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Need ideas on rough kinky sex

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By *antheman90 OP   Man
over a year ago

london

Any help will be appreciated

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Define rough kinky sex? It will be very different from one person to the next!

Maybe ask your partner what they think it is and adapt from there?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sandpaper on your bollocks?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sandpaper on your bollocks?"

Ouch

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

Is this for you or someone else?

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By *antheman90 OP   Man
over a year ago

london


"Define rough kinky sex? It will be very different from one person to the next!

Maybe ask your partner what they think it is and adapt from there? "

She said she has no limits so I wana test it

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By *antheman90 OP   Man
over a year ago

london


"Is this for you or someone else?"

She said she has no limits so I wanted to get ideas haha

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Define rough kinky sex? It will be very different from one person to the next!

Maybe ask your partner what they think it is and adapt from there?

She said she has no limits so I wana test it "

That could still mean anything though - best bet would be to sit down and talk to her about what SHE means and what are HER fantasies/expectations in that respect not ask a bunch of people on an internet forum who don't know her or her likes/dislikes

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Rough Kinky sex? easy...

Cover yourself head to toe in marmite, sprinkle with custard cream crumbs & voila - Rough (the biscuit crumbs)

Kinky(the marmite)

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By *ornylittlesubWoman
over a year ago

Grangemouth


"Define rough kinky sex? It will be very different from one person to the next!

Maybe ask your partner what they think it is and adapt from there?

She said she has no limits so I wana test it

That could still mean anything though - best bet would be to sit down and talk to her about what SHE means and what are HER fantasies/expectations in that respect not ask a bunch of people on an internet forum who don't know her or her likes/dislikes "

This!

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"Is this for you or someone else?

She said she has no limits so I wanted to get ideas haha"

I'd be careful if those were her actual words, like they're a bit vague. Has she spoken about this kind of thing specifically ?

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By *ruesome-twosomeCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Everyone has a limit I agree talk to her and see what she's expecting and set safe words.

We've had it where people have said they are kinky and have no limits but they weren't as kinky as they thought they were everyone has different perspectives.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Now where do you start.... communication me thinks...

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

If you're talking BDSM "kinky" OP then once you have talked to your partner then there are some very good on-line questionnaires that you could both complete that cover a range of activities (everything from light bondage to some fairly hard-core stuff) where you can indicate a level of interest in each and that will give you a good grounding as to the kind of things you might like to try

But as I said above - first thing you need to so is sit down with her and get an understanding of what she means by rough kinky no limits sex

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire


"If you're talking BDSM "kinky" OP then once you have talked to your partner then there are some very good on-line questionnaires that you could both complete that cover a range of activities (everything from light bondage to some fairly hard-core stuff) where you can indicate a level of interest in each and that will give you a good grounding as to the kind of things you might like to try

But as I said above - first thing you need to so is sit down with her and get an understanding of what she means by rough kinky no limits sex "

I was just thinking about the questionnaire ...

It's very easy to say you have no limits but something written and seen in black and white you realise oh no way!

Also it akways an easy way to discus each thing... to settle on hard no or possible but only if

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A guy recently told me he didn't have any limits. So I described a couple of scenarios for him and I never heard from him again. Weirdo

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire


"A guy recently told me he didn't have any limits. So I described a couple of scenarios for him and I never heard from him again. Weirdo "

Did they include marmite & custard creams?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A guy recently told me he didn't have any limits. So I described a couple of scenarios for him and I never heard from him again. Weirdo

Did they include marmite & custard creams? "

No. I bloody hate custard creams

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire


"A guy recently told me he didn't have any limits. So I described a couple of scenarios for him and I never heard from him again. Weirdo

Did they include marmite & custard creams?

No. I bloody hate custard creams"

Typical

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"A guy recently told me he didn't have any limits. So I described a couple of scenarios for him and I never heard from him again. Weirdo "

My standard response to someone that says they have "no limits" is to ask if they'd be OK with amputation - soon gets them thinking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is this for you or someone else?

She said she has no limits so I wanted to get ideas haha"
baseball bat and a balaclava use the thick end of the bat though

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"A guy recently told me he didn't have any limits. So I described a couple of scenarios for him and I never heard from him again. Weirdo

My standard response to someone that says they have "no limits" is to ask if they'd be OK with amputation - soon gets them thinking "

You've been watching Hannibal again haven't you

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"A guy recently told me he didn't have any limits. So I described a couple of scenarios for him and I never heard from him again. Weirdo

My standard response to someone that says they have "no limits" is to ask if they'd be OK with amputation - soon gets them thinking

You've been watching Hannibal again haven't you "

With a nice chianti and some favva beans?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Use your imagination. Nothing worse than having to read a manual when you're on the job!

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Everyone's 'no limits' is different.

You need to sit down and talk, discuss scenarios, even maybe write a list, you'd be surprised when you actually mention certain things what limits you do have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be careful what you wish for...

No limits can mean absolutely anything goes. Are you prepared for that?

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