FabSwingers.com forum: Tests

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

To all the women out there...

When talking to a guy you've just met - do you subtly test them to see what they're made of?

Example:

Guy: I love the colour Red it's the best

Hot Girl: Nope, Blue is better

Guy: You know what, just thinking about it - I agree - Blue is the best

This shows the guy is weak and is not a stable man - the lady has him around her finger. Would a girl lie and say Blue is better, just to see what the guy's reaction is?

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

No. That just seems like hard work

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No. That just seems like hard work"

I bet you do it subconsciously

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

No I don't test people. We click or we dont

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Pointless game - who needs it!!

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By *oresexMan
over a year ago

South West coast

I don't like blue or red best, because I'm not five years old anymore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I'm not a dick or a psycho.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Pointless game - who needs it!!

Women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't like blue or red best, because I'm not five years old anymore."

Magenta?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No I don't test people. We click or we dont"

Exactly this

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Pointless game - who needs it!!

Women

I think you might be overthinking lol!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Pointless game - who needs it!!

Women

I think you might be overthinking lol!"

Or just thinking

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By *amesYork17Man
over a year ago

York

"No. I'm not a dick or a psycho. "

Thanks for making me snort out my tea!

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Pointless game - who needs it!!

Women

I think you might be overthinking lol!

Or just thinking

But alas, your thinking is not leading you to the correct conclusion!! There will be some machiavellian women out there for sure, but the vast majority - no.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Pointless game - who needs it!!

Women

I think you might be overthinking lol!

Or just thinking

But alas, your thinking is not leading you to the correct conclusion!! There will be some machiavellian women out there for sure, but the vast majority - no."

I'm going to have to disagree... I think the vast majority of women do "test" subtly subconsciously

It's a good way to out weaker guys

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Pointless game - who needs it!!

Women

I think you might be overthinking lol!

Or just thinking

But alas, your thinking is not leading you to the correct conclusion!! There will be some machiavellian women out there for sure, but the vast majority - no.

I'm going to have to disagree... I think the vast majority of women do "test" subtly subconsciously

It's a good way to out weaker guys "

Why did you ask the question if despite women saying they don't do it you're going to insist they do? Or are you testing us?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Pointless game - who needs it!!

Women

I think you might be overthinking lol!

Or just thinking

But alas, your thinking is not leading you to the correct conclusion!! There will be some machiavellian women out there for sure, but the vast majority - no.

I'm going to have to disagree... I think the vast majority of women do "test" subtly subconsciously

It's a good way to out weaker guys

Why did you ask the question if despite women saying they don't do it you're going to insist they do? Or are you testing us?

I might be testing

Women are emotional people...

I was just curious to see what women on here would say

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Pointless game - who needs it!!

Women

I think you might be overthinking lol!

Or just thinking

But alas, your thinking is not leading you to the correct conclusion!! There will be some machiavellian women out there for sure, but the vast majority - no.

I'm going to have to disagree... I think the vast majority of women do "test" subtly subconsciously

It's a good way to out weaker guys

Why did you ask the question if despite women saying they don't do it you're going to insist they do? Or are you testing us?

I might be testing

Women are emotional people...

I was just curious to see what women on here would say

People are emotional.

Curious but disbelieving?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Pointless game - who needs it!!

Women

I think you might be overthinking lol!

Or just thinking

But alas, your thinking is not leading you to the correct conclusion!! There will be some machiavellian women out there for sure, but the vast majority - no.

I'm going to have to disagree... I think the vast majority of women do "test" subtly subconsciously

It's a good way to out weaker guys

Why did you ask the question if despite women saying they don't do it you're going to insist they do? Or are you testing us?

I might be testing

Women are emotional people...

I was just curious to see what women on here would say

People are emotional.

Curious but disbelieving?"

This kind of ties in with another theory I have... if you want advice with women, you should never go to a woman for it

It's like you're at a restaurant... you don't go to the customer (women) for advice on how to cook... you go to the chef (man)

Really weird analogy - but if you get it then great lol

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Pointless game - who needs it!!

Women

I think you might be overthinking lol!

Or just thinking

But alas, your thinking is not leading you to the correct conclusion!! There will be some machiavellian women out there for sure, but the vast majority - no.

I'm going to have to disagree... I think the vast majority of women do "test" subtly subconsciously

It's a good way to out weaker guys "

Believe me honey, the weak guys themselves out pretty quick without any need for testing! You are young, you will learn.....astute women observe, perceive, and even, shock horror, ask a straight question and expect a straight answer! Just be yourself and let the dice fall as they may....

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Pointless game - who needs it!!

Women

I think you might be overthinking lol!

Or just thinking

But alas, your thinking is not leading you to the correct conclusion!! There will be some machiavellian women out there for sure, but the vast majority - no.

I'm going to have to disagree... I think the vast majority of women do "test" subtly subconsciously

It's a good way to out weaker guys

Why did you ask the question if despite women saying they don't do it you're going to insist they do? Or are you testing us?

I might be testing

Women are emotional people...

I was just curious to see what women on here would say

People are emotional.

Curious but disbelieving?

This kind of ties in with another theory I have... if you want advice with women, you should never go to a woman for it

It's like you're at a restaurant... you don't go to the customer (women) for advice on how to cook... you go to the chef (man)

Really weird analogy - but if you get it then great lol"

You believe that men know women better than they know themselves? You're entitled to your opinion of course but as a woman I believe its wrong.

You don't go to a horse for advice about lions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Geezus, talk about psychological games. Next thing you know we'll have FBI profiling

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Pointless game - who needs it!!

Women

I think you might be overthinking lol!

Or just thinking

But alas, your thinking is not leading you to the correct conclusion!! There will be some machiavellian women out there for sure, but the vast majority - no.

I'm going to have to disagree... I think the vast majority of women do "test" subtly subconsciously

It's a good way to out weaker guys

Why did you ask the question if despite women saying they don't do it you're going to insist they do? Or are you testing us?

I might be testing

Women are emotional people...

I was just curious to see what women on here would say

People are emotional.

Curious but disbelieving?

This kind of ties in with another theory I have... if you want advice with women, you should never go to a woman for it

It's like you're at a restaurant... you don't go to the customer (women) for advice on how to cook... you go to the chef (man)

Really weird analogy - but if you get it then great lol

You believe that men know women better than they know themselves? "

Maybe that's why after 4000 years they still have no clue lol 'No, we don't need to ask directions....'

