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By *yldstyle OP   Woman
over a year ago

A world of my own

When you finally see something for what it is. The rose tinted glasses are off..

How does that moment make you feel?

Sad? Foolish? Relieved? Positive?

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

Surely it depends on the situation and whether it had a positive or negative impact on you?

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Sometimes all of those plus a little more. Often disappointed, in myself that I wore the bloody glasses and in the situation as a whole.

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By *aelawMan
over a year ago

Paisley


"Surely it depends on the situation and whether it had a positive or negative impact on you?"

^^This

So many different answers to this depending on the situation. Sometimes every one of those feelings of it's in relation to being expressive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But always remember ... nothing is a mistake if you learn from it

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By *aelawMan
over a year ago

Paisley


"But always remember ... nothing is a mistake if you learn from it "

You have won the sage badge for the evening. That's awesome *bows*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you finally see something for what it is. The rose tinted glasses are off..

How does that moment make you feel?

Sad? Foolish? Relieved? Positive?"

Ultimately one should feel relieved at seeing the truth.....whether it be positive or negative. The more well informed you are, the better prepared you will be to make sound decisions going forward.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But always remember ... nothing is a mistake if you learn from it

You have won the sage badge for the evening. That's awesome *bows*"

Something my boss taught me but I think it's more valid outside of the office

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By *eeBee67Man
over a year ago

Masked and Distant


"But always remember ... nothing is a mistake if you learn from it

You have won the sage badge for the evening. That's awesome *bows*

Something my boss taught me but I think it's more valid outside of the office "

If you get everything right all the time, you will never learn anything new.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But always remember ... nothing is a mistake if you learn from it

You have won the sage badge for the evening. That's awesome *bows*

Something my boss taught me but I think it's more valid outside of the office

If you get everything right all the time, you will never learn anything new."

100% true

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

A great moment of relaxation! You have clarity. Sometimes there's grief, where there's a bit of an emotional rollercoaster, depending on whether there's a loss of something that's substantial. But I typically get a calm, a stillness - maybe the calm before the storm.

It can br an invigorating point too, as my energy is directed towards other ends.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central


"But always remember ... nothing is a mistake if you learn from it "

And we tend to learn most from our mistakes - fantastic opportunities for learning

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"When you finally see something for what it is. The rose tinted glasses are off..

How does that moment make you feel?

Sad? Foolish? Relieved? Positive?"

quite cross. Cross that I didn't realise before and cross at the person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Learn and don't dwell on what has passed and you can't change. Use what you've learned to your advantage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you finally see something for what it is. The rose tinted glasses are off..

How does that moment make you feel?

Sad? Foolish? Relieved? Positive?"

Angry at myself for being taken for a fool. But relieved that I know x

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

Mistakes are lifes lessons.

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