FabSwingers.com forum: Fetishes ... Why?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

This subject intrigues me tbh.

I know the human mind is a very complex thing, it can probably, never be totally unwravell..

Most people to some degree or another get turned on sexualy by one thing or another.

The list is endless as we know..

Leather gloved hands, stiletto shoes, thigh boots, hairy pussies, fur, latex, sweaty armpits...

Fair play to everyone, each to their own.

I took stock today, my lingerie drawer is growing, I I now own more (varied, sexy) stockings, panties and suspenders than any woman I have ever been with.

Sorry but I love wearing them.

But I am a blokey bloke, I work in a warehouse, had my nose broken from Thai Boxing, have stubble most of the time. I drink pints of Stella..

Sometimes I think I'm a freak.. no disrespect but I dislike sissies.. but also feel that I will be perceived as one because I like to dress for sexual pleasure.Amd viewed as some kind of sissy boy/girl...

Head fuck tbh

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Like any fetish/kink the best thing to do is try not to justify it or even attach labels to what it might mean or say about you. If you like them, and get pleasure from them, and so long as it's not harming anyone else, then embrace them and enjoy.

Until the internet age there were quite a few things that interested me sexually that I repressed because I thought them odd or strange - or that people would judge me for them. Then I discovered that far from being alone there were others who shared similar interests and came to accept them as part of me and embrace them for that reason too.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Like any fetish/kink the best thing to do is try not to justify it or even attach labels to what it might mean or say about you. If you like them, and get pleasure from them, and so long as it's not harming anyone else, then embrace them and enjoy.

Abso-fucking-lutely.

You like dressing, plain and simple.

Why the hoo-har about sissies? You have something you like to do, so why be mean about the people who enjoy being sissy?

We get that you're a blokey bloke, and thats fine, but please don't be mean about others who you fear you may be bracketed in. That's not being blokey, that's being cunty and disrespectful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think we all have moments of doubt even self loathing but they usually pass. Try not to be too judgemental especially about yourself x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Enjoy it, tell anyone else to piss off it’s your thing.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I limit the things that I get to understand at a deep level, or even at all. I choose what I like and actually undertake in life - the rest gets left behind.

I think it can sometimes take some of the fun out of things if we intellectualise about something that may be deep seated or just superficial pleasure. I think it's great to just allow ourselves to be free spirited.

With my kink interests I just enjoy them when I wish to. I've made the rules for my life and they don't involve other people having to accept or understand me. Keep life simple.

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By *.gerri.xTV/TS
over a year ago

North west

Your kinky - deal with it or fuck it off

Though it's never that easy is it , it will fuck your head up. You represent to everyone in your "real life " as a blokey bloke. Yet inside your head you know you get off on dressing in women's underwear and you know how that goes against everything you present as with the lads.

But the lads at work or on the pub aren't the ones getting you off.( well they might be ).So they don't need to know.

Mate I know some of the shit your heads going through lol...... I mean cmon I'm ex forces always been a bit of a lad an at the moment I have long bleached blonde hair ,a Sunbed tan , my eyebrows are waxed an I'm always smoothly shaven. Fuck knows how I got here lol but it feels right ,an for once in my life I'm doing things for me.

You gotta do what makes you happy an learn to accept it , it's hard to accept yourself especially when basing your acceptance on what others will think .

Probably got you n your issues totally wrong but that's forums for ya

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By *sylumCouple
over a year ago

Rotherham

never try and work out why or question it, a kink a fetish is an itch that wont go away. always do why you enjoy, fuck what others think or say.

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

Abso-fucking-lutely.

You like dressing, plain and simple.

Why the hoo-har about sissies? You have something you like to do, so why be mean about the people who enjoy being sissy?

We get that you're a blokey bloke, and thats fine, but please don't be mean about others who you fear you may be bracketed in. That's not being blokey, that's being cunty and disrespectful.

Wow...spot on.

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