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I don't test, I do however remember things.

I didn't come down in the last shower of shit and I was with a compulsive liar for a very long time. I also have a bloody good gut instinct.

If someone thinks they've pulled one over on me, they generally haven't... I'm feeding them the rope to hang themselves with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This of course is assuming the male has got past the Neanderthal grunting stage.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

We have been sent a spelling and grammar test by the forum Police, to spot check prospective playmates. Copies available in the help section.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've been together since we were 16 so coming up to 10 years.

I'm rather glad Mrsdpt isn't a crazy!

Testing men like the original post, no thanks....couldn't be arsed with that bullshit

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

"Pointless game - who needs it!!

Women

I think you might be overthinking lol!

Or just thinking

But alas, your thinking is not leading you to the correct conclusion!! There will be some machiavellian women out there for sure, but the vast majority - no.

I'm going to have to disagree... I think the vast majority of women do "test" subtly subconsciously

It's a good way to out weaker guys

Why did you ask the question if despite women saying they don't do it you're going to insist they do? Or are you testing us?

I might be testing

Women are emotional people...

I was just curious to see what women on here would say

People are emotional.

Curious but disbelieving?

This kind of ties in with another theory I have... if you want advice with women, you should never go to a woman for it

It's like you're at a restaurant... you don't go to the customer (women) for advice on how to cook... you go to the chef (man)

Really weird analogy - but if you get it then great lol

You believe that men know women better than they know themselves? You're entitled to your opinion of course but as a woman I believe its wrong.

You don't go to a horse for advice about lions."

Why not. The horse my have a very good knowledge of lions?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pointless game - who needs it!!

Women

I think you might be overthinking lol!

Or just thinking

But alas, your thinking is not leading you to the correct conclusion!! There will be some machiavellian women out there for sure, but the vast majority - no.

I'm going to have to disagree... I think the vast majority of women do "test" subtly subconsciously

It's a good way to out weaker guys

Why did you ask the question if despite women saying they don't do it you're going to insist they do? Or are you testing us?

I might be testing

Women are emotional people...

I was just curious to see what women on here would say

stop reading that stupid bloody book!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Pointless game - who needs it!!

Women

I think you might be overthinking lol!

Or just thinking

But alas, your thinking is not leading you to the correct conclusion!! There will be some machiavellian women out there for sure, but the vast majority - no.

I'm going to have to disagree... I think the vast majority of women do "test" subtly subconsciously

It's a good way to out weaker guys

Why did you ask the question if despite women saying they don't do it you're going to insist they do? Or are you testing us?

I might be testing

Women are emotional people...

I was just curious to see what women on here would say

stop reading that stupid bloody book! "

HAHHAHA omg you actually got me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pointless game - who needs it!!

Women

I think you might be overthinking lol!

Or just thinking

But alas, your thinking is not leading you to the correct conclusion!! There will be some machiavellian women out there for sure, but the vast majority - no.

I'm going to have to disagree... I think the vast majority of women do "test" subtly subconsciously

It's a good way to out weaker guys

Why did you ask the question if despite women saying they don't do it you're going to insist they do? Or are you testing us?

I might be testing

Women are emotional people...

I was just curious to see what women on here would say

stop reading that stupid bloody book!

HAHHAHA omg you actually got me!"

Ha!! im old but im still quick sonny! but seriously, those books wont teach you anything you don't have the brains to work out for yourself, and they have some pretty dodgy attitudes to women in them too..rely on your own instincts, you sound a sensible enough guy, with a nice friendly nature..don't let those type of books.and the youtube vids, make you cynical and jaded so young!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Pointless game - who needs it!!

Women

I think you might be overthinking lol!

Or just thinking

But alas, your thinking is not leading you to the correct conclusion!! There will be some machiavellian women out there for sure, but the vast majority - no.

I'm going to have to disagree... I think the vast majority of women do "test" subtly subconsciously

It's a good way to out weaker guys

Why did you ask the question if despite women saying they don't do it you're going to insist they do? Or are you testing us?

I might be testing

Women are emotional people...

I was just curious to see what women on here would say

stop reading that stupid bloody book!

HAHHAHA omg you actually got me!

I think I need to watch out for you don't I?

I see your points, and I am relying on both instinct and the book's knowledge and experience. I'm still young and made plenty of mistakes with women... this book has helped me stop being so needy - I don't think it has any bad views about women

I love women, that's why I'm here, right?

Women make the world a better place - couldn't imagine life without them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pointless game - who needs it!!

Women

I think you might be overthinking lol!

Or just thinking

But alas, your thinking is not leading you to the correct conclusion!! There will be some machiavellian women out there for sure, but the vast majority - no.

I'm going to have to disagree... I think the vast majority of women do "test" subtly subconsciously

It's a good way to out weaker guys

Why did you ask the question if despite women saying they don't do it you're going to insist they do? Or are you testing us?

I might be testing

Women are emotional people...

I was just curious to see what women on here would say

stop reading that stupid bloody book!

HAHHAHA omg you actually got me!

I think I need to watch out for you don't I?

I love women, that's why I'm here, right?

Women make the world a better place - couldn't imagine life without them!"

well im sure you'll be fine...but all this testing, tricks and manipulation stuff in them isnt good ...really isnt! but now sound like someone's ancient grandma, so im going to bed before i make myself feel anymore decrepit! night! x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Pointless game - who needs it!!

Women

I think you might be overthinking lol!

Or just thinking

But alas, your thinking is not leading you to the correct conclusion!! There will be some machiavellian women out there for sure, but the vast majority - no.

I'm going to have to disagree... I think the vast majority of women do "test" subtly subconsciously

It's a good way to out weaker guys

Why did you ask the question if despite women saying they don't do it you're going to insist they do? Or are you testing us?

I might be testing

Women are emotional people...

I was just curious to see what women on here would say

stop reading that stupid bloody book!

HAHHAHA omg you actually got me!

I think I need to watch out for you don't I?

I love women, that's why I'm here, right?

Women make the world a better place - couldn't imagine life without them!

Aha not at all... you call it decrepit - I call it knowledge... it's all about perspective

Night Anna

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By *ikstupp2Man
over a year ago

london

Iv been known to ask pink or brown?

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By *ammalammaMan
over a year ago

brighton

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've learned to listen carefully when speaking to a couple or a lady, and pick up if they are looking for ladies only. After a few minutes, you know which is which and if there is a connection or not, I won't change my opinion just to gain favour. If it's not to be, then move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pointless game - who needs it!!

