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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm only on site to chat, due to emotion issue's which i make clear on my profile.

I know I'm opening myself up for abuse but can I have your opions if you feel this is wrong.

With thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's entirely up to your self. Everyone has their own reasons for being on here. Take care x

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I don't see anything wrong with that

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By * kiss like morphineMan
over a year ago

The gravelly bit next to the shed

Do what you feel you want to, swinging has many connections and if talking and conversing with likeminded go ahead

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Enjoy the site however you see fit - so long as you've made it clear and not led anyone to believe there's more to it then there's no harm at all.

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By *eeBee67Man
over a year ago

Masked and Distant

Everyone is here for their own reasons.

No one should judge you on how you use this site.

Always happy to just chat.

T x

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By *arth SideousMan
over a year ago

Altrincham

Nothing wrong at all .. each to there own! Just be happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it helps you then good, take care of yourself, something like chat could really help you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have lovely eyes btw.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Of course you can use the site as you please. It can be difficult though at times, especially if you are suffering with emotional stuff atm.

Don't take any bs!!!

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By *lue NarwhalMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

And?

If it makes you happy and you ain't hurting anyone else, why does it matter..

Enjoy fab and use it for what you need and don't ever try to live up to others negative expectations, it isn't worth the effort.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

do what you want...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mean this the wrong way but this is a swinging site. Surely Facebook or other chat based sites would be more suited to your needs.

Saying that I wish you luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm only on site to chat, due to emotion issue's which i make clear on my profile.

I know I'm opening myself up for abuse but can I have your opions if you feel this is wrong.

With thanks "

You've absolutely no reason to reproach your motivation...

We all use this place for our own needs and I hope you're able to dismiss those thoughts while you're on here ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nothing wrong with it at all....just be prepared for the twats who wont have read your profile..

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Nothing wrong with it at all. If it was me I wouldn't explain myself but that's your decision.

If you get abuse, report it then block the profile it comes from.

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

I love a good laugh & a natter - especially while I'm at work. People are on ehre for all sorts of reasons - there is no right or wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chatting is good I love a nice chat, hope you meet some lovely people. Gimme a wink if you want

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows


"I don't mean this the wrong way but this is a swinging site. Surely Facebook or other chat based sites would be more suited to your needs.

Saying that I wish you luck "

I wouldn't chat on Facebook like I do on here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I spend most of my time on here talking. You use it as you like, just be aware that filters can make using the site easier as a single lady you will be inundated with messages x

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

Be careful who you chat too lol.

Use the site as you wish. Everybody else does.

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East


"I think I spend most of my time on here talking. You use it as you like, just be aware that filters can make using the site easier as a single lady you will be inundated with messages x "

Im jealous of your badge lol

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By *rightonCheekyMan
over a year ago

Brighton

Go for it OP you've entitled and welcome to join Fab and use it as you see fit. You've also made it abundantly clear on your profile that you are absolutely not here to meet, which is fine.

My only caution is please be sure this is the right site for you and what you want to achieve.

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By *imetoexplore69Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

You make it perfectly clear what you are here for on your profile so you its all good.If people don't read your profile then they are just wasting thier own time.only thing I could add is your partner has emotions too so personally I think it's a tad hypocritical and unfair on him weather chatting on a sex/swinging site helps you or not.plenty other sites out there that specialise in depression that will genuinly be better for you as this place can be toxic espeshilly for woman.take care and hope you sort shit out .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm only on site to chat, due to emotion issue's which i make clear on my profile.

I know I'm opening myself up for abuse but can I have your opions if you feel this is wrong.

With thanks "

how you use this site and run your profile is your decision

fuck what people think x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't mean this the wrong way but this is a swinging site. Surely Facebook or other chat based sites would be more suited to your needs.

Saying that I wish you luck

I wouldn't chat on Facebook like I do on here! "

Facebook may also object to your profile pic, but certainly not the case here

OP, fab is what you make it, if you just wanna yarn with like minded people knock yourself out and don't give a frig what anyone else thinks, it's none of their business.

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Chating is good .... thats how you make friends. ... ive met some great folks after chatting for quite a while ...you are in charge of who you meet .... and who you dont want to meet ....being carefull and safe is paramount .

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Use the site whichever way works for you,maybe put some filters on though to stop some of the messages .

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all have our coping mechanisms to escape real life. You are clear about your intent so enjoy your time here x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the end of the day everyone uses fab how they choose.

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By * kiss like morphineMan
over a year ago

The gravelly bit next to the shed


"I don't mean this the wrong way but this is a swinging site. Surely Facebook or other chat based sites would be more suited to your needs.

Saying that I wish you luck "

Do you read chat and just generalise it's meaning?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank to all that have answered. I am pleasantly surprised with the response.

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By *wo4FemCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

It is you perogative if you wish to just chat during this period of time in your life. If others cannot accept your decision then they are not worth wasting your time on.

Happy chatting.

Mr2

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

It's not wrong, do as you wish with your profile and time on Fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone has their reasons for being on here ... and if they're decent folks they won't judge x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to their own. Nothing wrong at all with it and if the site brings you joy, comfort, relief or just general good feelings in some form then it has served it's purpose.

So what if it says swingers on the title. It's what suits the individual that matters

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

Use the site the way that is correct for you, don't feel you have to justify how you wish to use your profile. The great thing is you say you are here just for chat, no meets, no socials so people can see.

Unfortunately be ready to use the block button as the forum users are in the minority of users on the site and I read on the forums that some users can't / don't read profiles

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