewers to 'get'. Maybe the show is there to give hope to other people who have disabilities and struggle to find love. It may give the hope to know that there are people who can help them. Who take the time to develop profiles and select potential path results for them. "

Perfectly put

The other point about mainstream dating shows is they're not for everyone regardless of ability - I know I wouldn't want to go on something like the trashy Paddy McGuiness thing or even Blind Date where you're very much held up for scrutiny and potential humiliation, but if I were single and looking to date I might consider something like First Dates.

So on that basis I really don't see the issue with having a programme that caters to the specific needs of a particular group of people - especially if it's done sensitively and in a way designed to educate people and give hope to others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've applied for both my autistic sons to go on it."
what's the website?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its back on more4 lol

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