Women

I think you might be overthinking lol!

Or just thinking

But alas, your thinking is not leading you to the correct conclusion!! There will be some machiavellian women out there for sure, but the vast majority - no.

I'm going to have to disagree... I think the vast majority of women do "test" subtly subconsciously

It's a good way to out weaker guys

Thats pretty much the size of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never met a woman who's tested me they've no need to and if they said blue is better I'd still say red. Why lie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, just a little advice from an old guy who has played the game and won...

You can read books that give you the psychology of women and try to find out how to get one that way, you have already proven yourself week and unworthy. Or you can just behave as you are and find a woman who likes that person.

Your choice... but be quick, you only have 1 life, live it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP, just a little advice from an old guy who has played the game and won...

Your choice... but be quick, you only have 1 life, live it.

"
I agree with you but a mini lynx can is not the way either dude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I agree with you but a mini lynx can is not the way either dude

Some get the joke, others don't. But most importantly, I don't care. The picture amused me when I took it, and still does every now and then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To all the women out there...

When talking to a guy you've just met - do you subtly test them to see what they're made of?

Example:

Guy: I love the colour Red it's the best

Hot Girl: Nope, Blue is better

Guy: You know what, just thinking about it - I agree - Blue is the best

This shows the guy is weak and is not a stable man - the lady has him around her finger. Would a girl lie and say Blue is better, just to see what the guy's reaction is?"

No because I'm a grown up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No because I'm a grown up. "

Who spun you that line

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By *s_bettyboopWoman
over a year ago

-3

Ain't nobody got time for that. Just gimme me the D

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Pointless game - who needs it!!

Women

I think you might be overthinking lol!

Or just thinking

But alas, your thinking is not leading you to the correct conclusion!! There will be some machiavellian women out there for sure, but the vast majority - no.

I'm going to have to disagree... I think the vast majority of women do "test" subtly subconsciously

It's a good way to out weaker guys

Why did you ask the question if despite women saying they don't do it you're going to insist they do? Or are you testing us?

I might be testing

Women are emotional people...

I was just curious to see what women on here would say

stop reading that stupid bloody book!

HAHHAHA omg you actually got me!

I think I need to watch out for you don't I?

I love women, that's why I'm here, right?

Women make the world a better place - couldn't imagine life without them!

Ah its a book!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pointless game - who needs it!!

Women

I think you might be overthinking lol!

Or just thinking

But alas, your thinking is not leading you to the correct conclusion!! There will be some machiavellian women out there for sure, but the vast majority - no.

I'm going to have to disagree... I think the vast majority of women do "test" subtly subconsciously

It's a good way to out weaker guys

Why did you ask the question if despite women saying they don't do it you're going to insist they do? Or are you testing us?

I might be testing

Women are emotional people...

I was just curious to see what women on here would say

stop reading that stupid bloody book!

HAHHAHA omg you actually got me!

I think I need to watch out for you don't I?

I love women, that's why I'm here, right?

Women make the world a better place - couldn't imagine life without them!

Ah its a book!

there are a lot out there at the moment,very subversive, unpleasant stuff stuff, along with so -called self -improvement videos..not something any young impressionable men ought to be reading and taking seriously..quite scary!

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By *ames1763Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

In my opinion, every lady will test you as a guy when they first meet you to see what they are dealing with , to see what kind of player you are , you have to stand on your game everytime you get tested and let the lady know that your integrity as a man is more important than her pussy.

The only way you can do that is to have plenty ladies, this is why ladies love bad boys because the bad boys never fail this test , plus bad boys don't care , they are always on to the next lady.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Pointless game - who needs it!!

Women

I think you might be overthinking lol!

Or just thinking

But alas, your thinking is not leading you to the correct conclusion!! There will be some machiavellian women out there for sure, but the vast majority - no.

I'm going to have to disagree... I think the vast majority of women do "test" subtly subconsciously

It's a good way to out weaker guys

Why did you ask the question if despite women saying they don't do it you're going to insist they do? Or are you testing us?

I might be testing

Women are emotional people...

I was just curious to see what women on here would say

stop reading that stupid bloody book! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To all the women out there...

When talking to a guy you've just met - do you subtly test them to see what they're made of?

Example:

Guy: I love the colour Red it's the best

Hot Girl: Nope, Blue is better

Guy: You know what, just thinking about it - I agree - Blue is the best

This shows the guy is weak and is not a stable man - the lady has him around her finger. Would a girl lie and say Blue is better, just to see what the guy's reaction is?"

no i dont need to play games

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

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"In my opinion, every lady will test you as a guy when they first meet you to see what they are dealing with , to see what kind of player you are , you have to stand on your game everytime you get tested and let the lady know that your integrity as a man is more important than her pussy.

The only way you can do that is to have plenty ladies, this is why ladies love bad boys because the bad boys never fail this test , plus bad boys don't care , they are always on to the next lady."

Oh my word, what utter bollocks are these men's magazines peddling...?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

The only way you can do that is to have plenty ladies, this is why ladies love bad boys because the bad boys never fail this test , plus bad boys don't care , they are always on to the next lady."

Men and women who treat interpersonal relationships as games gravitate towards each other. So to them it does seem as if all women are like this.

Men and women who realise that each person is an individual and want to form rounded, mutually satisfactory and respectful relationships don't see things as games or competitions.

If people see each other as competitors in some sort of game they're missing a lot in my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only way you can do that is to have plenty ladies, this is why ladies love bad boys because the bad boys never fail this test , plus bad boys don't care , they are always on to the next lady.

Oh my word, what utter bollocks are these men's magazines peddling...?

great big mouthfuls of the exact crap i was talking about..gets far more unpleasant than just sexist idiocy though!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

The only way you can do that is to have plenty ladies, this is why ladies love bad boys because the bad boys never fail this test , plus bad boys don't care , they are always on to the next lady.

Oh my word, what utter bollocks are these men's magazines peddling...?

Similar bollocks to the women's magazines I suspect.

It's interesting that at a time when men's role in society is changing some start to see women as game players and therefore competitors.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

The only way you can do that is to have plenty ladies, this is why ladies love bad boys because the bad boys never fail this test , plus bad boys don't care , they are always on to the next lady.

Oh my word, what utter bollocks are these men's magazines peddling...?

great big mouthfuls of the exact crap i was talking about..gets far more unpleasant than just sexist idiocy though!"

