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By *eadonistCouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Ashton under Lyne

You ever look at someone's profile and think.

You are never (insert age here)

Is this a thing or do I (Male half) have a very different view on how I look? (certainly don't think I look late 30's)

Anyone care to comment.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Yes we've met people who were clearly older than they stated or just had a very hard life.

I'm also not sure how old your meant to look

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By *arciocialWoman
over a year ago

Leicester

I do it when viewing profiles or in person.... In person I normally just say it to them... Thought you were older/younger.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"You ever look at someone's profile and think.

You are never (insert age here)

Is this a thing or do I (Male half) have a very different view on how I look? (certainly don't think I look late 30's)

Anyone care to comment. "

Seriously ?

You expect us to comment on how old you look from that pic ?

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By *eadonistCouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Ashton under Lyne


"Yes we've met people who were clearly older than they stated or just had a very hard life.

I'm also not sure how old your meant to look "

Well, I am 37, have had messages from profiles that are much younger.. But either I have had a very easy life or they must have had on massive paper round as a kid.

I realise it's all reflective, but never having had any decent body confidence I can't be sure if it's either I am not seeing myself in the way I think k I am, or that I am much "younger" looking than I give myself credit for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The arse of a 30 year old I think. Looks good. But hard to tell without a better pic

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By *eadonistCouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Ashton under Lyne


"You ever look at someone's profile and think.

You are never (insert age here)

Is this a thing or do I (Male half) have a very different view on how I look? (certainly don't think I look late 30's)

Anyone care to comment.

Seriously ?

You expect us to comment on how old you look from that pic ?

"

Not on my pic.. (yeah.. Heavy shadows.. Not that identifiable) but in general. People not looking anywhere near how old they are.

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By *eadonistCouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Ashton under Lyne


"The arse of a 30 year old I think. Looks good. But hard to tell without a better pic"

She's 29 fella..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dosent bother me if someone wants to there 45 when there actually 50, but say 15/20yrs is a different matter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dosent bother me if someone wants to there 45 when there actually 50, but say 15/20yrs is a different matter "

I'm actually 45

You aren't 18

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dosent bother me if someone wants to there 45 when there actually 50, but say 15/20yrs is a different matter

I'm actually 45

You aren't 18 "

I know Jo... iv explained. Stop teasing me you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dosent bother me if someone wants to there 45 when there actually 50, but say 15/20yrs is a different matter

I'm actually 45

You aren't 18

I know Jo... iv explained. Stop teasing me you! "

Me .... tease .... never

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dosent bother me if someone wants to there 45 when there actually 50, but say 15/20yrs is a different matter

I'm actually 45

You aren't 18

I know Jo... iv explained. Stop teasing me you!

Me .... tease .... never "

Grrrr!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dosent bother me if someone wants to there 45 when there actually 50, but say 15/20yrs is a different matter

I'm actually 45

You aren't 18

I know Jo... iv explained. Stop teasing me you!

Me .... tease .... never

Grrrr!! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It never really occurs to me how old someone is, just whether I like them or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dosent bother me if someone wants to there 45 when there actually 50, but say 15/20yrs is a different matter

I'm actually 45

You aren't 18

I know Jo... iv explained. Stop teasing me you!

Me .... tease .... never

Grrrr!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It never really occurs to me how old someone is, just whether I like them or not. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm honest. My age is my real age. Don't see the point of lying really. I've met people in the past, where I thought I was meeting their parents lol. Also had people with age range up to 35 message me - why?? I'm 20 years above their cut off??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It never really occurs to me how old someone is, just whether I like them or not.

"

Yep. Same here. Great sex doesn't have an age limit

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By *reamytitwankCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Sexy doesn't come with an age bracket.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sexy doesn't come with an age bracket."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm honest. My age is my real age. Don't see the point of lying really. I've met people in the past, where I thought I was meeting their parents lol. Also had people with age range up to 35 message me - why?? I'm 20 years above their cut off??"

Their age range might be just a guide. Sometimes people have narrow age ranges to cut down on mail. They might really fancy you as a person and not as a number (age).

