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By *acheal OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

What do you all think of us dressers, be honest i do it because i enjoy it xx.i love this role and i cant stop it will not let me

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By *orkDefenderMan
over a year ago

Just East of Wakefield

Like (real) girls, some look good, some don't

I, probably(?!), like many want to experiment with cock sucking/playing, but couldn't do it with a man

Yes..... I know l am, but the illusion of femininity disguises that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm usually jealous of their legs, so many with amazing pins!

I think it's great that people are comfortable to dress how they want and share that side of themselves with others. Not sure I'd find it a particular turn on in the bedroom but maybe my domme side would warm to it. Tx

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By *acheal OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"I'm usually jealous of their legs, so many with amazing pins!

I think it's great that people are comfortable to dress how they want and share that side of themselves with others. Not sure I'd find it a particular turn on in the bedroom but maybe my domme side would warm to it. Tx"

Its not a bad thing though i think if more men tried it they would like it, its playful its respectful and it gives me a private world to explore my fantacies and the best bit is the risk of people finding out, what im trying to say is it goes a little bit deeper than sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are all perverts

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By *.gerri.xTV/TS
over a year ago

North west

Weirdos the lot of them...

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands


"What do you all think of us dressers, be honest i do it because i enjoy it xx.i love this role and i cant stop it will not let me"

You're all disgusting degenerate perverts

Honestly I don't dress for any particularly sexual reasons, I know a lot of people dress purely for sexual gratification and meets but I've done it since I was a small child not even knowing what I was doing, just that I enjoyed it. It's just part of who I am and I like having the ability to escape out of the male life I live and just spend a afternoon or even a weekend as Lilly.

IMO we make the best boyfriends too because we have each a better insight into what women go through and we can still be manly men day to day but are more in touch with our feminine side

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
over a year ago

1127 walnut avenue

I'd say it started out as purely a sexual thing with me.. but after a visit to a club it did add a new dimension to it all.. and unfortunately more clothes and boots to my wardrobe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you all think of us dressers, be honest i do it because i enjoy it xx.i love this role and i cant stop it will not let me"

I've been pondering this and haven't really got an answer. I think mostly I hope it makes them happy. Whether it's just wearing knickers or full on make up, clothes and shoes.

I very much dislike the bitching about men that like to dress but don't shave.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not something I find attractive. But each to there own..and I'm just jealous as some are just beautiful

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By *.gerri.xTV/TS
over a year ago

North west


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I very much dislike the bitching about men that like to dress but don't shave. "

I'll back that , I'll repeat something I said on another site years back.

For a community that screams for acceptance it can be remarkably unaccepting. Especially for something that is only a different part of the same spectrum.

People have different lives and have to express themselves with different boundaries. It does nothing for me but they shouldn't be vilified for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I very much dislike the bitching about men that like to dress but don't shave.

I'll back that , I'll repeat something I said on another site years back.

For a community that screams for acceptance it can be remarkably unaccepting. Especially for something that is only a different part of the same spectrum.

People have different lives and have to express themselves with different boundaries. It does nothing for me but they shouldn't be vilified for it."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Like (real) girls, some look good, some don't

I, probably(?!), like many want to experiment with cock sucking/playing, but couldn't do it with a man

Yes..... I know l am, but the illusion of femininity disguises that"

I know what you mean I had the same feeling

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
over a year ago

1127 walnut avenue


"What do you all think of us dressers, be honest i do it because i enjoy it xx.i love this role and i cant stop it will not let me

I've been pondering this and haven't really got an answer. I think mostly I hope it makes them happy. Whether it's just wearing knickers or full on make up, clothes and shoes.

I very much dislike the bitching about men that like to dress but don't shave. "

ohh...but there's nothing worse than a bearded trannie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some look better then others but its the same in most things .. Some woman look better then others and men .. and its what your liking all that matters really .. As you cant please everyone.

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By *ighland gentlemanMan
over a year ago

Ardgay

If you enjoy it then go for it.

I appreciate that there are various reasons that folk dress, it may be just for sexual purposes or part of a transition period.

As long as you can be who you want to be without fear of discrimination or abuse that's what's important.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been to tv sessions in swinging clubs and totally love the wild mix of people. Very open, accepting and horny. If you like it, then why not?

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

Leeds

I dress because I like it. I spend more time on my own dressed feeling sexy and good about myself than I do meeting people. The few I do meet are either friends of mine who dress or people that I’ve met through sites like this to have fun. It’s not wham bam. I can easily and comfortably sit with someone for hours and just chat feeling totally comfortable in what I’m wearing. I don’t pretend to be convincing I’m far from it but I try the look good for me and no one Else. Each to their own really xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you all think of us dressers, be honest i do it because i enjoy it xx.i love this role and i cant stop it will not let me"

Oooh suits you, sir...