Yeah who's that guy whose motto is "isolatee, intoxicate, impregnate" or some such similar awfulness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only way you can do that is to have plenty ladies, this is why ladies love bad boys because the bad boys never fail this test , plus bad boys don't care , they are always on to the next lady.

Oh my word, what utter bollocks are these men's magazines peddling...?

Similar bollocks to the women's magazines I suspect.

It's interesting that at a time when men's role in society is changing some start to see women as game players and therefore competitors."

the more subversive stuff certainly isn't in magazines, a lot is online blogs, targeted to very young men..often with an alt-right bent to it as well..

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

The only way you can do that is to have plenty ladies, this is why ladies love bad boys because the bad boys never fail this test , plus bad boys don't care , they are always on to the next lady.

Oh my word, what utter bollocks are these men's magazines peddling...?

Similar bollocks to the women's magazines I suspect.

I suddenly thought - it's probably IPC magazines or somesuch who peddle one load of bollocks to the women and then the same thing to the men and then it becomes kind of perpetual motion of disinformation!!

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

The only way you can do that is to have plenty ladies, this is why ladies love bad boys because the bad boys never fail this test , plus bad boys don't care , they are always on to the next lady.

Men and women who treat interpersonal relationships as games gravitate towards each other. So to them it does seem as if all women are like this.

Men and women who realise that each person is an individual and want to form rounded, mutually satisfactory and respectful relationships don't see things as games or competitions.

If people see each other as competitors in some sort of game they're missing a lot in my opinion."

Exactly. I have never understood the 'adversorial' element to so many people's relationships, it's just plain wrong - partners are supposed to be on the same team and work together - not compete in some head-fuck game!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

The only way you can do that is to have plenty ladies, this is why ladies love bad boys because the bad boys never fail this test , plus bad boys don't care , they are always on to the next lady.

Oh my word, what utter bollocks are these men's magazines peddling...?

Similar bollocks to the women's magazines I suspect.

Yep! I hope against all hope that the intelligent thinkers who question what they read against their experiences of real women and men see what utter trash sections of the media put out.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

The only way you can do that is to have plenty ladies, this is why ladies love bad boys because the bad boys never fail this test , plus bad boys don't care , they are always on to the next lady.

Oh my word, what utter bollocks are these men's magazines peddling...?

Similar bollocks to the women's magazines I suspect.

It's interesting that at a time when men's role in society is changing some start to see women as game players and therefore competitors.

the more subversive stuff certainly isn't in magazines, a lot is online blogs, targeted to very young men..often with an alt-right bent to it as well.."

It's all tied up in the same parcel of bigotry I fear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kind of. I change my profile regularly. It's interesting to see who mails depending on what it says. Or what it doesn't say.....

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over a year ago

The only way you can do that is to have plenty ladies, this is why ladies love bad boys because the bad boys never fail this test , plus bad boys don't care , they are always on to the next lady."

I was reading this thread from the bottom and scrolling up. I guessed who wrote this without seeing the name.

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over a year ago

The only way you can do that is to have plenty ladies, this is why ladies love bad boys because the bad boys never fail this test , plus bad boys don't care , they are always on to the next lady.

Oh my word, what utter bollocks are these men's magazines peddling...?

Similar bollocks to the women's magazines I suspect.

This stuff isn't something you'll see in mainstream magazines, its far stronger..self -published mostly, as no publisher would touch it with a shitty shit, and even some of the blogs have been suspended and threatened with legal action...a lot target young guys through weight training etc groups too..perfect target market..

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

The only way you can do that is to have plenty ladies, this is why ladies love bad boys because the bad boys never fail this test , plus bad boys don't care , they are always on to the next lady.

Oh my word, what utter bollocks are these men's magazines peddling...?

Similar bollocks to the women's magazines I suspect.

Scary. Is there similar stuff aimed at women?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suppose the biggest, most important test is can they make a nice cup of tea.

Closely followed by can they fuck.

I'll let a crappy fuck slide, but make me a crappy cup of tea and you're gone.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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"I suppose the biggest, most important test is can they make a nice cup of tea.

Closely followed by can they fuck.

I'll let a crappy fuck slide, but make me a crappy cup of tea and you're gone. "

You're right of course but in my case I would check their cupboards for coffee. Instant or ready ground and I would be out of there.

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By *lan157Man
over a year ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex

If someone starts deliberately "testing" me I am walking away. Maybe its done subconsiously to determine how compatable two people are but with meaningful questions.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

The only way you can do that is to have plenty ladies, this is why ladies love bad boys because the bad boys never fail this test , plus bad boys don't care , they are always on to the next lady."

Or and this is just my opinion formed from non combative interaction with men, the bad boys are always on to the next woman because no woman worth her salt would stay with them.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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"If someone starts deliberately "testing" me I am walking away. Maybe its done subconsiously to determine how compatable two people are but with meaningful questions. "

It isn't done at all by most women.

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over a year ago

The only way you can do that is to have plenty ladies, this is why ladies love bad boys because the bad boys never fail this test , plus bad boys don't care , they are always on to the next lady.

Oh my word, what utter bollocks are these men's magazines peddling...?

Similar bollocks to the women's magazines I suspect.

Scary. Is there similar stuff aimed at women? "

not really as far as i know, there's some very extreme feminist groups but they are tiny, and very much intellectually based..very 'ivory tower' type stuff...not something your average young woman would stumble across at all..

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

The only way you can do that is to have plenty ladies, this is why ladies love bad boys because the bad boys never fail this test , plus bad boys don't care , they are always on to the next lady."

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over a year ago

The only way you can do that is to have plenty ladies, this is why ladies love bad boys because the bad boys never fail this test , plus bad boys don't care , they are always on to the next lady."

Hit the nail right on the head

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Oh the folly of youth!

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

The only way you can do that is to have plenty ladies, this is why ladies love bad boys because the bad boys never fail this test , plus bad boys don't care , they are always on to the next lady.

Hit the nail right on the head

No. No he did not

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over a year ago

"Oh the folly of youth!

I could argue all your points but I just don't have the time

You seem to think that I view women as an object because of a book. That bot right. The objective is to have a loving relationship with the opposite sex...

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over a year ago

The only way you can do that is to have plenty ladies, this is why ladies love bad boys because the bad boys never fail this test , plus bad boys don't care , they are always on to the next lady.

