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By *aughtyLondonGuy OP   Man
over a year ago

london

What are people’s views on alcohol and sex?

I now try to not drink alcohol on a meet because I worry that the whole consent and alcohol issue could be blurred. I wouldn’t want to have sex with someone who may be agreeing to it because they are slightly tipsy! But what about if your both d*unk?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Two d*unks would make a dangerous meet imo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if its a new meet no

if its a club and no

reg friends a few drinks and good sex isnt always bad

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By *aughtyLondonGuy OP   Man
over a year ago

london

I was thinking about Big Brother during the summer, they ply them with alcohol and hope they Either all start arguing or pair off in bed together? But how can they consent if there d*unk?

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By *aughtyLondonGuy OP   Man
over a year ago

london


"if its a new meet no

if its a club and no

reg friends a few drinks and good sex isnt always bad "

I agree with this, new meets stay sober!

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By *aughtyLondonGuy OP   Man
over a year ago

london


"Two d*unks would make a dangerous meet imo."

But when does “not fully in control of my actions” kick in?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a rule.. No alcohol!! But as I meet mostly during the day I really wouldn't expect my partner to have been drinking during the day!

I'm also very strict on no drugs. No 420, no poppers. If I suspect someone has taken something the meet is over.

If you need any of that shit to meet, then I'm not interested.

If it's an evening meet (extremely rare) then the odd drink is okay but not someone who stinks of it, has red eyes and falling all over the place.

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By *aughtyLondonGuy OP   Man
over a year ago

london

Sound advice but I worry about the slightly merry/tipsy more than the blind d*unk because of a lady was blond d*unk it would be a no-no for me even if they were the hottest ladies on the planet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Two d*unks would make a dangerous meet imo.

But when does “not fully in control of my actions” kick in?"

Normally at the point of intoxication of one..but when there two...let's say it wouldn't happen with me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont mind someone having a drink but not to much. Can ruin a really good night of fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone turned up for a meet with even the slightest whiff of alcohol about them ....

They are told to fuck off......

Ohhhh I'm so brutal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If someone turned up for a meet with even the slightest whiff of alcohol about them ....

They are told to fuck off......

Ohhhh I'm so brutal

"

Bugger that's nearly enough for me to hit the drink again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need a drink to get over my own body issues at a meet, never to make myself fuck someone.

And I never drink to excess, just a couple of glasses to take the nerves off.

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

warrington

I would have a drink socially, but not go over the top and if a meet was necking them down every two minutes, it would be unlikely that we go any further.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As we meet during the day it's not really an issue we've had. Though if anyone turned up d*unk it wouldn't happen. Though I admit the first time we tried a ffm I had a glass of wine to steady my nerves x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Two d*unks would make a dangerous meet imo."

Two drinks, make a right. Or is it better to have two d*unks in a bush? I'm unsure but,

Op, as long as you've got your drinking under control and your not a nasty/pathetic drinker, you'll be alright. D*unken sex can be amazing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Two d*unks would make a dangerous meet imo.

Two drinks, make a right. Or is it better to have two d*unks in a bush? I'm unsure but,

Op, as long as you've got your drinking under control and your not a nasty/pathetic drinker, you'll be alright. D*unken sex can be amazing. "

Ah but would you ever know if the other person has it under control?

I think it's a dodgy rout but each to their own eh

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By *aughtyLondonGuy OP   Man
over a year ago

london

I limit myself nicely lol

But I have had one meet where the girl was a bit too tipsy so I didn’t go back with me. I wanted to meet her again and she was lovely inside and out but she seemed to take offence at the first time not moving forward

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By *aughtyLondonGuy OP   Man
over a year ago

london


"Two d*unks would make a dangerous meet imo.

Two drinks, make a right. Or is it better to have two d*unks in a bush? I'm unsure but,

Op, as long as you've got your drinking under control and your not a nasty/pathetic drinker, you'll be alright. D*unken sex can be amazing.

Ah but would you ever know if the other person has it under control?

I think it's a dodgy rout but each to their own eh"

Would written consent seem too clinical?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i'm pissed now tbh, anyone fancy a shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Two d*unks would make a dangerous meet imo.

Two drinks, make a right. Or is it better to have two d*unks in a bush? I'm unsure but,

Op, as long as you've got your drinking under control and your not a nasty/pathetic drinker, you'll be alright. D*unken sex can be amazing.

Ah but would you ever know if the other person has it under control?

I think it's a dodgy rout but each to their own eh

Would written consent seem too clinical? "

You asked for a opinion and you have gotten mine.

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By *aughtyLondonGuy OP   Man
over a year ago

london


"Two d*unks would make a dangerous meet imo.

Two drinks, make a right. Or is it better to have two d*unks in a bush? I'm unsure but,

Op, as long as you've got your drinking under control and your not a nasty/pathetic drinker, you'll be alright. D*unken sex can be amazing.

Ah but would you ever know if the other person has it under control?

I think it's a dodgy rout but each to their own eh

Would written consent seem too clinical?

You asked for a opinion and you have gotten mine. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i'm pissed now tbh, anyone fancy a shag"

I'm pissed. Yes.

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By *aughtyLondonGuy OP   Man
over a year ago

london


"i'm pissed now tbh, anyone fancy a shag

I'm pissed. Yes. "

Looks like you both have a match

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