FabSwingers.com forum: should I stay or should I go?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Been thinking about leaving the site. Since I said I was in the Army and of to Afghanistan on here, I don't seam to get anyone talking to me anymore. Even had some not so nice messages left on here.

can I be that bad?

Simon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only you can decide if you should or go.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

very true, use to have such a laugh on here and did meet a lot of nice people

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

I'm sure it's nowt to with you being in the army, there are some sad twats around these parts if it was.

It might be just bad breath or a fungal thing?

Incidentally I'm leaving too: http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/67929

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thing is why do you want to leave?

why not hide your profile for a while?

thats what u need to ask yourself x

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

"I'm sure it's nowt to with you being in the army, there are some sad twats around these parts if it was.

It might be just bad breath or a fungal thing?

Incidentally I'm leaving too: http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/67929"

you still here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm sure it's nowt to with you being in the army, there are some sad twats around these parts if it was.

It might be just bad breath or a fungal thing?

Incidentally I'm leaving too: http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/67929"

bloody time wasters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good-luck too you if you do decide go!!... and good luck too you if you decide to stay!!......However, as already mentioned, only you can decide.....

As for these bad vibes you recieved.... Don't take em to heart.....it's simply not worth it...

Take care and stay safe during your tour of duty

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

"I'm sure it's nowt to with you being in the army, there are some sad twats around these parts if it was.

It might be just bad breath or a fungal thing?

Incidentally I'm leaving too: http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/67929

bloody time wasters

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ffs this timewaster is popping up everywhere i look,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

keep the profile as it may keep you sane when you are over there

i speak to a few squaddies and they are always grateful of a message of support even a hi

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

"you still here

Shut it you!

"bloody time wasters "

and you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"you still here

Shut it you!

bloody time wasters

and you!

talk to the hand as the face doesnt listen

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

oh had a lot of surport from people. might be because of the stree of out here and a big inspection thats coming up.

its always nice to get messages from people thats what i liked about being on here.

think I might have taken it to heart to much

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

good luck with whatever you decide and stay safe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"oh had a lot of surport from people. might be because of the stree of out here and a big inspection thats coming up.

its always nice to get messages from people thats what i liked about being on here.

think I might have taken it to heart to much

We all have our off days i have and im terrible when im in a mood hence why i said if you are deleting why dont you hide your profile 1st

trust me if u think u will be back dont delete

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By *inktherapyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

trust me if u think u will be back dont delete

and this woman knows what she's talking about when it comes to deleting profiles and returning...

(mwah to you, jaq!!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

trust me if u think u will be back dont delete

and this woman knows what she's talking about when it comes to deleting profiles and returning...

(mwah to you, jaq!!)"

and best of it is i cant moan as you are RIGHT

and no im not going nowhere

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

I would agree to hide it dont delete it, until your back and ready to play again

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

I was feeling down this morning and actually went to delete my profile.

Clicked off and then a message appeared from a guy, just made me realise how much I would miss certain people, most of whom I have never met, but have a good laugh with.

I've hidden my profile and hey it could be back up in the next min, hour day or whatever.

Sometimes we just have that, 'Oh sod it' moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was feeling down this morning and actually went to delete my profile.

Clicked off and then a message appeared from a guy, just made me realise how much I would miss certain people, most of whom I have never met, but have a good laugh with.

I've hidden my profile and hey it could be back up in the next min, hour day or whatever.

Sometimes we just have that, 'Oh sod it' moment"

dont delete xxxx

i would miss u to much

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

"dont delete xxxx

i would miss u to much"

Aw thanks hun, I;m not going, as I said just a bit orf at the mo.

Was just adding to the OP and saying it not worth deleting lol

I'd miss too many idiots on here xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guess you might have peeved a few off by trying to get a sympathy shag...

Not sure what unit your in, but I bet you don't pass the CFT...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guess you might have peeved a few off by trying to get a sympathy shag...

Not sure what unit your in, but I bet you don't pass the CFT..."

i dont think you are right here

i think it was a message as the Op wasnt sure what he wanted to do

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By *inktherapyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"Guess you might have peeved a few off by trying to get a sympathy shag...

Not sure what unit your in, but I bet you don't pass the CFT..."

not sure what passing the CFT (combat fitness test, I'm guessing?) has to do with the OP's original question...? (although I have to say that I'm never a fan of people saying they're off to/ back from Afghanistan or elsewhere because it often can come across like they're using it to get a shag)

To the OP - it's your choice and makes not a jot of difference to the vast majority of us on the site what you do. From a practical pov it's probably easier just to hide your profile whilst away and then un-hide when you return. Your choice, though.