Hit the nail right on the head

No. No he did not

He actually did, women test and it's funny how they don't even know it

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

The only way you can do that is to have plenty ladies, this is why ladies love bad boys because the bad boys never fail this test , plus bad boys don't care , they are always on to the next lady.

Hit the nail right on the head

Well, you'll be knee deep in clunge without having to consult any of us then.

Have fun.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

The only way you can do that is to have plenty ladies, this is why ladies love bad boys because the bad boys never fail this test , plus bad boys don't care , they are always on to the next lady.

Hit the nail right on the head

No. No he did not

He actually did, women test and it's funny how they don't even know it

If women test so do men. You're actually testing our reactions now and I suspect that you wouldn't wish to engage long term with a woman who questions your opinions in a robust, intelligent and articulate way.

You're entitled to hold any opinion you wish and express it. Just make sure the opinions are your own. Test yourself and your opinions, engage with women without preconceived ideas, enjoy their company as people and see how you feel.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Oh the folly of youth!

I could argue all your points but I just don't have the time

You seem to think that I view women as an object because of a book. That bot right. The objective is to have a loving relationship with the opposite sex... "

But you will not get one of those if you willfully misunderstand the mindset of an entire sex!!

But by all means, become a 'player' and find yourself a 'tester' if you want nothing of the kind...

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

The only way you can do that is to have plenty ladies, this is why ladies love bad boys because the bad boys never fail this test , plus bad boys don't care , they are always on to the next lady.

Hit the nail right on the head

No. No he did not

He actually did, women test and it's funny how they don't even know it

I think you should just accept the wisdom of the 21 year old. He has much more experience of life, women and relationships. You've been misguided all these years - soak in the knowledge.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

The only way you can do that is to have plenty ladies, this is why ladies love bad boys because the bad boys never fail this test , plus bad boys don't care , they are always on to the next lady."

I don't love bad boys, I prefer mature adults. Does that mean I'm not a real lady?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have to test you aswell.....?

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By *ames1763Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Guys don't let the ladies fool you , what I wrote is for the guys , the ladies have been taught that all you are interested in as a guy is their pussy, infact they believe that is the only power they have over you as a man .

When any lady meets you at first they are going to establish who wears the trousers using their pussy.

They do it in different ways, they can put their foot on your dashboard, speak to you like they are speaking to a kid, little subliminal things to punk you out, to see how much you are willing to take because you want to fuck them and where you stand in the pussy foodchain, to see how sharp you are,now everytime they test you they are checking if you know who you are as a man and testing your integrity as a man.

If you knock them back and walk away and call another girl in their front or check them on their behavior in a calm matured nice way then they know this guy is a bad boy who is not taking my shit, from that point if they stay with you then you have them and everything that comes with them too including their pussy. This is why when I am in the club if I don't close a deal in 3 minutes with the ladies , I would get up and walk to the next lady, by doing that I am establishing to the ladies how much value I put on myself.

Don't you guys remember how girls used to fight over bad boys in school , even though they know these guys were cheats and sleeping with multiple ladies, well the reason is these bad boys never cared and valued themselves over any girl , it was always onto the next girl, if you want to have many women you have to be like this.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

"Guys don't let the ladies fool you , what I wrote is for the guys , the ladies have been taught that all you are interested in as a guy is their pussy, infact they believe that is the only power they have over you as a man .

When any lady meets you at first they are going to establish who wears the trousers using their pussy.

Sorry, but this is all nonesense. You live in a dream world. Do you expect to have any trusting, fulfilling relationship with BS like this swilling around?

MrB

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

When any lady meets you at first they are going to establish who wears the trousers using their pussy.

You're entitled to your opinion although I can't agree with it.

All I would say is that by and large we get the relationships we deserve. If you feel that the above is all you're worth I think the literature you're reading is doing you a disservice and possibly leading you to miss out on a fulfilling and loving relationship.

However I don't know your history and what has led you to believe this about women.

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By *ames1763Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Well as I said this is how I think, I mean no disrespect to anyone , to me everything in life breaks down to value e.g my barber only accepts people by appointment no matter how much you are willing to pay, also you never see Ferrari or Bentley advertising like Toyota , now as a man where do you stand? are you a Ferrari, Bentley or a Toyota , the ladies will determine this with how you respond to their test when they meet you. Are you posing like a Bentley waiting for those who value you to come or are you begging like the common cars , basicly how much value do you put on yourself , I am saying this because single guys don't value themselves anymore and you must value yourself first to achieve your dreams as a man.

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"Well as I said this is how I think, I mean no disrespect to anyone , to me everything in life breaks down to value e.g my barber only accepts people by appointment no matter how much you are willing to pay, also you never see Ferrari or Bentley advertising like Toyota , now as a man where do you stand? are you a Ferrari, Bentley or a Toyota , the ladies will determine this with how you respond to their test when they meet you. Are you posing like a Bentley waiting for those who value you to come or are you begging like the common cars , basicly how much value do you put on yourself , I am saying this because single guys don't value themselves anymore and you must value yourself first to achieve your dreams as a man."

I don't disagree that everyone, single men, single women, couples etc do need to value themselves. I also agree that men shouldn't be sycophants in order to get sex. However self esteem and worth comes from your own sense of your value not from seeing other people as less than you.

Human interaction isn't a business transaction.

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over a year ago

No. I like a guy with a bit of spark, no one wants a doormat who agrees with everything you say.

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over a year ago

When any lady meets you at first they are going to establish who wears the trousers using their pussy.

Crying with laughter reading this. I'm assuming it's a piss take?

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

When any lady meets you at first they are going to establish who wears the trousers using their pussy.

Don't you think that by "moving onto the next one if you don't close the deal within 3 mins"

doesn't make you look like a bad boy who has options, it makes you look quite fucking desperate actually.

I completely disagree with everything you've said. I think your views are way off the mark and your opinion and beliefs about women as a whole are massively twisted.

I get the feeling you've been hurt quite badly and that's why you talk the way you do about women.

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By *ames1763Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

This is not about how you see other people or seeing other people less than you but how you see yourself as a man, how you value yourself as a man when you interact with the ladies, the bad boys in school never saw the ladies as less than they just valued themselves as guys more.

The truth is if you value yourself as a man, you are going to have a lot of ladies cause they will be attracted to your charm and confidence , in the same light you are going to turn off some ladies cause you will be different from the crowd.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"This is not about how you see other people or seeing other people less than you but how you see yourself as a man, how you value yourself as a man when you interact with the ladies, the bad boys in school never saw the ladies as less than they just valued themselves as guys more.

