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Can you live too close?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I understand only chatting to people within a certain radius due to travel, but can you live too close to someone? Had someone once that lived in the same town say I was too close, whether it was because I might know someone they know or whatever, who knows

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they're adults and not drama queens, no, nobody could be too close. Ideally, I'd enjoy it if they lived next door.

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By *inglehotchickWoman
over a year ago

blackpool

Nearer the better for me. Half of Blackpool is on fab so I don't have to travel too far usually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I'd love that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're confident enough a person is worth meeting proximity shouldn't be an issue ....

For me closeness equals convenience

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By *rightonCheekyMan
over a year ago

Brighton

I see being local as a huge advantage, what's not to like about that?

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I'd not want to meet someone from the same town as me purely to avoid any possibly awkward moments in Tesco!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they're adults and not drama queens, no, nobody could be too close. Ideally, I'd enjoy it if they lived next door. "

i agree x

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By *rightonCheekyMan
over a year ago

Brighton


"Nearer the better for me. Half of Blackpool is on fab so I don't have to travel too far usually "

Ooh I like Blackpool

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

When someone thinks that they can just drop in by for a quick fuck........yes that is too close and annoying

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By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago

somewhere


"I'd not want to meet someone from the same town as me purely to avoid any possibly awkward moments in Tesco!!

"

Exactly this. Although I do seem to have gone to the extremes by having a fwb 160 miles away!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd not want to meet someone from the same town as me purely to avoid any possibly awkward moments in Tesco!!

"

Been there we both just smiled and walk away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A sexy swinging neighbour would be nice, especially on a Sunday morning when all I'd like to do is roll out of my bed and into someone else's

Peach x

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By *elloIntrigueMan
over a year ago

North West UK

I'd like to be local to someone that I was seeing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd not want to meet someone from the same town as me purely to avoid any possibly awkward moments in Tesco!!

Exactly this. Although I do seem to have gone to the extremes by having a fwb 160 miles away! "

I don't shop in Tesco.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We routinely block any profiles in our town, too many people who don't know how to be discreet and where we live people love to get into each other's business. I don't want to be having people giving the old nudge and wink on the school run or at the shops.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No local is great and convenient x

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By *igboobstCouple
over a year ago

barrow

Would love to find a local couple xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they're adults and not drama queens, no, nobody could be too close. Ideally, I'd enjoy it if they lived next door. "

I'd be forever hopping over the fence if you did!

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By *gcw2014Couple
over a year ago

just outside of liverpool

Yes you can live too close. Personally we would love to find someone local for regular meets but wouldn't turn up on their doorstep unannounced. Not everyone feels the same though. Was chatting to a lovely couple then they found out we were a couple of streets away and said it was too close for comfort. Its each to their own and how comfortable people feel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id prefer them to be close by. Nothing worse than waiting for your booty call to arrive

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

There is a bloke on my friends list who lives just down the road from me.

Nothing will ever happen between us so I don't feel awkward about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I really want local!

But I did meet someone a while back who was erm ....

A bit odd... and it makes me shudder to think I went there

And I do see him on occasion ( awkward!)

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By *igboobstCouple
over a year ago

barrow


"No I really want local!

But I did meet someone a while back who was erm ....

A bit odd... and it makes me shudder to think I went there

And I do see him on occasion ( awkward!)

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we’d quite like to be local to you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A neighbour in my street is upto no good .she has same car as me .I was on settee one evening .A man came in and walked up my stairs .calling neighbours name .he got shock when he saw me and telling him to get out .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Closer is better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s a guy who lives opposite me I chat to and a women who lives down the other end of our road I’ve met a few times, no issues.