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

"Guess you might have peeved a few off by trying to get a sympathy shag...

Not sure what unit your in, but I bet you don't pass the CFT...

i dont think you are right here

i think it was a message as the Op wasnt sure what he wanted to do

But there are quite a few threads like this that got a real bashing for

1. Using the Army to get a shag

2. putting up a "save me" thread

If he wants to go and has had to ask the question, I think he is best going. This life is not all about getting it when you want it! More like you have to work to get it and it ain't easy!

Yeah, single guys have it rough (in their eyes) but that is swinging for single males, take it or leave it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having seen previous post by the OP, not a fan of those keep going on about off to..... shag me messages

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Aren't military types supposed to be decisive, assertive group-oriented people?

Hopefully OP is a private....

"What should we do sir?"

"Hang on, I'll conduct a survey on the internet"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guess you might have peeved a few off by trying to get a sympathy shag...

Not sure what unit your in, but I bet you don't pass the CFT...

i dont think you are right here

i think it was a message as the Op wasnt sure what he wanted to do

He did mention, that since he had mention Army/Afgan/back out, things have dried up so to speak, and he was thinking of leaving as a result...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guess you might have peeved a few off by trying to get a sympathy shag...

Not sure what unit your in, but I bet you don't pass the CFT...

i dont think you are right here

i think it was a message as the Op wasnt sure what he wanted to do

he didnt mention the CFT once

He did mention, that since he had mention Army/Afgan/back out, things have dried up so to speak, and he was thinking of leaving as a result..."

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

You can still chat when you in afghan.. no problem there , long evenings to fill time. wonder why someone would leave nasty messages . most odd if you had said nothing to them . good luck over there and keep safe . x

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

"He did mention, that since he had mention Army/Afgan/back out, things have dried up so to speak, and he was thinking of leaving as a result..."

Actually, he did say 19 weeks ago that it was his last day on here and he would be gone for 6 Months (26 weeks!) There was also mention that these sites were off limits and he wouldn't be able to post.

Here he is 19 weeks later and still trying to get the sympathy shag.. TBH, I am not even sure he is in the army at the moment!

Maybe he was, but his timescales are all fucked up!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He did mention, that since he had mention Army/Afgan/back out, things have dried up so to speak, and he was thinking of leaving as a result...

Here he is 19 weeks later and still trying to get the sympathy shag.. TBH, I am not even sure he is in the army at the moment!

Maybe he was, but his timescales are all fucked up!!

Rumour should consider changing username to GCHQ

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I talk to someone out there nearly every night, so thats no excuse, think you must just be having a bad run on here, it'll pick up, don't delete, just chill x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I talk to someone out there nearly every night, so thats no excuse, think you must just be having a bad run on here, it'll pick up, don't delete, just chill x"

i talk to a few on my faceache x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

i do agree putting up that i was going to Afghan and was after a shag is wrong but when I put the blog up I was already in Afghan so would be hard to meet.

Can I pass a CFT? yep sure can. but find it hard to pass the PBFA fitness test.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

people always think it is "another" reason... its not me.. its the army... blah blah blah...

then use it to garner sympathy....

no one can tell you whether to stay or go... the site gives you all the tools to make it work...

excuses excuses excuses...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Can I chat on here in Afghan? yes but only when they don't block the site. Sometimes its blocked sometimes its not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can I chat on here in Afghan? yes but only when they don't block the site. Sometimes its blocked sometimes its not."

See, NOW I think your making excuses.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

I use to be a soldier ya know... yeah seriously....

I was part of a crack commando unit was sent to prison by a military court for a crime I didn't commit. I promptly escaped from a maximum security stockade to the Los Angeles underground.

Today, still wanted by the government, I survive as a soldier of fortune. So If you have a problem, if no one else can help, and if you can find me, maybe you can hire.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...Rumour should consider changing username to GCHQ

Thats how Rumour gets started....

Thats how _umours get star...

Nurse... More meds plea... Ooh chocolate !!! Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol well i have found it easier to just roll with life , some people like a man in uniform some dont , just as some men will like a large woman or a thinner woman , and some like older or younger , its just what makes the world go round , dont get a sad on about it , just smile and move on with life you only get one

and if you are out in afghan right now , after todays events you should appreciate that more than anyone , as youll know exactly what i am talking about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I use to be a soldier ya know... yeah seriously....