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

I got a message today from someone I'd have guessed was at least 15 years older than they claimed. Sorry guys, but I've noticed that it is usually *men* who seem to lie about their age. It really puts me off when it's (almost certainly) obvious.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I think most people are rubbish at guessing ages. Or at least pretend to be in an attempt at flattery. The people I have met who have admitted lying about their age (and from my experience men are far more likely to) didn't actually need to lie other than possibly getting through filters by doing so. I didn't bother changing mine when I joined; I don't think I look my age anyway and I'd rather people were pleasantly surprised.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I'm always being told I don't look my age.

The cynic in me, often ponders the sincerity of some though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think most people are rubbish at guessing ages. Or at least pretend to be in an attempt at flattery. The people I have met who have admitted lying about their age (and from my experience men are far more likely to) didn't actually need to lie other than possibly getting through filters by doing so. I didn't bother changing mine when I joined; I don't think I look my age anyway and I'd rather people were pleasantly surprised. "

Lucky Lucky Bristol

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By *corpio67Man
over a year ago

hillingdon

I'm quite happy to tell people my age.

Most can't guess.

On here my profile states my real age which puts me outside most peoples age range.

But local people put me at 10 years younger!!!!

So do I really care

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire

I've had messages "doubting" my age in both directions

Also looked at some who say they are late 20's early 30's and think ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age plays no part in our desires, if we click with someone and the attraction is mutual it matters not.

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By *icky-discoMan
over a year ago

oxford


"Yes we've met people who were clearly older than they stated or just had a very hard life. Lol to this bit

I'm also not sure how old your meant to look "

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By *uicy72Woman
over a year ago

North Colchester

So many people lie on here about their age ! so ridiculous

There's no need to

just be honest for god sake

We are all different in many ways !

Funny thing is most of the time you can tell if the age is a lie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like trying to guess ages of people. I'm always waaay off. I'm terrible at guessing how old someone is. I either flatter or insult.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...

I don't look my age

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I have often wondered if I am deluded about what someone my age should look like, as I think I am aging well lol, looking at some, I do sometimes think, really? I mean really?

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By *rightonCheekyMan
over a year ago

Brighton

I'm ancient but luckily people generally comment I look good for my age so I'm not complaining. No point lying about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have often wondered if I am deluded about what someone my age should look like, as I think I am aging well lol, looking at some, I do sometimes think, really? I mean really? "

Very well

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By *icky-discoMan
over a year ago

oxford


"I have often wondered if I am deluded about what someone my age should look like, as I think I am aging well lol, looking at some, I do sometimes think, really? I mean really? "

Good genes foxy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On another site I,m on the men are using the same face pics they were using nearly 4 years ago and Christ knows how old the pics were then. One man I chatted to admitted his photo was of a 10 years younger much slimmer him.XXX

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

I get what the OP is saying

Sometimes I’m very surprised when I look at pics

More often than not I think people are younger than the age they really are

I’m 44 in a matter of weeks and like to think this lifestyle keeps me on my toes with making an effort to look good , wearing sexy clothes, enjoying life etc so maybe that’s something to do with it ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 56 in a couple of weeks I've had guys saying that I look alot young but fab guys will say anything to get a shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im NOT 18 folks.... lesson learned was dont join whilst drinking!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im NOT 18 folks.... lesson learned was dont join whilst drinking! "

You can change it you know ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im NOT 18 folks.... lesson learned was dont join whilst drinking!

You can change it you know .."

I did try when i 1st joined but messed it up again and your only allowed to change it once so im stuck with it now!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im NOT 18 folks.... lesson learned was dont join whilst drinking!

You can change it you know ..

I did try when i 1st joined but messed it up again and your only allowed to change it once so im stuck with it now!! "

Arrrrrrrr right .... understand now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im NOT 18 folks.... lesson learned was dont join whilst drinking!

You can change it you know ..

I did try when i 1st joined but messed it up again and your only allowed to change it once so im stuck with it now!!

Arrrrrrrr right .... understand now "

Were do i stand with OUR date then??

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By *lue NarwhalMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

I just turned 46, yep real age and now the wrong side of 45..

