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By *rigger 56 OP   Man
over a year ago

Ringwood

Hi. Have any of you members ever had your profile viewed by members in categories that you haven't selected and when you email them to ask if there have viewed by mistake there say no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi. Have any of you members ever had your profile viewed by members in categories that you haven't selected and when you email them to ask if there have viewed by mistake there say no

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I view all sorts that are not in my categories. Never had a message asking if it was a mistake! Mind you I have blocked all men

And I'm currently incognito! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi. Have any of you members ever had your profile viewed by members in categories that you haven't selected and when you email them to ask if there have viewed by mistake there say no

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Anyone can look at anyone unless they've been blocked or the person has hidden their profile from all.

And they're allowed to look at anyone they want.

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village


"Hi. Have any of you members ever had your profile viewed by members in categories that you haven't selected and when you email them to ask if there have viewed by mistake there say no

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Why would you mail people who've looked at you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You emailed people to say they looked at you by mistake?

That's hardcore

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Hi. Have any of you members ever had your profile viewed by members in categories that you haven't selected and when you email them to ask if there have viewed by mistake there say no

"

Lots of people view us from categories that we haven't selected. Sometimes they're interested in the pictures, sometimes its something we've said on the forum that makes them look and sometimes they're just nosey .

We've never messaged to ask if it was a mistake but I expect some of them think it was once they've looked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could make for a strange conversation...

excuse me, did you look at me by mistake?

no.

Oh did you look at me deliberately then.

yes.

I'm not looking for guys.

I know, now I have looked at your profile I can see what you do or don't want. Did you look at my profile?

ermm....

But you emailed me asking if I loked at you by mistake? Surely you read profiles before messaging?

ermmm...

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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich

Most people that view me are "straight" men.. I think it's great if they are curious or even slightly interested.. Even better when they wink or fab my pics. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi. Have any of you members ever had your profile viewed by members in categories that you haven't selected and when you email them to ask if there have viewed by mistake there say no

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I honestly thought you were winding us up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

get loads of people looking that arent wanting to meet a woman but hey - we can all be plain nosy when we want to be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi. Have any of you members ever had your profile viewed by members in categories that you haven't selected and when you email them to ask if there have viewed by mistake there say no

Why would you mail people who've looked at you "

Well duh! They've looked at your profile they must obviously want something more

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By *he Secret Tea PartyCouple
over a year ago

London


"Why would you mail people who've looked at you "

This

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By *he Secret Tea PartyCouple
over a year ago

London


"They've looked at your profile they must obviously want something more "

No, absolutely no. They looked and they left. Think it through

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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich


"get loads of people looking that arent wanting to meet a woman but hey - we can all be plain nosy when we want to be"

I was just being nosy.. Glad I did... Stunning. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi. Have any of you members ever had your profile viewed by members in categories that you haven't selected and when you email them to ask if there have viewed by mistake there say no

Why would you mail people who've looked at you

Well duh! They've looked at your profile they must obviously want something more "

You’re not being serious are you

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

If people view and don't message, it's saved you the trouble of messaging to find that there's no current interest.

I clock on a couple of people in error a week - but it's just due to a small screen and lazy tapping. I'd probably not remember who they are though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If people view and don't message, it's saved you the trouble of messaging to find that there's no current interest.

I clock on a couple of people in error a week - but it's just due to a small screen and lazy tapping. I'd probably not remember who they are though."

Those two people are fed up with it though

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By *rnortholtMan
over a year ago

Waveney Valley


"Hi. Have any of you members ever had your profile viewed by members in categories that you haven't selected and when you email them to ask if there have viewed by mistake there say no

Anyone can look at anyone unless they've been blocked or the person has hidden their profile from all.

And they're allowed to look at anyone they want."

And I just did.....

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By *lan157Man
over a year ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex

I get men looking at my profile. I assume it is to attempt to access verifications so that they may try contacting those same ladies and couples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to browse everyone, no discrimination from me, and personally I like to thank everyone for letting me look at there pictures. ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol anyone can view you. How will they know they aren't the category you want if they don't look..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get men looking at my profile. I assume it is to attempt to access verifications so that they may try contacting those same ladies and couples. "

Or, you verified someone they looked at and want to see the kinds of people they meet.

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By *r and mrs sanddancerCouple
over a year ago

BOLDON COLLIERY

I quite often look at people who dont fit my likes, they may have commented something in the forum or said something in chat, and I am curious to know more about them,

I don't know what they like till I have read their profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I don't know what they like till I have read their profile "

You need to meet people face to face, but i suppose its like getting a job, you need a good CV.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I don't know what they like till I have read their profile

You need to meet people face to face, but i suppose its like getting a job, you need a good CV.

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I don't need to meet people face to face to know I like them. I don't meet anyone just to see if they like me or vice versa.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I don't know what they like till I have read their profile

You need to meet people face to face, but i suppose its like getting a job, you need a good CV.

I don't need to meet people face to face to know I like them. I don't meet anyone just to see if they like me or vice versa."

I was thinking about personality than looks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't believe not one person has got the sarcasm pmsl x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi. Have any of you members ever had your profile viewed by members in categories that you haven't selected and when you email them to ask if there have viewed by mistake there say no

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I get hundreds of views from straight guys but I'd never waste my time messaging them to ask what gives ......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi. Have any of you members ever had your profile viewed by members in categories that you haven't selected and when you email them to ask if there have viewed by mistake there say no

I view all sorts that are not in my categories. Never had a message asking if it was a mistake! Mind you I have blocked all men

And I'm currently incognito! x"
Your profile says you're looking for men aged 34 to 54 yet you block messages from men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi. Have any of you members ever had your profile viewed by members in categories that you haven't selected and when you email them to ask if there have viewed by mistake there say no

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And messaging to ask why they've viewed you is super creepy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi. Have any of you members ever had your profile viewed by members in categories that you haven't selected and when you email them to ask if there have viewed by mistake there say no

Anyone can look at anyone unless they've been blocked or the person has hidden their profile from all.

And they're allowed to look at anyone they want."

I agree ...its a free world

....to start with anyway lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d never message anyone just for looking at my profile

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By *rigger 56 OP   Man
over a year ago

Ringwood

I think people have got the wrong idea I have no problem people viewing my profile but it is the same person many times it's like the website is sending it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I don't know what they like till I have read their profile

You need to meet people face to face, but i suppose its like getting a job, you need a good CV.

I don't need to meet people face to face to know I like them. I don't meet anyone just to see if they like me or vice versa.

I was thinking about personality than looks.

"

So am I

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think people have got the wrong idea I have no problem people viewing my profile but it is the same person many times it's like the website is sending it "

They like your pics. The website doesn't send people to view you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi. Have any of you members ever had your profile viewed by members in categories that you haven't selected and when you email them to ask if there have viewed by mistake there say no

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I look at profiles on update list and that I see in the forum so don't know if interest match till I've looked..I'm guessing other people do the same

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