Personally I don't really know why I like it. I think I started after be a long period of enforced celibacy as it was the only chance I had of getting into a woman's knickers. Found I quite liked it. Not so much a sexual thing for me as an escape from reality, a place I can be someone totally different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My crossdressing is nothing more than a sexual proclivity that provides me with an added layer of pleasure ....

I have no desire to be thought of in female terms make a point on my profile to that effect ....

In fact I'd go so far as to say I wasn't to head-butt anyone who calls me babe or hun or sexy or darling

Fucking wankers

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

Leeds

In fact I'd go so far as to say I wasn't to head-butt anyone who calls me babe or hun or sexy or darling

Fucking wankers

Lol another award winning post my dear man / fellow fabster/ admirer of women’s clothing and dresser. God I hope I don’t get head butted x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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In fact I'd go so far as to say I wasn't to head-butt anyone who calls me babe or hun or sexy or darling

Fucking wankers

Lol another award winning post my dear man / fellow fabster/ admirer of women’s clothing and dresser. God I hope I don’t get head butted x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dislike immensely the fact that transgender (ts) and transvestite (tv) are grouped together as TV/TS.

I am a TF, transfemale, currently in transition from MtF, i live in the real world as a female now, have done so for a number of years, i work as a female, have two jobs and no one gives a monkeys that im the way i am, not even the christian based charity i currently work for. The only issue i have is the TV/TS thing, complete opposites of the spectrum if you ask me!

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By *acheal OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"I dislike immensely the fact that transgender (ts) and transvestite (tv) are grouped together as TV/TS.

I am a TF, transfemale, currently in transition from MtF, i live in the real world as a female now, have done so for a number of years, i work as a female, have two jobs and no one gives a monkeys that im the way i am, not even the christian based charity i currently work for. The only issue i have is the TV/TS thing, complete opposites of the spectrum if you ask me! "

Slightly offensive but you stay on your side of the spectrum if it pleases you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love the site to introduce more appropriate categorisation ...

But I cant be bothered to listen to moans about it as we all have the same option to use our profile bio to clearly explain what we offer and expect as individuals ....

The argument people don't read profiles is totally meaningless when used as an excuse rather than a reason...

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By *acheal OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

I dont like being categorized or labeled I am me plain and simple xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont like being categorized or labeled I am me plain and simple xx"

I know what you mean but there is more than us on the site and it would be appreciated by many members ....

So what would be the harm ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as a person is happy in their life,then whatever makes you happy do it..And all the very best to you to .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally love T girls and we’ve had some great fun with them in clubs

Floppsy x

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

not for me but do what you want. TV/S do very well on here anyway so fill your knee high boots.

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By *itvclaireTV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham


"What do you all think of us dressers, be honest i do it because i enjoy it xx.i love this role and i cant stop it will not let me

You're all disgusting degenerate perverts

Honestly I don't dress for any particularly sexual reasons, I know a lot of people dress purely for sexual gratification and meets but I've done it since I was a small child not even knowing what I was doing, just that I enjoyed it. It's just part of who I am and I like having the ability to escape out of the male life I live and just spend a afternoon or even a weekend as Lilly.

IMO we make the best boyfriends too because we have each a better insight into what women go through and we can still be manly men day to day but are more in touch with our feminine side "

Couldn't have put it better myself. XX

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By *hloe sussexTV/TS
over a year ago

Larne

Most T girls like myself believe they are woman and so dress accordingly ,as for ppls opinion on here most are very complimentary apart from it seems guys who get rejected ,they quickly go from your the best thing since sliced bread ,to your just a guy in a dress ,oh how fickle lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you all think of us dressers, be honest i do it because i enjoy it xx.i love this role and i cant stop it will not let me

You're all disgusting degenerate perverts

Honestly I don't dress for any particularly sexual reasons, I know a lot of people dress purely for sexual gratification and meets but I've done it since I was a small child not even knowing what I was doing, just that I enjoyed it. It's just part of who I am and I like having the ability to escape out of the male life I live and just spend a afternoon or even a weekend as Lilly.

IMO we make the best boyfriends too because we have each a better insight into what women go through and we can still be manly men day to day but are more in touch with our feminine side

Couldn't have put it better myself. XX"

Yes it was

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is ok to be offended, honestly, it really is ok, in the grand scheme of things, being offended is fine and dandy, though i said nothing offensive really, just stating some obvious points.

And yes, labels do suck but that is the nature of things, we label everything whether consciously or subconsciously. Us humans love to categorise everything, put it in little boxes with this label or that label, but we all see the world differently so labels are worthless in that regard, they are purely arbitrary.

