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By *ornyhfd OP   Couple
over a year ago

Hereford

Hi guys we messaged a couple this evening we were very polite and sent pics with our message. We understand that not everyone is for everyone. The reply was very blunt "DO YOU HONESTLY THINK YOU ARE RIGHT FOR US ?" . We found this to be very rude and off putting not only that they blocked us so that we couldn't respond. We would of gracuiosly replied not a problem. Your replies and feedback on this would be gratefully appreciated guys x.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Who knows? Did you read their profile to check you matched what they were looking for? Maybe they're sick of people messaging who haven't. Or maybe they were just plain rude. Best just to forget it and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Posting details of private messages will get you a forum time out. You still have time to delete your post, OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems unnecessarily rude to me

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Rude sh*t's!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Rude sh*t's!"

*Nods*

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By *orthern BeardMan
over a year ago

Oxfordshire

A polite 'no thanks' might have been better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people are just plain rude on her. Forget and move on, plenty if very polite lovely people as well.

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By *aelawMan
over a year ago

Paisley

Yeah definitely take it on the chin and move on. From the content in their message it may have been down to what they are looking for. Taking to the forum is never really the best retaliation though

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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago

Traffic land

If your message was respectful, I wouldn't give it another thought. Just as in any other walk of life some people are bloody rude, forget it and move on. (Keyboards turn some people into dicks)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't take it to heart, win some lose some with that response maybe u dodged a bullet not meeting that lot!

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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago

swingers clubs

It's one (rude) way to find out they weren't for you after all.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I got friended... Sent a thank you for friending me ... Response was .... Cock size? .... Blocked

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By *apillonNoirWoman
over a year ago

There...

That’s tough Bullet dodged methinks. Profiles can be tricky to negotiate sometimes. Good luck in your search.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's not you, it's them declaring themselves as not right for you - because they sound foul as well as otherwise incompatible.

You will get some star people here but also, ss it's open for anyone to join here, you can also get the less savoury aspects of society. Or it's a numbers thing, most people won't match most others.

Put it behind you, as it's not easy to spot pigs when they have a profile fine tuned, selling themselves as great people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, were they? If the profile said they were looking for a bi man and straight woman, or looking for a single or whatever, then their reply would be completely appropriate.

So many posts on here saying not getting a reply is rude etc. Now people have to send tactful replies even if they are exasperated by the messages they receive.

It's a no. Simple as, move on and don't let it worry you.

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