FabSwingers.com forum: Timidness

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How long is being a little but timid cute before it becomes a problem? Like how do you know their boundaries?

Should it be like a pool, dip your toe and dive in or should you wait?

I'm assuming it goes by the person but I think you can get a general idea by having an over all average view.

This is talking about meets.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Eh?

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Who's being timid but cute? You, or someone you're looking to meet?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Eh?"

I am slightly nervous in terms of overstepping a boundary of someone, mainly in drop of a hat meets.

Some people just get right into it, I've walked in dropped my pants and the fun began then other times it's been a slow working process.

So it's made me timid, some people have said it was kind of cute. Then others said it was the reason they didn't do anything.

How do you get the balance right?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean

"How long is being a little but timid cute before it becomes a problem? Like how do you know their boundaries?

Should it be like a pool, dip your toe and dive in or should you wait?

I'm assuming it goes by the person but I think you can get a general idea by having an over all average view.

This is talking about meets. "

It becomes a problem as soon as you don't want to put in the effort.

I wouldn't be pursuing that person for long.

It might be cute in an early stage of life. It is absolutely a pain , a block, a killer of fun on a swinging site.

First time nerves understandable.

Just saying NO ..... perfectly okay.

Immature procrastination fuck off.....

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean

ooooer....

It's you. I thought it was someone else.

Seems you are simply covering up your insecurities.

Work out what you want. Tell people what you want before meeting.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So simply ask them what you want and make it clear what they want.

On the counter what if their being timid?

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"So simply ask them what you want and make it clear what they want.

On the counter what if their being timid? "

Either the person you are with will want to play with you or they won't.

If you are giving out vibes that you're not sure if you want to play, then they should respect that and leave you alone.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean

"So simply ask them what you want and make it clear what they want.

On the counter what if their being timid? "

Then MOVE ON.

Timid people give me the shivers.

Who want's to spend all afternoon trying to arouse a rabbit in headlights?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Very good point, it's hard to guess people so they should make it clear or not bother at all right?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean

"Very good point, it's hard to guess people so they should make it clear or not bother at all right? "

What do YOU think ?

They should make it clear or nother bother at all , right ? What do you say ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Sometimes the chase can be fun, if you're willing to chase for it.

Nobody here is looking for a relationship though, so why play hard to get?

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