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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I was just having a "browse" (ok perve), and noticed that there are many single guys and gals profiles state as their interests "same room swapping" and "separate room swapping".

What do they intend to "swap"? Bubblegum cards (showing my age now)? The furniture around?

I'm not having a dig, just wondered that's all.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Hey! We sometimes swing with each other!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hey! We sometimes swing with each other! "

I'm sure you do, but what do you swap? Clothes? Toys? I'm just curious.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Hey! We sometimes swing with each other!

I'm sure you do, but what do you swap? Clothes? Toys? I'm just curious. "

If I pair up with a single guy, and another single woman pairs up with a single guy, then we can swap each other. See?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hey! We sometimes swing with each other!

I'm sure you do, but what do you swap? Clothes? Toys? I'm just curious.

If I pair up with a single guy, and another single woman pairs up with a single guy, then we can swap each other. See?"

I get your drift, but surely that's just sex or "group sex" not swapping.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey! We sometimes swing with each other!

I'm sure you do, but what do you swap? Clothes? Toys? I'm just curious.

If I pair up with a single guy, and another single woman pairs up with a single guy, then we can swap each other. See?

I get your drift, but surely that's just sex or "group sex" not swapping. "

I don't think you do get the drift

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Hey! We sometimes swing with each other!

I'm sure you do, but what do you swap? Clothes? Toys? I'm just curious.

If I pair up with a single guy, and another single woman pairs up with a single guy, then we can swap each other. See?

I get your drift, but surely that's just sex or "group sex" not swapping.

I don't think you do get the drift "

+1

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Hey! We sometimes swing with each other!

I'm sure you do, but what do you swap? Clothes? Toys? I'm just curious.

If I pair up with a single guy, and another single woman pairs up with a single guy, then we can swap each other. See?

I get your drift, but surely that's just sex or "group sex" not swapping. "

Group sex is a when a group of people have sex, so technically two married/attached couples can have group sex.

So really, no difference. The said single people are just letting other single people know that they are open for a situation that includes swapping. As opposed to me, who likes to keep them all for herself.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm still at a loss.

If a number of singles arrange to get together for sex that's exactly what it is, it's not exactly what i would describe as "swapping".

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I'm still at a loss.

If a number of singles arrange to get together for sex that's exactly what it is, it's not exactly what i would describe as "swapping". "

Hmmm, OK. I reckon that, unless we agree with your definition, you won't get it. You go with your definition and I'll go with mine. No harm no foul.

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley


"I'm still at a loss.

If a number of singles arrange to get together for sex that's exactly what it is, it's not exactly what i would describe as "swapping". "

Have you thought of trying face book? Much less complicated.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I'm still at a loss.

If a number of singles arrange to get together for sex that's exactly what it is, it's not exactly what i would describe as "swapping".

Have you thought of trying face book? Much less complicated. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wyrd, next social if we agree to meet up you keep your fella and I'll keep mine and we'll do same room soft swap!

(no tongues)

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Wyrd, next social if we agree to meet up you keep your fella and I'll keep mine and we'll do same room soft swap!

(no tongues) "

No tongues? Thats no fun at all.

I don't actually have a regular fella so I'll just sit and watch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you think along 60's lines and define swinging as swapping partners then I would agree with your analogy that singles can't swap because they don't have a partner to swap.

However, I would define modern day swinging as "No Strings Attached" sex between consenting adults.

Depends on your own views really

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

Hmmm, OK. I reckon that, unless we agree with your definition, you won't get it. You go with your definition and I'll go with mine. No harm no foul. "

I'm only asking a question (as admittedly I'm not too bright), I'm not asking anyone too agree with my definition, I was simply enquiring as to what the general consensus is to satisfy my curiosity on the subject. I have no intention to cause any conflict.

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

Confict? They're fighting in lumps now!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you think along 60's lines and define swinging as swapping partners then I would agree with your analogy that singles can't swap because they don't have a partner to swap.

However, I would define modern day swinging as "No Strings Attached" sex between consenting adults.

Depends on your own views really "

Cheers Jack, that helps, now things are becoming a wee bit clearer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wyrd, next social if we agree to meet up you keep your fella and I'll keep mine and we'll do same room soft swap!

(no tongues)

No tongues? Thats no fun at all.

I don't actually have a regular fella so I'll just sit and watch. "

Oh I don't have a regular either....just pick-n-mix them as and when xx

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Wyrd, next social if we agree to meet up you keep your fella and I'll keep mine and we'll do same room soft swap!

(no tongues)

No tongues? Thats no fun at all.

I don't actually have a regular fella so I'll just sit and watch.

Oh I don't have a regular either....just pick-n-mix them as and when xx "

Same room soft swing swap sends signals

Or we could just do it and leave the men outside. Mwahahahahahaaaaa.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was just having a "browse" (ok perve), and noticed that there are many single guys and gals profiles state as their interests "same room swapping" and "separate room swapping".

What do they intend to "swap"? Bubblegum cards (showing my age now)? The furniture around?

I'm not having a dig, just wondered that's all. "

I understand exactly where you are coming from!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was just having a "browse" (ok perve), and noticed that there are many single guys and gals profiles state as their interests "same room swapping" and "separate room swapping".

