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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do men really look for in a woman to marry?

I know there will be varied responses to this, but I'm genuinely interested.

Because from what I'm seeing is that men choose to marry very vanilla woman, but ultimately get bored and start to seek out affairs.

This stems from a conversation with a male friend of mine who stated 'That men don't marry women like me!' (Excuse me...how rude!) lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Btw this comment wasn't said to be mean or as an attack on my character.

He merely stated this because I'm a very strong and independent woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no idea. I gave up trying to figure out the complexities of the male brain some time ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot want a woman who will agree with all he says and do as they are told. Men who play away often want a woman at home to deceive because they get a buzz out of the risk. Therefore a not very clever woman is required. XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting that no guy's have posted here.. just saying

Maybe you should help us out and tell us trogladytes what a girl looks for in a guy....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have no idea. I gave up trying to figure out the complexities of the male brain some time ago.

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I think what people fail to remember or understand is that, despite all our intellectual magnificence, is that we are just animals and consequently have animalistic instincts. Generally speaking this means females tend to be nurturing while males are all about procreation and passing on their own DNA.

Does that help?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have no idea. I gave up trying to figure out the complexities of the male brain some time ago.

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I completely agree with you there. They are more complex creatures than they realise lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A lot want a woman who will agree with all he says and do as they are told. Men who play away often want a woman at home to deceive because they get a buzz out of the risk. Therefore a not very clever woman is required. XXX"

This is the exact viewpoint I have, and I'm not the sort of women to do what I'm told! Haha

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By *rCurious1Man
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

Kind, warm hearted, loving

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Interesting that no guy's have posted here.. just saying

Maybe you should help us out and tell us trogladytes what a girl looks for in a guy....

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I know what I'm looking for in a guy... that's easy, and to be fair he doesn't exist! Lol.

That wasn't the question asked to be honest, or are you probing to find out more about what I'm looking for particularly???

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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago

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Not sure what this says about wives in couples on this swinging site.

Are we vanilla and boring for our husbands? Or were we not wifey material in the first place?

I guess like a lot of threads on here, it'll all come down to personal preference (and in this instance sometimes social pressures).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that personalities and the confidence to express buried desires evolves through a relationship. Sometimes these things don't evolve and manifest themselves in way acceptable to the other half of the relationship.

I was lucky, I got everything a man could wish for in a wife. Beautiful, intelligent, not a walk over and able to fight her corner, which I respect immensely. Everything we have achieved together, we really have achieved together, sometimes through compromise on one or the others part. She is kind to children and animals and extremely patient with my neurosis as I am with hers. A lady in public and a slut in the bedroom. Perfect...although not always

Then she went and had a stroke and developed lung disease

No one is perfect all the time. If your looking for pure perfection you'll always be alone. Learn to love the similarities and respect the differences. And the ability to compromise! If you love someone you will but, they to love you enough to be prepared to treat you the same way or it wont work!

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By *hips n FursMan
over a year ago

Huddersfield

1= Confident woman

2= Not clingy

3= Honest + Trustworthy

4= Ability to live their own life

5= Open minded when it comes to sex

6= Couldn't give a shit about material things

7= Above all...Happy.

Not a very long list,but can be hard to match all seven from past experience.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"1= Confident woman

2= Not clingy

3= Honest + Trustworthy

4= Ability to live their own life

5= Open minded when it comes to sex

6= Couldn't give a shit about material things

7= Above all...Happy.

Not a very long list,but can be hard to match all seven from past experience."

That's pretty much me to a T...although I am a bit of Vivienne Westwood whore! I can't lie lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Given up with that one. Been divorced twice. I don't like wedding cake that much, that I would want to get married again. Staying happily single. Less grief tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is she's a millionaire, astro physicist bikini model who was born on a Tuesday? That's what I look for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I had to write a dating profile, it would read like this..

Pfft.....

SWM in dead-end job seeks dreary neurotic for mutual psychological torture, tepid sex, and co-dependency. I enjoy drinking, smoking, pornography, and self-righteous indignation.

I have middling intelligence, but try to appear smarter by affecting a world-weary air, memorizing useless facts, and chuckling at my own mean-spirited, agenda-driven jokes.

I'm 50 but look 60 and feel 70. You are a whiny, bitter troll with a misplaced sense of entitlement and unrealistic expectations. In time you will become coolly hostile when I don't fulfill every unmet need you've ever had. Bonus points if you've just finished screwing every boy in town, but now want to take it slow with me.

My perfect night would include getting hammered in a sleazy bar whilst you flirt with horny, shrivelled old d*unks,followed by an embarrassing screaming match. I would be open to an unsatisfying fling that leaves me filled with regret and dread, but would prefer a long-term, soul crushing descent into booze, pills & depression. No friendships. I don't need any bloody friends.

Age unimportant, but I will condescend to women under 25 and rehash mother issues with women over 72.

Serious replies only, please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apart from the obvious; funny, smart and pretty... I think a healthy self-esteem is really important

If she has a healthy self-esteem then she will allow the man to work and hang out with friends without hassle. The last thing you want is a partner calling you up 4 times a day to see what you're doing

“You must love in such a way that the person you love feels free.”

- Thich Nhat Hanh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I had to write a dating profile, it would read like this..

Pfft.....

SWM in dead-end job seeks dreary neurotic for mutual psychological torture, tepid sex, and co-dependency. I enjoy drinking, smoking, pornography, and self-righteous indignation.

I have middling intelligence, but try to appear smarter by affecting a world-weary air, memorizing useless facts, and chuckling at my own mean-spirited, agenda-driven jokes.

I'm 50 but look 60 and feel 70. You are a whiny, bitter troll with a misplaced sense of entitlement and unrealistic expectations. In time you will become coolly hostile when I don't fulfill every unmet need you've ever had. Bonus points if you've just finished screwing every boy in town, but now want to take it slow with me.

My perfect night would include getting hammered in a sleazy bar whilst you flirt with horny, shrivelled old d*unks,followed by an embarrassing screaming match. I would be open to an unsatisfying fling that leaves me filled with regret and dread, but would prefer a long-term, soul crushing descent into booze, pills & depression. No friendships. I don't need any bloody friends.

Age unimportant, but I will condescend to women under 25 and rehash mother issues with women over 72.

Serious replies only, please."

I might nab that and re-hash for my dating profile. That'll test their mettle!!

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

Conbatarbilety

I wood just be happy with sumone Hoo gets and understands me and enjoys and wants the same things

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