It's human to round things up or down, so I have now dropped of another handfuls radar.. (who am I kidding, probably wasn't on it to start but I can always dream)

Now I'm 46, I feel no different from when I was 45 or 40 for that matter (other than I recently started making an involuntary groaning noise when getting up from a chair) so I fully understand why some would alter their age slightly just to fall within others age limits.

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By *r and mrs sanddancerCouple
over a year ago

BOLDON COLLIERY

I will let others be the judge,

if I'm looking my age

69 this month

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im NOT 18 folks.... lesson learned was dont join whilst drinking!

You can change it you know ..

I did try when i 1st joined but messed it up again and your only allowed to change it once so im stuck with it now!!

Arrrrrrrr right .... understand now

Were do i stand with OUR date then?? "

Pm me and we will chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im NOT 18 folks.... lesson learned was dont join whilst drinking!

You can change it you know ..

I did try when i 1st joined but messed it up again and your only allowed to change it once so im stuck with it now!!

Arrrrrrrr right .... understand now

Were do i stand with OUR date then??

Pm me and we will chat "

Hahahahaha TEASE!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im NOT 18 folks.... lesson learned was dont join whilst drinking!

You can change it you know ..

I did try when i 1st joined but messed it up again and your only allowed to change it once so im stuck with it now!!

Arrrrrrrr right .... understand now

Were do i stand with OUR date then??

Pm me and we will chat

Hahahahaha TEASE!!! "

no I'm being genuine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im NOT 18 folks.... lesson learned was dont join whilst drinking!

You can change it you know ..

I did try when i 1st joined but messed it up again and your only allowed to change it once so im stuck with it now!!

Arrrrrrrr right .... understand now

Were do i stand with OUR date then??

Pm me and we will chat

Hahahahaha TEASE!!!

no I'm being genuine "

I cant because of your age limits are on....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You ever look at someone's profile and think.

You are never (insert age here)

Is this a thing or do I (Male half) have a very different view on how I look? (certainly don't think I look late 30's)

Anyone care to comment. "

I am honest about my real age on here, no point being otherwise. Someone told me at the weekend that they thought I looked 33....how I laughed .

My daughter thought I was 28 until about 3 years ago because that's what I told her (she's 9 now) and still goes on about how I lied to her. Anyway, we are how old we are and we look how we look...not much we can do about it, apart from plastic surgery and I personally don't think that helps in any what

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im NOT 18 folks.... lesson learned was dont join whilst drinking!

You can change it you know ..

I did try when i 1st joined but messed it up again and your only allowed to change it once so im stuck with it now!!

Arrrrrrrr right .... understand now

Were do i stand with OUR date then??

Pm me and we will chat

Hahahahaha TEASE!!!

no I'm being genuine

I cant because of your age limits are on.... "

Doh ...... bare with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im NOT 18 folks.... lesson learned was dont join whilst drinking!

You can change it you know ..

I did try when i 1st joined but messed it up again and your only allowed to change it once so im stuck with it now!!

Arrrrrrrr right .... understand now

Were do i stand with OUR date then??

Pm me and we will chat

Hahahahaha TEASE!!!

no I'm being genuine

I cant because of your age limits are on....

Doh ...... bare with "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots don't say their real age in here don't know why though but I'm 51 and proud !!!

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By *atsun xxxMan
over a year ago

Nr LOUTH Lincolnshire

Real age on profile, yes I have had a hard life lol

Op put a clear pic on and then we can tell you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't lie about our age but stops us meeting some folks. When we do meet at a club or social most come and talk to us.

Go figure lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cheers for the advice and pointers folks, its much appreciated.... im now MY REAL AGE!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cheers for the advice and pointers folks, its much appreciated.... im now MY REAL AGE! "

About time

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

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I'm useless at guessing someone's age but it wouldn't bother me if someone was a few years older or younger then what was on their profile,

Apart from a few grey hairs and bags under my eyes I could pass for someone much younger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get what the OP is saying

Sometimes I’m very surprised when I look at pics

More often than not I think people are younger than the age they really are

I’m 44 in a matter of weeks and like to think this lifestyle keeps me on my toes with making an effort to look good , wearing sexy clothes, enjoying life etc so maybe that’s something to do with it ? "

U r never!!?? wow so jealous right now Mrs xx

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