What do they intend to "swap"? Bubblegum cards (showing my age now)? The furniture around?

I'm not having a dig, just wondered that's all. "

Well I can see what ya on about

However me and wend are disagreeing now pmsl xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having multiple personalities sometimes i just don't want them all in the same room as me so we swap separately, and then other times I do!

It's all very confusing! Hehe

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

Well I can see what ya on about

However me and wend are disagreeing now pmsl xx "

Oooooops xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wyrd, next social if we agree to meet up you keep your fella and I'll keep mine and we'll do same room soft swap!

(no tongues)

No tongues? Thats no fun at all.

I don't actually have a regular fella so I'll just sit and watch.

Oh I don't have a regular either....just pick-n-mix them as and when xx "

Me, me, me, pick me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wyrd, next social if we agree to meet up you keep your fella and I'll keep mine and we'll do same room soft swap!

(no tongues)

No tongues? Thats no fun at all.

I don't actually have a regular fella so I'll just sit and watch.

Oh I don't have a regular either....just pick-n-mix them as and when xx

Me, me, me, pick me "

Mind if my pal Wyrd joins us?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol if I meet with a couple and just the female wants to play, we will play in a seperate room or the same room as their partner, so then if the male decides he wants to play we swap :O

Or if I am feeling greedy and 'drag along' a single male or two, then I can play swap too :D

Do glory holes count here too? because that could class as seperate rooms too, (or not)

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

Now I am really confused.... I thought swapping meant swapping your partner (wheer fb or married or whatever) with somebody else's for the duration of a playtime ...? Have I been doing it wrong for the past 3 years?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wyrd, next social if we agree to meet up you keep your fella and I'll keep mine and we'll do same room soft swap!

(no tongues)

No tongues? Thats no fun at all.

I don't actually have a regular fella so I'll just sit and watch.

Oh I don't have a regular either....just pick-n-mix them as and when xx

Me, me, me, pick me

Mind if my pal Wyrd joins us? "

Yes please, that would be good

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Wyrd, next social if we agree to meet up you keep your fella and I'll keep mine and we'll do same room soft swap!

(no tongues)

No tongues? Thats no fun at all.

I don't actually have a regular fella so I'll just sit and watch.

Oh I don't have a regular either....just pick-n-mix them as and when xx

Me, me, me, pick me

Mind if my pal Wyrd joins us?

Yes please, that would be good "

That was easy!

Next time I'll just get the other woman to bring two blokes along.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Now I am really confused.... I thought swapping meant swapping your partner (wheer fb or married or whatever) with somebody else's for the duration of a playtime ...? Have I been doing it wrong for the past 3 years? "

I'm sorry, I didn't mean to cast any doubt in your mind, that wasn't my intention.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Now I am really confused.... I thought swapping meant swapping your partner (wheer fb or married or whatever) with somebody else's for the duration of a playtime ...? Have I been doing it wrong for the past 3 years?

I'm sorry, I didn't mean to cast any doubt in your mind, that wasn't my intention. "
Its ok, I ll stop swinging as of now...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Now I am really confused.... I thought swapping meant swapping your partner (wheer fb or married or whatever) with somebody else's for the duration of a playtime ...? Have I been doing it wrong for the past 3 years?

I'm sorry, I didn't mean to cast any doubt in your mind, that wasn't my intention. Its ok, I ll stop swinging as of now..."

Noooo, I couldn't live with that on my conscience.

Wait a moment............that was sarcasm wasn't it?

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Now I am really confused.... I thought swapping meant swapping your partner (wheer fb or married or whatever) with somebody else's for the duration of a playtime ...? Have I been doing it wrong for the past 3 years?

I'm sorry, I didn't mean to cast any doubt in your mind, that wasn't my intention. Its ok, I ll stop swinging as of now...

Noooo, I couldn't live with that on my conscience.

Wait a moment............that was sarcasm wasn't it? "

Never I dont do humour or sarcasm xxx

ps only joking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey! We sometimes swing with each other!

I'm sure you do, but what do you swap? Clothes? Toys? I'm just curious.

If I pair up with a single guy, and another single woman pairs up with a single guy, then we can swap each other. See?

I get your drift, but surely that's just sex or "group sex" not swapping.

Group sex is a when a group of people have sex, so technically two married/attached couples can have group sex.

So really, no difference. The said single people are just letting other single people know that they are open for a situation that includes swapping. As opposed to me, who likes to keep them all for herself. "

Where do I sign up

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Hey! We sometimes swing with each other!

I'm sure you do, but what do you swap? Clothes? Toys? I'm just curious.

If I pair up with a single guy, and another single woman pairs up with a single guy, then we can swap each other. See?

I get your drift, but surely that's just sex or "group sex" not swapping.

Group sex is a when a group of people have sex, so technically two married/attached couples can have group sex.

So really, no difference. The said single people are just letting other single people know that they are open for a situation that includes swapping. As opposed to me, who likes to keep them all for herself.

Where do I sign up "

The vetting process is very strict. If you don't have a box of Hotel Chocolat chocs and a bottle or Shiraz you might get put to the back of the queue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

only got a bottle of vimto and a bar of dairy milk

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"only got a bottle of vimto and a bar of dairy milk "

I'm not proud. Done!

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