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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all

I've been away for a while but came back! It seems hard to get women's attention at the moment compared to a few months back. What should be in the first message?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Face pic, bit of info about you and why you messaged.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep it simple......nothing to wordy ....... something like .....

"Fancy a fuck"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for that but I have been doing that! What do you like to read in first messages?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's no ideal first message for everyone. Be yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello.

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By *icky-discoMan
over a year ago

oxford


"Keep it simple......nothing to wordy ....... something like .....

"Fancy a fuck" "

Or a cock pic works every time

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Hello."

Is it me you're looking for?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello.

Is it me you're looking for? "

Always.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

FAF and an assortment of cock pics goes down well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Keep it simple......nothing to wordy ....... something like .....

"Fancy a fuck" "

Really...i was under the impression that as an opening statment was a nonstarter ..lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on who you're trying to entice with your message really.

If you're trying to woo a sugar daddy seeking type for instance,then you might want to lead with your credit card details!

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

I always go for the ones who offer me to use them as a human toilet. they are my favorites by far

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K


"Keep it simple......nothing to wordy ....... something like .....

"Fancy a fuck"

Really...i was under the impression that as an opening statment was a nonstarter ..lol"

The guys are winding you up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Keep it simple......nothing to wordy ....... something like .....

"Fancy a fuck"

Really...i was under the impression that as an opening statment was a nonstarter ..lol

The guys are winding you up "

Hahaaa thought so...lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well having spent some time trying out different ways of messaging....morse code,semaphore n smoke signals to name but a few...I have found the simplest ways to still be the best.

Words typed in the English language with a drizzle of emojis can convey what you want to say much more succinctly than any of the above methods.

While I've had quite a few favourable results,I'm still working on the precise order in which to put these words n emojis that will yield a consistently high success rate.

It's quite a scientific process....so much so I've had to start wearing a lab coat n donning a clipboard during all correspondence!

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By *eliz NelsonMan
over a year ago

The Tantric Tea Shop


"Well having spent some time trying out different ways of messaging....morse code,semaphore n smoke signals to name but a few...I have found the simplest ways to still be the best.

Words typed in the English language with a drizzle of emojis can convey what you want to say much more succinctly than any of the above methods.

While I've had quite a few favourable results,I'm still working on the precise order in which to put these words n emojis that will yield a consistently high success rate.

It's quite a scientific process....so much so I've had to start wearing a lab coat n donning a clipboard during all correspondence! "

But is the lab coat wide open and displaying a cock pic?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well having spent some time trying out different ways of messaging....morse code,semaphore n smoke signals to name but a few...I have found the simplest ways to still be the best.

Words typed in the English language with a drizzle of emojis can convey what you want to say much more succinctly than any of the above methods.

While I've had quite a few favourable results,I'm still working on the precise order in which to put these words n emojis that will yield a consistently high success rate.

It's quite a scientific process....so much so I've had to start wearing a lab coat n donning a clipboard during all correspondence!

But is the lab coat wide open and displaying a cock pic? "

Is there any other way to don a lab coat?

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By *espectful chap 99Man
over a year ago

Preston

Something like I've got a big cock and know what I'm doing.. Oh and also you can lick for hours.. Always gets the wife wet when they come in

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir


"Well having spent some time trying out different ways of messaging....morse code,semaphore n smoke signals to name but a few...I have found the simplest ways to still be the best.

Words typed in the English language with a drizzle of emojis can convey what you want to say much more succinctly than any of the above methods.

While I've had quite a few favourable results,I'm still working on the precise order in which to put these words n emojis that will yield a consistently high success rate.

It's quite a scientific process....so much so I've had to start wearing a lab coat n donning a clipboard during all correspondence!

But is the lab coat wide open and displaying a cock pic?

Is there any other way to don a lab coat? "

Weirdly I am finding that mental image quite hot

Madame Boo

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By *uvesmuffinCouple
over a year ago

Barking

While gissa a " fuck" can be funny " at times, as in banter, not good for a first message.. Read the profile emphasise on it, nothing desparate, or something woman hear all the time, corny stuff, get to know her properly.. Humour in good taste.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"While gissa a " fuck" can be funny " at times, as in banter, not good for a first message.. Read the profile emphasise on it, nothing desparate, or something woman hear all the time, corny stuff, get to know her properly.. Humour in good taste."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not to long so its an essay but not a one liner a bit of humour i think always helps but tasteful and dont for get questions not only in first message but in whole convo....if u always ask a question always a opening for a reply..dont u agree? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find thinking up the subject title for the message hard part. I see some of my messages remain unread in a sea of other messages. So need to think of attention grabbing title.

Any ideas?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i rarely read message title unless i realise person has put first few words of message in it not sure if other ppl do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all

I've been away for a while but came back! It seems hard to get women's attention at the moment compared to a few months back. What should be in the first message? "

It would depend who your speaking to.

You'd have to include all the demanded things for some. Others, whatever you think they're like to hear or talk about maybe.

Good luck op.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all

I've been away for a while but came back! It seems hard to get women's attention at the moment compared to a few months back. What should be in the first message? "

a few months ago u say, was it summer everyone is hornier in the heat lol so might have nothing to do with u the women b4 may have just been extra rampant b4 lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't copy & paste

Sound genuine.......

Good luck op

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