FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to The Lounge

How long before you're comfortable meeting?

Jump to newest
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey,

Just wondering how many messages/interactions you all take to be comfortable in meeting someone?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *cott73Man
over a year ago

brighton


"Hey,

Just wondering how many messages/interactions you all take to be comfortable in meeting someone?"

2 messages, 20 minutes and a swift gin.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey,

Just wondering how many messages/interactions you all take to be comfortable in meeting someone?"

After a couple days. If it feels ok and at ease then great in my eyes.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *nked4funCouple
over a year ago

St Neots

Chat on here, phone call to check genuine and then arrange a social

Claire x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

That depended on who I was messaging, but I was never messaging with the intention of meeting. There was never a fixed length of time

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *eadySteadyCockCouple
over a year ago

Tredegar

We finally met a couple on another site after about months of negotiations from their side. I think they probably run police checks on us too lol have you worked here, do you ever go there, on and on it went! We were new at the time and thought it was normal. Now I’d tell them to go away lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

couple of days to message... check personality, boundaries and that stuff. I have met with less but it tends to be more fuck and go then which is not what I am after. normally.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *aul1973HullMan
over a year ago

East Hull

When I eventually have messages that lead to a meet, I'll let you know

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

It depends, personally I like to meet for a social fairly quickly. Not much point 'investing' time in someone you don't fancy in the end.

I've also found that, in general, the more genuine guys will get together for a social reasonably quickly. Anyone who draws out the time before a coffee is usually just a chatter. And that's not what I want in my inbox

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We hardly ever meet via here but when we do:

Meet today posted

Message exchanged

Phone/text

Meet

Fuck

Go

Usually within 3 hours

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

different each time - some people its almost immediate - some takes a while - no preference either im in no rush

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Social first and that can happen quite quickly but we like to establish that they know how we play before that. A few messages usually establishes that 98% of the people who ask to meet us have no idea and quickly back off when they find out

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Few messages and a cam chat I was putty in his hands and meeting soon

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

My circumstances dictate I don't meet that often and that combined with what I'm looking for, generally tends to mean there's a fair amount of time between initial messages and meeting to be sure there's a connection and chemistry there - so I'm reasonably sure a meet will progress beyond a social and is likely to be a regular thing.

There's no time limit on that either way but my meets so far have tended to be months rather than days or weeks in the making. That said if there was someone where there was a spark straight away and my circumstances allowed it I would meet sooner.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 messages. 1 from me and reply from them saying yes.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"2 messages. 1 from me and reply from them saying yes. "

and so many men say fab is difficult -

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My record is 5 messages and 45 minutes between “Hello” and “Hellloooooooo”

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

These things have their natural timeframe

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmm depends on the conversation

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *cott73Man
over a year ago

brighton


"Hmmm depends on the conversation "

....or the accent.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My circumstances dictate I don't meet that often and that combined with what I'm looking for, generally tends to mean there's a fair amount of time between initial messages and meeting to be sure there's a connection and chemistry there - so I'm reasonably sure a meet will progress beyond a social and is likely to be a regular thing.

There's no time limit on that either way but my meets so far have tended to be months rather than days or weeks in the making. That said if there was someone where there was a spark straight away and my circumstances allowed it I would meet sooner."

This is probably quite close to me too

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

once if had a brief chat on the fone ..cant stand endless e mails ..they usually go nowhere any way

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top