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By *icegentglosMan
over a year ago

Gloucester

Local

Is good. Some tho I fear think it's too close for comfort

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

We once had neighbours that were on Fab. It wasn't a problem as we were looking for different demographs and never played together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Birmingham is fine for me as means spontaneous can be fun but not that close they can try popping in not announced

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep you can live too close ~I have a 15 mile exclusion zone

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

Yes i think you can be too close. I never meet anyone from my home town as its too small and everyone knows everything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nearer the better for me. Half of Blackpool is on fab so I don't have to travel too far usually "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they're adults and not drama queens, no, nobody could be too close. Ideally, I'd enjoy it if they lived next door. "

Same I'd love a next door meet, pop over when the urge takes me....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id prefer all my meets to be closer to be honest, you never know when the horn pops up!

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By *on and TammyCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

For me its not a problem, the wife feels differently though. She'd prefer people were at least 3 miles away.

Mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I first joined fab it didn't bother me if someone lived in the same town, Infact someone who i had regular meets with and became my partner only lived 2 streets away from me.

Now I wouldn't meet anyone from the same town as some people think it's perfectly acceptable to come up to me when I'm with my kids and try to talk about fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had 2 great meets with a guy who lived 15 mins walk away. It was so convenient, as well as he was lovely, but unfortunately he stopped all contact with me so maybe HE thought we were too close to each other? I will never know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I first joined fab it didn't bother me if someone lived in the same town, Infact someone who i had regular meets with and became my partner only lived 2 streets away from me.

Now I wouldn't meet anyone from the same town as some people think it's perfectly acceptable to come up to me when I'm with my kids and try to talk about fab "

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By *igboobstCouple
over a year ago

barrow


"I had 2 great meets with a guy who lived 15 mins walk away. It was so convenient, as well as he was lovely, but unfortunately he stopped all contact with me so maybe HE thought we were too close to each other? I will never know."
that would put us off big time, how cheeky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Getting a meet here is like hens teeth - yet I've turnes down meets from people I consider too local. Dont want any "fatal attraction" type scenarios....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I first joined fab it didn't bother me if someone lived in the same town, Infact someone who i had regular meets with and became my partner only lived 2 streets away from me.

Now I wouldn't meet anyone from the same town as some people think it's perfectly acceptable to come up to me when I'm with my kids and try to talk about fab

"

Now a certain person has resorted to putting up statues about me telling people where I normally socialise and what I look like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im not a fan of meeting locally x

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Im not a fan of meeting locally x "

Shit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Local playmates are fabulous when everything is going great, but if/when things finish it can be bloody awkward seeing each other at the shop or around town. I prefer to keep things away from my hometown for that reason.

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

Yes.... Have only ever met someone once who lived within 15 minutes drive.... and I ended up with a stalker...

Aside from that... I like to know someone makes the time and effort to meet me... That they genuinely appreciate our time together, that I'm not just the convenient shag

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea


"If they're adults and not drama queens, no, nobody could be too close. Ideally, I'd enjoy it if they lived next door. "

Same hear.

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By *ot40sCouple
over a year ago

birmingham


"I understand only chatting to people within a certain radius due to travel, but can you live too close to someone? Had someone once that lived in the same town say I was too close, whether it was because I might know someone they know or whatever, who knows"

Well here goes, we played with a lovely lady at a club a while ago and being the nice people we are we offered her a lift home at the end of the night as she said she was local... turns out she lived in the same road as us !!!! Literally 100 yards away

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

I dont meet anyone who lives near me but i have met a couple of men who lived 6 miles from me it depends who it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to see a guy regularly who only lived a few streets away. Been others,who lived pretty lose too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish my fuck buddy lived closer. I actually wish anybody lived closer, it's a joke how slim the pickings are around here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they turn out to be trouble, yes.

If they are 20 minutes away by bus, sane and the sex is great, no.

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By *ouise HartleyTV/TS
over a year ago

the street of failed artists Liverpool

Most definitely, I don’t want to bump into a guy in Tesco or my local pub after we’ve had sex with me dressed as a girl. People always say they’re discrete but keeping such secrets is another matter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I won't meet anyone less than half an hour away, preferably more. Some people are utterly clueless about privacy.

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