I prefer those who value themselves as good people, not because they have a cock.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

What a pile of shite. I feel sorry for any woman (if they do exist) that believes that all a man is interested in is her pussy. This power dynamic constantly referred to is a warped view point to say the least.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

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you contradict yourself. If you value yourself more you do value others less.

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over a year ago

When any lady meets you at first they are going to establish who wears the trousers using their pussy.

Don't you think that by "moving onto the next one if you don't close the deal within 3 mins"

doesn't make you look like a bad boy who has options, it makes you look quite fucking desperate actually.

I completely disagree with everything you've said. I think your views are way off the mark and your opinion and beliefs about women as a whole are massively twisted.

I get the feeling you've been hurt quite badly and that's why you talk the way you do about women. "

it's just great gobfuls of nonsense directly lifted from the sites/youtubes/books i mentioned earlier..very sad and not a little worrying..very grateful im too old to have to interact with the sort of inadequate men who lap up this cobblers..much prefer an intelligent man with a mind of his own..

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By *ames1763Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

How many minutes do you have to capture the chief executives attention ? Less than 3 minutes, how many minutes do coporations use to capture your attention on their products? Less than 3minutes, how many minutes do the business men have to close a big business deal in the pub ,less than 3 minutes.

All the work is always done before the meet, well I feel the same way, if the lady does not go for me in that same time then I see it as her loss not mine, so to maintain my value to myself I have to move on to the lady.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I've just been looking for the place they teach this

"the ladies have been taught that all you are interested in as a guy is their pussy, infact they believe that is the only power they have over you as a man"

I'm pulling an extremely confused face. But I think it really does highlight the difference between boy mentality and that of a man.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

What club do you go in? If there's so many women in it that you can chat for 3 minutes then go to the next one, it musy be packed with women.

Have you ever spoken to anyone longer than 3 minutes because you've got on wih each other?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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"How many minutes do you have to capture the chief executives attention ? Less than 3 minutes, how many minutes do coporations use to capture your attention on their products? Less than 3minutes, how many minutes do the business men have to close a big business deal in the pub ,less than 3 minutes.

You're referring to casual one off sex in a club?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a man thinks I'm using the power of my pussy when I don't open my legs instantly for him instantly, then he's a fool and not welcome between my legs.

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over a year ago

I've just been looking for the place they teach this

"the ladies have been taught that all you are interested in as a guy is their pussy, infact they believe that is the only power they have over you as a man"

I'm pulling an extremely confused face. But I think it really does highlight the difference between boy mentality and that of a man.

The constant referring to the 'bad boys at school' makes it seem like the whole theory is not long cobbled up from playground antics.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

From what shite you've spouted today, I don't think these ladies have been losing out in the slightest.

I think you're more than a little deluded and are viewing people in the completely wrong way. The fact that you believe your own drivel is actually quite sad.

My advice, if you wanna view women as a business deal, go pay for them.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

When any lady meets you at first they are going to establish who wears the trousers using their pussy.

This is such utter bollocks it's laughable, I never acted like that in my life, nor anyone male or female I ever knew lol, this is like some ghastly vision of 'Jeremy Kyle Land'!!!

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By *ames1763Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

As I said everything I wrote is for guys to value themselves, it has nothing to do with the ladies, so guys just soak it up believe in yourselves and achieve your dreams. Don't let the ladies telling you no make you feel less of a man , just move on to the next lady and keep believing in yourselves, if a lady does not like you today, trust me it is her loss , there are many ladies who love you the way you are, if you don't move on to the next beautiful lady you will never find out who likes you.you dig? Peace

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"As I said everything I wrote is for guys to value themselves, it has nothing to do with the ladies, so guys just soak it up believe in yourselves and achieve your dreams. Don't let the ladies telling you no make you feel less of a man , just move on to the next lady and keep believing in yourselves, if a lady does not like you today, trust me it is her loss , there are many ladies who love you the way you are, if you don't move on to the next beautiful lady you will never find out who likes you.you dig? Peace "

It does have to do with the ladies though, can't you see?

You're trying to convince (I can only guess at the less successful with the ladies kinda chap) that women are taught their pussy is the almighty. You're giving them false information and a misguided view of women. These guys may need their confidence boosting or to value themselves, but not in a detrimental way. If anyone did take your advice they'd be even less successful and more likely to get a broken nose and reputation as a complete prick who women would do well to steer clear of.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I've just been looking for the place they teach this

"the ladies have been taught that all you are interested in as a guy is their pussy, infact they believe that is the only power they have over you as a man"

I'm pulling an extremely confused face. But I think it really does highlight the difference between boy mentality and that of a man.

Agreed. It's a worrying thought that some men genuinely believe that kind of thing. Is it because that's what women have told them? Or just an assumption based on previous bad experiences? Either way...

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I've just been looking for the place they teach this

"the ladies have been taught that all you are interested in as a guy is their pussy, infact they believe that is the only power they have over you as a man"

I'm pulling an extremely confused face. But I think it really does highlight the difference between boy mentality and that of a man.

No, it's in various blogs and lads mags. You'll notice that a lot of it contradicts itself and doesn't stand up to scrutiny. Also the people quoting it won't debate any of the points they're making.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

From all you've written, I honestly don't think you have got self confidence. What you're describing is what someone with low self esteem does.

After talking to a woman for 3 minutes you haven't been able to 'seal the deal' you are sufficiently rattled to move on to someone who will hopefully massage your ego. That isn't self confidence.

Likewise 'advising' all the other guys of your studlike prowess and tips. Sorry, but most people have seen it all before.

Someone with confidence doesn't do all that type of rubbish, or talk in a big I am way. If it helps you, then that's up to you, but other people shouldn't be taking it as worthwhile advice.

MrB

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over a year ago

If this was written in a generic way for 'people' and not men, it's actually nice and motivational.

Find someone who loves you the way you are.

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over a year ago

From all you've written, I honestly don't think you have got self confidence. What you're describing is what someone with low self esteem does.

After talking to a woman for 3 minutes you haven't been able to 'seal the deal' you are sufficiently rattled to move on to someone who will hopefully massage your ego. That isn't self confidence.

Likewise 'advising' all the other guys of your studlike prowess and tips. Sorry, but most people have seen it all before.

Someone with confidence doesn't do all that type of rubbish, or talk in a big I am way. If it helps you, then that's up to you, but other people shouldn't be taking it as worthwhile advice.

