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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I always have bad dreams about an ex girlfriend who turned out to be horrible, {her birthday 10 October}

Yet before her was the best gf i ever had had and was falling in love with, i never dream about? (both dumped me btw)

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By *he Secret Tea PartyCouple
over a year ago

London

Your glass is half empty?

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I don't think it means anything. Dreams are just random nonsensical things. Last night I dreamed about a baby war. Little camouflage nappies and machine guns.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe you have underlying issues there that are manifesting through dreams, when we go through trauma our minds need to be able to process information in order to categorise it, deal with it and move on. Now you are away from that environment your mind now thinks it's time to heal. Just a theory.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't think it means anything. Dreams are just random nonsensical things. Last night I dreamed about a baby war. Little camouflage nappies and machine guns. "

Are dreams not the subconscious trying to communicate?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your glass is half empty? "

Naa, its empty now, time for refill

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You dream about what youre thinking about. Youre thinking about it so will dream about it. Then you try not to think about it and think even more. So dream even more. Vicious circle. Blahh

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe you have underlying issues there that are manifesting through dreams, when we go through trauma our minds need to be able to process information in order to categorise it, deal with it and move on. Now you are away from that environment your mind now thinks it's time to heal. Just a theory. "

Yea ill go for that, i have ptsd from years ago but live with it now

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By *he Secret Tea PartyCouple
over a year ago

London


"Maybe you have underlying issues there that are manifesting through dreams, when we go through trauma our minds need to be able to process information in order to categorise it, deal with it and move on. Now you are away from that environment your mind now thinks it's time to heal. Just a theory. "

That's a good one, would explain some of my dream patterns

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You dream about what youre thinking about. Youre thinking about it so will dream about it. Then you try not to think about it and think even more. So dream even more. Vicious circle. Blahh"

Yea ill go with that too. Was up late fixung car for work and had bad dreams about that too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe you have underlying issues there that are manifesting through dreams, when we go through trauma our minds need to be able to process information in order to categorise it, deal with it and move on. Now you are away from that environment your mind now thinks it's time to heal. Just a theory.

That's a good one, would explain some of my dream patterns "

Oh?.. Do spill!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex with the horrible one was better?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sex with the horrible one was better? "

No not really. She was a bit crap tbh. She wasn't what she made herself out to be, just a manipulative little shit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sex with the horrible one was better?

No not really. She was a bit crap tbh. She wasn't what she made herself out to be, just a manipulative little shit. "

Have you considered a new patio?

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands

I'm not seeing the relevance of mentioning her birthday?

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By *he Secret Tea PartyCouple
over a year ago

London


"That's a good one, would explain some of my dream patterns

Oh?.. Do spill! "

Goodness no

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"I don't think it means anything. Dreams are just random nonsensical things. Last night I dreamed about a baby war. Little camouflage nappies and machine guns.

Are dreams not the subconscious trying to communicate? "

What's that trying to communicate?

To be fair, the night before I had a dream about Rambo. Lots of camouflage and violence seems to be a theme.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Dreams don't follow the logical thinking patterns of your conscious mind - your unconscious is more random and abstract. In fact when you are dreaming your memories become established and it seems that we make sense of ourselves and life.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm not seeing the relevance of mentioning her birthday?"

It's coming up so is a reminder

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sex with the horrible one was better?

No not really. She was a bit crap tbh. She wasn't what she made herself out to be, just a manipulative little shit.

Have you considered a new patio? "

PMSL 2 glasses, one with one poisoned, i wouldn't care which one i got lol

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