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By *acheal OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"It is ok to be offended, honestly, it really is ok, in the grand scheme of things, being offended is fine and dandy, though i said nothing offensive really, just stating some obvious points.

And yes, labels do suck but that is the nature of things, we label everything whether consciously or subconsciously. Us humans love to categorise everything, put it in little boxes with this label or that label, but we all see the world differently so labels are worthless in that regard, they are purely arbitrary. "

Well in your opinion I have as much value as an eastern European I'm surprised that you didn't put now blacks.,Jews Irish or dogs on there and no it's not acceptable to offend people .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rachel you are reading far too much into this, if you did not want to hear others opinion then maybe you should refrain from asking what others think of things that relate to you on a personal level.

I cannot be held accountable for you being offended, that is all down to you sweetheart.

Silly!

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

Leeds


"It is ok to be offended, honestly, it really is ok, in the grand scheme of things, being offended is fine and dandy, though i said nothing offensive really, just stating some obvious points.

And yes, labels do suck but that is the nature of things, we label everything whether consciously or subconsciously. Us humans love to categorise everything, put it in little boxes with this label or that label, but we all see the world differently so labels are worthless in that regard, they are purely arbitrary.

Well in your opinion I have as much value as an eastern European I'm surprised that you didn't put now blacks.,Jews Irish or dogs on there and no it's not acceptable to offend people . "

I

I’m Irish I dress in women’s clothes I’m straight, BI, Lesbian and love it and I’m not offended. Let’s chillax guys and enjoy the sun. Let’s go to our happy place and smile xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I’m Irish I dress in women’s clothes I’m straight, BI, Lesbian and love it and I’m not offended. Let’s chillax guys and enjoy the sun. Let’s go to our happy place and smile xxx "

Totally agree with you

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By *acheal OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"Rachel you are reading far too much into this, if you did not want to hear others opinion then maybe you should refrain from asking what others think of things that relate to you on a personal level.

I cannot be held accountable for you being offended, that is all down to you sweetheart.

Silly!"

I read your profile its almost a hate crime to put no eastern Europeans and to put me on an opposite side of the spectrum is more indicative of someone with issues I'm here for fun and friendship not to draw lines alienate people or

dehumanise people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all have preferences, i chose not to go with eastern europeans simply because culturally we could not be more different, it is as simple as that!

I will also add that if you truly felt secure in who you are then nothing anyone can say should have the power to offend you! Sorry if that offends you...

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Each to their own.

Do what makes you happy, dress to make yourself feel good, whatever that clothing may be.

The only thing that gets me, is when I'm out with my friends & left looking like the ugly sister.. And why do they all have nicer arses & legs than me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Each to their own.

Do what makes you happy, dress to make yourself feel good, whatever that clothing may be.

The only thing that gets me, is when I'm out with my friends & left looking like the ugly sister.. And why do they all have nicer arses & legs than me! "

Oh i dont know, your arse is rather peachy

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows


"Each to their own.

Do what makes you happy, dress to make yourself feel good, whatever that clothing may be.

The only thing that gets me, is when I'm out with my friends & left looking like the ugly sister.. And why do they all have nicer arses & legs than me!

Oh i dont know, your arse is rather peachy "

Aw thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a few friends that dress, it makes them happy..a couple do it for sexual reasons (pervs ) a few because they feel they were born in the wrong body..it's not about labels n judging anymore, it's 2017 n a lot more sex n care free attitude

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

Leeds


"Each to their own.

Do what makes you happy, dress to make yourself feel good, whatever that clothing may be.

The only thing that gets me, is when I'm out with my friends & left looking like the ugly sister.. And why do they all have nicer arses & legs than me! "

You’ve a beautiful bum xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you all think of us dressers, be honest i do it because i enjoy it xx.i love this role and i cant stop it will not let me"

Do whatever makes you happy,, you have one life so enjoy it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you all think of us dressers, be honest i do it because i enjoy it xx.i love this role and i cant stop it will not let me

Do whatever makes you happy,, you have one life so enjoy it

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Oh well with that seal of approval I think I'll put a fresh pair of knickers on

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife

I like to see a well dressed convincing one, OP you state you are a non smoker yet you have a pic of you from 2 days ago with a cigarette?

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By *acheal OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"We all have preferences, i chose not to go with eastern europeans simply because culturally we could not be more different, it is as simple as that!

I will also add that if you truly felt secure in who you are then nothing anyone can say should have the power to offend you! Sorry if that offends you..."

Being offended is not a sign of insecurity but I am quite happy being me and it's a person's character that is the be all and end all of everything not there geographical location, skin colour, ethnicity, gender or sexual preference

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