I was part of a crack commando unit was sent to prison by a military court for a crime I didn't commit. I promptly escaped from a maximum security stockade to the Los Angeles underground.

Today, still wanted by the government, I survive as a soldier of fortune. So If you have a problem, if no one else can help, and if you can find me, maybe you can hire.......

Crazy fool!

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"Been thinking about leaving the site. Since I said I was in the Army and of to Afghanistan on here, I don't seam to get anyone talking to me anymore. Even had some not so nice messages left on here.

can I be that bad?

Simon"

Surely you don't need other people to make that decision for you?

Did your last tour get cancelled?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can I chat on here in Afghan? yes but only when they don't block the site. Sometimes its blocked sometimes its not."

All internet is blocked there if there is a KIA. So NoK can be informed first...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have to Do the things that are right for you ................. things that make you happy ....... only you know what that is . Go or stay but you make your mind up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't understand this need to ask a group of strangers whether you should stay or go.

Needy and attention seeking are not personality traits I'd attribute to members of our armed forces!

Pull yourself together and stop embarrassing yourself!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't understand this need to ask a group of strangers whether you should stay or go.

Needy and attention seeking are not personality traits I'd attribute to members of our armed forces!

Pull yourself together and stop embarrassing yourself!

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cldnt have said it any better xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

still not understanding why you are back and you went out 19 weeks ago and now your going again ? thought you were on a 26 week tour?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I use to be a soldier ya know... yeah seriously....

I was part of a crack commando unit was sent to prison by a military court for a crime I didn't commit. I promptly escaped from a maximum security stockade to the Los Angeles underground.

Today, still wanted by the government, I survive as a soldier of fortune. So If you have a problem, if no one else can help, and if you can find me, maybe you can hire.......

lmao excellent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"still not understanding why you are back and you went out 19 weeks ago and now your going again ? thought you were on a 26 week tour?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Grrrroovy a thread where folk help you decide stuff?

My McCoys, flame grilled steak or salt n vinegar?

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

I have a nephew currently out in Helmand, along with three family friends (we live in a big Royal Marine catchment area), none of them can get much Internet airtime....yet we have guys on here who seem to be on here most days claiming to be serving in Afghanistan.....

I know I'm a cynical fecker' but hmmmm!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Grrrroovy a thread where folk help you decide stuff?

My McCoys, flame grilled steak or salt n vinegar?

This is torture, not opened either pack yet,,lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a nephew currently out in Helmand, along with three family friends (we live in a big Royal Marine catchment area), none of them can get much Internet airtime....yet we have guys on here who seem to be on here most days claiming to be serving in Afghanistan.....

I know I'm a cynical fecker' but hmmmm!

Cynical?!! You Jane?!! Nooo!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Grrrroovy a thread where folk help you decide stuff?

My McCoys, flame grilled steak or salt n vinegar?

This is torture, not opened either pack yet,,lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know I'm a cynical fecker' but hmmmm!

you are quite correct . it all depends what FOB, PB or if you lucky back in bastion as too how good your net connection is , we are lucky we co located with yanks so we tap into there satelitte system , they gave us the key setting , others espeacialy lads in 42 and 45 not so lucky ,

deepest sympathy to 42 lad today if you know his family , done alot of work with juliet and lima coy this tour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"still not understanding why you are back and you went out 19 weeks ago and now your going again ? thought you were on a 26 week tour?

in his defence we get 2 weeks R and R, during the tour , i took mine after 3 and a half months, so is technicaly possible lol , but he hasnt lost much weight ha , most of my lads and me included all lost tonns ha "
yes im understanding the r and r my fella is ex army but the weight issue as you say hun im just not buying it x

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

There's a surprise!......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Grrrroovy a thread where folk help you decide stuff?

My McCoys, flame grilled steak or salt n vinegar?

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defo salt n vinagar ,,,no brainer lol x

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

I know I'm a cynical fecker' but hmmmm!

deepest sympathy to 42 lad today if you know his family , done alot of work with juliet and lima coy this tour "

Sorry.....did I burst your bubble?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Grrrroovy a thread where folk help you decide stuff?

My McCoys, flame grilled steak or salt n vinegar?

defo salt n vinagar ,,,no brainer lol x

sorry but has to be flame grilled steak

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