MrB"

the blogs/books that this crap is copied from is directly aimed at young men with self confidence issues,which is why i find them very disturbing.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

the blogs/books that this crap is copied from is directly aimed at young men with self confidence issues,which is why i find them very disturbing."

I guessed it was something to do with low confidence, I mentioned earlier that it sounded like it had come from someone who had been hurt.

That makes it even worse that these vulnerable guys are being told this crap! All its gonna do is twist them up even more and they will be less accepted because of their attitudes and fucked up views. This bullshit is seriously dangerous and it's only gonna lead to a whole group of really confused blokes. The person/people who wrote it... well, I have no words.

If a guy has low self esteem or low confidence, he - just like everyone else in the world, needs to work on those issues. They need to understand that yes, the world can be a cunty place, however, seeing women in a way that these twats are recommending will do no good in the end. I can personally hear "abuser type" thinking in it.

Twisted man.

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over a year ago

"To all the women out there...

When talking to a guy you've just met - do you subtly test them to see what they're made of?

Example:

Guy: I love the colour Red it's the best

Hot Girl: Nope, Blue is better

Guy: You know what, just thinking about it - I agree - Blue is the best

This shows the guy is weak and is not a stable man - the lady has him around her finger. Would a girl lie and say Blue is better, just to see what the guy's reaction is?"

Pretty shit date/meet, if you're resorting to favourite colours for a conversation piece, I'd run for the hills

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over a year ago

the blogs/books that this crap is copied from is directly aimed at young men with self confidence issues,which is why i find them very disturbing.

I guessed it was something to do with low confidence, I mentioned earlier that it sounded like it had come from someone who had been hurt.

Twisted man.

youve hit the nail on the head there... one of the leading proponents of this shit has had to pull whole sections of his bile from youtube due to the legality of the content of the stuff about consent, Its very very frightening, and luckily suddenly seems to be being taken seriously by youth advocates etc as being as dangerous as some other types of radicalisation

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

the blogs/books that this crap is copied from is directly aimed at young men with self confidence issues,which is why i find them very disturbing.

I guessed it was something to do with low confidence, I mentioned earlier that it sounded like it had come from someone who had been hurt.

Twisted man.

I'm seriously shocked. Today is the first I've seen of it. I'm genuinely worried for the people who are believing it, and those who end up a statistic as a result of it.

I could almost hear my ex saying stuff like that shite.

He had issues he never dealt with and I was a verbal and physical punchbag for him to vent his frustration. Was much easier to blame me than to seek real help.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I evaluate potential meets but don't put them through a silly Test that a 7 year old might find fun or helpful

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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my vagina is weapon

it is all i have going for me

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By *ames1763Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

I believe you guys understand, even on this site there is hardly any lady without over a 100 messages , sometimes the profiles have no pictures ,of course the ladies love this, I am saying hang on ,the value should be on you as a guy the same way no difference, this will only happen for you as a man if you believe you should be valued and act in the same manner, I am not speaking to any of the ladies, niether did I respond to any of their comments, I respect ladies a lot and believe they should be financially independent and successful. I am saying in this power dynamics that as a guy you have to value and respect yourself and you will attract a lot of quality ladies to you like this.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"I believe you guys understand, even on this site there is hardly any lady without over a 100 messages , sometimes the profiles have no pictures ,of course the ladies love this, I am saying hang on ,the value should be on you as a guy the same way no difference, this will only happen for you as a man if you believe you should be valued and act in the same manner, I am not speaking to any of the ladies, niether did I respond to any of their comments, I respect ladies a lot and believe they should be financially independent and successful. I am saying in this power dynamics that as a guy you have to value and respect yourself and you will attract a lot of quality ladies to you like this."

Dude, you've completely contradicted yourself. You say that we're conditioned to use our fanny as a tool. But at the same time you say you respect ladies. You also stated and acknowledged that you haven't replied to any of the ladies comments. That's not very respectful at all.

You've basically gone the really long/wrong and complicated way round to say...

Guys, don't take it personally if you don't get a response from messages you send. The ladies on here get a ridiculous amounts of messages. Including huge amounts of messages from males who think the ladies on here should service their sexual requirements as and when these morons click their fingers. So it might be worth keeping that in mind. Be yourself, be respectful and hopefully, with a bit of luck and good fortune on your side, you'll meet some awesome people.

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By *ames1763Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Now as a man you can choose to believe what you want , you will not find this mentality in books or on the internet , this is the language of real men ,

which it is every woman's dream to please.

I learnt from wise old men who have seen it all, there is wisdom in age. As a man you have to be loving, caring and very respectful to women at the same time you must be able to stand up and walk away in a nice way from any lady that tests,insults or disrespects you even if it means you will loose her.You must take care of your woman because people judge you by looking at your woman, if she looks nice then they know this is a decent man, if she looks bad then they know what kind of man you are.

You can buy a lady anything with money but your money will never buy her respect for you. You need to establish who you are from the beginning in a nice respectful way, that you value yourself as a man and will walk away from her if she disrespects you. At the same time you are responsible, respectful, loving and caring.

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By *ames1763Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Now when it comes to the amount of time I wish to spend chatting to ladies in the swingers club , I don't spend more than 3 minutes because I believe as a man you are not a begger so you should not be talking for ages as if you are begging, as you approach any lady her mind is made up if she likes you or not so in my opinion 3 minutes is enough to close the deal or move on. Remember other ladies who like you are in the room watching you, if you keep talking and talking to one lady you are telling the other ladies watching subconsciously that you ain't shit.

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By *s_bettyboopWoman
over a year ago

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"Now when it comes to the amount of time I wish to spend chatting to ladies in the swingers club , I don't spend more than 3 minutes because I believe as a man you are not a begger so you should not be talking for ages as if you are begging, as you approach any lady her mind is made up if she likes you or not so in my opinion 3 minutes is enough to close the deal or move on. Remember other ladies who like you are in the room watching you, if you keep talking and talking to one lady you are telling the other ladies watching subconsciously that you ain't shit.

Jeez you don't half talk some bollox sometimes

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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I've read some shit in my time but this takes the biscuit.

Are you men implying we are conditioned like Pavlovs dogs to tease you with our vaginas?

To check your worthiness?

What bollocks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've read some shit in my time but this takes the biscuit.

Are you men implying we are conditioned like Pavlovs dogs to tease you with our vaginas?

To check your worthiness?

