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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does anyone find it annoying when those of a different sexual orietation or preference bombard you with unwanted messages?

Is it laziness not to fully read a profile?

It's the equivalent of me repeatedly sending out email to cpls who only wish to meet other cpls or those who have age preferences etc etc...

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By *iffaWoman
over a year ago

wherever

Ah there just chancing there arm. Easy to delete

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

Nope it's just them trying their luck

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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago

Traffic land

[Removed by poster at 26/09/17 23:56:13]

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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago

Traffic land


"[Removed by poster at 26/09/17 23:56:13]"

Tut

Block them? Not a problem then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would of took you less time to delete the message then make this thread.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Assuming it's single male profiles contacting you OK you could always block all single male profiles from contacting you - that way you control any contact with them

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"It would of took you less time to delete the message then make this thread. "

C'mon mate. Just don't post if you've nuting nice to say. What is wrong with folk on here really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It would of took you less time to delete the message then make this thread.

C'mon mate. Just don't post if you've nuting nice to say. What is wrong with folk on here really "
just truth

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By *egs11ABCWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Yes especially as my profile says no bi guys ( don't judge very personal reasons) and if I don't answer I'm not interested, yet a bi guy I hav no interest in meeting keeps mailing me and when I block him he opens a new profile to ask "why do u ignore me"x

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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago

Traffic land


"Yes especially as my profile says no bi guys ( don't judge very personal reasons) and if I don't answer I'm not interested, yet a bi guy I hav no interest in meeting keeps mailing me and when I block him he opens a new profile to ask "why do u ignore me"x"

Really, just block single males, it will stop it

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By *egs11ABCWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"Yes especially as my profile says no bi guys ( don't judge very personal reasons) and if I don't answer I'm not interested, yet a bi guy I hav no interest in meeting keeps mailing me and when I block him he opens a new profile to ask "why do

Really, just block single males, it will stop it"

Bit drastic since its single males im looking to meet and this has been going on for a year. Also reporting every new profile he opens is getting tedious. I think if someone told me they didn't want to meet me then constantly ignored every message after that I wd take the hint x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Set your filters to exclude as far as possible those you don't want to meet and ignore the messages from those who've ignored your profile.

I would say the majority of messages we get are from people who haven't even glanced at our profile. It's not worth worrying about.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Yes especially as my profile says no bi guys ( don't judge very personal reasons) and if I don't answer I'm not interested, yet a bi guy I hav no interest in meeting keeps mailing me and when I block him he opens a new profile to ask "why do

Really, just block single males, it will stop it

Bit drastic since its single males im looking to meet and this has been going on for a year. Also reporting every new profile he opens is getting tedious. I think if someone told me they didn't want to meet me then constantly ignored every message after that I wd take the hint x "

You could block new users.

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By *egs11ABCWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"Yes especially as my profile says no bi guys ( don't judge very personal reasons) and if I don't answer I'm not interested, yet a bi guy I hav no interest in meeting keeps mailing me and when I block him he opens a new profile to ask "why do

Really, just block single males, it will stop it

Bit drastic since its single males im looking to meet and this has been going on for a year. Also reporting every new profile he opens is getting tedious. I think if someone told me they didn't want to meet me then constantly ignored every message after that I wd take the hint x

You could block new users."

Ah never thot of that now. Good thinking x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone find it annoying when those of a different sexual orietation or preference bombard you with unwanted messages?

Is it laziness not to fully read a profile?

It's the equivalent of me repeatedly sending out email to cpls who only wish to meet other cpls or those who have age preferences etc etc... "

I'm sure someone else has said it, use the filters.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Filters it is then - thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Filters it is then - thank you "

Problem solved.

I do however keep my filters open, I do get unwanted mail off people who fancy there chances turning a straight guy towards sex with a dude (you can't persuade someone ). But I also enjoy talking to some blokes from

The forums, it's not all about sex on Fab is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can understand why some do message even though they don't fit what someone's profile says as a lot of times, verifications on the persons profile are from people who according to their profile they wouldn't meet and if they met them, then maybe they're thinking they'd meet them too.

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton


"Yes especially as my profile says no bi guys ( don't judge very personal reasons) and if I don't answer I'm not interested, yet a bi guy I hav no interest in meeting keeps mailing me and when I block him he opens a new profile to ask "why do

Really, just block single males, it will stop it

Bit drastic since its single males im looking to meet and this has been going on for a year. Also reporting every new profile he opens is getting tedious. I think if someone told me they didn't want to meet me then constantly ignored every message after that I wd take the hint x

You could block new users."

Or do the searching yourself..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been championing the introduction of a sexuality filter for longer than I care to remember....

Right now I have 32 unopened messages in my inbox from straight males and they will remain unopened

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi

Wonder if there needs to be separate sections:

TV

Mixed race

BBC

Tall

Short

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just mail everyone online within 100 miles. Someone will answer and fuck me. Why waste time looking at profiles when I could be shagging.

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