What bollocks "

luckily just some men, a very few i hope..most i know have a backbone and brain of their own and are able to think for themselves...as are most women..

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

All of us carry stopwatches around with us at clubs for this very reason. I almost forgot people only went to clubs for sex as quickly as possible. The whole making friends and connections must be done elsewhere as the 3 minute rule must be adhered to or it makes you a beggar.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

You've never replied and said what club you do this in. The one where there are so many single women, that you can actually do this 3 minute thing.

MrB

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By *ames1763Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

It's not rocket science , in the club you can be talking about anything but the moment you ask " would you like to play" the conversation is over because the answer will be yes or no , if yes the deal is closed if no all you need to do is thank them and walk away to the next lady or couple , all you need to do is to control the conversation and ask the question within 3 minutes, now this is my opinion and it comes from the wise old proverb that empty barrels make the loudest noise, so when I see someone talking and talking for long e.g 1 to 2 hrs, even if he closes the deal at the end I personally believe he has nothing to say. Again this is my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jeez you don't half talk some bollox sometimes

Only sometimes?

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By *s_bettyboopWoman
over a year ago

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Jeez you don't half talk some bollox sometimes

Only sometimes?"

I was being polite

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

"It's not rocket science , in the club you can be talking about anything but the moment you ask " would you like to play" the conversation is over because the answer will be yes or no , if yes the deal is closed if no all you need to do is thank them and walk away to the next lady or couple , all you need to do is to control the conversation and ask the question within 3 minutes, now this is my opinion and it comes from the wise old proverb that empty barrels make the loudest noise, so when I see someone talking and talking for long e.g 1 to 2 hrs, even if he closes the deal at the end I personally believe he has nothing to say. Again this is my opinion."

Empty barrels make the most noise you say? Yes, wise words indeed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think this would have you labelled by most women and couples as pushy. If you have such a tin ear for the nuances of conversation and connection that you're always pushing to 'close' within 3 minutes you are practically guaranteeing your failure.

I really really hope that you don't believe the arrant nonsense you've been spouting, but it seems you might.

Consider this - we're on a site for casual sex. Women are not looking for a life partner. Even if you believe that women sub-consciously look for the most dominant male as a partner (which is also bollocks btw) on fab we are looking for the person we will have the most sexy fun with. That is really unlikely to be the biggest 'cock' on the walk. It will be the guy with a great personality, sense of humour, possibly good body, nice cock..

Not the guy who talks at you for 3 minutes, looks at his watch and then shoehorns in the 'closer' question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To all the women out there...

When talking to a guy you've just met - do you subtly test them to see what they're made of?

Example:

Guy: I love the colour Red it's the best

Hot Girl: Nope, Blue is better

Guy: You know what, just thinking about it - I agree - Blue is the best

This shows the guy is weak and is not a stable man - the lady has him around her finger. Would a girl lie and say Blue is better, just to see what the guy's reaction is?"

I want a shag not a therapy session

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rushing anything usual turns out bad. Same goes for trying to rush someone into having sex. 3 minutes is not enough for me to know whether I would like sex with someone. If they walk away it may well be their loss. If I say yes I may regret it. Maybe he will regret it too; but I'm thinking someone who will have sex with me after 3 minute if conversation doesn't care about how good the sex is, or how much attraction there is. It will be all about getting in the pussy he thinks he has over-powered.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To all the women out there...

When talking to a guy you've just met - do you subtly test them to see what they're made of?

Example:

Guy: I love the colour Red it's the best

Hot Girl: Nope, Blue is better

Guy: You know what, just thinking about it - I agree - Blue is the best

This shows the guy is weak and is not a stable man - the lady has him around her finger. Would a girl lie and say Blue is better, just to see what the guy's reaction is?"

I have no idea whether women do this but soneone please shoot me if I ever find myself talking about colours I lie with soneone I've just met...

Bit regardless of whether women 5d this as a test, men on here ate often guilty of it, agreeing with people to gain favour, even if it means contradicting what they've previously said.

All it really proves is some men will say anything if they think it might get them a shag and I'm pretty certain we all knew that anyway

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"To all the women out there...

When talking to a guy you've just met - do you subtly test them to see what they're made of?

Example:

Guy: I love the colour Red it's the best

Hot Girl: Nope, Blue is better

Guy: You know what, just thinking about it - I agree - Blue is the best

This shows the guy is weak and is not a stable man - the lady has him around her finger. Would a girl lie and say Blue is better, just to see what the guy's reaction is?"

If she was applying to a 'marriage bureau'........ maybe.

fknell....... marriage bureau .... not heard that in ages

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Pointless game - who needs it!!

Women

I think you might be overthinking lol!

Or just thinking

But alas, your thinking is not leading you to the correct conclusion!! There will be some machiavellian women out there for sure, but the vast majority - no.

I'm going to have to disagree... I think the vast majority of women do "test" subtly subconsciously

It's a good way to out weaker guys "

But not you. You're one of the strong ones and will keep saying you like red best cos no woman is going to make a big strong man like you buckle in the hope of getting sex cos you can sex anywhere .... here ... away from here .... at the launderette......

those bloody women mind game players.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The correct answer is, "yep, blue is good too, fancy a fuck?"

It is not "I am so macho you can't have my cock until you agree with me!"

* rolling eyes may or may not be copyright of Soxy xxxmmlxv and some other Roman numeral things..

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By *ames1763Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

In my opinion this is where a lot of ladies miss the point, I am very very successful with beautiful ladies using my method so the fact that it works for me is not in question.

The kind of lady am looking for is a very busy lady whose time is very precious,a lady who knows what she wants and goes for it, so in my opinion I noticed this kinds of ladies are not interested in talking long at all and my short conversation is good enough for them, they just came to let their hair down at the club as a result of a busy week same as me. Further more the short conversation gives me the guarantee that it's just fun and nothing serious that can tend towards a relationship and that is what I like.

There is nothing pushy about a short conversation as I said I would walk away myself by ending the conversation politely if I feel I have spent the amount of time I want to spend so nothing pushy there. The bottom line is I don't like talking too much cause I don't want to feel like am begging or selling myself if you like me and go for me, it's fine, if you don't and say no it's even better, am onto the next lady because it's just fun and leisure to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In my opinion this is where a lot of ladies miss the point, I am very very successful with beautiful ladies using my method so the fact that it works for me is not in question.

I agree! 3 minutes is plenty of time to assess body language and interest. Men are often bitched about for being pushy in clubs.

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